Expectations for an over-night

[NYTomcat]

You know Dan, I was thinking about it. And if we are really going to do this party up right, we should all start to remain celibate starting right now. So what do you say, are you game???

 

Ummmmmm ... HELL NO ARE YOU NUTS?

[Diverdan]

I'm with Tom... the most I have ever refrained thus far is two days... and that was also in anticipation of an incredible weekend... but somehow I think this one would be worth it, even if only for an "overnight"....

[leigh.bess.toad]

Now come on guys. Do you really think there's a snowball's chance that I could hold off MONTHS? To quote the great philosopher: "ARE YOU NUTS?" roflmao

[Guest Eduardo]

Have we answered loboguy's questions yet ?

[NYTomcat]

Have we answered loboguy's questions yet ?

 

I believe the clients have ... prior to the light hearted banter beginning.

[JackTwist]

I've never hired an escort for an overnight without "test-driving" him first with a one- or two-hour appointment. Can't imagine committing to pay a $1,000+ fee and sleeping with a guy without ensuring our chemistry is great.

[+ Tygerscent]

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My closest metro area is almost two hours away, and has a disproportionately few number of twinks that are my passion. Hence, I've arranged for a number of guys to fly in for an over-night; and I have been very lucky that most have been exceptionally fine young guys, who've been well reviewed. Results have been mixed - satisfaction has been even more mixed. Perhaps I've read too many glowing reviews that have been somewhat exagerated, or perhaps being an over-weight 66 y/o silver-haired daddy, I'm less than the desireable client.

With much anticipation, I've read of multiple sessions during the afternoon and evening of arrival, some play time in the wee hours of the morning, and again in the morning before check-out. More frequently, there's some afternoon drinks/ entertainment, a long dinner ( I can usually predict what the guy will order, because it's the highest-priced entree on the menu ), drinks, ah ... and then he suggests a movie ... and maybe a few clubs ... and FINALLY we're back at the hotel. Often as not, he's "just beat" from the flight, his exhausting schedule, etc. Then he has to check his text and voice mail, and perhaps return a few of each. And it's already late (not for me, I'm a night-owl). Usually after one romp, he's finished and sound asleep before I brush my teeth and crawl into bed. Note that this has happened with first-timers and with repeat escorts.

Wee-hour wake-up for play ... NEVER .... he's sleeping very soundly, and does so until the alarm goes off. Up to brush his teeth, he MAY return to bed for a little cuddle, but it's then a (lengthly) shower time, followed by endless grooming. We usually have time for a hearty breakfast (he's a growing boy and working hard), then it's off to the airport so he can make his return flight.

Please pardon the cynicism, but when you total hotel, airfare, meals, entertainment, and his gratuity, that's a fair tab for less than an hour of intimate companionship. Please understand I do enjoy the companionship, but it seems that the amount of serious intimacy is decreasing per visit. And yes, I tell the guy what I like, and I do expect some degree of 'customer service' and anticipation of my needs. Sometimes it does seem like an old daddy is being given the minimum of service and attention, and perhaps I'm too soft a touch. The variability is NOT a function of the escort's age, so it's not about some newbie kid vs a seasoned professional.

I'd appreciate a reality check from both escorts and clients. Am I expecting too much? Are these guys delivering only minimal service? Are the reviews too exagerated leading me to expect more than they give. Is 66 y/o too old to expect the (same) level of client service?

Pardon the length of the post, but I need to adjust my expectations or be much more selective in my selection of guys. Thanks in advance for your comments; I appreciate your advice.

[+ Tygerscent]

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QUOTE=leigh.bess.toad;680190]Screw Scarlett, G. I may be getting screwed. Hawt Damn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Thanks for putting me in Coach, I won't let you down. But only 1 week? And if we do this thing up right, maybe we can rent MSG and have a whole shindig.

 

"Excuse me gentlemen. I have a truckload of condoms and lube. Any idea where they should be delivered????"

[+ Tygerscent]

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I believe the clients have ... prior to the light hearted banter beginning.

[NYTomcat]

Live Life fully , deeply and Intimately and there will be no reason to dramatize life or make it more then it really is... the reality of it will be enough... better then any fiction one could imagine~

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You have no idea how truly correct and timely you are. I've spent a year chasing the fantasy of what I want and who I am only to wake up and say. Hey im living my fantasy. Got a few things to tweak here and there but overall reality is pretty Damn good.

[Thumper]

I've never hired an escort for an overnight without "test-driving" him first with a one- or two-hour appointment. Can't imagine committing to pay a $1,000+ fee and sleeping with a guy without ensuring our chemistry is great.

 

Seems like a perfect policy, but it's no guarantee. Recently, I hired Romann for an overnight. The first couple hours scorched!, but the overnight did not continue the passion. Had I made an overnight decision based on those first two hours I would have felt the same disappointment. We are perfectly suited to nothing more than two hard pounding hours together.

 

I knew nothing about NYC Fernando, except his reputation when we did what was without a doubt the best overnight of my life. I bent him in every position, over every bit of furniture, all night long and he begged for more. I took a chance, it worked perfectly. $1000 dollars well spent. (Read the "Thumper" review, it's really hot!)

http://daddysreviews.com/search/Active/Fernando/fernando_nyc

 

Same went for Parker.

http://daddysreviews.com/search/Inactive/Parker/parker_johnson_phoenix

 

Now, Jason Savu, that sight unseen overnight SUCKED! And I had the added, stupid, expense of flying him to Chicago!

 

Point: I don't think that how someone behaves during a 2 hour appointment is indicative of how a longer appointment will go. But I don't know what the answer is. I've done my research and had great success and I've done my research and been burned.

[NYTomcat]

Seems like a perfect policy, but it's no guarantee. Recently, I hired Romann for an overnight. The first couple hours scorched!, but the overnight did not continue the passion. Had I made an overnight decision based on those first two hours I would have felt the same disappointment. We are perfectly suited to nothing more than two hard pounding hours together.

 

I knew nothing about NYC Fernando, except his reputation when we did what was without a doubt the best overnight of my life. I bent him in every position, over every bit of furniture, all night long and he begged for more. I took a chance, it worked perfectly. $1000 dollars well spent. (Read the "Thumper" review, it's really hot!)

http://daddysreviews.com/search/Active/Fernando/fernando_nyc

 

Same went for Parker.

http://daddysreviews.com/search/Inactive/Parker/parker_johnson_phoenix

 

Now, Jason Savu, that sight unseen overnight SUCKED! And I had the added, stupid, expense of flying him to Chicago!

 

Point: I don't think that how someone behaves during a 2 hour appointment is indicative of how a longer appointment will go. But I don't know what the answer is. I've done my research and had great success and I've done my research and been burned.

 

 

Very much proving my point. What to expect in an overnight depends as much on the client as on the escort. I would never really consider hiring romann for two hours only. I would feel totally cheated and left wanting more like we barely got started. But again I dont judge success by the pop. To me its the whole package the warm up the foreplay the delivery the flirting the act itself and the caressing after to start all over again. Hell sleeping

Next to him and the way he cuddled That ass into you gets me so hard I can barely stand it. The anticipation is intoxicating. I would so find leaving After a few hours with romann. Cheap and unfulfilling

 

Reality is it has and will always take two to tango

Otherwise its just masterbation. So to each his own. Tastes vary. You cannot always anticipate nor can an escort Guess your desires. So the best you can do is tell them and hope. I can only say I've been very lucky so far with all my hires. Maybe im just easy to Please but ummmm no I dont think so. Im actually a hard pain in the ass but I know the personality that does it for me and communicate alot before every hire

[btmstudnyc]

I'd appreciate a reality check from both escorts and clients. Am I expecting too much? Are these guys delivering only minimal service? Are the reviews too exagerated leading me to expect more than they give. Is 66 y/o too old to expect the (same) level of client service?

 

If an overnight with anyone is anything like this thread, DON'T CALL ME!!! YIKES. DAMN. F%$k

 

To answer your questions semi briefly. I think you are expecting too much if you want someone to cum 5 times in 12 hours. (Some people can do this, but not always and will depend on the guy....or not) You must define what "ROMP" "SEX" or "Hot Time" is!!! Do you require a 12 hour or overnight Hardon....as this is proven unhealthy.

 

SOME of your choices are definitely delivering minimal service. Some reviews are exaggerated...others you exaggerate by what's in your head and not said.

 

No matter what age, weight, height, blah-blah-blah everyone deserves the same level of service, unless they REEK and the escort is not into Rank and Raunch!!! (this may or may not include partying with drugs depending on the escort.)

 

Thats the brief of it...saying that, I must digress. Ive been doing this for 12 years (Yikes! and I also don't lie about my age 48!) People hire for overnights for different reasons. The one guy I did the most overnights with (over 50 times) started out as not letting me get sleep and then progressed to asking me if he could get sleep. He couldn't travel and had to see me in different cities for usually 12 hours only....He had to get to the hotel after his meeting, see me then get up in the morning to get back to work, so he hired lots of guys over the 5 years I knew him. He told me that at first he wanted to do things non stop, but then really wanted true companionship...someone he KNEW and wanted to be spontaneous with. Sometimes it was 1 time a night, other times it was 4 times a night....I remember the 2nd time I ever saw him....HE CAME 15 times in 2 hours...I've never seen anything like that....but the rest of the night, he only wanted to hang around naked. (in that case, I actually never came, and he laughed years later when I told him that I HAD NEEDS TOO...talk about blue balls) I like to kiss and cuddle and have sex, and can do the "ON DEMAND" part most of the time. That is much harder as a top!!! as a bottom, hell you can fuck me all night and through my sleep...so you should keep that in mind. VERS guys can usually do it more times, Tops (I would guess have the hardest times) and bottoms, well...that's why we love them...they usually cant get enough in any/all holes. SO, for your questions...it comes back to the age old answer...DEPENDS!!! Are you a machine-like top, a demanding bottom, or a passionate flipper? Looking for only sex? Looking for cuddling? Looking for kissing? Looking for someone to talk to and get to know before you do the deed? All of the above? Do you have enough time? Is money an issue?

 

Is the comfort of ordering in, out-way the food? Sometimes you get bad food from the same restaurant having the same meal. Consistency is a good thing, so if you find that guy or guys, stick with them...if not...keep trying them til you do....You are BOUND to find someone that will give you what you want/need.....just be realistic and straightforward about what you want and spell it out without taking all the fun out of it.

 

BTW...I never order the MOST EXPENSIVE thing on the menu...I think that's ridiculous. I try and basically match whatever the client is getting, so it doesn't seem like I'm over indulging or under indulging....I sometimes do order the most expensive thing, if the guy I am with would split it with me so we can BOTH get a taste at least. Actually, I think dinner is very telling about how the night will go sexually and intimately...If you don't connect then...U probably never will.

 

 

SMOOOOOCH

[12is12]

Loboguy, it's my experience that being politely explicit upfront is the best approach. Since you're already familiar with the usual pitfalls and excuses, simply note and mention them when arranging the session:

"I'd like a long active evening+night with you, 90% of it in-room. I hire only guys that are NOT tired when we're together, so if your schedule and/or the flight might be problematic in that regard, please tell me to look elsewhere. Also, I'd like you to be proactive in cuddling and semi-sleep/wake-up sex; can I count on you?"

[hunkymuscles]

Expectations of an Overnight

I've done a few overnights and each one has been slightly different. As I'm setting up the overnight I try to get an idea of what the client would like to do for 12 hours. I'm assuming there will of course be sex. Some clients want to bring you out to dinner, drinks, etc. Then there are clients who prefer not to leave their room at all. Either way, if I have an idea in advance of what the expectation is, I can plan accordingly. I've been with clients who want sex shortly after I get there, in the middle of the night, and then again in the morning. I actually don't think that's an unreasonable request. I have no problem with that at all. I seem to have a high sex drive anyway and I've never been with a client who told me he expected more sex from me. Since I'm a little older, I've been told I have a better feel on how to satisfy a client.

Anyway, I just think it really helps if the client is up front with what he has in mind for the evening and that the escort is sure that he will be able to deliver what is expected. If he can't, he should really reconsider the overnight

[leigh.bess.toad]

Expectations of an Overnight

I've done a few overnights and each one has been slightly different. As I'm setting up the overnight I try to get an idea of what the client would like to do for 12 hours. I'm assuming there will of course be sex. Some clients want to bring you out to dinner, drinks, etc. Then there are clients who prefer not to leave their room at all. Either way, if I have an idea in advance of what the expectation is, I can plan accordingly. I've been with clients who want sex shortly after I get there, in the middle of the night, and then again in the morning. I actually don't think that's an unreasonable request. I have no problem with that at all. I seem to have a high sex drive anyway and I've never been with a client who told me he expected more sex from me. Since I'm a little older, I've been told I have a better feel on how to satisfy a client.

Anyway, I just think it really helps if the client is up front with what he has in mind for the evening and that the escort is sure that he will be able to deliver what is expected. If he can't, he should really reconsider the overnight

 

Hey hunky -- do you have a website, rentboy, rentmen or some other place the gents here can find out more about you. Because I like what you said. A lot.

[Guest GQ Pro]

Lee,

Thank you very much for your comments concerning my post. Here is a link to learn a bit more about me. I'm also on rentmen and Men4RentNow. My screen name on both sites is hunkymuscles. I'm located in San Francisco

 

http://www.daddysreviews.com/review/raul_sf

[scottspearsxxx]

I love overnight clients because these clients want to spend quality time with me and I am always "up" for it! I try to respect everyone's time and since I know I am going to be with them all night, make sure to take care of other business (emails, texting, etc) before I arrive. It is really up to the client to state in advance what is expected on an overnight, but I usually ask if I am not clear of expectations and so it generally always works out and sometimes leads to repeat clients for me. If I am flying in, I try to get rest on the plane, if I am driving up, I try to get rest before I leave the house to let my energetic self shine through.