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I am writing this based on a recent experience with a bisexual escort. This is not a review. I'm not going to name the person here or privately. The purpose of this thread is twofold:

 

1) I will never hire another bisexual escort. I want to warn people to think twice about what they want before hiring a bi guy. I was reluctant to do so for a long time. But based on reviews, I decided to take a chance and was burned. It may have been a red flag that the reviews focused on the person, but said very little about sex. Most escorts get some reviewers who give graphic descriptions. This escort had numerous reviews, but not one that was specific about what the escort would or wouldn't do sexually.

 

I was in disbelief at the lack of sensitively or knowledge of a guy's hot spots. You'd think a bi guy would know some very common ones just from his own body.

 

You have to think out of the box and ask more questions than you would ask a gay escort.

 

2) I'd like to hear from other members if they've had anything happen like my experience, which I will describe below.

 

I am 100% gay. I also know that there are things that bi guys just won't do. A lot of them won't bottom. Some won't kiss. Some only get orally, but don't want to give. What I encountered was something I would never have thought of in a million years. It would never have occurred to me to even ask the escort.

 

The escort only tops. I knew that. That was fine. But I have never heard of or encountered a top who is restricted to one position. Gay tops enjoy playing in multiple positions. The reviews are full of descriptions of people getting topped this way and that. I had no reason to think this escort would be any different. You can't ask a question about somethng you've never heard about or encountered.

 

Suppose I didn't want to do that position, or couldn't do that position? That would have totally removed the main event. The escort knew that it was really important to me. I feel he should have disclosed what I believe is a bizarre departure from the norm. When I learned about the restriction, I expressed surprise but didn't make an issue of it because I didn't want to spoil the session. Besides, he didn't tell me until he was practically in me.

 

There were other surprise restrictions that put a damper on the session, but there's no need to go there, nor is it the purpose of this thread.

 

There's also another general thing to keep in mind if you're considering hiring a Bi escort. If you're into body worship and giving, then the odds are it will work out. But if you expect the escort to give back, you'd better be very specific about what you want. Don't assume anythng. I gave 120% of myself, like he was a bf. He gave me 20%.

 

I should emphasize that we got along very well. The escort is a super person and great company. That made the restriction all the more frustrating and disappointing.

 

I would appreciate hearing from people. This thread is about issues with bi escorts. It's not intended to focus on any specific escort. So please don't hit me with "why don't I just review the escort?"

 

Thanks for reading this post.

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Bi Guys not all bad

 

Tristan,

 

Sorry to hear about your frustrating experience. Did this guy advertise. I have hired guys who label themselves as bi and think I don't even notice that distinction. I tend to check in the ad or review if the guy does certain things which are important to me...kissing, mutual/reciprocal other things, and that the guy will top or is versatile....

 

I don't think the Bi description is the problem here. During your communication did you make it clear as to what you wanted to get out of the session....I was someone who was not good at this until someone here on the forum ( in a thread) suggested a template to be doctored to each occasion and sent to the guy to outline who you are and what you want to transpire at the meeting....

 

If interested, I could certainly link you back to that thread....

 

In my limited experience, many guys list themselves as bi but are truly more gay than hetero...not always the case so it does pay to ask....

 

I didn;t mean to lecture and was trying to help you have better luck in the future. :)

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"I Never Promised You A Rose Garden"!

 

My Own Opinion....It's a Crap Shoot! :D

 

Hanging out with a guy just because he is Allegedly or a Real BI-Sexual, The Type who is driven to have his "Cake and Eat It Too" and who would have "Little or No Interest" in the Average Client other than Bending Him Over does have the Results you experienced.

 

So remaining "Nameless" future Clients will be having the SAME experience and gives The ALLEGED and obviously "Gay for Pay" Bi-Sexual a very nice excuse for not having to Respond to any and all Clients in the future!

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An escort listing himself as "bi" may suggest he has some degree of homophobia, directed at others and/or himself: he doesn't want to be perceived as exclusively gay. Why is it even necessary to tell a prospective gay client your "bi"? You either give gay sex or you don't. What else you do, and with whom, is irrelevant. What matters is what you will do with the client. Saying you're "bi," to me, almost suggests something along the lines of "Well, I'll do this -- if you pay me -- but I'm just foolin' around till my wife/girlfriend is back in town." Uh huh. Right.

 

"Bi" always raises a flag with me, just like the gay personal ads in which the poster describes himself as "straight acting." What's wrong with being someone who is "gay acting"? And how do you define those terms? Again, homophobia.

 

I really do think you need to write a review or at least post the working guy's name on this thread so that others will avoid the disappointing, unsatisfying experience you had.

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I'm always polite but I do spell out what I want in a session, both what I enjoy doing and what I like having done to me. I'm very specific and I ask the guy if he 's OK with all that I want.

 

Some things, such as kissing and getting oral without a condom, are deal-breakers for me if the guy will not. Some things, such as unloading in his mouth or taking some photos, are fun for me but not essential.

 

FWIW I'm a middle-aged top, a top only, and I enjoy playing with good-looking muscled young men. I describe myself accurately to the guy and offer to send him photos of me. I do all this to ensure we are compatible and that both of us are clear on what is anticipated.

 

I have hired men who define as bi and once a guy who defined as straight. The only time I've been disappointed is when a guy, on an overnight date, refused to perform oral in the morning even tho he'd agreed to do so earlier. I did not hire a very attractive guy who refused to discuss what I wanted and simply said "we'll see what happens" - not at $250 an hour or $1000 a night, we won't!

 

And I'd urge you to reconsider naming the guy here. He doesn't seem like a bad guy but rather someone whose sexual range is very limited. Surely you want to prevent someone else here being severely disappointed after hiring him?

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"Bi" always raises a flag with me, just like the gay personal ads in which the poster describes himself as "straight acting." What's wrong with being someone who is "gay acting"? And how do you define those terms? Again, homophobia.

 

I was going to say something about this statement about not liking the terms "gay acting" or "straight acting" because I've seen it before on here --but as it would be changing the purpose of this thread, I have decided to take it over to The Lounge--anyone want to follow me?

 

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the first three rules of setting up a meet with an escort:

 

communicate, communicate, communicate!!

 

but I do agree this "one position only" policy is something you probably couldn't foresee.....did you simply ask him, right after you heard of his rule, why?....or say, "gee, that's unusual....have you had other disappointed clients before me because of that?".....

 

and I don't think we should "beware of bisexual escorts"....I think we should beware of any escort who isn't up front about what they'll do and not do....yes, hard to get a definite answer sometimes, but "buyer beware"...

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Tristan,

 

First of all, very sorry to hear what happened, and I understand it as I have been there often enough, especially when dealing with some European escorts who INSIST on defining themselves as Bi.

 

For me, I have learned the hard way that this is a sort of red flag. For some, they are not at all comfortable calling themselves GAY though for those who are porn stars, they have done more on the screen than I have ever even attempted myself with an escort! I find it odd for a guy who tops, bottoms and does everything else in between multiple times over a few years in film to suddenly say, "I am NOT GAY!" But they exist over there in Europe to label themselves as BI -- way too many of them. Then too - those coming out of Central Europe in the 90's did it almost 100% for the money, and often come from very bad family backgrounds and difficult situations, and so escorting was the only way out for them.

 

Some guys on the Board here have offered excellent advice. COMMUNICATE, COMMUNICATE, COMMUNICATE is the best.

 

I have certain deal-breakers. Escort MUST be willing to KISS, and not just a little peck here and there. I want tongue or the deal is off. On a similar topic found on another thread, I do NOT feel comfortable around effeminate guys and so I want a guy who describes imself as "straight-acting" or butch, but not in an aggressive way. Maybe best to simply say, "I am masculine..." PERIOD. But effeminate guys literally take the lead out of my pencil -- pussy -- even fake pussy is a turn off for me.

 

I let this be known from the start. I like MUTUAL ORAL too, and again, not some fake hand-job pretending to have lips touch my cock. If he insists I be covered in a condom before h does oral - the deal is also off. (I am very D&D free and know it).

 

Oddly, more and more guys in the US are beginning to imitate the Europeans with the BI label -- which is too bad. I generally do a primary search on Rentboy, for instance, and check off things like GAY, VERSATILE, KISSING. Yes, it limits how many guys come up, but at least some initial deal breakers are out of the way! Just wish these search engines were a bit more thorough....

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I think you had a bad escort who labels himself bi. I don't think you should conclude all bi escorts are going to burn you too.

 

I'll admit that that am more cautious when the escort identifies himself as bi, but I have been with some very satisfying and well-reviewed escorts (& non-escorts) who identified as bi. Although some of them may have been deluding themselves, I can think of a couple whom I came to believe were genuinely bi-sexual.

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I am with Adriano46 on this one. I only hire escorts who kiss (with tongue), mutual oral, and gay. It is just that I find them more relaxed doing these things than a "straight" or "bi" man. Yes, there are exceptions and I see one "bi" escort but he his relaxed with these activities.

 

My first escort experience was Corry Evans from the Gaiety and we did weekends together for a year. Originally, he told me he was "mostly straight" but had a "gay" side and I believed him as in his movies he did everything and as hot as he was, I thought with my zipper. Then after seeing each other for about a dozen weekends together, he just broke down and cried that he just could not do "gay" sex any more; I could see that coming as the last few times he showed the strain of (for him) "un-natural" acts.

 

After that, I primarily hired Gay men.

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Tristan,

 

I am sorry that you had such a disappointing experience. It is unfortunate that you had such a bad time when you were looking for a good one.

 

In my own experiences, Bi Escorts are a BIG RED flag and I often stay away. I had many experiences with "Bi" guys in Europe and other places and most often these were not that great. There are probably many reasons why there are "Bi" escorts. I suspect that for some guys, being "Bi" is a method of control. If you are an escort, and you have that label applied then you can make restrictions when the time comes for a date, especially if that date does not do much for you. "oh, I don't kiss, bottom", etc...

 

As several here have suggested, advanced communication is very important, and can really help you avoid disappointing experiences.

 

I know that one other here in the MF had some disappointing experiences in Argentina with "Bi" guys too. In my opinion, these guys are 'Bi" only for pay and if I hire one of them, I lower my expectations. Since in Argentina the rates are so much lower, I am willing to expect a little less and not worry if it does not turn out so great. More often than not, however, I stick to "men only" escorts, especially if I am looking for kissing, mutual oral experiences, or other more BF activities. I have noticed that more "Bi" guys bottom these days, but it is still just for $$ and not much else.

 

As far as Bi oriented civilians, well my best friend calls himself Bi, he is married with kids, and he is one of the biggest bottoms that I have ever met...so you just never know.

 

While it is impossible to get inside peoples heads, I would disagree that all Bi people are self hating homosexuals. I have met plenty of guys who are more open minded about intimate relations. I for one, am not one of those people. I have had only one experience with a vagina, and it was the one that I came out of when I was born.

 

Good luck

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The Importance of Communication and Avoiding Generalities

 

The original post could be used as the poster post for "Communication."

 

... I want to warn people to think twice about what they want before hiring a bi guy...

 

First, I don't think it is fair to lump all escorts who identify as being "bi" into one category. A very well-reviewed escort is listed in his Daddy's Review profile as being bisexual and I can tell you that he is a fucking phenomenal stud. No two guys are the same, and that goes for bisexual guys, too. Second, everyone should think carefully about what they want and communicate that no matter who they hire.

 

The escort only tops. I knew that. That was fine. But I have never heard of or encountered a top who is restricted to one position. Gay tops enjoy playing in multiple positions.
Again, it is unfair to lump all gay tops into one category. I have been with many gay men who fuck only one way. I have also been with many gay and bi men who fuck in various positions. It depends on the individual.

 

The reviews are full of descriptions of people getting topped this way and that.
Unless you write them, reviews describe a session that happened between two people, neither of whom is you. This is why reviews that do not read like a juicy porn novel are often more valuable than the ones that do. Wouldn't it be better to know that a guy likes to do a variety of things (without going into the details) than knowing that he fucked a guy standing up with one leg on the kitchen counter while thrusting in iambic pentameter? If you like a guy to thrust in iambic tetrameter, the review of his iambic pentameter thrusting does you no good.

 

I had no reason to think this escort would be any different.
This guy is not those other escorts. There is no reason to think he would be the same as someone else.

 

You can't ask a question about something you've never heard about or encountered.
You can state what you want a guy to do and ask him whether he can or will do so. If you want to be fucked doggy-style, missionary style, and standing up with one leg on the kitchen counter while he thrusts in iambic pentameter then ask for it and see what he says. If he says "sorry, dude...your leg on the sofa/thrusting in dactylic tetrameter or nothing at all" then you have a decision to make.

 

Suppose I didn't want to do that position, or couldn't do that position?That would have totally removed the main event. The escort knew that it was really important to me.

If being fucked in multiple positions is that important to you then it is up to you to ask for it when you first discuss the date.

 

I feel he should have disclosed what I believe is a bizarre departure from the norm.
Apparently, this is the norm for him. What is there to disclose?
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There are some guys who genuinely enjoy sex with men or women (whether for pay or not) but they are a small minority.

 

By far the majority of those who advertise as "bisexual" are simply straight - "gay for pay".

 

These people start their ads with a lie so maybe we should not be surprised when other things they claim also prove to be untrue.

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Thanks, and more information and clarifications

 

Thanks to everyone who took the time to respond to my thread. I really appreciate that people were sympathetic, thoughtful, stayed on track, and provided helpful insights in the issue. I never felt lectured or criticized. The input was positive and constructive, though I don't completely agree with everything.

 

I wish I could respond to each poster, but that's not practical. I'm going to try to respond to as many things as I can and also provide additional clarifications.

 

I think we all agree that good communication before meeting the escort is critical. I may have given the wrong impression that I don't ask enough questions. To the contrary, I'm often told by escorts and people online that I ask too many questions, and the meet goes south. In this case, it seemed like a shoe in. The escort has some personal qualities that are of the 1 in a million variety. I just felt that as long as he's a top, everything would work out. He has numerous rave reviews on this site, with the focus on his personal qualities. I don't think there is one bad review. Members recommend him now and then on the MB.

 

I learned from one of the poster that, in fact, there are gay and bi tops who are "one position" guys. I thank the poster for the info. In the future, I will definitely ask about this. However, I must state again that you can't ask an intelligent question if you don't know something exists. I really had no idea that one-position guys existed. But I will not back off my belief that the one-position guys comprise a small percentage of tops. I still think it's a restriction. And if it's a restriction, and the escort knows that fucking is on the menu, I think the escort should disclose that he is a one-position guy, just like escorts state that they won't bottom. There is NO difference IMHO. A restriction is a restriction. And this would most likely would have been a showstopper. I think that both the escort and client need to be upfront about the specifics of the sex part of the session.

 

For those who don't like reading graphic material, I am going to get somewhat sexually graphic. I would not do this on the MB of any other site. I guess that's a tribute to this site that I feel comfortable enough to do it here.

 

I want to clarify some things that took place in my session. First, it was disappointing, but it wasn't all bad. Both of us had very intense orgasms. The escort was a good conversationlist and good company. He was very nice to me. He was just too passive physically. I hit just about every one of his hot spots. I even asked him if there was something I could do for him that I wasn't doing. His answer was, "No, you're good!" He loves soaking up touching and affection, but doesn't return it.

 

We agreed that we were ready for the main course. I went to the bathroom and when I came out, he had already wrapped up and came over to put me in the position he wanted. Before I could blink, he was inside me. Some guys may find that hot, but that's not the way I wanted it. It was too mechanical. I wanted the BF approach. I wanted to be part of the whole thing.

 

What happened next was a double whammy. He was so turned on that he had to cum very soon after getting inside me. Now comes the triple whammy. He knew I wanted him to cum on me. He said he was sorry, but couldn't hold off. The result was that the main event took less than 5 minutes. That's more like a bathhouse quickie. I never even had a chance to enjoy his being inside me. He certainly enjoyed it and told me I felt good. Maybe, he should have paid me. ;)

 

So in the two-hour session, I never saw one drop of his cum. Seems like there was a quadruple whammy! Guess that's another thing I have to make clear in the future, though it didn't matter here anyway. He just couldn't withdraw. I asked him if he could cum again after resting, and he said he can't cum a second time. Another downer!

 

Someone asked if I discussed the one-position thing with him besides expressing surprise. I certainly couldn't before we did it, and after I guess I didn't want to spoil my fantasy session with someone special. And there's one more very important thing. I had't cum yet. I engineered, so to speak, my cumming by being aggressive. Had I made an issue of the one-position thing, I probably would never had a chance to cum. To be honest, I would have been devastated had he left without our fucking or my cumming.

 

I had stated in my original post to "please don't ask why I don't write a review?" Well I guess a few people just couldn't resist and asked anyway. Ok, so I'll state exactly why I am reluctant to write a review.

 

If the escort has nothing but glowing reviews, and I write a review that has some negative comments, I feel that I'm going to be discounted, or blamed for not asking the right questions, or possibly skewered by the regular clients of the escort or other members. I really don't want to be subjected to that. Additionally, I think I would feel bad writing a review with negative content about such an unusually nice person. It's a real dilemma.

 

Further, the escort gets the last word. That doesn't allow the client to respond to any fabricated lies or incorrect statements. Until the rules allows the client to at least defend his position on the MB, if not in the reviews, this is unacceptable to me. I've been very badly burned before.

 

Years ago, I wrote a negative "not hire again" review. A few regular clients and friends of the escort went after me with a vengeance on the MB. Some people came to my rescue and stated that the escort's reply was not credible, but the damage had been done. The escort not only lied about what took place, but crossed the line and turned it into a personal attack on my physical appearance. He compared me to a well known hideous, loathsome, creature in a major film series. That was way out of line. It hurt me very badly not to be able to respond. The analogy was off the wall.

 

I'm an older guy with unusual stats for my age: 5'11, 135lbs, 30w. Those are the stats of a twink. My body is very atypical. I've always been thin. I am skinny, especially in modern America, with a 1/3 of the population is considered obese, and the gay culture is obsessed with the gym. In many other countries, I would not be viewed as being that skinny.

 

When I post my body pic first on a sex/dating site, most people think I'm 20-25 yo and read my Profile. (One guy even sent me a serious email asking if I was legal.) Then when they see my face pic, they realize I'm more than twice that age, and don't send me email. I would estimate that over 500 people have read my Profile on three different sites after seeing the body pic, but not sent email after realizing I'm older. I'm not ugly. I'm at least average looking. Some people think I'm still cute. The point is that escorts could do much worse than me, and what this escort had said left emotional scars for a long time.

 

I regret that I didn't state the main reason why the session went south with that person I reviewed years ago. I didn't mention it because I wasn't sure whether it was appropriate, or even allowed, to disclose at the time. This escort is still listed in the review secton. HE SHOWED UP WITH A HERPES BLISTER ON HIS LIP. He said that it was in the healing process and non-contagious. WRONG!!! I did alot of research on this. Not only is a healing blister contagious, but a person with Herpes, even if totally asymptomatic, can still transmit Herpes to his partner. This guy was either lying or ignorant. I should have paid his carfare and sent him packing, but was afraid he could get violent. I'm very easy to beat up. An escort should not be seeing a client with a Herpes blister on his lip.

 

Needless to say, this severely restricted what I could safely do and was a waste of money. This guy was expensive. I'm sure this was the root cause for the whole session going south and resulted in my negative review of other things that I felt were misrepresented. Clients most likely don't know the escort has oral Herpes, or don't care.

 

There was a member with the SN of "Flower" who posted on the MB for many years. He disappeared, and nobody seems to know why. I always enjoyed his posts. His signature ending was:

 

"That's my story, and I'm sticking to it."

 

And so am I.

 

I thank you for reading this lengthy post.

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I certainly respect your opinion. Thanks for the clarifications. I was one of the ones that assumed you did not communicate enough...Given the way this turned out, I think you just hit a guy that did not meet your needs....nor many others needs from your description.

 

I also understand your reluctance to post a review...I think you are correct in assuming that you may get jumped on if this escort has vocal supporters on the forum...You have your experience with this guy as your own review.

 

My only quibble with this thread is that Bi Guys and your guy do not equate to the same thing...I have hired a number of listed bi guys and have never encountered what you did. I want to suggest that all bi guys as a category does not exist...If I had a bad experience with a Top...I could hardly recommend that all guys here do not hire Tops anymore. I just want to be fair to the Bi guys of the world.

 

 

Chalk it up to a learning experience. And good fortune with your future hires...

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I'm sorry...

 

I'm sorry that you had to go through this. I hope you can have a better experience next time. I think you are hot~~~ Anyways, have a good weekend~~~ :)

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I certainly respect your opinion. Thanks for the clarifications. I was one of the ones that assumed you did not communicate enough...Given the way this turned out, I think you just hit a guy that did not meet your needs....nor many others needs from your description.

 

I also understand your reluctance to post a review...I think you are correct in assuming that you may get jumped on if this escort has vocal supporters on the forum...You have your experience with this guy as your own review.

 

My only quibble with this thread is that Bi Guys and your guy do not equate to the same thing...I have hired a number of listed bi guys and have never encountered what you did. I want to suggest that all bi guys as a category does not exist...If I had a bad experience with a Top...I could hardly recommend that all guys here do not hire Tops anymore. I just want to be fair to the Bi guys of the world.

 

 

Chalk it up to a learning experience. And good fortune with your future hires...

 

Thanks for your thoughtful post. Your first two paragraphs are right on. Generally, I don't like to be critical of a whole category of people. I'm sure there are some great Bi guys out there for hire, and I certainly didn't mean to offend Bi guys in general.

 

However, it's been my experience that many more Bi guys, not just Bi escorts, have more restrictions on what they will do than gay guys. I know. I was once there before I accepted my preference. I think it probably comes down to our having different experiences. I don't know if you have ever gone to sex/dating sites. You can tell from the Profiles of Bi guys that what they want is more limited.

 

I certainly learned something from this experience. An escort can have many rave reviews, but may still not meet other people's needs. The people who wrote the reviews were focusing more on non-sexual things. Perhaps, the sexual part wasn't that important to most of them. And it's also possible that clients who did put more weight on the sexual part did not write reviews. I don't hire a lot of escorts. Unfortunately, this was a costly two hours.

 

I appreciate your good wishes.

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I'm sorry that you had to go through this. I hope you can have a better experience next time. I think you are hot~~~ Anyways, have a good weekend~~~ :)

 

Thanks for your comments and compliment. Yeah, I am. :)

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I can tell you I have experience Bi-Escorts and I can tell you the absolute Best Sex I have ever had was with a Bi-Escort that is 80% straight 20% Gay. However he is into Fetishes and is a Bottom when he has sex with guys most of time. He loves everything except he WON'T Rim. Everything else normal he is into. As a Bottom he is absolutely the Best. I think and actually know there is at least 2 others on here that will say the same thing he has an awesome body and the best bottom out there. He has done porn as Anthony Hendrix and is hot as hell. I am not sure but don't think he sees clients anymore but has reviews in here in Tampa Bay Area.

 

I wish I could see him everyday.

 

I have also been with two other bi-Guys that were more restrictive but never to level you have stated. I have always enjoyed. But agree you must know the restrictions ahead of time.

 

 

 

Tristan,

 

Sorry to hear about your frustrating experience. Did this guy advertise. I have hired guys who label themselves as bi and think I don't even notice that distinction. I tend to check in the ad or review if the guy does certain things which are important to me...kissing, mutual/reciprocal other things, and that the guy will top or is versatile....

 

I don't think the Bi description is the problem here. During your communication did you make it clear as to what you wanted to get out of the session....I was someone who was not good at this until someone here on the forum ( in a thread) suggested a template to be doctored to each occasion and sent to the guy to outline who you are and what you want to transpire at the meeting....

 

If interested, I could certainly link you back to that thread....

 

In my limited experience, many guys list themselves as bi but are truly more gay than hetero...not always the case so it does pay to ask....

 

I didn;t mean to lecture and was trying to help you have better luck in the future. :)

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Tristan,

 

I may have thought that communication was an issue earlier on your first posting, but see here, it was not the issue at all, but more it was the guy,

 

I have had somewhat the same experience often enough -- so often that (as mentioned above) I shy away from any guy who describes himself as Bisexual. My batting average with such guys is really bad, and so why throw good money after bad?

 

I generally let a guy know what my absolute requirements are, AND HOW i EXPECT THEM TO ME MET. If he has any reservations, I ask him to let me know so that we can cut to the chase and each go his way without any harm done.

 

My lesson learned the hard way, on "advanced search" engines I always mark "gay" for sexual preference of the escort (granted this is NOT 100% sure), and just ignore those who label themselves as Bisexual, no matter how smoking HOT they look.

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I don't think that your problems resulted from the fact that you hired a Bi escort but that you hired a bad escort.

 

I, myself, have hired a few Bi escorts and have always been pleased. The first that I knew of at the time being Brandan Steele of Ft Lauderdale. Most of them bottomed and nearly all of them gave oral.

 

I see no correlation between a bad escort and a bad experience.

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Skrubber, that's a name I can relate to very well. Brandan Steele is a well known and well reviewed Bi-escort, who along with a few other Bi escorts reviewed here, I have had the pleasure of seeing on and off over the last 6 years. Here's boy that knows how to deliver, which I'm sure several in this forum can attest too.

One of the other posters mentioned, it's not fair to characterize all Bi escorts with one encounter. I totally agree with this, so kudos to him.

Has anyone thought, that maybe the fault was not just the lack of so called communication between the main poster and escort, but also the possibility of the poster just being unreasonable in what they expected. Just a thought.

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Has anyone thought, that maybe the fault was not just the lack of so called communication between the main poster and escort, but also the possibility of the poster just being unreasonable in what they expected. Just a thought.

 

A poster here being unreasonable, I dont think so. In fact, I would say you area being unreasonable in sayin that. Wait....that cant be....well maybe

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