Party Hats & Lube..Who's Responsible for providing !

[JT Brooklyn]

I don't remember seeing this Question asked since the HOOBOY Days...

 

But since it was mentioned in a Review Today I thought I might get others Opinions?

 

My guess it is.. The Responsibility of The Working Guy to be included in his "Cost of Business" Exspences..

 

Or will we hear..IF the Client wants to GET LAID..He supplies the Party Hat & Lube!

[wayout]

As there is a wide variety of types and brands of condoms that the top may prefer for one reason or another, I think whoever is topping should bring the supplies (assuming those roles have been defined ahead of time). My preference, when I top, is to use non lubed condoms and to use my own preferred brand of lube. If I supplied condoms to the escort, considering the size of some guys I meet, I know they definitely would be disappointed with me supplying anything less than Magnum XL.

 

While ideally both (or all if more than two) should carry protection, it is amazing how many times it has happened to me that the escort did not bring anything. So now I always address the question of who will bring the supplies in our correspondence ahead of time. However, to avoid any confusion on who was to bring the supplies or absent mindedness (i.e. it was somehow left at home or in the car), I always take the precaution and have some "backup" lube and condoms on hand regardless of what was agreed upon.

[Guest Spanky]

...considering the size of some guys I meet, I know they definitely would be disappointed with me supplying anything less than Magnum XL.

 

Lucky Bastard

[instudiocity]

snip...snip[/size][/font] ...If I supplied condoms to the escort, considering the size of some guys I meet, I know they definitely would be disappointed with me supplying anything less than Magnum XL.

Sparky, I was seriously thinking, [/font]

"SIZE QUEEN!"

PS. In this fringe business, I don't believe the IRS would allow tax-deductions for business expenses including condoms, lube, tit clips, and dildos. But it does give a whole new picture to the term, Office Supplies.

[+ deej]

If you expect to have protected sex then it is your personal responsibility to ensure that protection is available. It is unreasonable to abdicate your personal responsibility.

 

If he has/brings a preferred brand, great. But if you're expecting condoms to be used then you should at least be prepared to make sure they are and that includes providing them.

[Steven_Draker]

This question comes up from time to time in the Forum. Some think that the escort should bring

the condoms, others say that the one hosting is responsible.

 

I think that BOTH PARTIES are responsible for bringing/providing protection to assure a hot steamy and safe session.

[Mark Alexander]

why play rubber-roulette

 

I bring both as I have a favorite brand of each.

 

An overly tight condom can be miserable. It's like being squeezed into a sausage casing.

 

Why play rubber-roulette when I can just bring the right ones?

[rvwnsd]

If you expect to have protected sex then it is your personal responsibility to ensure that protection is available. It is unreasonable to abdicate your personal responsibility...

 

...I think that BOTH PARTIES are responsible for bringing/providing protection to assure a hot steamy

and protected session.

 

Two excellent answers. As a bottom who practices safer sex, I ALWAYS have condoms and lube, regardless who is hosting. I agree that an escort should have them on hand, but we are all adults and adults take responsibility for themselves.