Why charge so much for overnighters?

[gcursor]

Good point

 

I had lots of things to say on this topic since I usually hire for longer than overnights. In the end I guess all I'll say is that Kevin makes some good points.

 

There are lots of reason's why a escort will charge what they do for a over night. I see by reading that, most of you understand the logistics behind our BUSINESS. A over night does not mean we have to sleep, a over night is a over night to put it simply. Wheither the client chooses to sleep or not, the client (you) are donating for the escorts time. As for me, I like over night's; it gives me time to really get to know my client(if we haven't already). It allow's me to unwine, relax and take more personal time with that client.

 

Let me put it this way for some of you; The concept behind being a escort is (in my terms) a servent; such a butler; I am their to provide a service to my clients within reason. HOWEVER,,,,,,,,,THE complexities of my position are so vast that only another REAL AND EXPERIENCE escort would understand. There are so many vast concepts to being a escort that it would boggle the mind. IT'S JUST NOT ABOUT HAVING SEX WITH A CLIENT (that is the end result, but) we must get into your mind, we must understand your fantasies, we must pay very close attention to every word that comes out of your mouth. We as escorts, can serious damage or harm a client due to any psychological aspect that the client has( Why is the client REALLY HAVING ME COME OVER) if we do not pay close attention to his needs. -----------------OK, if your lost at this point, welcome to our world. We as professional escorts have so much to undertake, protect and manage; I love what I do, I have met so many fascinating people.

[NYTomcat]

NYTomcat, i'm with you... "it depends upon the client and the escort."

also - you cracked me up with the tangent you went on there...

 

 

i get about 4 or 5 hours of sleep those nights. as i said, it's broken up, by being woken up, by my boots.

 

i charge $1200 for an overnight of 12 hours. i like seeing Brock, although i don't completely understand him - and that's ok. i am tired the next day, but i am happy. and it's not only because of the money i earned.

 

Dave this is what makes you good at what you do. IMHO I agree that the best or at least better escorts do leave happy knowing the impact they have had on their clients. I'm pasting in here below the story that Ryan Cade put in the best client experience thread I think it says alot about escorting and escorts:

 

There are a few special moments but at this point I have only received permission to share one. I was out of town, and taken a phone call, I had plans and did not intend on accepting any calls; I couldn't say no when I heard the excited, nervous, eager voice, We met at my hotel and he was eager to cuddle.... So we cuddled..... and cuddled.... We were well into the session and I asked if he up to anything else.. He looked up and ever so seriously said "I came here to make a memory and I have done that, if I were to leave right now, I have already got everything I came for and then some" I get to be "that" guy Not everybody gets to be "that" guy..

 

Thats the smile. beyond the money... you get to be "that guy". I think its pretty cool that you guys recognize and feel at least somewhat honored by that.

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[btmstudnyc]

I had to chime in!

 

I guess I have to answer this question with a question. It may sound bitchy, but it isnt meant to be, just things to consider.

 

If you were paid to stand in Time Square, New year's eve for 12 hours and get paid 500 without complaining and actually stay engaging the ENTIRE time with someone you never met or an acquaintance without your cellphone (while you could be with friends, family or boyfriend,) which would you choose?

 

The experience would be great....but how many times would you do that a month, a year a decade?

 

Another question, WHY DO YOU WANT AN OVERNIGHT? If you are paying 500, have the guy come over for 2-3 hours and be done.....Why are you NEEDING him to stay another 9/10 hours?

 

I know a lot of guys that hire overnight because they want a specific guy and they live in bumm-f**k Eqypt. I used to fly up to Syracuse, stay the night and fly back in the morning. I would never pick Syracuse as a destination hahaha, especially in the winter. There has to be a GOOD incentive....500 dollars doesnt seem like a good enough incentive to do all that. I know Im not a doctor.....but Im also not the front desk.

 

For many of the overnights, weekends, weeks....Some guys have to take time off of their real Job, get docked pay, use vacation days, and lose personal training/massage regular clients. Then their everyday clients get pissed off for always being away. Let alone, their friends and partners/lovers.

 

Last but not least, you are paying escorts to be AWAY from their regular life without complaint and that usually requires great incentive.

 

The Overnight is actually not for everyone, but to the ones it is for, it means a great deal more than any monetary value. Can you really put a price on an experience?

 

Its like the VISA commercial. Going to have dinner at a nice restaurant for two= $250/300. Spending a night fulfilling your dreams, fantasies, wishes, wants, desires.....PRICELESS.

 

JIM

[AdamSmith]

If you were paid to stand in Time Square, New year's eve for 12 hours and get paid 500 without complaining and actually stay engaging the ENTIRE time with someone you never met or an acquaintance without your cellphone (while you could be with friends, family or boyfriend,) which would you choose?

 

Great post.

 

For 500, no way. But for 1000+, I think several times a week!

 

After all, with many guys, you are talking about the activity that is their main profession. When my own job gets intense, which is much of the time, I think I do something of the equivalent in giving it 18 hrs/day, and not at the most convenient times of day either. I dare say many professionals in whatever field experience much the same.

 

Another question, WHY DO YOU WANT AN OVERNIGHT? If you are paying 500, have the guy come over for 2-3 hours and be done.....Why are you NEEDING him to stay another 9/10 hours?

 

The thing I dislike most is the approaching end of the appointment. (Too much a metaphor & pre-figuring of the Ultimate End itself.) So an overnight (not to mention longer engagements) is a way to build in vast flexibility, without violating the contractual nature to the escort's detriment. That is to say, bedtime is the malleable & permeable barrier that lets one mess around with what, in other aspects of life, are immutable limits.

 

And then to find him there in the morning, when you wake up! Beyond any price.

 

Besides the emotional value of the elements of trust needed to sleep beside someone else. In both directions.

 

Last but not least, you are paying escorts to be AWAY from their regular life without complaint and that usually requires great incentive.

 

This may underestimate the extent to which the good & committed ones have their escorting activities well & healthily integrated into their "regular" lives.

[KMEM]

"This may underestimate the extent to which the good & committed ones have their escorting activities well & healthily integrated into their "regular" lives."

 

AS-

 

I have never thought of spending 18 hours in a day, never mind several days in a row, as me being integrated into a healthy "regular" life. Truth be known, I wouldn't know what a regular life was if it jumped into my office through the window and bit me. That would be a pretty good trick as I am on the second floor.

 

Those that have other than a "job" whether it be a profession, partnership or any number of iterations of "working for yourself" just have to do the best they can to manage. That can often be at the expense of "relationships" whether family, SO or whatever. The best way to be "healthy" is to have a good attitude about what you are doing and why. A little exercise doesn't hurt either.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[AdamSmith]

Those that have other than a "job" whether it be a profession, partnership or any number of iterations of "working for yourself" just have to do the best they can to manage. That can often be at the expense of "relationships" whether family, SO or whatever. The best way to be "healthy" is to have a good attitude about what you are doing and why. A little exercise doesn't hurt either.

 

Inverting my terminology to make the same point. I love you.