Is it ok to meet a client on a friendship basis?

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Aww

 

You are a sweetheart~~~ I like your attitude. Kisses and hugs~~

 

After reading this post...I was enlightened. It makes sense. It did felt obvious that he wouldn't hire me again, but that wasn't a statement about me or the performance of my services. Its implied that he can only afford to hire once in a blue, but welcomes friendship.

 

I tell you what. I decided to go along with it. Why? Because atleast he didn't pull the stunts that many guys on sites like adam4adam do, such as; "call me when you're not working" or "can we just hangout as friends". He paid my full rate, didn't haggle...and after I left I really felt he was a nice guy. Nice enough that I told him that I dont see him as a client (we only made 1 transaction).

 

Its rare that I'd do something like this, but we have quite a bit in common and like the same things.

 

The way it seems, its so hard to meet someone who is comfortable and understands the industry. Most don't take my friendship seriously knowing Im an escort. It just seems as long as Im doing this I have to find someone who is either an escort themselves or a client.