What Should Escorts Be Told In Advance Regarding Appearance?

[leigh.bess.toad]

You can never go wrong by just being yourself and being honest about it.

 

Steven -- thanks for that wonderful post. I can see why Epigonos just raves about you. I'm definitely looking forward to making your acquaintance in P.S. As with all the other great escorts I've had the great pleasure of getting to know on this board, you certainly have the knack for getting to what is important: being yourself and helping us clients learn that, in spite of our perceived imperfections, we really are ok. Being comfortable with yourself and who you are is, to me, so critical to everything

 

But of course, a little honest self-appraisal isn't a bad idea either:

 

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See you in Palm Springs

[Guest greatness]

oh my Lee.. Guys don't have to be like a model to be attractive.. I specially like hard working men. I don't know why but whenever I see a guy working hard I find that attractive. You work hard and so passionate about life so I find that attractive too. Have fun in Palm Springs.. Hugs~~~

[sincityboy2010]

I've had some clients that are very eager to share what they look like, send pictures and give descriptions of their imperfections. As an escort, I don't think its really necessary. We're there for you and not use this client/escort relationship as a dating service. The last thing a client should feel is self conscious when they are around us. We're there for you and if an escort isn't comfortable with what the client looks like then they probably shouldn't be escorting.

[leigh.bess.toad]

I've had some clients that are very eager to share what they look like, send pictures and give descriptions of their imperfections. As an escort, I don't think its really necessary. We're there for you and not use this client/escort relationship as a dating service. The last thing a client should feel is self conscious when they are around us. We're there for you and if an escort isn't comfortable with what the client looks like then they probably shouldn't be escorting.

 

Chris -- again great to have you here. Just wondering your perspective on the question of the client letting the escort know about something that actually may have an impact on the session. For example, with me, I have 2 artificial hips which does limit range of motion and prevents me from achieving all the college gymanstic positions we older guys all dream we could get anyway. Would you want to know about something like that because that may affect any planning you might want to do ahead of time.

[jackcali]

As an escort, I don't think its really necessary. . . . if an escort isn't comfortable with what the client looks like then they probably shouldn't be escorting.

 

Chris, this is an ideal we can all hope escorts rise to, and I'm sure it's true with the best escorts, but it isn't always so. I will usually share information about myself even though it's not necessary to give the escort the opportunity to turn down the business if he thinks he can't give his best. It's important to me that the escort LOOKS like he's enjoying his time with me (I'd prefer if he actually enjoys it, but I'll settle for the appearance), and if an escort hesitates or reacts in certain ways to the information, then I know I may not enjoy a session with him.

[devonhunter]

The attitude I take is this: People do not contact me for rejection or judgment. I don't ever ask these questions. If someone wants to tell me, that's fine; however, my job isn't to make someone feel worse for having spent time with me. It's not my business what he looks like or whether he's single or coupled in some way; it isn't my issue if he's married; I don't care if he isn't my personal type. What I care about is whether the person communicates well and consistently, keeps appointments, shows up clean, sticks to what he told me interests him, respects me as a person, and pays the agreed fee. In return I will give him the experience he has contacted me to have, and that doesn't include making him feel vulnerable or abused on some level. Your skin discoloration would be a non-issue to me, personally (and I would like to think any escort/companion/courtesan would say the same - yet another reason to avoid hustlers).