Has anyone ever been rejected by an escort?

[Guest BearLuvr]

Has anyone ever heard of someone being rejected by an escort and what are some of the reasons "why" they were rejected?

[whipped guy]

This deals with a case of being rejected pror to actually meeting.

 

S&M is a specialty case… but I once sent a guy my limits and exactly what I wanted to accomplish during our session… and even though we had previously set a date and time he canceled saying that I would be “topping from below’… well that’s the way it is supposed to be! The bottom sets his limits, the top complies, and you enjoy the ride! That way the bottom can theoretically relax and unwind without fear of his boundaries being breached. It involves the establishment of a certain level of trust and confidence.

 

Extrapolate that into the general world of escorting and you get the client (either top, bottom, versatile, or whatever) establishing his likes and desires and the escort then complies. The result being that the client should similarly have faith and assurance in what the session will entail.

 

At any rate, it is better to be rejected prior to any hookup, because if the escort does not have the right approach, attitude, or mind set it would not have worked anyway. In my case it was good riddance and the guy did me a favor.

[josephga]

I'm sure it happens allot prior to meeting or during the phone convo process. I gave around 600 massages a year and turned away another 50 to 75 or so based on how things went over the phone when attempting to book.

[Gar1eth]

Aww Shucks It's Embarraskin'

 

Has anyone ever heard of someone being rejected by an escort and what are some of the reasons "why" they were rejected?

 

Once I went to see a young guy who advertised as a versatile top with emphasis on the top. He had one of those c-cks that is incredibly thick along the shaft but then tapers rapidly toward the head. And the head itself is on the small side--kind of the opposite of the mushroom head. He took a look at my "Mr Happy" and said he wouldn't be able to bottom for me. Now let me assure everyone that my Mr Happyaint that large. It is a bit on the thick side with a nice mushroom head but we aint talking either coke can or porn star thick.

 

Gman

[Greathands]

Several years ago, I sent an email to my all-time favorite porn star, when I saw that he had an ad on Rentboy. In the email I told him about myself and what I enjoyed ... which leaned more toward affectionate play, kissing, making out, massage, etc.

 

He replied to my email and shared that he wasn't interested because he was into a totally different scene and knew that we weren't a good match.

 

Since he was my "all-time favorite" I was certainly disappointed, but then was grateful that he was upfront and honest with me. There would have been nothing worse than meeting up with my "all-time favorite", only to be disappointed that our time together wasn't near what I had dreamed it could be.

[+ Charlie]

Many years ago in NYC, when one still found escorts through print ads without photos in The Advocate, I made an appointment with an escort and got all the way to his apt. door. When I rang the bell, he apparently looked through the peephole and didn't like what he saw, because he refused to open the door. I never found out why, because he also refused to answer his phone for the next 24 hrs.

[Epigonos]

I have never been OPENLY rejected by an escort. I always begin my communication with an escort with whom I am interested in getting together by email. Initially I simply state that I am interested in lunch or dinner and two hours of play time and ask if he is interested in such an arrangement and if so what his fee would be. If I receive a positive response I then email him MY stats including my age. On two separate occasions I never received a response to this second email. I simply surmised that upon learning my AGE the escort lost interest. Frankly I have NO problem with this type of rejection as I would far rather receive it early by email rather than later at the front door of his place or mine.

[Guest greatness]

It happened many times

 

Please don't take it personally. They also get rejected a lot. It goes both ways. Looking good outside doesn't mean they are well inside. Just understand and move on.

 

Has anyone ever heard of someone being rejected by an escort and what are some of the reasons "why" they were rejected?

[+ purplekow]

I was once rejected by an escort because I was so good looking that he felt no one would look at him when we walked down the street together. Did I mention that this was in Bizarro world?

[Guest Spanky]

I was once rejected by an escort because I was so good looking that he felt no one would look at him when we walked down the street together. Did I mention that this was in Bizarro world?

 

In this escort's defense, it's terribly difficult to compete with the beauty and grace of a purple kow!

[Lookin]

More than I care to remember . . .

 

I don't mind the guys who show up and say "This just isn't gonna work", or even "Yikes!".

 

It's the ones who lay down rubber backing out of the driveway that I could do without.

 

One guy was in such a hurry, he took out my mailbox and half my neighbor's petunia beds.

[Mark Gordon]

Shortly after moving back to Canada, I was approached by a former roommate who wanted to hire me. I politely declined, explaining that I would just find it too strange.

[Guest Spanky]

Shortly after moving back to Canada, I was approached by a former roommate who wanted to hire me. I politely declined, explaining that I would just find it too strange.

 

Was he pining away for you the entire time you guys were roomies? I guess that's sort of sweet, in a creepy stalker sort of way.

[Guest Wetnwildbear]

Orlando - without the Tonys!

 

Late last year I emailed and called a very well reviewed duo about 2 weeks before my arrival in their home turf of Orlando. I was on a business trip and looking to setup a rather vanilla evening. In fact I was looking well within their advertised interests.

 

I described myself accurately - and received no response - I repeated a week out and then 3 days out.

 

Meanwhile I sought out other company with great success.

 

About two weeks after I had returned home from my trip I received an email thanking me for my interest, and saying they had not responded because they didn't think we'd be compatible. I thought to myself - at this point Why Bother with the response?

 

 

Several years ago I had an escort arrive at my hotel - His pics had been a little face-fuzzy, but showed a great bod and mutual interests. It turns out it was someone with whom I had gone to high school - He had been 2 yrs ahead of me, Capt. of the Football Team, etc.

Very Hot in high school and still good looking at the door. But definitely NOT the 35years he advertised - Once we established where I had scene him before - the magic was gone.

 

I was friends with his younger sister - She had shown me pictures of him while in college at Tulane in New Orleans as a Drag Queen. That was all I could picture . . . him as a Big - BAD - BLOND - LIZA!

 

NEXT!~

[Gar1eth]

In this escort's defense, it's terribly difficult to compete with the beauty and grace of a purple kow!

 

Well of course the escort was shocked--"he never thought he'd see one" !!!

 

 

(I couldn't resist it was just too perfect)

 

Gman

[body2body]

Once a few years ago, I made an appointment with a guy running an ad in Frontiers. There was no face, just a torso shot in the ad. He arrived and I invited him in. He looked familiar, and he stopped on the stairs and said, "I can't do this". He reminded me that I had been a "legit" massage client a few years back, and that he just couldn't go ahead with the session. I could understand his state of mind, and he apologized and left, no harm, no foul.

 

Then about 3 or 4 years ago there was a beautiful man of about 30 (according to his rentboy ad) who I saw twice. I had a great time with him, and he certainly gave every indication that he had enjoyed himself. A week later I called to schedule a third session, and He told me "I've decided only to see guys between 18 and 45, It gets a little creepy for me when I'm with someone older". I was about 53 at the time. A week later his renboy ad said that he was looking for dates with guys between 18 and 45. He no longer posts on rentboy or anywhere else, I assume.

[eeyore]

I was once rejected by an escort because I was so good looking that he felt no one would look at him when we walked down the street together. Did I mention that this was in Bizarro world?

 

Funny, I have the same problem...

[rvwnsd]

I contacted a well-reviewed escort, explained what I wanted and he politely stated that we were not a match. I was fine with that answer, as I would rather not have a session than have one that neither one of us enjoyed.

[justaguy]

I absolutely agree. When the $$ are thrown into the equation, it's only professional for a guy to say he doesn't think he's what I need.

[uwsman2]

strange connections

 

I had contacted a guy advertising as a hot bondage top with a great dungeon and lots of toys. As we proceeded to discuss things via email, he indicated he couldn't do it since he figured out that I was a good friend of his ex-boyfriend - we had traded pics. It was clear to me that the pic he was using was fraudulent once he said that, so I was glad he backed away. Of course, I couldn't tell from his fraudulent pic who he actually was. In retrospect, I'm glad he was honest about that, although I was disappointed at the time. (And puzzled about the pic he was using, because I remembered him as a hot, well-built guy. But I guess every guy, no matter how beautiful he appears to others, is likely to have his own body issues.... Or maybe he was using somebody else's pic just to preserve his anonymity.)

[whipped guy]

same guy?

 

I had contacted a guy advertising as a hot bondage top with a great dungeon and lots of toys... It was clear to me that the pic he was using was fraudulent once he said that, so I was glad he backed away. Of course, I couldn't tell from his fraudulent pic who he actually was.... (And puzzled about the pic he was using, because I remembered him as a hot, well-built guy. But I guess every guy, no matter how beautiful he appears to others, is likely to have his own body issues.... Or maybe he was using somebody else's pic just to preserve his anonymity.)

 

Now I am not sure if this was the same guy, but several years ago I knew of a "guy advertising as a hot bondage top with a great dungeon and lots of toys" who used "fraudulent pics". I was also "puzzled" about that because he was indeed a "hot, well-built guy". It turns out that he didn't want his ex to know what he was up to... or at least that was his story to justify the scenario to me. Still, there was something about him that just quite didn't add up... For the record the "great dungeon" was his pigsty of a bedroom, but he did have lots of toys... lots of toys!

 

It may or may not have been the same individual... but it at the very least illustrates that there are guys out there who are less than totally honest... and for what ever reason.

[+ Cash4Trash]

An escort I had interest in had just received his first review and it was glowing.

 

I mentioned it when I called for an appointment and congratulated him. He went a bit off the

deep end claiming those of us who read reviews will expect too much, be too demanding, etc., etc., etc. Real performance anxiety.

 

He decided I wasn't his kind of client. He's still working so I hoped he's calmed down.

[lerbut23]

Have heard from several people that SmallTownJohn turns away all potential clients of a certain race.

[Guest TBinCHI]

Well, if you "heard it" from "several" people, my gosh it must be true. If you don't know for yourself, why on earth would you post such a malicious rumor? I hope your post is removed by the moderators.

[doitb4ugo]

Huh?

 

That's a pretty serious accusation.....comming out of the blue like it does...I don't know you or SmallTownJohn but what poosible good motive could you have for posting this here??

 

No offense meant or intended. Just consternation.