Sour roommate situation, anyone experienced such a thing?

[JoeyBryant]

I've been discussing a rommate deal with a friend I've known for over 6 years for the past 2 months now, but he has been trying to get me to come down here again for years. I really didn't want to come back and I was already reluctant from the start. But I never had a roommate and figured I would try it out to see how it goes. He knows I'm an escort. He knows that I require incalls and I mentioned that as a requirement to him prior to coming down. He tells me, "Sure I'm okay with it, just come on down."

 

It's only been a week since I've been here, and I've already cancelled 2 incall clients. Why? Because twice I needed the place to myself, but he could not think of any way to occupy his time for an hour or 2. I gave a host of suggestions...He turns down every one saying that he isn't even patient to wait 10 minutes for me. I told him today to just allow me to make this appointment and I'll be going back to my ORIGINAL plans...which does not include being here in Florida. He didn't even care. All he cared about was him not having anywhere to go (he has a car, and a laptop).

 

I also told him I would have never come down in the 1st place had I known he'd be this way because its already a great distance and I didn't want to shell out on lodging. Yet all the while he made it out that he'd be perfectly okay with me having incalls here and that he wouldn't be inconvenienced by me doing so.

 

Meanwhile, all he can do is blame me. Blame me for not putting my incall schedule on my ads, saying its my fault that the client didn't book earlier. He even had the nerve to comment on my finances saying that I shouldn't be driving to the gym everyday if I don't have the means to do so (even though its 1/2 a mile from here). He refuses to go a little bit out of his way so that I can just move on with things. He would only be inconvenienced for an hour and I'm here being inconvenienced for several days now.

[+ deej]

Sounds like the roommate never quite connected ALL of the dots between "do in-calls" and "you can't be here".

 

Wrong roommate for you. Move on.

[happyguy2]

For what it is worth, I have had two experiences with escorts who had roommates. Both are ten years old! First, I hired a guy that really appealed to me, early twenties, guy-next-door type, etc. When I arrived, a woman was leaving the place. When the door closed, he told me she was a transvestite who lived with him and she was jealous. We didn't even have our clothes off and she started banging with a broom on the roof, the eves, the doors etc. He kept telling me to ignore it. When she added yelling at him while we were trying to do it, I gave up even trying to get it up. And put the session to an end. He refused to re-imburse me anything because he was willing to continue with the session, though I was not. I got the hell out and chalked the whole thing up to expereince.

The next summer, I was in Naples (Italy not Fla) and went over to a real hot guys place. I thought we were alone and all was going well but eventually, though hard, he could not cum and that was part of the agreement. So, he said he would invite his friend to join us and he could come - they guy had been right at the door watching - though I didn't realize it!

So, since your buddy wasnt' the bang on the roof type, why not just go off into some other room and keep quiet?

I am sure plenty of in-calls have someone hidden somewhere in the house.

Is this naiive?

[adriano46]

Two things -- the loriginal post shows that both parties were not very clear (or at least one of them certainly wasn't) and this is a bad situation. We have only one guy's version of what was or wasn;t understood, but even reading this, I get a very sneaking suspicion the gjuys who invited JB to come to Florida maybe was obsessed with HIM and not so much with his professional work, and probably extended the invitation thinking with his dick and not his brain. JB would be best to pack and move out a.s.a.p.

 

On happyguy's comment -- as a client who 50% of the time hires escorts precisely because they have their own place, I have twice run into a roomate and it was awkward (in one case, the roomate was pouting in another room, and the escort kept leaving me and going out to talk (argue, scream, pout) with his roomate. In another case, it was similar where the roomate was hoping to have a 3-way (I was NOT interested as he was a but scruffy and smelled). Now if I show up, and there is someone else there... I turn around and leave.

 

Maybe I am the naive one here... but when I go to an IN call, I expect the place (at least the room and bathroom) to be reasonably clean and fresh...

[rickp]

To avoid that happening, I always make a point of letting clients know that I do have a roommate. Then he can decide if he's ok with that or not. Sometimes, the client is ok with that and we have a great time. My roommate is very quiet and it's a large place. They never see each other. I wouldn't feel right asking my roommate to leave since its their place too.

[JoeyBryant]

To avoid that happening, I always make a point of letting clients know that I do have a roommate. I wouldn't feel right asking my roommate to leave since its their place too.

 

I can imagine in New York its almost a requirement to have a roommate for someone my age. And I'm sure its not uncommon to come across.

 

The reason why I would need the place to myself is because the place is not really designed for someone to 'hide at'. Before I came down I was told that he could upgrade to a larger unit at any point. I get here, and turns out there's nothing larger available and I did not find the apartment complex to suit my needs.

 

LOL, those roommate stories are kind of funny though. Its not THAT bad here. For the most part he's gone most of the day, but as we all know...sometimes people are going to want to schedule themselves beyond those times. However, the 2 clients I turned down really didn't help make things any easier. One cancelled twice during the time I had the house to myself, and the other cancelled...and when I told him I was only in town for the weekend, he called a few minutes later to re-book, and then cancelled again when I said I would have to host at a hotel nearby.

 

The good news is I made a complete change of plans. It just goes to show that you simply cannot involve everyone in this type of hobby. Not everyone is willing to put up with the rigors that goes along with what we do, which is exactly why I operate much smoothly when I'm on my own.

[+ Travis69]

If you want to stay there offer the roommate a few bucks to leave when you need the place. Maybe that's the incentive he needs or is hoping for.