Would you rather hire a single escort or one with a boyfriend or wife?

[Michael Wayne]

THIS IS A QUESTION FOR ALL YOU DEAR CLIENTS AND PLEASE BE HONEST. For you escorts out there that are in a relationship please answer frankly about how you deal with the obvious pressures of keeping boyfriend happy and the clients happy???? Can an escort who is coupled actually give the client a, "Boyfriend experience?"

[Guest greatness]

No.. It will ruin my fantasy. Are you taken? That breaks my heart. :-(

[jgoo]

I agree with greatness. While with the escort I like to make believe that he is unattached. I've had some escorts talk about their bfs/gfs and that just ruins the mood for me.

[Gar1eth]

I agree with greatness. While with the escort I like to make believe that he is unattached. I've had some escorts talk about their bfs/gfs and that just ruins the mood for me.

 

I don't really want to hear about them-- although it happens. But really I can't expect them to be single. I mean if I find them sexy and attractive-- I have to assume others do-- and if they have a high enough sex drive to escort-- then it's very likely going to spill over into their private life-- so it's very likely they will have a partner.

 

Gman

[Loadluvr]

Same here it does ruin the mood

[EastbayMike]

Never even crossed my mind whether the guys I hire are single or paired. Absolutely not a consideration.

[JT Brooklyn]

Never asked and rarely told and when I was I changed the conversation and continued with "Business"!

[instudiocity]

I could care less. If he's found somebody, GREAT!

 

BUT, don't ruin my fantasy - especially since I hire for the BFE!

[Guest greatness]

That's so true Gar1eth..

 

I mean if I find them sexy and attractive-- I have to assume others do-- and if they have a high enough sex drive to escort-- then it's very likely going to spill over into their private life-- so it's very likely they will have a partner.

 

Gman

[Michael Wayne]

I do have a partner and I do not talk about him unless the client asks. It in no way prevents me from giving the ultimate bf experience but I am talking to three different young escort studs who are having real problems with this. They need to understand that they need to be fresh when they see a client. Clients hate a limp dick escort- there is nothing worse. my buddy had sex with his bf twice then went to a clients hotel. The client cancelled on him! The client was paying for 8.5- not 4.

[Guest greatness]

lol.. That's relieving.. I thought I was just a turn off.. It may not be the case all the time.

 

They need to understand that they need to be fresh when they see a client. Clients hate a limp dick escort- there is nothing worse. my buddy had sex with his bf twice then went to a clients hotel. The client cancelled on him! The client was paying for 8.5- not 4.

[AdamSmith]

All above may be true, in the main. But one of hottest afternoons in my life was when an escort introduced me to his bf -- not an escort -- and we all went to bed together. Jesus H. Christ on a raft.

[Rapaz]

I really couldn't care any less. I rarely talk to escorts about anything. it's straight up business--toppled by pleasure of course.

[Gar1eth]

I really couldn't care any less. I rarely talk to escorts about anything. it's straight up business--toppled by pleasure of course.

 

That reminds me of the line in Grease where Sonny trying to sound like a man of experience says, "And then what do you do with them for the other 23 hours and 45 minutes of the day?"

 

And may I say Rapaz that I am not making any comments on your experience or skills-- while not a compliment necessarily to you-- I'm fairly sure everyone is more skilled than I am. The only reason I brought up the quote is because your statement reminded me of it.

 

Gman

[Gar1eth]

I do have a partner and I do not talk about him unless the client asks. It in no way prevents me from giving the ultimate bf experience but I am talking to three different young escort studs who are having real problems with this. They need to understand that they need to be fresh when they see a client. Clients hate a limp dick escort- there is nothing worse. my buddy had sex with his bf twice then went to a clients hotel. The client cancelled on him! The client was paying for 8.5- not 4.

If they don't understand this-- esp if they've had multiple clients get upset at them for poor performance then a couple of things are obvious-- # 1 they are not very bright-- even if they are young it shouldn't be difficult to understand this and/ or #2 they really don't care about clients-- the client is only there to provide money-- and is not a real person with any of the same feelings as the escort.

 

Gman

[Guest greatness]

Sigh.. Hot guys get to do everything.. Kisses and hugs~~~

 

All above may be true, in the main. But one of hottest afternoons in my life was when an escort introduced me to his bf -- not an escort -- and we all went to bed together. Jesus H. Christ on a raft.

[jawjateck]

I don't care if the guy I hire has a bf/gf. That never enters into my decision-making process. However, relationships are not my thing, and I certainly have no interest in hearing all about him (or her) while we are on the clock.

[cdqsf]

I agree with both points mikey9nola made. I don't mind an escort having a partner, but I don't want to hear about him unless I ask. And unless I state up front that I'm not interested in sex (not likely to happen), I expect him to be "in the mood" when we get together.

[+ bigjoey]

I recently hired one of the best reviewed escorts in LA for an entire day. With that much time, we did get into personal things and he talked some about his boy friend. It just flowed as part of the conversation and was no big deal. As to his performance, it was an A+ performance with great kissing, rimming, affection, oral and anal---everything! All I could think was "lucky boyfriend".

[seeker630]

Generally, the only time I want to know about the boyfriend is when I've hired them together. Once I get to know an escort a bit, then it can be comfortable to hear a little, but I don't want to be reminded that he's having sex regualrly with someone likely hotter than me.

[Damascene]

It does not matter to me. Unless I know the escort and we become friendly, I rarely find out.

 

Of course there was the time the boyfriend came home early and did not know the boyfrien"caught by the cuckolded boyfriend" fantasy out of there.

 

ps. He gave me a free session to make it up. So I took my original money, hired another escort and we did a three way at the second escort's.

[Gar1eth]

On second thought I don't mind knowing about their significant others that much-- as long as it doesn't interfere with my good time.

 

Gman

[instudiocity]

It does not matter to me. Unless I know the escort and we become friendly, I rarely find out.

 

Of course there was the time the boyfriend came home early and did not know the boyfrien"caught by the cuckolded boyfriend" fantasy out of there.

 

ps. He gave me a free session to make it up. So I took my original money, hired another escort and we did a three way at the second escort's.

And the fantasy was playing with the escort and his boyfriend?

[AdamSmith]

Sigh.. Hot guys get to do everything.. Kisses and hugs~~~

 

OK, this may actually be useful to you: I, at half a century of age, am in no wise hot any more. But i am nakedly open & emotionally honest with guys (and other configurations!) whom I hire. That seems to go some distance with people you meet.

 

Try it.

[Guest greatness]

Thanks for your advice. I need a demo though. Next time I'm in NYC please demonstrate in front of me. Nakedly open? What does it really mean.. Emotionally honest.. hmm I really need a demonstration. lol.. Thanks!