Cell phones should be locked up during overnights

[Guest Eduardo]

A recent overnight was ruined by the escort's room mate texting upsetting, but bogus information about him, that, if true, would have damaged his reputation. The room mate says 'it was just a joke' but would not pick up when my guy called him to determine the truth. Needless to say, my guy was so upset he couldn't get an errection. I'd paid airfare, hotel, meals, entertainment and his overnight fee. All he wanted to do was crawl under the covers and "sleep it off". The room mate texted me the next day saying he didn't know the bogus info would upset him and it was not his intention to ruin the overnight. I'm no shrink, but sounds like the room mate was being very passive/aggressive, maybe out of jealousy ... who knows. Am I wrong to expect cell phone contact to be limited to SERIOUS emergencies? Am I wrong to expect my escort to "put on his big boy briefs" and turn his cell phone off during the visit? Obviously, I didn't get what I paid for. What gives?

[cany10011]

The escort should have practice proper cell phone etiquette whilst on a date and turned the phone off or put it on silent mode. Cell phones are very handy tools but people should realize that the phone does not need to be "on" all the time.

[Steven_Draker]

The escort should have practice proper cell phone etiquette whilst on a date and turned the phone off or put it on silent mode. Cell phones are very handy tools but people should realize that the phone does not need to be "on" all the time.

 

I tend to agree with you: cell phones must be put away. Sometimes a cell phone blow up can be rather disturbing ...

 

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[gp0560]

Why is it that phones always seem to take priority over the people you're with? Did you ever stand in line at a service counter? The phone caller gets priority over the in-the-flesh person every time.

 

As a client, I prefer that the escort turn his phone completely off for the entire meeting, and I insist on it for overnights. For the daytime, if he's not comfortable with turning it off completely, then silent mode is fine, even if it buzzes when he gets a call (assuming he doesn't startle and interrupt whatever pleasure we were having). I think he should not have it on when we're out and about, because of the "caller takes priority" issue. On an overnight or longer, of course he needs private time to attend to business, and I don't begrudge him that. But otherwise, guys, turn it off or you turn me off.

[jgoo]

.... Am I wrong to expect cell phone contact to be limited to SERIOUS emergencies? Am I wrong to expect my escort to "put on his big boy briefs" and turn his cell phone off during the visit? Obviously, I didn't get what I paid for. What gives?

 

No you are definitely not wrong to expect the phones to be off during an appointment. It is poor form by all means and getting out of hand. Of the last four escorts I hired, all of them at some point either answered their phones and/or texts, or checked voice mail during the initial part of our appointment while we were talking and getting to know each other. The question for me is how should a client handle this? Asking them to turn off their cells might cause things to go south and it might be better to tolerate the brief interruption.

[cany10011]

Ask them politely...

 

No you are definitely not wrong to expect the phones to be off during an appointment. It is poor form by all means and getting out of hand. Of the last four escorts I hired, all of them at some point either answered their phones and/or texts, or checked voice mail during the initial part of our appointment while we were talking and getting to know each other. The question for me is how should a client handle this? Asking them to turn off their cells might cause things to go south and it might be better to tolerate the brief interruption.

 

 

 

if they are expecting an important call or if they'd rather take the call and reschedule for another time they are less busy or interruptible... it usually works with friends and escorts alike...

[gp0560]

The question for me is how should a client handle this? Asking them to turn off their cells might cause things to go south and it might be better to tolerate the brief interruption.

 

Ask him to turn it off, by all means. It's his time you're paying for, and if he doesn't give you his time, then theoretically, you would be entitled to dock him proportionately.

 

Please note I said "theoretically"! If someone here had the balls to do this in real life, please tell us your story.

[orbital sander]

IF a cell phone got in the way of the "time" I was paying for, then the time would be over...end of story. People are so rude with cell phones these days, it is unbelievable!!

[gp0560]

IF a cell phone got in the way of the "time" I was paying for, then the time would be over...end of story.

 

Better solution, I agree. Although it might be fun to dicker first. That is, dick around with his mind, if he's not belligerent, then let him go.

[Bart]

I personally think on an overnight or longer appt it is more difficult to restrict the usage of the phone to none.

 

That said I had not usually made a big deal of the gentleman I am with glancing at his phone, what annoys me more is the ridulous ring tones. I am going to start asking that they put the phone to vibrate and if I am just doing a 2-3 hour meeting unless their is a pending emergency I am going to request that they turn it off completely.

 

The last guy I was with was a regular hire, probably wont be any longer, he does not know it yet but several issues arose including his phone going off every 10 min with the very annoying ring tone. So I am going to request the phone be dead from here on in for those appts that are 3 hours or less for the longer appts usage when I am not around or at least just to vibrate. It really has become very disturbing trend.

[migueldeltoro]

I'm really surprised that escorts do this. I always set my phone to vibrate or off in an appointment. The only exception I have is if I do an overnight with a new client. Then I will discreetly text my safety person once or twice throughout the night just to say I am ok.

[AdamATL77]

OMG! Why does it seem no one know good cellphone etiquette? I always put my cellphone somewhere it will be muffled (on vibrate) during a short appt. On overnights and weekends, I only check it as we enter or leave somewhere or the client is busy getting ready/dressed. My other problem with this scenario is the escort's reaction. I've had my bf tell me my dog is at the vet on an IV by text and voicemail; the client never knew or saw any indication I was distressed about it until the end of our weekend. If an escort doesn't know how to keep focus on his client, he needs to strike the word professional out of every ad he has.

 

Bart: I'm embarrassed for your regular hire. I apologize if my cellphone rings once because it should be on vibrate, silent for performances and shows, and off for air travel, CNN Center, and such places.

[AdamATL77]

I'm really surprised that escorts do this. I always set my phone to vibrate or off in an appointment. The only exception I have is if I do an overnight with a new client. Then I will discreetly text my safety person once or twice throughout the night just to say I am ok.

 

I've found most people are understanding of this. I always think of the first episode of Secret Diary of a Call Girl when I check in. :-)

[Guest greatness]

Sorry that happened to you. Most good escorts turn off their cell phone off. It was unprofessional of him to let his cell phone ringing.

[leigh.bess.toad]

Am I the only client here who thinks it would be good idea to let the escort know he should check in with his safety person as soon as he arrives, especially if you are new client he has never met before? Maybe if it's an overnight checking in one or two more times also is not an unreasonable request. The calls should be excessively short "I'm here, I'm OK, this is the hottest client who ever existed (if it's me and the escort is as high as a kite ). To me, that just seems like common etiquette that should prevail and would certainly seem to establish a certain modicum of trust. Or am I crazy? (well I know I'm crazy, so don't answer that part -- puhleeze ...)

[orbital sander]

Am I the only client here who thinks it would be good idea to let the escort know he should check in with his safety person as soon as he arrives, especially if you are new client he has never met before? Maybe if it's an overnight checking in one or two more times also is not an unreasonable request. The calls should be excessively short "I'm here, I'm OK, this is the hottest client who ever existed (if it's me and the escort is as high as a kite ). To me, that just seems like common etiquette that should prevail and would certainly seem to establish a certain modicum of trust. Or am I crazy? (well I know I'm crazy, so don't answer that part -- puhleeze ...)

 

You are correct. If the person I was with did otherwise, they would be asked to leave and get only a portion of the fee for the time that they provided (and would never get a repeat). This is not crazy at all, it is called professionalism and common courtesy. Just because people can have phones almost anywhere on the planet these days does not mean that they should expect the word to wait for them to take calls or texts. I have had employees who think that it is OK to take personal cell phone calls or text during the working day as well...they curiously seem to always end up working somewhere else. The mobile phone is a great device, and helps our people with selling and purchasing services quickly and efficiently, but private communications should only happen on private time (medical / family emergencies excluded).

[Diverdan]

Fortunately for me, all the guys I have been with have turned off their cell phones or blackberrys shortly after I arrived, or they arrived. In every case they made a point to tell me they were turning it off, and I told them I appreciated that they did that. For overnights, or an extended evening, I really don't mind if they take a moment to check their voice mail or texts, but I guess I have been really lucky, because they have always asked me if it was ok. I appreciate the comments on this thread, as it will reinforce my attitude that when I am paying for their time, I expect their undivided attention. The same holds true for my attorney, my Doctor or any other professional whose time and expertise I am purchasing. I wonder how the companion would feel if we arranged to have friends call us during the appointment..."please excuse me, but hold that pose, while I take this call" Something to think about.......

[Epigonos]

For appointments of two or three hours I expect an escort's telephone to be TURNED OFF. For me at least overnights and extended appointments are an entirely different. I travel as much as a week with escorts and I include separate time for us both each day. Frankly I need time to myself as much as he does. I have telephone calls to make and I'm sure he does also. Some escorts also require an hour or more each day to spend at a gym. As in all aspects of human relationships COMMUNICATION is the key. Talk to the guy before you spend time together and let him know exactly what you expect.

[dane michaels]

This is the Newbie speaking. I am still so new to this, but I do want to express a little as to this topic. When I am engauged in an over night, I call a trusted friend with info such as: Address, city, and state. After that I am at my clients beck and call. I am not out to take trust fund money, nor dent anyones account and I have found my rates to be fair, so, when I am with that client, he will get the time he's paid for from me, no questions asked.

 

I pride myself on not being a clock watcher and giving all of my attention to my client, so I do totally agree that in this situation the escort was completely out of line in the time he spent clearly with his electronic ball and chain. Not provinding services that I am sure were clearly out lined..... 100% inappropriate. If you are hired for a job, you do it, and to the very best of your ability. And this is no different.

 

I may be wrong in this, if I am just let me know. If you are working with a client greater than a day, you need to still keep your business running and could request time on both parties to go about each others business for a few short hours a day e.g. Going to the gym, catching up on emails ect.. But like I said before, this was not the case and I feel clearly Eduardo, you were not treated fairly. We live in an electronic age, but we dont have to be completely attached to our devices

[orbital sander]

HI Dane,

 

It is great to have you here. I would agree that in longer appointments a break is warranted for both. It should be then when the calls are made!

[Guest loboguy]

How the escort observes cell phone etiquette, and responds to voice and text message content speaks volumes about his level of maturity, degree of professionalism and commitment to his client's feelings and needs. I've been fortunate; most of the guys I've seen would have never have behaved that way. Better luck next time.

[leigh.bess.toad]

This is the Newbie speaking. I am still so new to this, but I do want to express a little as to this topic. When I am engauged in an over night, I call a trusted friend with info such as: Address, city, and state. After that I am at my clients beck and call. I am not out to take trust fund money, nor dent anyones account and I have found my rates to be fair, so, when I am with that client, he will get the time he's paid for from me, no questions asked.

 

I pride myself on not being a clock watcher and giving all of my attention to my client, so I do totally agree that in this situation the escort was completely out of line in the time he spent clearly with his electronic ball and chain. Not provinding services that I am sure were clearly out lined..... 100% inappropriate. If you are hired for a job, you do it, and to the very best of your ability. And this is no different.

 

I may be wrong in this, if I am just let me know. If you are working with a client greater than a day, you need to still keep your business running and could request time on both parties to go about each others business for a few short hours a day e.g. Going to the gym, catching up on emails ect.. But like I said before, this was not the case and I feel clearly Eduardo, you were not treated fairly. We live in an electronic age, but we dont have to be completely attached to our devices

 

Dane -- you are not wrong at all. And you may be a newbie but you'd never know it from the intelligence of your answer. Your answer was so well thought out, you couldn't possibly be going to any of those lousy schools in the triangle area are you :? (sorry, U of Md. grad here, and surrounded by Cavaliers and Hokies -- couldn't resist).

 

I must also say a very appealing look and great reviews to boot. When I get some time, I may very well take a run down to Raleigh for a visit. I'll be in touch.

 

And as O.S. said, it's great to have you here, in spite of the obviously deficient post-secondary education you'll receive at those roach motels known as UNC, NCST, Duke or Wake (sorry, just couldn't resist one more time).

 

Come back often. All the best

[dane michaels]

Thank you Knight. Ill look forward to, at some point in time meeting you.

[AdamATL77]

I wonder how the companion would feel if we arranged to have friends call us during the appointment..."please excuse me, but hold that pose, while I take this call" Something to think about.......

 

Actually, I've had some clients do that to me. Client: "Stay right there..." I'm on my knees with my mouth full trying to not to make any slurpy noises...

[+ Tygerscent]

Sorry to hear about that. Gee... I thought turning yer phone off was a given~ I turn mine off just after calling to say I have arrived. It stays off until we have left each others company. Piss off those guys who are wondering why I have not called for the last day or two but, hell... I'm these guys re not paying for me to check my email and text messages. You do that sort of thing once you are on your own time, at home and settled in.

On one or two occasions, a Client has graciously offered that I could check emails/phone messages if I wanted but... it just feels awkward and wrong to me~

One time I DID have my phone on. I have two phones. One is my Family phone and one is my work phone. I had some Family things going on and I asked if it would be okay for me to keep my Family phone on just in case of an emergency. Every once in awhile I would turn it on and check to see if anyone called. Everything went smoothly though and no calls~

I've had Clients take calls for work and things. That makes sense though. it's totally fine.

 

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A recent overnight was ruined by the escort's room mate texting upsetting, but bogus information about him, that, if true, would have damaged his reputation. The room mate says 'it was just a joke' but would not pick up when my guy called him to determine the truth. Needless to say, my guy was so upset he couldn't get an errection. I'd paid airfare, hotel, meals, entertainment and his overnight fee. All he wanted to do was crawl under the covers and "sleep it off". The room mate texted me the next day saying he didn't know the bogus info would upset him and it was not his intention to ruin the overnight. I'm no shrink, but sounds like the room mate was being very passive/aggressive, maybe out of jealousy ... who knows. Am I wrong to expect cell phone contact to be limited to SERIOUS emergencies? Am I wrong to expect my escort to "put on his big boy briefs" and turn his cell phone off during the visit? Obviously, I didn't get what I paid for. What gives?