Why I hire David.... Part II.... or Lucky Number 4.... Not.

[Okliehomo]

Attempt #3 to post this fucker:

 

So, I am going to write this in parts..

 

"The Hunt"

 

I have been laying rather low the past year. No one or rather no combination of ones was really lighting me up. Thought maybe I really was done this time..... Then I saw a review of Louis/NYC ... and checked out his ad.. "Gorgeous model... loves to fuck and get fucked.." and the review backed it up. So, what's not to like, right? Then I remembered LA Guy who is also very well reviewed and a bodybuilder and has a very hot face... maybe, not so done??

 

So, I emailed them both and David, of course and described the whole drill (as in, getting drilled by David) and they were all good... even with the filming.... Then, I remembered a certain Porn Star that I have been after for a while now and thought, "What the fuck??? He's a top and has a sexy, sexy ass, why not?" And, also, we had talked before and he was more than willing to make the trip.... even offered to come a day early or stay a day longer and pay for his own lodging to do so, if the airfare would be cheaper for me.. What??? NOBODY has ever even hinted at that... (well, to be fair... Tyger did something more generous than even that and David also tried to..) And this would be 4... count 'em, 4... a first for me.... I have been accused by some (David)of being greedy and I think in this particular case, I have plead guilty as charged, but since I am the one getting charged, where's the crime?

 

So, I emailed him and he is all in. Well, I emailed him and after a week or so, he is all in... This point of clarification becomes important later....I buy the tickets, 3 of them on June 25 for a visit on July 25... and the Porn Star's on July 2.... real names, birth dates, confirmation numbers, itineraries, credit card charges. All set, right????

 

What could possibly go wrong?

 

Okie

[Okliehomo]

Why I hire David.... Part II ....continued...

 

Well, that seemed to work... it actually posted, praise Jesus.... and my real plan is that by doing this in parts, I can be a Queen around here in no time... (and let it be known that standing out among you queens, well.... daunting, to say the least)... but I digress...

 

"The Waiting is the Hardest Part"

 

That's because you have to stay in contact, lest some of your guests.... ummmmm.... drift. My theory is that these "drifters" must assume that these tickets are purchased with frequent flier miles and therefore are not real $$$. But speaking as a shut in and an in state rimmer, with me, that just ain't the case.

 

Three weeks out, I touch base with the newbies to Oklahoma and just ask if things are all still good:

 

Louis, "All good, can't wait.."

LA Guy, " All good, July 11, right?" Deep sigh. Reply back, "Nope, July 25." Get back in minutes from his Blackberry, "Cool."

Porn Star... no reply... (hmmmmm?)

 

Two weeks out, I email the newbies again and ask a couple of questions:

 

"How do you feel about spanking? Give or get? Hand or belt?" and "Can you cum when you are fucking with a condom?"... (because that last one is a real rarity in my experience and still a goal... )

 

Louis replies, "Likes the spanking... can get lightly.... and yes to cumming in a condom."

LA Guy replies, "Can give a good spank... no to cumming, more of a bottom... did you buy the ticket yet?" Seriously??? Mind you, he's replying to an email titled, "HIS REAL NAME Ticket Confirmation" and when one scrolls down, it actually lists the flight times etc... huh? I reply, " Sure did, please see the attached itinerary and confirmation." He replies, again from his phone, "Oops.." Thank you, Miss Spears.

Porn Star, no reply.... yet again. Now, to be fair, he had always been hit and miss with emails... and when he did get in touch, he was really spot on, and into it and down to earth and nice and said that he really wanted to get "in the mix" in Oklahoma... like he appreciated me including him. (Unlike so many that make you feel like they are doing you the favor by letting you pay them.... ) He wasn't one of them.... but still no word.

 

One week out, I touch base with them all, even David. I give the newbies the rest of the details and my cell phone number and tell them all no need to call unless there is a problem with their flights, BUT that they can feel free to call if they just want to put a voice to the visit. I tell David that one week from tonight, he'll be knees to ears and that he'll be clinching and squirming and then fucking, fucking, fucking.... and maybe a little spanking, too.

 

Louis, "All good, looking so forward to your party.."

LA Guy, no reply.

Porn Star, no reply.

David, "Like always, lover, like always..."

 

Wednesday before to the no reply guys, I email again, and ask if everything is still cool for Sunday and to please get in touch:

 

LA Guy, "Been in the mountains, no cell phone.... see you Sunday.... 8:18 flight!!"

Porn Star, no reply.

 

What to think?

 

Okie

[Okliehomo]

Why I hire David.... Part II ....continued... again...

 

Continued success in posting this....

 

So, late Saturday night, I get an email from LA Guy:

 

"Can you send me your cell phone number?"..... Deeper sigh. I reply back, "Sure, here it is.... but you have had it for over a week.... scroll down....." Not even a "Cool" or an "Oops" this time.

 

"Day of Arrival"...... and a bit of a mystery.

 

At 8:30, Louis texts that it is all good and he is about to board in NY.

At 2:00, David texts from Chicago that he is boarding and that he sees Louis (gorgeous model etc) but that there is no sign of Porn Star (who I very cleverly booked on the same connecting flight at a significantly higher price just so that I could selfishly and greedily keep track of all their hot asses...) unless David says, "U have booked a giant country boy or a hearing impaired red head...."

At 2:20, David texts, "Not kidding. Doors closed."

 

(Now, I have booked giant country boys before.... Andrew Justice.... that kid was GIANT and he was tall, too... but never a redhead... (Alan Ladd is strawberry blonde!!!!... all over..) I leave that particular preference to Juan along with his freckles fetish... many thanks, no..)

 

So, at the airport, any guesses who shows up???

 

David and Louis.... (a lot more about that later in review form)....

 

Really didn't expect Porn Star. And yes, I could have picked up the phone at some point but that's not my way of doing this and ok, obviously, there is a chance I take and I price I pay for that.... but you know, Alencar was worse than him about it all and yet, there he was, so many years ago, just strutting that big muscle ass and swinging that horse dick and smiling that smile and saying, "See... I here... no worry"... so, I thought, "Maybe, he'll show??"... be a man of his word.... like, I told you that I would be there..... but that didn't happen.

 

And as for LA Guy.... went to the United counter and asked about him. No show. Didn't board at LAX.

 

Headed for the hotel and had a great time with David and Louis....

 

Okie

[Okliehomo]

And yet again.....

 

"Aftermath"

 

So, I get home after filming some hot sex and actually rising to the occasion myself more times that I have since cancer and the camera.... feeling pretty damned good about the whole thing... except still curious about what exactly went wrong? What exactly should I have done differently to have made it all work out like I wanted it to?? That voice in my head that wants to make it all my fault?

 

So, I email LA Guy and ask, "What happened?" He replies back, "Dude, seriously, I dragged my ass to LAX at 5 am and there was NO ticket!!".... No ticket???? He swears that he scanned his ID and credit card and nothing. My travel agent swears that the ticket was good up until the point that he didn't board and my credit card company seems to have the same opinion since there is a $587. 00 charge on my bill.... so, what happened? Did he give me the wrong name? Oops? And if so, couldn't he have checked that during the month that he had the ticket? Oh.... guess not.... since he didn't know he even had the damned ticket most of the time.... Oops, once again. Guess guys like him should use an agent... oh, that's maybe why he does....

 

And even odder with Porn Star..... he emails me the next Friday and apologizes for not "keeping in better touch" but that he had called my travel agent to get my cell phone number (which he already had..... had he checked his email!!) three days prior to his visit. He was trying to cancel the ticket and to call and let me know, but she told him that the ticket was already cancelled ..... as of, July 5.... three days after I booked it.... so, I think he assumed that I changed my mind and that is why he didn't bother to let me know he wasn't coming out here. Still not sure what happened with that $687. ticket....... but I know for sure that I DID NOT cancel it... and that he didn't..... and that there was some confusion at the agency when I booked it... Crazy, huh?

 

For the record, I am just sharing here.... not bitching or lamenting anything. I got 2 out of 4 and it was pretty damned good ..... but it does bother me that LA Guy thinks I flaked on him when I didn't.... however, things are looking up for me and Porn Star...... may get to use that ticket, after all..... with David and AJ Irons in October..... and Kristian....?? My, my..... that would be 4, wouldn't it??

 

Time will, undoubtedly, tell....

 

And, in closing, that's why I hire David......

 

Okie

[Lewis H]

Man, what a saga. You certainly keep your cool about it. I'd be pissed off big time. Glad you got to have fun with David and Louis!

[Diverdan]

Thanks for sharing the saga. I am going to try for 3 in a few weeks, but I am not sure my heart or other features could handle 4. I hope you can get some money back after all your hard work. I am sure that David and Louis made up for the other two, however... LOL

[lrbigdicktaker]

So, I email LA Guy and ask, "What happened?" He replies back, "Dude, seriously, I dragged my ass to LAX at 5 am and there was NO ticket!!".... No ticket???? He swears that he scanned his ID and credit card and nothing. My travel agent swears that the ticket was good up until the point that he didn't board and my credit card company seems to have the same opinion since there is a $587. 00 charge on my bill.... so, what happened? Did he give me the wrong name? Oops? And if so, couldn't he have checked that during the month that he had the ticket? Oh.... guess not.... since he didn't know he even had the damned ticket most of the time.... Oops, once again. Guess guys like him should use an agent... oh, that's maybe why he does....

 

I had the same thing happen with Will Carter (WC). Seems to be a convenient excuse!

[Racketjock]

Okie, you continue to inspire me with your creativity, stamina, and prose. Your words speak consistently to why you hire David, and to the classy guy that he is (and that I haven't met, need to work to change that....). Thanks for sharing your journey. The LA and Porn Star missed out on a grand time in OK with their gentleman host!

[raulgmanzo]

Really didn't expect Porn Star. And yes, I could have picked up the phone at some point but that's not my way of doing this and ok, obviously, there is a chance I take and I price I pay for that....

 

Hey if you really enjoy all that hassle then I guess no price is too high.

But it seems obvious to me why folks might begin to take you for granted.

Even if you have money to burn there must be better more exciting ways to get your dose of travel drama.

 

You act as though people following through with plans and commitments is something special when it ought to be routine.

If you asked someone to travel someplace difficult or pay their own way or there was inclement weather then yeah might be impressive that two out 4 showed up.

But OKC? Come on not that difficult. Ain't like were talking flying to Jomsom and trekking to Muktinath or even make ones own way to the LaQuinta at 6th and Windsor.

 

You deserve better,

Shit, there are plenty of good looking sexy guys who would probably walk to OKC to meet with you.

[JT Brooklyn]

Okie..These are the reasons why the visits from our "Mutual Friend in Chicago" since Retired .. were also very memorable on the Great side ..along with that Gorgeous Muscle Butt was a guy who always came through on his visits!

 

I'm sure IF he was still "Working It" you would have him visit again!

 

The main thing is your Health is Great!

[Okliehomo]

Taken for granted.... really?

 

The whole reason that I even shared this experience was it was SO out of the ordinary.... in all the years that I have been doing this, I have NEVER had a no show and to get two at the same time, well. I thought that was worth mentioning.

 

It has been "routine" with 99% of the men that have paid me a visit. And to be clear, I said clearly that I was not bitching or moaning about any of it. Porn Star has been in contact and we have rescheduled his trip. Sincerely think that was an agent error in the cancellation of his ticket. LA Guy... well...I could tell during the hunt that he was out of his element, so maybe I share responsibility for the outcome. I mean, I had doubts all along and still did it. What does bother me is that he thinks I am the flake and didn't hold up my end of the deal... but since I know that I bought his pretty but very challenged ass a ticket, I guess, it's not my fault that he either gave me the wrong name, or couldn't figure out how to board a plane. Either way, no worries. My buddy in Georgia tells me that I didn't miss much......

 

Another reason that I posted this, is that even, after all this time, it is fascinating to me to see how differently all these guys conduct their business. All these guys made the same choice to get into this line of work but from a thousand different points of view. Yeah, of course, money was the common denominator, but what lead them here and how they run their business, they all have unique perspectives.

 

As to deserving better.... I appreciate your thinking that. But truth be told, it's all been pretty damned good.

 

As to money to burn... no, not really. But if I choose to roll the dice on a risky,new boy from time to time, that's really up to just me..... well...

 

And, of course, David.

 

Okie

[best hotel]

Hi Okie....nice to see you back at hiring and feeling well

[+ tristanbaldwin]

After urging from a fan/friend that I've made years ago in this industry, I finally created an account on this forum; and will be doing so on MuscleService.com as well- to reply to any or all negative comments that may be out there. I am a strong believer in Karma- that's the way I live my life. Not for nothing; it hasn't done too bad for me so far.

 

As far as 'Okliehomo' goes, and this entire flaming against me- I respect the fact that for more than a year, he protected my identity and didn't slander me one bit. However, seeing as how THAT changed, I'm going to speak my mind- and if anyone gets caught in the crossfire, then that's just collateral damage.

 

You(Okliehomo) propositioned me a while back, to come out there and work with ONE guy, for a live sex show that would be videotaped for PRIVATE USE by you only. In the real world, that is the 'Prospectus of Work'. When the terms of that arrangement aren't met- why in God's Green Earth would someone want to fly out there and shoot with you?

 

What terms of that work aren't being met, might you ask? Might it be because the tapes AREN'T for private use- that they're being SOLD and released on the internet to people you have a following with? (Don't deny this is the case, because I have a client I see constantly who is friends with you, that has one that he showed me). Also, the terms of the arrangement were for a 1 on 1- not for a threesome, or in this case- a foursome! You just keep on adding other escorts/pornstars who REFUSE TO TAKE AIM TESTS and that's why they either don't work in the adult industry or they work for companies that don't require testing...that's why I was eager to work when it was just AJ Irons, who plays safe, takes tests, and is trustworthy.

 

You wonder why I got weirded out by this arrangement? Because you lied to my face about the tapings and where/how the tapes would be used. The rate you offered was competitive, I'll be the first to say that, for overnights, and playing with hot guys isn't a bad incentive too . But- it's not about the money here- if I was money hungry, I would have taken the money from you just as I would have from a studio, since it's roughly the same amount. The difference is- the studio didn't intentionally lie to my face about the usage of the tapes and attempt to pull the wool over my eyes...and the studio requires testing.

 

Again- I will respond VEHEMENTLY to every flame you throw anywhere against me. Drop it, and let this be the end of it. I've got a damned good reputation in this industry- and the clients I have, I take REMARKABLE care of. One of my clients passed away from old age- and I flew out of pocket on my own dime to his funeral- and 'lived the lie' as a friend of his, to pay my respects to his family and keep the secret...because I am believer in karma in this world or the next.

[orbital sander]

Gosh Rip Van Winkle...

 

Nice to have your contributions here at the forum. It is great to have another "defender" of the truth here to "set" the record straight...:confused:

[leigh.bess.toad]

Tristan -- I will not get in the line of fire between you and Okie, but I did want to welcome you to the forum. I think it is always great when escorts join so we can get their perspective on things. Learning from my escorts makes me a better client and a better partner in real life. So welcome to the forum Tristan. Glad you are here.

[Bosguy]

Welcome to the Forum Tristan! It is nice to have new people join this group of gentlemen so that we can all learn and grow through the diversity of our interests, backgrounds, and experiences. Like all groups of individuals, there are myriad opinions that arise constantly and disagreements are a part of this setting, but the outcome of knowledge far exceeds any negativity which does occur.

 

It is also great to see another New Englander on the team.

 

Bill K.

[Guy Fawkes]

What to do? What to do? It's obviously not a review... It's a pre-review... and I'm sitting here going OMG, OMG... and now I want to know the "Rest of the Story"....

 

You Fracking Blitch, I'm going to have this fricking piece of wood over "giant country boy or a hearing impaired red head" for the rest of the day and hear a banjo strumming in the background.

 

BTW: Did you know that I spend most of my childhood in OKC? Watch it or one of these days I'm going to try and crash the party.

 

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[jimboivyo]

old thread with a new life here. I've privately heard some of the same things that tristan said here. it's why some of the bigger names in this biz refuse to see guys like okie. trust is a huge issue. with video, there's too much at stake. too easy to renig.

[josephga]

Not a fan of this video stuff. I tend too feel people should have the control over their images, video or photos.

[Okliehomo]

I guess, I could let it go....

 

And probably should... but he is such a blatant liar.... that I really can't.

 

Oh... and no need to send me more texts warning me to "Fix this or you will tell all your porn star pals and even post it on your Rentboy ad that gets 65,000 hits a minute.." or whatever the fuck you said.... and you can stop the phone calls, too.... why call now? You never bothered to when you didn't show up... all three times..

 

I have ALL his emails... all of them.... including the very first one in which he agreed to work with AJ Irons and David.... and he is right... when that didn't work out... the next time, it was Donnie, David, Louis and his no show ass....emails to back that up as well....and the next time, it was David, AJ Irons and Justice and his no show ass... and the next time it was David, AJ Irons, Justice, Kristian and his no show ass.... and the emails from the travel agency, too... a very well documented cluster fuck.

 

More than happy to share them all .... if I have to.... including the last one in which he threatened to do exactly what he is doing now..... want to see it???

 

And as for the FACT.... that I sold something or released it on the internet..... that is such total horse shit.... he claims he saw a vid that had 10/3/OKC on xtube.... of David and AJ Irons..... anyone here recall that David and AJ Irons made a vid a month before our meeting????? My camera doesn't even have the right date stamp and all of my dvds are here, accounted for...

 

Obviously, Tristan Baldwin is a VERY hot guy..... why else would I have put up with all this bullshit to meet him? If push comes to shove here, you will see that he is also very considerate and quite literate.... which is exactly why I booked him, again and again and again.... I truly think that every time he let me book or rebook a ticket that he had every intention of showing up, and having a good time.... making it right for me... I am not saying that he is evil and that no one out there should ever hire him again....... I'm saying, "Go for it. Hope it works out great..." but that this is what happened to me...

 

Oh... and about that testing stuff.... no bareback in Oklahoma.... EVER... That's his deal, not mine ....

 

Well, in closing, boys...... I guess this is what I get for sharing.... naming names..... damned if I do, damned if I don't.......

 

And as for jimboi hearing anything privately.... is that like BN whispering it in your ear? Or are you just talking to yourself and reassuring yourself that you are still one of the big names????

 

You asked me to let this go... and I will...unless, you don't.

 

Sorry Daddy.

 

Okie

[Guy Fawkes]

Is it time yet?

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[+ David-SF]

Not quite yet ! Daddy

 

Tristan :

 

Lets get one thing very clear

I was there at every one of those appointments you want to show me a video okie made and sold gave or posted online without consent????? BY all means I am waiting.

 

You have been asked before privately and I am asking you now PROVE IT. SEND IT .LINK IT SHOW IT !!!

I will be the 1st to take off after Okie publicly for breaking his word.

 

The fact is its not true and you know it...... or your simply mistaken. and have seen a video that was made with full consent of the participants that it would be posted.

If there were such a video out there it would be posted here rather quickly ....Trust me on that.

 

Your defensive post here is not helping you in anyway . you see when you flake on a client 4 times its looks bad for the client and looks bad for you too.

 

it understandable you want to clear the air. This is not clearing the air its polluting it with OLD NEWS.

You get a chance to redeem yourself by responding in a way that is mature and dignified & you get to continue to prove your a stand up guy by working as you do providing a service that many will appreciated for years to come.

 

The laundry list of excuses you are providing here are just that excuses and whats worse tacky innuendo. .... Really ??? the AIM card now thats a good one but frankly its fly's in the face of the true facts.

 

 

 

Move on grow up participate kindly.

I will not join in with others welcoming people to this forum that attempt to undermine the reputations of the posters or escorts that post here or that are hired by the posters here.

However I do welcome you here to participate speak your mind and have a great informative experience. If your the shining star you report to be than you dont have to defend yourself.

But if you attack escorts posters clients and this community then you are attacking me

 

Its a low blow for you to turn your nose up at any of the guys that have been brought to OKC at anytime as if you are some how special or better than.

 

BTW Whom ever prompted you to bark up this tree months after the fact is really not your friend and has done you no favors. This was long forgotten about.

You brought it back up.

[Rick Munroe]

Oh... and about that testing stuff.... no bareback in Oklahoma.... EVER...

 

Wow, how do they enforce that statewide??

[12is12]

Okie, I don't understand why you don't post the names of the two no-shows. I'm sure you don't want others to be disappointed by them...

[Bart]

12 X 12 Daddy is not fond of No-Show Talk, it is not the same as a negative review. However, to no-show three times and then claim the same excuse. Does not fly. If you are not happy with the arrangements just simply call and decline. Tristan did not have to accept the rebook the second or third time. Why do that and all THREE times no-show. And then go out and attack the other gentlemen, David, Andrew Justice Kristian, why that. And how the hell did bareback get involved here. David does not do bareback. So Tristan not only attacks Okie but attacks all the gentlemen he brings in as well. This is unbelievable. How could just simply not pick up the phone and say I have changed my mind. Do you know how expensive a ticket from Hartford to OKC is? To not call once is an error in judgement, but not call 3 times is deliberate, a pattern and when the hell are you going to send the money back for the ticket and the fee to rebook the ticket two more times. Plus you made AJ Irons look like ad idiot since he vouched for you to Okie.

 

I apologize Daddy for extending this thread but to attack so many people.