re-do's and the affects of negative reviews

[+ Chris]

A few months ago I was given my first negative review and then like rain, when it rains it pours. I was happy to show these clients that I had changed and was willing to offer a freebie session . My question to you is , the review process can ruin an escorts career and while it is mean't to weed out the bad guys. can changes be made to improve the rapport between the escort and a client before the All knowing god like creature "Daddy" needs to be involved.

 

My second thought towards this is would most clients be open to a secondary session. What are your thoughts and please explain why..

 

I thought this was a funny video that might go along well with what i am speaking about. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ntgYJ9iz47c&feature=related

[josephga]

lol that video is funny

[Tommy_chelsea]

Hi Chris,

 

Your idea of offering a client a second chance, or a do-over, is intriguing. We all have bad days. I think that it may be a feasible idea if the client is a reasonable man. This may work with some clients, but not all. Before you actually go through with offering a do -over, I would suggest that you think long and hard about the client. If you feel that the client is worth the effort, make the offer. You may end up with a steady client.

[jackcali]

Chris, I think you ask a very difficult question, and a lot of it depends on the client and what went wrong with the session. I would never write a negative review of an escort unless he lied about something, used fake pics or ripped me off in some way. I don't think you can fix that sort of issue with a free session. If the first session was dissapointing to the client because of bad chemistry, I don't think you can fix that issue either. Situations that I can think of that might be addressed with a free session would be something that was just bad planning or unfortunate circumstance -- illness, other personal problems or the like made you perform at less than peak, you were extremely late or watched the clock because of someplace you had to be afterwards, etc. Think about whether a new session can address what went wrong the first time before you give a freebie a try. Good luck.

[Diverdan]

Hey Chris, I agree with jackcali... you need to make sure you understand fully what might have gone wrong. There have been several times when a session did not go well for me, but I chalked it up to "chemistry" and would not have accepted another session with that escort or masseur, even if it was free. On the other hand, there may be times to make such an offer. I had one session that started out badly, but got much better toward the end. The companion said, "even though our time is up lets keep going as we still seem to be having a lot of fun, and there won't be any extra charge". It turned out to be one of the best times I have ever had, and I still see this guy when ever possible. Only you can make the decision, but make sure you know why you are making the offer, and don't be offended if he declines.

[BaronArtz]

I am not disagreeing with the previous 3 posters. Yet, I think that offering to remedy the situation, in a public forum like this one, shows goodwill and can only help your career. Probably it's a good move, even if the client never takes you up on it.

[+ Chris]

Thank you all for your replies. I am not sure if any of those that reviewed me negatively pay any attention to this message board , But my offer is this . One free hour session with me so I can change your impression of our first encounter. If there are any message board members that feel that the last time they saw me that the session was not upto par then I also offer this to you as well. I have been able to turn the page and would like to provide you with good service with my smile. It is not my intention to make you pull down your review but to let you have a better idea of the type of service i supply. I would ask that you call or write to make an appointment and my offer stands valid for 60 days.

 

 

Chris

[+ glutes]

I take my hat off to you Chris, for trying to remedy the situation - in a genuine way.

Wish other escorts would take the same stance...

[rvwnsd]

Wow...you are a very honorable guy. I think you will do very well.

[Jaker27]

I looked at the review. Yeah, a specific thing (him topping) was asked for initially but chris for whatever reason didn't feel up to it at that time. However, looks like he tried to make the best of the situation anyways. I have those situations happen here and there myself though. It all boils down to chemistry I have with someone. I might feel like doing one thing with the guy but getting in the sack with them and seeing them naked, their taste in furnishings, my mood at the time, or whatever well... things change. The guy also lists himself as obese so maybe the kid didn't feel like getting fucked by a walrus that night.

[CowboyUp]

I am not disagreeing with the previous 3 posters. Yet, I think that offering to remedy the situation, in a public forum like this one, shows goodwill and can only help your career. Probably it's a good move, even if the client never takes you up on it.

 

Hello Chris. I think BaronArtz is spot-on with his advice that a public offering to rectify the situation is good PR, even if the client doesn't re-hire. That said, when I've (rarely) had a bad hiring experience, I have never been interested in re-hiring the same guy and risking disappointment again. It's great of you to offer to make it right, but don't be offended if the client has moved on to other service providers. Consider it a life-learning experience--which we all have from time to time. Wish you the best.

[gregkidman]

Do-over or over-done?

 

Fellas,

I was offered a do-over by Chris. At the time, I just started a new job, moving into a new place, and paying off debts that I incurred while I was out of work. So I emailed him what is the expiration date. He replied that his offer is good for a year. Five months later, I set up an appointment with him via text. Later, I emailed him asking him if his offer still stands. He has rescinded his offer!

I was willing to let it go but I need assurances that the session will be a good one; my past sessions with him were just okay. So I emailed him back that I still wish to go ahead with the session but what has changed or what gotten better since I saw him last. In other words, I asked him to toot his own horn, to promote himself, anything to make me look forward to the session. He emailed me back that he looked over the history of our emails and cancelled the session, questioning my motives.

 

I was aghast.

 

The kicker was that right after he cancelled it, a new photo of himself was put up in daddysreviews which he looked a lot better than his (then) rentboy pictures and that would've been enough for me to see him.

[intensive]

Well.. the major point is when you are charging that much for your services person should dedicate and clear any confusion before going forward.

In case if client is smelly and dirty as per escort's reply. He could have denied service. If he is really worried about hygiene and health, he could have denied service and explain the client about the issue. It seems he wanted to be paid with lousy service and got away with it.

If he has that many clients, he could have let this one go before even started.

I have learnt and walked away in past with fake face and dirty escorts and place around.

Thanks all of you that I learned it from other members here and saved myself.

one more thing, rates are way up for some escorts in this economy as my personal thinking. if you want those rates you should provide service in any business. shouldn't you?

This guy was discussed here before with fake pic. I was thinking to go for him at one point but search button on this site brings you a lot more info.

Thanks all for posting here.

[Jaker27]

So the guy doesn't trust your motives now. Hmm...seems there's more to this then meets the eye here. Be great if Chris weighed in to explain that one. 2 sides to the story and all.

[+ Chris]

Dear Message Board members,

 

I admit to failing , and I did miserably. I stand by my original statement that I will offer anyone who has not had great service to come back again. for free. I only offer 1 hour appointments now and have rectified any past difficulties that impacted my performance. My rates are competitive with other escorts and I allways have offered a clean apartment with all the amenities needed to make your time enjoyable. To my former client GregKidman, I suggest you get in touch with me . i dont like to tout my own horn and have allways been reserved in saying too much for myself. I completely match my pictures and would be happy to meet any message board member for a coffee in a show of good faith. Again I reiterate My sincerest apology to those that may have been a client during a very rough time. That time has passed and been taken care of. I very much look forward to a second chance and possible opportunities to meet other members of this board

 

Chris

[Guest mineallmine]

The guy also lists himself as obese so maybe the kid didn't feel like getting fucked by a walrus that night.

 

Walruses have feelings to...

[Damascene]

Hi Chris,

 

As someone who did hire you during your slump, but did not post a review. Your offer is generous (I am not looking for a free hour). Some will not take you up on it; somewill. Just be careful, as you will be putting a lot of pressure on yourself on these redo's.

 

Those who will hire you will look for you to perhaps go beyond your pre-slump good to make up for it. Some will be look for just pre-slump good. Recognize there maybe some who you will never be able to resatisfy.

 

The best course is to do your best from now on. After all even greater pitchers have their down periods.

[BaronArtz]

Let's not over-dramatize. There are worse things than having a not-so-stellar experience with an escort. Like catching bed bugs, for instance.