How many of you guys have current female clients? Do you see women?

[Michael Wayne]

About 5% of my business is married couples (male/female) and another 5% is women (most are married, a couple are single). while I am gay and have a boyfriend my dick actually likes pussy. I get really hard for women but I cannot cum which makes my staying power awesome which is why they hire me. Well, I mean, that and the size I bring to the table. The female clients say they are not threatened by me and that they actully like that I am gay and taken. Many of my gay friends and even other escorts think that I am some kind of traitor or sell out for seeing chicks professionally. My best escort friend (who women fucking DROOL over) has tried to book them but he can't keep it up and actually vomited on a lady. I am new to the forum and this may have been adressed previously but I cannot find any info on it. I find that my lady clients are EXTREMELY generous and are very appreciative of my time and talents. http://www.rentboy.com/mikey9nola1

[josephga]

Its been talked about b4 on here. Some men won't hire you if they find out you take female clients. I think some forget that what you have is a business and you don't care who the client is male or female as long as they can pay

[Michael Wayne]

Most of my clients are married men with kids (65% at least). They get so fucking turned on when they find out that I am functionally bi. It makes me more masculine in their eyes and actually makes them feel less guilty bout bein with a dude. i actualy give alot of sex tips and advise to my married clients bout how to spice up their sex life. i do not understand why a gay man would not hire me cause I see chicks though. I mean they know that my primary orientation is gay. i shall coin a new phrase: I am, "STRAIGHT FOR PAY!!" It is really no different from my lesbian clients. every once in a while they crave a real and big cock. that does not make them straight or traitors to the lesbian order!

[Guest IndyMedic2006]

I cant say that I would like knowing any part of the mikey about you if I were to hire you. You havent a bf isnt a big deal as long as its not a topic for conversation and such, but I think it would be a big put off for me to know about your female subset of customers.

[doitb4ugo]

I think I try to judge my hires by there treatment of me and how much I enjoy the time together...what an escort does outside of my time with them is somehow none of my business....

[Michael Wayne]

totally respect your answer but I guess I am digging deeper and asking why? Why would it turn you off? I am in a sticky situation here. When new clients ask if I see women I answer honestly. should I just not talk about it or lie? Now, were the escort actually straight and gay for pay I know that turns alot of clients off because the escort may not be into it, may not stay hard, may not cum, etc.- obviously. On the other hand I know MANY clients who ONLY hire straight studs- that being their fantasy. I , however, am a true gay male- just VERY MASCULINE, and alot of my clients assume I see women and ask. They hire me BECAUSE I am so masculine. I started escorting with a service years ago ( a long time ago in a galaxy far, far, away) and they used to send us out in South Beach to guys, ladies and couples. An hour was an hour and the money made me hard. It was such a fucking trip to get $200 an hour just to look really cute and because I had a big dick......I know the thought of being with a chick is a total turn off to most truly gay men and you don't want to hear about it but does the mere fact that an escort (or a hook-up) of yours sees women turn you off to the point that you would never hire the guy. Hope everyone is having a great night!

[Michael Wayne]

I was responding to indymedic by the way. i am still new to the forum and have not mastered all the technology yet- and I am not even blond!

[josephga]

Not sure why but for some openly gay men they find the thought of being with a women as ewww lol Its strange but some do. Iv never been with a women but i dont forget i came out of one and personally dont find it as eeww. I had a massage client give me a strange look and a strange response. I had a female client leave right b4 he had arrived. He asked if id had a busy day. i said no just you and this lady that just left. he gave me a strange look and asked if I was BI? I tend too place massage therapist in the same group as chiropractors and physical therapist, its a job/career not a life style, so i found my clients response as offense and ignorant. I don't think its anyone's business if you take females or not. I think the guys that would be turned off to you seeing females would most likely be the openly gay guys. some gay guys find the thought of women sexually as disgusting. then there are guys that are gay know they are gay always knew they were gay and only want too be with the same meaning guys that dont do chicks, just a preference to them.

[Guest Merlin]

A several of my favorite escorts have been married, one or two with children. Many others have been straight guys with girlfriends. And, I own several straight porn videos where the emphasis is on the men.(Jeff Stryker, John Davenport)

I doubt if many gay clients are turned off by the knowledge that you have sex with women. The one who are probably like to believe that the escort is attracted to the client, and knowledge that he likes women may shatter that fantasy.

[Battle]

I really don't want to hear about your female clients. But then I don't want to hear about your wife, your kids, your mortgage.....

[Decatur Guy]

Now I have the opposite reaction. I'd be turned on by the fact that you fuck women, too, especially since you're a top.

 

The mere fact that I know this makes me want to hire you if I'm ever in New Orleans again.

[EZEtoGRU]

I agree with Decatur Guy. The fact that you have female clients is a turn on. Somehow makes you more manly in my mind. I understand it is all a mindgame......in my head. The variety of responses the OP has received on this thread just shows how we are all wired a little differently.

[BaronArtz]

From a client's perspective, I recommend you need to convey an illusion of sorts. It's not all about just sex. You are marketing a certain 'experience' to your prospective clients. Why say upfront you do women? I think it limits your possibilities. It's different when you say you can do women, if somebody asks about it. But don't say it upfront in your ad. Just my recommendation ...

[josephga]

Do you advertise on sites marketed to finding female clients? maybe make your rentboy rentmen ads targeted toward the gay male and maybe find a site that's marketed to female clients and create a ad for that client base. If you have your own website make it more say unisex don't mention male or female just tell them one or the other or both if the ask.

[JoeyBryant]

Do you advertise on sites marketed to finding female clients?

 

Thats what I'd like to know...

 

Call me a skeptic, and I'm not hating or anything...but when I talk to my female escort acquientences they pretty much scoff at the idea of it. I'd imagine most women would not be out to pay for something that could probably come relatively easy for them.

 

Whether or not I'm having sex with women is 1 thing, but personally I couldn't live with myself knowing a woman chose to pay me for it. I know women pay for stuff all the time, in relationships etc., but thats another subject.

 

I also find it hard to believe that women are running to hire someone based on a big dick...I would imagine that other qualities would be more important, no?

[snake28]

It seems some clients would like to know, and some don't. I think the best approach is not to mention women or boyfriends unless specifically asked. Let the client guide the fantasy.

 

I've hired an escort who had a boyfriend. I didn't really like hearing about him until he suggested the three of us get together. After that, I kind of liked hearing about him. It was almost like I was part of the family.

[dcguy20]

For some reason this reminds me of when a female reviewed Charles Rod on the review site. Her vivid recollection of moist panties, etc. is seared into my memory and as a result, I would never hire him. To the OP, you can't have it both ways. Either some will be turned on by you doing women, and others will be turned off. Count me in the latter group.

[Romann]

Bravo!

 

Mikey9nola-

 

I think it's a great thing that you're able to do what honestly most gay men can't or are unable to do. Everything is a choice and while most wouldn't jump at the chance to get down and dirty with a woman, it's good to know that there are those that not only can but enjoy it. Bravo! I would like to shake your hand and then the "other" of course for good measure.

 

While I'm not hired by women directly solely for their enjoyment/entertainment, I do have a handful of "heterosexual" couples who are clients that are amazingly open about sexuality with one another and enjoy hiring together, more so (IMHO) for the husband to explore his sexuality over the wife though that's just my personal opinion/observation. I'm very upfront that I'm open to these experiences/fantasies/role play situations, I do have personal limits are which are not negotiable and include that I don't touch the wife, in any way and I expect the same in return. While this may seem harsh to many, I realize that I'm gay and that it's the touch of a man which pleases/arouses me and makes my cock hard and twinge in the night. Most situations, the wife enjoys watching her husband fuck or get fucked with some narration which I have always thought can be hot. HOT conversation is hot conversation no matter who it comes from. If said right, with some enthusiasm and passion behind each chosen words, verbal dirty talk just makes the entire experience better for everyone. The wife seems to get into it through the power of suggestion which translates into domination as she, through narration directs/controls the flow and activities of the sexual encounter between her hubby and the hottie escort of their choice. I have a voyeuristic side and it's very erotic for me to be watched by a 3rd, or more if the situation warrants it while having sex with another person or multiple people regardless of whether it's male or female.

 

Long story short, I commend mikey9nola for his obvious devotion to great sex which include the elimination of sexual boundaries associated to gender. Bravo!

 

Just my two cents.

[Guest Fluffytest]

Thats what I'd like to know...

 

Call me a skeptic, and I'm not hating or anything...but when I talk to my female escort acquientences they pretty much scoff at the idea of it. I'd imagine most women would not be out to pay for something that could probably come relatively easy for them.

 

Whether or not I'm having sex with women is 1 thing, but personally I couldn't live with myself knowing a woman chose to pay me for it. I know women pay for stuff all the time, in relationships etc., but thats another subject.

 

I also find it hard to believe that women are running to hire someone based on a big dick...I would imagine that other qualities would be more important, no?

 

Based on my experience, JoeyBryant is exactly right. Most women who aren't elderly would have an easy time getting no-strings sex for free; just check out the ratio of males to females on the "NSA" section of Craig's List. (Also, check out the pleading tone of the straight mens' ads.)

 

Also, in general, women aren't attracted to men for the same reasons that men are attracted to women, or to other men. There are exceptions, but overall, women are attracted to alpha males rather than great-looking guys. (There are a number of studies that show this based on the kinds of ads men and women respond to on dating sites.) That's why wealthy straight men can get easy sex well into their 50s and 60s. Of course, some young gay men are also attracted to alphas, which is why alpha-male gay men can also get easy sex as they get older.

 

(As I mentioned in my earlier incarnation, Freshfluff (to which I can no longer log in), I'm a woman. Please, let's not get into another discussion on whether I'm here as a "voyeur" or not; I'm simply interested in the topic of escorting--especially MtoM escorting.)

[Michael Wayne]

Thanks to everyone for the HONEST answers. Romann is right in my eyes. I get those type booking alot where it is me with the man and the Lady watches. In fact that is how the whole women thing started for me. I was exclusively with guys from High School through college but when I started escorting every once in a while a lady would call. Now to answer Joey: I have been escorting a long time and have seen alot of things that I am sure the younger studs have not. I DO NOT advertise for or seek women clients as there are really no good sites for that. All I say in my gay ads is ,"women and couples welcome." one thing to understand when we speak of ads targeted to, "gay men,' is that 65% of my clients are married to a woman so they are in NO WAY offended by my seeing chicks. it turns them on! As far as his comment on a big dick the answer is yes! I see women regularly whose husbands have 3, 4, 5, 6 and 7 inch dicks and who have no staying power and are terrible at foreplay. When they can hire a guy who has the equipment, can keep it up and has a great OPENING ACT (my talented tongue) they love it. They also know that I am incapable of falling in love with them because all my romantic feeling are gay. One last thing: was there ever a hotter movie than Richard fucking Gere as the American Gigolo? I used to jack off as a kid watching that and fantasize bout what it must be like to get paid by someone for sex. Well, I have lived and relived that fantasy a thousand times over!

[Michael Wayne]

Welcome Fluffytest! I must respond to this whole idea of women can get it for free. Yes, of course they can. But so also can most of my clients. Many of my clients are distinguished, wealthy handsome, virile nice guys. WHAT YALL ARE ALL FORGETTING IS DISCRETION!! When a client (male or female) hires they have a 100% promise that the escort will never reveal who they are or break discretion. This explains why women hire. I never call them, they call me. If I see them in public I do not speak or even make eye contact. On this forum this should be obvious and go without saying. Other than Mike Jones (of ted haggard fame) I know of no male escort in America who has ever broken discretion. If anyone for any reason asks me about a client I say I don't know who the fuck that is and walk away.

[EZEtoGRU]

Mikey. You are absolutely right that the discretion issue is quite important to customers....male and female.

 

To the other poster who indicated that women are not looking for "size" in a man.........um.....wrong. Is "size" the only quality or criteria they use in choosing a partner? Of course not. But it is without a doubt a factor for many women. Just as it is a factor for many gay men as well.

[MiamiLooker]

WHAT YALL ARE ALL FORGETTING IS DISCRETION!! When a client (male or female) hires they have a 100% promise that the escort will never reveal who they are or break discretion.

 

There's an expectation of discretion/confidentiality, but certainly no guarantee.

[BaronArtz]

The only REAL size that women look for in men, is WALLET SIZE. Believe me. I am 50 years old and have been married three times (so far). I 'know' ...

 

 

Mikey. You are absolutely right that the discretion issue is quite important to customers....male and female.

 

To the other poster who indicated that women are not looking for "size" in a man.........um.....wrong. Is "size" the only quality or criteria they use in choosing a partner? Of course not. But it is without a doubt a factor for many women. Just as it is a factor for many gay men as well.

[EZEtoGRU]

Baron,

I don't disagree with your comments if a woman is searching for a marriage partner. My comment was meant to refer to her wants when looking for a short term sex partner. When it is only about the sex (not looking for romance), size matters for many women. Whilst I am gay, I am familiar and involved with the male/female swinger scene.....the subset when a couple is looking for another man to be involved with them sexually. I have witnessed many times when a perfectly handsome man is turned down for not being up to size. The couple almost always opt for the big equipment guys.