What is the typical "day", "overnight" and "weekend" time period w/an escort

[Guest m2madventures]

I am new to using escorts. The one hour rates posted are obvious enough as far as how much time you will be spending with the escort. But what about "day", "overnight" and "weekend" timeframes I see on such sites as rentboy? I know it can and will differ from escort to escort but I am just looking for some 'general' guidelines or practices as to how much time you can generally expect to spend. Thanks

[Kevin Slater]

Good question. It's best to clarify with the escort you have in mind. It may depend on whether dinner and a show are involved (for an overnight) or travel is involved (for a weekend). My inclination is that a day is roughly 24 hours, an overnight eight or ten or twelve hours, and a weekend perhaps Friday evening to Sunday evening? Whereas I highly discourage quibbling over an hourly rate, these longer term arrangements do invite an element of negotiation.

 

Kevin Slater

[Kevin Slater]

Welcome to the board, by the way.

 

Kevin Slater

[Guest m2madventures]

Welcome to the board, by the way.

 

Kevin Slater

 

Thanks Kevin for the welcome and the info. Thanks for sharing your website too; I've already checked it out. Nice! You definitely appear to be one of the sites and experiences I would need to take in on a trip to NY

[+ peterhung85]

Hello m2madventures,

 

I would like to welcome you here as well. I have to agree with Kevin (and you were not wrong about him, he is a great guy), you usually have to contact the escort and tell him what you are looking for exactly when it comes to a day or weekend agreement. Many clients of mine prefer an overnight/day/weekend arrangements as we can explore each other both in and out of bed and it is always better to walk in to a restaurant or club with a hot guy then to be by yourself. If you have any other specific question, please do not hesitate to post it!

[scottspearsxxx]

My day rate or overnight rate is for a period of 8 hours, weekend rate is for Friday at 6pm to Sunday at 6pm or in other words 48 hours. I give discounts for multiple hours and for regular clients as well. It is probably best to ask the escort you want to see. I have ads at Rentboy.com, Rentmen.com, M4RN.com, and looking4men.com and all are a little different in how they handle rates and times.

[Guest m2madventures]

Thanks Peter; I appreciate the input!

[Guest m2madventures]

Scot, thank you for passing on the timeframes you use; much appreciated!

[+ peterhung85]

Thanks Peter; I appreciate the input!

 

My pleasure. It appears that different escorts have different time frames that they set for each encounter. With me, an overnight arrangement starts whenever the client wishes and goes on for 10-12 hours (had clients who I stayed with even longer than that). Day arrangement is obviously 24 hours with me as well. For weekend arrangements it varies but pretty much 2.5 days to 3 days. Hope this helps

[Guest Merlin]

I also think you need to clarify what you expect. If you expect sex once in an overnight, that is one thing. Twice is probably a given. More than than needs to be discussed.

[Guest Spanky]

I also think you need to clarify what you expect. If you expect sex once in an overnight, that is one thing. Twice is probably a given. More than than needs to be discussed.

 

I think that's an excellent point. One the one hand, I get a smoking hot guy in my bed for ten hours and the last thing I want to do is sleep. On the other hand, escorts are people too (SHOCKING!), with feelings, needs, and the same physicological requirements that even we regular joes have. Ultimately, I want to treat them with the same level of respect and courtsey I do to any other person (except maybe Sarah Palin and any member of the NY Yankees). But damn, I want to go all night too.

 

There was a thread a while back. Something like - why are overnights so overpriced? The premise was - you only mess around for a couple hours, then sleep, then maybe some play in the morning. Some people felt like paying upwards of a grand for this was unreasonable. Some thought it was about right. Others (like me) thought - WTF? It's a total bargain with all the economies of scale to be had. In most cases the effective rate drops by half!

 

So, to put a caboose on this train of thought let me ask the (few) escorts that post here. Are there any general standards for the play/sleep ration in an overnight? What's the best way for the client to handle this? Just like anything - bring up the subject and just have a mature conversation about it to set expectations.

 

Thanks guys

[+ peterhung85]

Dear Merlin2!

 

I also think you need to clarify what you expect. If you expect sex once in an overnight, that is one thing. Twice is probably a given. More than than needs to be discussed.

 

Dear Merlin2,

 

I have to say that it is not a factor for me. If that is your fantasy to have sex with me 6times during an overnight session, then be it... If you prefer to do it once, then we do it once... Customer satisfaction is my priority and I would do anything (well, as long as it is safe) to please my partner. The common amount of sexual encounter for an overnighter is indeed 2 times but keep in mind that not everybody is the same!

[+ peterhung85]

I think that's an excellent point. One the one hand, I get a smoking hot guy in my bed for ten hours and the last thing I want to do is sleep. On the other hand, escorts are people too (SHOCKING!), with feelings, needs, and the same physicological requirements that even we regular joes have. Ultimately, I want to treat them with the same level of respect and courtsey I do to any other person (except maybe Sarah Palin and any member of the NY Yankees). But damn, I want to go all night too.

 

There was a thread a while back. Something like - why are overnights so overpriced? The premise was - you only mess around for a couple hours, then sleep, then maybe some play in the morning. Some people felt like paying upwards of a grand for this was unreasonable. Some thought it was about right. Others (like me) thought - WTF? It's a total bargain with all the economies of scale to be had. In most cases the effective rate drops by half!

 

So, to put a caboose on this train of thought let me ask the (few) escorts that post here. Are there any general standards for the play/sleep ration in an overnight? What's the best way for the client to handle this? Just like anything - bring up the subject and just have a mature conversation about it to set expectations.

 

Thanks guys

 

Hello SPanky,

 

Of course it is always the best to contact the escort you prefer to spend the night with in advance so there will be no surprises later on. I would also advise you to choose somebody who has reviews from overnight clients... One escort might be good for an hour but might not be the person who you are looking for for the entire night... The thing you mentioned about price is interesting and you certainly have a point. That is why I am giving discounts for overnight clients for $799... I think that is a reasonable amount to spend 12 hours with an escort...

If you have any questions please feel free to ask!

HUGS!

[+ Tygerscent]

Oh damn... not sure what I did here. I wrote a response back and don;t see it up on the board. Did you get it? Tyger~!

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[+ Tygerscent]

Don't think my first response made it thru... So, recapping... Everyone seems to have a unique structure to their payment and definition for extended time and even general time spent together.

I have a session rate and not an hourly rate. I like a relaxed time where the clock is not a big factor. My session is around 2 to 2.5 hours at a single rate of $350. My overnight is between 14 and 16 hours and is $850. My daily rate is $1,200 and is 24 hours. My Weekend and week long rates vary depending on the circumstances. ie. Am I traveling ahead and are there transportation, hotel, food expenses I accrue while waiting for my Client to arrive? Is it someplace really extravagant? Is the trip more then one week? Do we see each other once or is he a regular? Am I there to take care of him for a week because he is just out of surgery? (Yes... that is a real situation). Are there camping/hiking/special travel gear or new clothing expenses specific for the trip or vaccinations needed to travel to someplace overseas? Am I buying $1,000 worth of toys and bondage gear ahead of time for this particular Client specifically and leaving it with him at the end?

I generally cut deals for regular Clients.

Communication about the playtime and social/out of bed adventure time expectations/considerations is important and negotiating or agreeing on the rate together and in some written form is a good idea. Phone agreement can lead to confusion if plans, rates and expectations are made clear far in advance and some of the details are forgotten. Sometimes I am a companion with a Client in social/business situations that might be or not be "playful"... that can be a factor.

Some Clients like or require time apart on a trip. Sometimes we are together 24/7. If another or multiple Escorts are involved and I am supplying play things/lube etc, that's a factor. Some Clients like to play 24 hours a day. Most like some break time and have some sense of what is going on in between play. It's good to sort of distinguish when that playtime is... ie. you like to play first thing in the morning at 5am and he's an evening person from the west coast while you are from the east coast or something like that. That can be a concern if it's not established ahead of time. If you have things you want to explore, communicate them ahead of time so he/you can prepare. Consider and discuss playtime, relaxation time, shit shower and shaving time, (some people like or need prep time depending on their situation... bttming, toys, fisting, etc...), time at theater or dinner or adventuring around someplace and where. That way you can both be prepared with proper gear and clothing etc... I've found myself at weddings, Bar Mitzvahs, hospitals, spelunking, wine tastings, climbing ruins and down in Cenotes and more. It's good to be prepared.

P.S. be sure to discuss method of payment. ie. Most of payment in cash and then the rest in gift cards is definitely a thing to discuss before hand. Believe me, it's happened. Is pay Pal an option? Checks? Money Orders? Is foreign cash involved?

Hope this is helpful...

Tyger~!

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tygerkink@yahoo.com

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