Unique Experience

[+ Shoreboy]

Over the past year I have met many great guys through using this site and other sites.

 

However, over the past year, once in Atlanta and once in NYC I have had a unique experience....and they were both identical.

 

By the way both escorts are very well known and reviewed highly on this site, which was what caused me to hire them.

 

In Atlanta the escort could not find my hotel and was over two hours late. He was diligent about calling me every ten minutes.

 

When he finally arrived he said that he was "off kilter" and might now be able to perform...so we started and he was correct....nothing from the waist down moved or even twitched!!

 

In NYC the well known escort came to my hotel on time and after some great kissing he too could not rouse his dragon....and said he was just too tired from the previous night of partying.

 

I am not a troll nor is my hygeine like Shrek's...and have had many experiences that were satisfying for both me and the escort...so I know it was not me.

 

Now here is where the twist comes in...and even though this is lengthy here is my question and concern...

 

BOTH escorts said we could try again and there would be no cost....I did give each escort half of their requested fee after the original debacle.

 

The next day (with both escorts) I emailed them reminding them of their promise and have their response on my saved list agreeing to it.

 

Yet with BOTH escorts when I now email them to set up my free, round #2 they either never answer me or say they will be out of town when I am in their hometown....yet when you check on their site they are not traveling.

 

I know now that I am bring blown off and not in the manner in which I would enjoy.

 

Should I have not paid them 1/2 of their price at the original meeting when it was like trying to make a marshmellow hard?

 

Should I have written a review explaining my bad experience...I always hesitate doing that since an escort always makes the reviewer to look, smell and act like the Hunchback of Notre Dame?

 

One of the reasons I did not write a bad review was I believed them that I was going to get a freebie? Was I being foolish to believe them?

 

Sorry about the long post..but I would like some opinions on what to do...basically I think is best to move on and forget them.

[josephga]

IMO you should have written the review.

[Guest greatness]

well

 

I don't think it will take anyone 2 hours to find a hotel. I think it would have been better for you if you had cancelled the meeting. Please write a review on both of them so people can know. I have seen unethical escorts pay their price sooner or later because the way they conduct their business is how they live their life too. I feel sorry for them because they think they can get away with it but they rarely can. Only regrets. It was smart and nice of you to pay them half of the rate. Just think of it as you did something nice and feel better for yourself. But let others know what they have done so others do not make the same mistake. Please do not fear personal attacks by them either. If they call you a troll then be happy about it! Since they lied to you so whatever they say can't mean too much.

[doitb4ugo]

Could not have said it better

 

I don't think it will take anyone 2 hours to find a hotel. I think it would have been better for you if you had cancelled the meeting. Please write a review on both of them so people can know. I have seen unethical escorts pay their price sooner or later because the way they conduct their business is how they live their life too. I feel sorry for them because they think they can get away with it but they rarely can. Only regrets. It was smart and nice of you to pay them half of the rate. Just think of it as you did something nice and feel better for yourself. But let others know what they have done so others do not make the same mistake. Please do not fear personal attacks by them either. If they call you a troll then be happy about it! Since they lied to you so whatever they say can't mean too much.

 

I agree with Greatness on this one....We had another post recently about the repercussions of writing a bad review for someone who is well regarded. It is a difficult thing to do...the reason it remains adifficult thing to do is because so few are willing to put themselves out there and take the unpleasant consequences. I everyone who had a bad experience, reviewed the escort, the frear of doing so would be very much diminished for all of us....myself included.

 

JMHO

rich

[NYTomcat]

Shoreboy. You did the right thing. You tried to work with them. You understood the physical limitations that everyone has. You didn't slam them for it. You paid partially for their Time. While unfulfilling. You didn't review them Because a second chance wad coming and it was best to understand we can't always be hard and you can review after round two. Good for you

 

Now hold them to their word. They Either make time or the limp dick liar review is all you have To give. One last ping each. But I would then write the review. Even with board favorites. If we are scared to review what the hell is this site about.

[imrthr]

 

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By the way both escorts are very well known and reviewed highly on this site, which was what caused me to hire them.

 

In Atlanta the escort could not find my hotel and was over two hours late. He was diligent about calling me every ten minutes.

 

When he finally arrived he said that he was "off kilter" and might not be able to perform...so we started and he was correct....nothing from the waist down moved or even twitched!

 

In NYC the well known escort came to my hotel on time and after some great kissing he too could not rouse his dragon....and said he was just too tired from the previous night of partying.

 

 

BOTH escorts said we could try again and there would be no cost....I did give each escort half of their requested fee after the original debacle.

 

The next day (with both escorts) I emailed them reminding them of their promise and have their response on my saved list agreeing to it.

 

Yet with BOTH escorts when I now email them to set up my free, round #2 they either never answer me or say they will be out of town when I am in their hometown....yet when you check on their site they are not traveling.

 

I know now that I am being blown off and not in the manner in which I would enjoy.

 

Should I have not paid them 1/2 of their price at the original meeting when it was like trying to make a marshmellow hard?

 

Should I have written a review explaining my bad experience...I always hesitate doing that since an escort always makes the reviewer to look, smell and act like the Hunchback of Notre Dame?

 

One of the reasons I did not write a bad review was I believed them that I was going to get a freebie? Was I being foolish to believe them?

 

Sorry about the long post..but I would like some opinions on what to do...basically I think is best to move on and forget them.

 

 

You had a minor string of bad luck with respect to two escorts. Hopefully, that will not be a trend for you in the future.

 

Your first escort, who could not find your hotel for two hours, should have been a signal for you that something was not right. That incident, alone, would justify canceling the appointment. However, you went along with the escort and allowed him to arrive late.

 

After he arrived, he warned you in advance that things might not work out. Sure enough, things did not work. That is strike number two. You should have canceled after the late arrival and warning that things might not work.

 

I cannot imagine why you paid the escort half of the agreed fee when he did not perform. If you went to a restaurant and ordered a meal but the meal was not delivered, would you pay the restaurant one-half of the menu price?

 

I offer a similar analogy for the second escort. He did not perform his advertised product. Why would you pay him one-half of his price?

 

With respect to an offer to give you a free encounter in the future because the first meeting went badly was unrealistic and you should have known better.

 

It should be obvious that each escort felt embarrassed or inadequate because of lack of performance. The offer of a future free encounter was merely a way of saving face and ending the meeting. Again, you should have known better.

 

I think you should write a review of each encounter regardless if the escort is well known on this site. The truth is the truth. If either escorts responds in the negative (and you were truthful in your review), why would you care? A review would help other clients in their decision to hire either of the escorts, partially taking into account your review.

 

Life is not always fair. You have to "roll with the punches" so to speak and go on and try to put these two bad encounters behind you. True, you will not forget about the incidents but you have learned a lesson in the event a similar event happens again.

 

Sorry about my blunt response. You did ask for opinions. You got mine.

 

Good luck.

 

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[+ sf westcoaster]

Write reviews on these two. The review need not be much more than you have included in this thread. One of the main advantages of this site is reviews, good and bad.

[+ purplekow]

Since both escorts are well reviewed, a negative review might not have much impact. I think that rather than looking for a freebie, which was promised, you might consider setting up a two hour appointment at the one hour fee. You get your extra hour and the escort has some compensation for the ancillary time spent in preparing for an appointment. If they are not amenable to that, then you really need to write the review and include their unwillingness to even compromise on the situation.

[imrthr]

 

Since both escorts are well reviewed, a negative review might not have much impact. I think that rather than looking for a freebie, which was promised, you might consider setting up a two hour appointment at the one hour fee. You get your extra hour and the escort has some compensation for the ancillary time spent in preparing for an appointment. If they are not amenable to that, then you really need to write the review and include their unwillingness to even compromise on the situation.

 

 

What a good alternative to my idea of terminating any future contact with the escorts.

 

However, what happens if the same problem recurs, i.e. no sexual arousal? Half price, again? No payment? Full payment of one hour?

 

I think the original poster would be taking a chance if he sets another appointment considering there has been no response to date from the escorts. Generally, when there is no compatibility or attraction between participants, it is futile to try a second attempt.

 

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[+ purplekow]

WEll he says they are well reviewed and so there must be something there. Of course he would not pay up front so little risk for him. There was no positive response when trying to collect a freebie, add an paying gig, the response might be different. He still has the negative review alternative.

[NYTomcat]

WEll he says they are well reviewed and so there must be something there. Of course he would not pay up front so little risk for him. There was no positive response when trying to collect a freebie, add an paying gig, the response might be different. He still has the negative review alternative.

 

Now you see thats what I mean by "advanced" thinking. Bravo pk great call.

[orbital sander]

I would not see an escort that was 2 hours late. After one hour, I would consider the appointment canceled.

 

It is a misconception that well reviewed escorts cannot preform / behave badly. I have had some not-good experiences with some escorts that have scads of positive reviews here. I would have to guess that there are some "golden boys" out there that people might not review negatively. What is the point is someone has fifty gazzillion positive reviews who would believe the one negative one?

 

 

We all have our off moments for one reason or another. I am sure that sometimes it does not work out as expected all the time. The willingness to correct a mistake, and keep one's word really is a rare gift and the mark of a true professional.

[jackcali]

I agree that everyone has an off day. Being very late to an appointment or having a performance problem is just one of those things that happens sometimes. It doesn't necessarily reflect badly on an escort and probably should not be the basis for writing a negative review. After all, escorts are only human, even if clients like us sometimes think otherwise.

 

However, the problem described above wasn't the lateness or the non-performance. The problem that Shoreboy describes with both of these escorts is that they took half their fee, promised a free encounter to make it up to the client and then failed to honor their promise. That dishonesty is something that does reflect badly on the escorts and is something that I (and I think other potential clients) would like to know about them.

[Terpmaniac]

I would have written a review, no doubt about it. I would NOT have offered to pay half price(half price for what?). If they had any real class, both would have refused your money and simply said "lets try it again at another time...and I will even give YOU a discount, since I have inconvenienced YOU!"

[+ Shoreboy]

Thanks Guys

 

Thanks guys for all of your insightful responses....we learn from our mistakes and the wisdom of others.

 

And to IMRTHR, I was raised in a family that did not allow two phrases...one was "I told you so" and the other was "you should have known better"...

 

One was considered condescending and the other was considered righteous.

 

Looking back I would have handled things differntly and in the future I certainly will be on alert for signs of a potentially bad experience.

 

Basically I posed the question looking for some answers and not a lecture

[NYTomcat]

Thanks guys for all of your insightful responses....we learn from our mistakes and the wisdom of others.

 

And to IMRTHR, I was raised in a family that did not allow two phrases...one was "I told you so" and the other was "you should have known better"...

 

One was considered condescending and the other was considered righteous.

 

Looking back I would have handled things differntly and in the future I certainly will be on alert for signs of a potentially bad experience.

 

Basically I posed the question looking for some answers and not a lecture

I think pk has given the best advice for moving forward from here.

[imrthr]

 

Looking back I would have handled things differntly and in the future I certainly will be on alert for signs of a potentially bad experience.

 

Basically I posed the question looking for some answers and not a lecture

 

 

Did you get the answers you hoped to get?

 

Do you plan to write a review of the incidents?

 

Good luck in whatever you decide.

 

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[Decatur Guy]

 

However, the problem described above wasn't the lateness or the non-performance. The problem that Shoreboy describes with both of these escorts is that they took half their fee, promised a free encounter to make it up to the client and then failed to honor their promise. That dishonesty is something that does reflect badly on the escorts and is something that I (and I think other potential clients) would like to know about them.

 

I agree with you. The egregious part of their behavior is making a promise they deliberately had no intention of keeping. I'd call them out.