When asked for recommendations

[Damascene]

If you are going to be out of town, when a client would like to meet, would you recommend someone else or do so only if the client asks?

 

Thanks

[Kevin Slater]

If I know what drew the client to me and know another escort who might fit that bill, yes.

 

Kevin Slater

[Juan Vancouver]

If I knew an escort in the city that I am in that fill my client's profile and is good at what he does, of course I would.

 

That is just another way to keep my client satisfied, and after all, that is my job.

 

Nobody should ever suffer of blue balls under my watch.

[doitb4ugo]

Nobody should ever suffer of blue balls under my watch.

 

Unless we suffer blue balls in abstensia...Your signature give me a turn each time I read one of your posts.

[NYTomcat]

If I knew an escort in the city that I am in that fill my client's profile and is good at what he does, of course I would.

 

That is just another way to keep my client satisfied, and after all, that is my job.

 

Nobody should ever suffer of blue balls under my watch.

 

Although in that blue speedo Juan... those blue balls are quite enticing

 

Really you are on the wrong side of the big drink. .. how long til Vancouver. ..Mr. Vancouver. ?

[+ peterhung85]

If you are going to be out of town, when a client would like to meet, would you recommend someone else or do so only if the client asks?

 

Thanks

 

Hello Damascene,

 

I always make recommendations if I think that the person worth mentioning... I currently work with 3 other guys (duos) and I know that they are all quality "replacements" whenever I am out of town. But besides all these things: If I am out of town then why not? Many guys think that they should not recommend anybody because if the client likes that guy then he will just stick with him in the upcoming visits... But come on! If the client really wants to meet me, he will... And bottom line if he really clicked with the other guy, then at least I know I helped somebody that resulted happiness... It is always a win-win situation, just many people can't see it...

[Diverdan]

I agree with Peter, Juan and others. If you can provide a good recommendation, everyone wins. The client will appreciate you even more because you were of service and is likely to make sure he follows up with you at a later date. The client is happy because he knows that your recommendation is putting your name and reputation on the line too. The other escort should also appreciate this win-win-win situation. I have asked for recommendations in cities where I was unsure of the situation and have always gotten a good response and the end result was great. Good luck.

[Juan Vancouver]

I forgot to write something, though:

 

I will only recommend someone else if I know by personal experience that the client is respectful and will treat my escort friend well. If I have any doubts about that, I will not recommend anyone. This is a very small world, and escorting is even smaller. Just the same way I would not take the risk -ever- to meet with someone who is not polite on the phone or someone who has refused to share with me the basic personal information that I consider necessary in order to feel safe, I would not wish any of my colleagues to be in that situation.

 

Just a matter of respect.

[scottspearsxxx]

If I have worked with an escort for a client in that city or have worked with the escort on a porn shoot, definitely, as then I know what they are like. I will not recommend an escort that I have not worked with before as that client is relying on me to give him as good a service as if it were me doing the service.

[orbital sander]

It is ironic that this thread was started at the same time that a guy I have seen has been e-mailing me as to how I should not see anyone else in my area. He went through almost all of them and told me their "problems", diseases, drug addictions and the like trying to convince me that he was the only one that I should see...

 

In a small town like mine I can imagine that could really come back to haunt an escort. Once he started to try and "Convince" me, I knew that I would not see him again (or answer his e-mails).

 

We are lucky that there are generous guys who are confident enough out there to look after their clients well being, I just wish more of them happened to be in my area

[instudiocity]

There are two ways in life to make yourself look good:

1 - Be the best

2 - Hammer all those around you down so you will stand up.

 

If you have to prove just how good you are by trashing everyone else, by association alone, you ain't very good.[/font]

[Romann]

Blue ball alert!

 

How do I get under, on top, to the side, upside while "under" your watch with my blue balls? These family gems can get testy sometimes!

[+ David-SF]

great post

 

I most certainly do. I want a client in any given town to know that this guy is coming to town or that guy is heading their way.

 

Not only does it open up the door to a better relationship with the client but it also encourages the other escort to know that he is respected by his contemporaries.

 

On a side note it always saddens me a frustrates me to hear of anyone sending emails bashing others in an effort to discourage them from making contact with someone.

 

Competition belongs in a sports arena and corporate advertising schemes. This is not microsoft

 

I think we can all agree that thinking one escort is better than another is just complete bullshit when applied to trying to figure out what someones tastes are, especially if they are not your own.

How many reviews have we read that said

"I hired this guy because he intrigued me he is not my usual type, I am so glad I did he was amazing"

 

I highly doubt the human connection and chemistry can be manipulated into "not" liking someone they are interested in seeing.

 

I Believe its a small community of guys that really love this work and a small community of guys that love the guys that love this work.

 

Whats the point of alienating anyone.

[+ Ace]

Anytime I'm asked for a referral (if I'm out of town or unavailable), I offer a few of the "good guys" I know in town....To me it has ALWAYS made sense to build a network of guys (for lack of a better expression: "In my league")...It's a win/win all around. The client gets his needs met, the escort buddy of mine works & I get the possibility of a three way/return call from the client (as well as the "reciprocation factor" from the other escort).

The possibility ALWAYS exists that I will lose the client to a referral, but so far it hasn't happened."

I even go as far as telling regulars of mine that if they are in town & do not want to book me, to call me & let me know who's on their "short list"...(usually it's someone I would've referred).....The Vegas guys have a bad enough reputation as it is.....I'd rather NOT add to it by letting someone be taken by a "hustler."

[Diverdan]

David and Ace,

Thanks for those comments. All so true and a reflection of the class that both of you exhibit. As a client, I do very much respect the comments of guys that I have been with, and so far, the referrals have been very accurate and much appreciated. I have only had one experience where a referral did not work out, but that was on my end (no pun intended) rather than with the escort involved. The referral was accurate and the guy was incredible, it was just that the chemistry did not work and as I said, I felt it was me and not the other party.