A somewhat stupid question.

[doitb4ugo]

In a recent session with an escort, as we were winding down and laying on the bed, he covered himself and me with a light bedspread because it was a bit chilly after the heat of passion. I found this surprisingly "hot".

 

Is it weird or strange to ask an escort if we could start our session under the covers in his bed...somehow that just seems wrong and too personal (strange I know). In all my meetings, I have never been invited between the sheets. In fact the bed is always made up and neat....I have not had the nerve to ask to this point....Obviously, guys who have had overnights, or longer sessions will find my query amusing...

 

What do you escorts and others think.

[instudiocity]

What do you escorts and others think.

Why ask? Just pull back the covers and jump right in. Asking defeats spontaneity. If it's a big enough problem, he will say something. You can always call it a fetish or explain it's a body modesty issue or that you just find him so hot, that you want to fantasize waking up to his hot self in the you bed.

[doitb4ugo]

I really feel that this violates some sense of propriety...I can't explain why but the guy needs to sleep there later....Am I overly concerned for nothing.

[josephga]

at 200.00 or more an hour they should be able to afford to change the sheets if they need it for later lol

[Guest Wetnwildbear]

The Scent Lingers . . .

 

I really feel that this violates some sense of propriety...I can't explain why but the guy needs to sleep there later....Am I overly concerned for nothing.

 

As wild as I like to play - and I generally do long sessions - I like to strip off the leather sheets at some

 

point after are hard play is over and finish with

 

some quiet kiss/cuddle/gentle cum time between the clean linen sheets (500TC or above Please).

 

 

As I usually play at home - They are my sheets and I like that when my guest has left, that his scent lingers on the

 

sheets/pillowcases - allowing fond reminders of our time earlier that day and/or the previous night and revel

 

in my memories and delight.

 

 

On the rare occassions that I meet at a gentlecaller's home, it is usually because he has some "Specialized"

 

gear/play-space/lightshow/acrobats/trained seals or a really great toaster oven - Even then I like to finish our time

 

together in bed - preferably between the sheets - by that time there is energy for a "TOP" sheet!

[Guest Spanky]

In a recent session with an escort, as we were winding down and laying on the bed, he covered himself and me with a light bedspread because it was a bit chilly after the heat of passion. I found this surprisingly "hot".

 

Is it weird or strange to ask an escort if we could start our session under the covers in his bed...somehow that just seems wrong and too personal (strange I know). In all my meetings, I have never been invited between the sheets. In fact the bed is always made up and neat....I have not had the nerve to ask to this point....Obviously, guys who have had overnights, or longer sessions will find my query amusing...

 

What do you escorts and others think.

 

Doit, you're adorable. Of all the things that you do with your escorts (and based on your posts you do a LOT), this is what you feel uncomfortable about? I imagine most escorts wouldn't think twice about it.

 

As for Wetnwild and his 500 thread count sheets (or above, please), I think it's time to rename him Wetnwild Princess.

[Guest Wetnwildbear]

The Blue Light Spanky

 

 

Bears appreciate Comfort - Not KMART!

[instudiocity]

Bears appreciate Comfort - Not KMART!

 

"PrincessWetnWildBear" it's an oxymoron...

[surferguy]

I have to agree that - as far out as it may seem - getting between the sheets is indicative of a deeper level of intimacy than many escorts are probably comfortable with.

[Guest IndyMedic2006]

DoIt...

 

I think it is part of an unwritten rule that if you are "playing" on the bed, the sheets might get messed up. It is kind of inevitable. And I can not imagine an escort having an objection to getting under the sheets. And if you are seeing them at a hotel, and you mess up the sheets too much, there is always maid service to re-make the bed.

[NYTomcat]

DoIt...

 

I think it is part of an unwritten rule that if you are "playing" on the bed, the sheets might get messed up. It is kind of inevitable. And I can not imagine an escort having an objection to getting under the sheets. And if you are seeing them at a hotel, and you mess up the sheets too much, there is always maid service to re-make the bed.

 

I agree I can't See any issue at all. And of course most escorts I hire is for intimacy. Thats the point. I dont This k I'd hire anyone who has a problem with a request like that. In fact I'd think they would like it.

[justaguy]

LOL Doit, thanks for asking a completely different question. It really surprised me. As with all things escort, the best advice is always simply to ask. No doubt while the question is new to me, it isn't to them. Based on my experience, they'll tell you if they're comfortable with it or not. Could be the basis of a whole new discussion. That's when you're not all tied up in another sort of discussion. :-)

[happyguy2]

Here are my unscientific stats: I realize that you asked your question to escorts but over the years about half of the guys I have hired throw down the sheets themselves, the others just do it on the bed. For me, it is intimate either way!

[leigh.bess.toad]

On the rare occassions that I meet at a gentlecaller's home, it is usually because he has some "Specialized"

 

gear/play-space/lightshow/acrobats/trained seals or a really great toaster oven

 

Trained seals???? Now the acrobats I can see, but seals??? Well I guess it beats the hamsters of the olden days.

[KMEM]

You don't like to be "honked" by a seal? Tell me MORE about the hamsters.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[leigh.bess.toad]

You don't like to be "honked" by a seal? Tell me MORE about the hamsters.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

 

I hate to ask KMEM but how old are you? I don't know if it is true or just gay urban legend, but here's a link that describes it. Sounds pretty sick to me. Ah, the history of gay men.

 

http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20081123094336AAid6nh

 

"As nervous as a gerbil on Christopher Street". OMFG.

[josephga]

First time i ever heard the richard gere hamster story I was around 24 years old so its been rumor for sometime

[KMEM]

I hate to ask KMEM but how old are you? I don't know if it is true or just gay urban legend, but here's a link that describes it. Sounds pretty sick to me. Ah, the history of gay men.

 

http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20081123094336AAid6nh

 

"As nervous as a gerbil on Christopher Street". OMFG.

 

Old enough to know better and old enough to not care.

 

Yes, I now remember these kinds of stories or rumors.

 

Care to get "honked" by me?

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[Juan Vancouver]

I really feel that this violates some sense of propriety... Am I overly concerned for nothing.

 

Hey sexy,

 

I, for one, find your thoughtfulness laudable.

 

The same way that it would be a little strange to rearrange things in someone else's house, I would also feel uncomfortable to unmake the bed in someone's room. (Or any modification.) The fact that one is paying for the service doesn't quite void politeness. (In a therapist's room I would not go about changing things of place, even if I were paying for his fee.)

 

I don't think it is a big deal at all, and I am sure nobody would mind if you asked.

 

Why not saying: "I'd love to cuddle under the blankets. Do you wanna?"

 

I am sure your escort is going to be happy to oblige.

 

Who, after all, doesn't love snuggling comfily in bed?

[leigh.bess.toad]

Who, after all, doesn't love snuggling comfily in bed?

 

Unfortunately, Juan, anyone who is with me. For some reason, I can seem hot (as in prespirig) when its 5 below outside. My core temp is through the roof I think. So I guess I'm the odd duck who has to beg. boo-hoo.

[leigh.bess.toad]

Care to get "honked" by me?

 

Anytime, anyplace, KMEM. I'll be there with bells on.

 

Only bells.

 

You wanna see my clapper?????

[KMEM]

You wanna see my clapper?????

 

Of course.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[doitb4ugo]

Hey sexy,

 

I, for one, find your thoughtfulness laudable.

 

The same way that it would be a little strange to rearrange things in someone else's house, I would also feel uncomfortable to unmake the bed in someone's room. (Or any modification.) The fact that one is paying for the service doesn't quite void politeness. (In a therapist's room I would not go about changing things of place, even if I were paying for his fee.)

 

I don't think it is a big deal at all, and I am sure nobody would mind if you asked.

 

Why not saying: "I'd love to cuddle under the blankets. Do you wanna?"

 

I am sure your escort is going to be happy to oblige.

 

Who, after all, doesn't love snuggling comfily in bed?

 

I took the advice of several people and e-mailed one of my regulars about this odd request.....His reply:

 

not a stupid question at all...its something i also enjoy both after and also as a great way to get warmed up in the beginning i'd be up for that, for sure

Looks like I might be cuddling under the blankies later this week...

 

It will be a quite unusual juxtaposition of BDSM and intimacy...just what I need.

 

[NYTomcat]

I took the advice of several people and e-mailed one of my regulars about this odd request.....His reply:

 

not a stupid question at all...its something i also enjoy both after and also as a great way to get warmed up in the beginning i'd be up for that, for sure

Looks like I might be cuddling under the blankies later this week...

 

It will be a quite unusual juxtaposition of BDSM and intimacy...just what I need.

 

 

Thats it get intimate under the sheets. cuddly warm and cozy. Until he wraps them around your mouth ties you to the bedpost with them and..... well that another story.. nevermind ... anyway

 

My only suggestion, be careful of those little wooden pineapples on the bedframe they can hurt if you pull them off in the struggle.

[doitb4ugo]

Bingo. Tonight I got my wish. When I arrived at his apartment and entered the bedroom, I noticed that the sheets and covers were turned down. He suggested that we get under the covers to warm ourselves up (he had his window open so it was a bit chilly, as intended. We started with nice sexy cuddling and progressed from there. We we lazily watching a Cadinot film while we cudled and held each other....Hot overall night. And all you have to do is ask...who'd a thunk it.