Trips

[gilbert]

Do escorts always charge a fee for going on a trip with a client? Are there times when the escort thinks the trip itself is payment enough? For instance, say I'm going to London for five days and I want someone to provide companionship. Does the escort use the trip itself as compensation or does the client still have to pay some sort of fee? Or, does it all depend on the client and the trip destination? Usually, when I travel, I travel by myself. Many times it would have been nice to have had someone to share the experiences with and keep me company, but the trip itself usually leaves barely enough cash flow to hire an escort for a single night.

[+ purplekow]

Someone you take on a trip for free is a friend or a relative. An escort is paid for his time. You may be able to determine a more favorable rate if the location is exotic enough to make the trip part of the compensation, but for the most part, room, board, taxes and fees are all part of taking company with you. It is your vacation, he is working after all.

[JoeyBryant]

Then you need to saddle up, and force yourself to get out and meet boys at a bar or on adam4adam who are willing to do things like a 5 day trip with a client who's supposed to be paying them...for free.

 

Otherwise, don't bother us with that nonsense because I'm sure your landscaper wont accept a trip in exchange for payment while in the meantime, and comes home to unpaid bills and an eviction notice (not thats its ever happend, but you'd be surprised what goes on). We didn't come to you, you came to us...don't try to reverse whats in writing with something that wont bring in the bacon.

[JackTwist]

Someone you take on a trip for free is a friend or a relative. An escort is paid for his time. You may be able to determine a more favorable rate if the location is exotic enough to make the trip part of the compensation, but for the most part, room, board, taxes and fees are all part of taking company with you. It is your vacation, he is working after all.

 

Well said. I agree with PK. If you don't compensate a service provider who's traveling with you, he's not only working free for you, he's also losing revenue (i.e., lost wages) from numerous other clients who would be paying for his services back home. Be a class-act and plan to pay up if you want the luxury of a sexy rent-boy on your arm (and in your bed) during your vacation. Otherwise, invite a friend who would enjoy your company and gladly travel with you on their own dime.

[jimboivyo]

Then you need to saddle up, and force yourself to get out and meet boys at a bar or on adam4adam who are willing to do things like a 5 day trip with a client who's supposed to be paying them...for free.

 

Otherwise, don't bother us with that nonsense because I'm sure your landscaper wont accept a trip in exchange for payment while in the meantime, and comes home to unpaid bills and an eviction notice (not thats its ever happend, but you'd be surprised what goes on). We didn't come to you, you came to us...don't try to reverse whats in writing with something that wont bring in the bacon.

 

I would agree with Joey's response- We as clients are here to provide support while the escort is there to provide service. I have traveled all over the world with escorts, paid them well and we've enjoyed the trip together. You've got to be honest with yourself about the costs of doing this. Can you afford to have a travel companion or are you simply better off booking an hourly guy when you get to your destination?

 

I'm sure there are guys out there who would barter with you for the chance at an international trip, but it's risky. Trust me when I say that traveling with someone who isn't a traveler can be just awful. What you want is an escort who not only is comfortable flying around the world, but can quickly adjust when things get tricky or complications happen. That's what, for me, makes a great escort/travel companion.

[Juan Vancouver]

On fixing Angelina's teeth.

 

Someone you take on a trip for free is a friend or a relative. An escort is paid for his time.

 

True genius dwells in simplicity.

 

Since I am not a genius, I have to explain a little further.

 

Expecting an escort to spend time with you (whether in Paris, Kuala Lumpur or at your home) without paying for it, is comparable to expecting a dentist to fix your teeth for free, just because it would be enjoyable.

 

Granted; a good dentist truly enjoys his work, and he would be elated to have the chance to do your teeth... but that is is job. Hence his expecting to be fully compensated.

 

Now, a comparable example could be: "I am Angelina Jolie. Would the honour and enjoyment of doing my teeth be payment enough for a dentist to do me for free? Is it true that going into my mouth would justify waiving all fees?"

 

Well, it depends.

 

For a starting young dentist, having Angelina as a client would be amazing publicity, which could perhaps open the doors for better clientele. The point here is whether it would be good for Angelina to have her teeth fixed by someone who does not do this kind of work well and often enough as to justify (and expect) a fair compensation.

 

In other words,

 

A professional escort, one who would be able to keep you happy, fulfilled, comfortable and excited during a trip, a good escort who would be able to deal jetlag, different situations, new places, who speaks several languages and is comfortable around different cultures, who is open to enjoying the things that you enjoy and is able to sustain a long session bright and focused... an escort who would enhance your traveling experience, already does a lot of travel on his own dime. He is able to enhance your experience because he himself has a lot of experience with it. A professional traveling escort already spends as much time as he wants in the glamorous destinations he enjoys.

 

A professional traveling escort will -at all times- expect his fees paid in full.

 

A young, inexperienced escort, who would perhaps see a trip to London as the opportunity of a lifetime, who would be bright eyed enough to waive his fee, may -or may not- enhance your experience. May or may not be able to deal with new cities, jet lag, different languages or accents, different cultures and all the challenges that one faces during international travel. An inexperienced escort, or one who specializes on one hour sessions may not have the necessary skills to sustain a fulfilling experience for longer than an overnight, and if that is the case, then you would be better off traveling alone or taking Aunt Rosalind with you.

 

Some clients have shared their decision making process with me in these terms:

 

"This trip is incredibly important for me in the sense that this will be the only vacation that I will be able to take in a long time. I need to relax and enjoy. It is very important for me to make sure that I choose the right companion. For me, in this trip, it would make no sense taking the risk of traveling with someone who would not guarantee an incredible experience, so it makes absolute sense to spend what is necessary to ensure that everything goes well."

 

If you are ok with taking risks, if you don't have much invested in the outcome of your holiday, if you travel often and you can allow for some experimentation room, then it would make sense to try different things: travel with a hook up, travel with a cheap, young escort, travel with a fuckbuddy, travel alone and try to find pre-arranged fuckbuddies or escorts in your destinations.

 

Experiment, experiment, experiment!

 

We all know that cheap escorts are not necessarily bad, while the same applies to expensive ones.

 

However, if this trip is important for you, I do recommend you to find someone who does this often, enjoys it and has reviews to attest to his skill in doing so.

 

Hope this covers your question.

[+ peterhung85]

Do escorts always charge a fee for going on a trip with a client? Are there times when the escort thinks the trip itself is payment enough? For instance, say I'm going to London for five days and I want someone to provide companionship. Does the escort use the trip itself as compensation or does the client still have to pay some sort of fee? Or, does it all depend on the client and the trip destination? Usually, when I travel, I travel by myself. Many times it would have been nice to have had someone to share the experiences with and keep me company, but the trip itself usually leaves barely enough cash flow to hire an escort for a single night.

 

Hello Gilbert,

 

Thanks for the question. I travel very frequently with clients (pretty much once a month) and all the trips are paid by my clients, all expenses (airfare, food, beverages & excursions) PLUS my fee. You have to realize that we escorts - talking about the professional ones here - get paid for our time. I LOVE to travel and spend time with nice people but you have to realize that this is my job. There are many travelling businessmen out there who have to travel hundreds of thousands of miles every year... Do you think they would accept the "chance to see the world" as payment? Yes, they get to travel but they have bills to pay for at home, and they work when they are visiting a place (like we do, ours is just more fun )... I hope you get the point... If you can't afford an escort who you can travel with, hire somebody "local" wherever you go for an hour or so. If that is not fulfilling enough for you, then I would advise to go out and try to find somebody because whoever travels with you just for the "fun and to see the world" is simply not an escort. As somebody said: A friend, a relative... yes... an escort.. nope! Plan C for you can be a place to visit somewhere in Asia (such as the Philippines, Indonesia or Thailand where "escorts" or I should use a more proper term: hustlers are easily accessible and they are very cheap. This is a more affordable version, BUT as one client of mine said: YOU WILL NEVER FEEL THE CONNECTION! /exceptions always apply but extremely rare!/. While we (escorts) are on a trip we also lose the chance of making money (people who would hire us in the meantime - as somebody else also mentioned).

Sad reality, but that is the truth!

[gilbert]

Thanks for the information. I guess I thought that simply being able to go on a trip for free, if it was an awesome trip, would be enough incentive for an escort to travel with a client. I completely understand where you all are coming from. What you say makes sense. I guess I'll just have to settle for one or two night stands when I travel. Thanks again.

[JoeyBryant]

Thanks for the information. I guess I thought that simply being able to go on a trip for free, if it was an awesome trip, would be enough incentive for an escort to travel with a client. I completely understand where you all are coming from. What you say makes sense. I guess I'll just have to settle for one or two night stands when I travel. Thanks again.

 

Well, I didn't mean to come off too brusque...afterall you were just asking a question, which is fine. But I think the suggestions here were helpful. Either hire once you arrive or chose someone who's not in the profession.

 

Now, if you were referring to bringing the escort along and allowing him to work in between the times you guys are spending together...then thats different, but not much better. We may or may not make any money from the trip, its just too risky.

 

Personally, and being that I travel often...I much rather go alone and find guys along the way. Once a week, I'll make my way down to a club and just have fun. I could not imagine bringing along from back home with me. I did it once in Dallas and he got on my last nerve for 2 days straight...and we were best friends for months prior. Perhaps it'd been different had we gotten separate rooms/cars etc.

[dane michaels]

Juan: I couldnt agree more.

Gilbert: I do completely see where you're coming from. I think personally sometimes we (escorts) .. and this is the newbie speaking, can get a little to greedy. Time is money, but I dont think that we need to be robbing anyone. Example, a client (who I sincerely love as a man) and has helped and mentored me along my short path thus far, offered me an 8 day trip this last summer to Puerto Vallarta. Being so new, I nearly pooped my pants. (not trying to be vulgar, I was just honored to be considered) Anyways, this trip is something Ive always wanted, so did I ask/require some rediculous amount in payment. No, I will not disclose the amount, but it was not a great sum, nor did I want it to be. This trip to Puerto Vallarta, Mexico is now forever highlighted in my best memoirs that will only be topped by my time and experiences in the military. So, the pay was minimal, but VERY fair for the location, the memories and experience..... PRICELESS!!!!!

 

I hope that this helps you out a little bit Gilbert. Just know that it doesnt have to always be a large quantity of money, but the value of time spent, location, and thorough enjoyment in the client you're with. Best Regards

 

 

-Dane Michaels

[+ Tygerscent]

Haaa Haaa~ Imagine your Boss telling you with no advance notice that you have just worked the week for free and not getting a pay check because you are best buds in his mind, had lunch together, it's his birthday, he's got thing going on in his life~ UM... IMAGINE YOURSELF WITHOUT A DAYS WEEKS MONTHS WORTH OF PAY~ You down with that?

it's all good right?

[Guest GQ Pro]

I never heard of an escort going not charging a client to go on a trip. No matter where the trip is to, he is still working. If you don't pay him, he is loosing money he could had gotten from other clients. If you don't want to pay, it's best not to hire an escort

 

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[Epigonos]

These days the standard hourly rate for most escorts is somewhere between $200 and $300. Overnight rates “generally” vary between $1,000 and $1,500. Full day rates are usually between $1,800 and $2,000. Now if you take the average hourly rate of $250 and multiple it by twelve for an overnight and twenty four for a full day you arrive at $3,000 for an overnight and $6,000 for a full day. To the best of my knowledge NO “serious” escort I have ever heard of charges those fees for an overnight and a full day. Thus they discount their hourly rate for longer periods

 

The guys I have ever traveled with have done the same for EXTENDED travel periods of several days or a week. If we return to the full $250 hourly fee and multiple it out for a week the escort would be charging approximately $42,000 for a full week – in my book that is not just exuberant it is ludicrous. If, however, we use the more common full day fee of $2,000 the escort would be charging approximately $14,000. In my book that is still way out of line. However, we do live in a free market system so an escort is certainly entitled to “demand” any fee he feels is appropriate. The one thing I do know is that at $14,000 a week this is one retired school teacher with whom he will NOT be traveling.

[scottspearsxxx]

You probably need to clarify with the escort ahead of time. Most guys that I see fly me in to their location or wherever they are traveling to as a deposit for having me join them there. It makes me know that they are serious about having me as a companion with them. Sometimes this rate is factored into the cost and sometimes not. I generally give discounts and allowances for repeat clients and multiple hour discounts as well.