Charles (SF) 46th Review!!! -:)

[+ Axiom2001]

A while ago I could not resist in going to see what had been written about CharlesRod (SF). Well, I read the review in its entirety; it was written by a woman (who wrote rather decently and in detail), but I have a little problem in reading about the experiences of a bi/gay man who has been with women! (Charles has a lover, so he's more gay than bi, I'd presume!)

 

What are your thoughts regarding this scenario and situation?

[Epigonos]

The question of posting reviews written by women has been discussed here before. I believe that site policy is that if a woman submits a review and it fulfills all of the criteria for a valid review it will be printed. I have NO problem with that but I also have NO interest in reading such a review. I also quickly loose interest in the escort reviewed. It is more than likely that some of the escorts I have hired have had female clients. If so I simply don’t want to know about it. Now I am aware that this might be considered a head in the sand ass in the air concept BUT so be it.

[Bart]

Question to the group

 

So the question that should be put forth does a review by a woman help, hurt or no difference?

 

If I had never met Charles, I would more likely not hire him. However, I have met Charles on several occassions a dynamic escort who is probably comfortable in any situation, but he is not big on playing second fiddle. No matter the situation he will give 100%.

 

So I dont feel qualified to answer the question above because of my past experiences with Charles.

 

I find the review a little like the guy who posts pictures on Rentboy with the girls body cut-off but her arm, hand or breast happen to be in the way. It is just not an appetizing thought.

[+ newatthis]

escorts with women; bi or straight escorts

 

The question of posting reviews written by women has been discussed here before...I also quickly loose interest in the escort reviewed....

...I find the review a little like the guy who posts pictures on Rentboy with the girls body cut-off but her arm, hand or breast happen to be in the way. It is just not an appetizing thought.

I confess that I have pretty much the same reaction as Epigonos and Bart. Similarly, when a strip club dancer describes himself as straight or even bi to me, I get turned off. And I've been called out on that by a good friend here, who has had multiple smoking sessions with self-described straight dancers or escorts and can't understand my reaction. Indeed, I myself have had hot sessions with such dancers (typically before I learn that they are "straight").

 

I've tried to analyze why I get turned off this way. The best I can do is to suspect a subconscious fear (mine) that deep down this straight or bi guy harbors his own aversion or adverse opinion of gays, or sees us just as cash machines. I know from my own experience that this is not true in all cases , but still...

 

An incident that has stuck in my mind happened with a Boardwalk dancer. As we were driving to my hotel, I learned that he had a girlfriend and was straight, which he defined as "feeling more emotional attachment to women even though I enjoy sex with both." Hearing this, I asked "doesn't it make sense for me to turn around and take you back to the club?" His response: "Are you really that closed minded?"

 

And you know what? He was great in bed; really enjoyed bottoming. But I don't seem to generalize from that experience; other escorts with women turn me off.

[+ Lucky]

That's The Way I Like It

 

Under Hooboy the site was known as male4male escort reviews, and that's the way I like it. I would be less likely to hire a guy who serviced women, but there are always exceptions.

[+ purplekow]

While a review from a woman would not help me to decide on my own desire for an escort, the fact that an escort has had sex with a woman means nothing to me. If the guy is hot, horny and an aggressive and active participant in our encounter, I really don't have much time to consider his other partners.

Now one of my first escorts and one I hired many times was "straight" but I would never have testified to it under oath. He bottomed eagerly and often while we fucked, something other escorts have not always done. I did stop hiring him however when he confessed that he hated escorting. He found it degrading and he admitted that the only reason he was doing it was for them money. Now that destroyed the illusion.

The only encounter I had with him after that, I had difficulty initiating any activity and though eventually everything reached an exciting conclusion for both of us, the thought that he was just there for the money was an unwanted distraction.

Perhaps my head is deeper in the sand than Epigonos, but I need to maintain the thought that the escort actually is enjoying having sex with me, no matter with whom he had had sex in the past.

[dcguy20]

I read the review as well, and just couldn't figure out why she wouldn't post such review where women would readily read it. I see Charles has a ton of favorable reviews, but for some reason the last one was a turn off.

[seattlebottom]

It seems that the last guy reviewed by a woman on here is no longer escorting, it would be interesting to know if the review had anything to do with that.

[+ Italiano]

where did you find in daddys' reviews "CharlesRod" or Charles from SF?...

[Bart]

His stage name is Charles Rod but the reviews

 

http://www.daddysreviews.com/newest.php?who=charles_sf&page=0

 

are just listed as Charles.

[Mark Gordon]

Dating Bisexuals

 

I have dated some really hot bisexual guys including an M4M escort. I found I didn't mind them checking-out women as long as they remembered they were with me. However, whenever they launched into graphic descriptions of what they got up to with women, I found it very off-putting. I think it would be quite challenging for a gay man to actually form an enduring relationship with a bisexual man. I would always feel that I couldn't fully satisfy him.

[BaronArtz]

I agree with what Mark Gordon wrote above. It is nearly impossible to satisfy a bisexual guy when you're gay. When I moved to NYC, young and naive, I dated a hot Puerto Rican stripper who worked at 'Show Palace' at the time. When him and I walked into a restaurant, for instance, most women (and several guys) would simply stop eating and stare at my friend. Not only was he bi, his latin 'machismo' culture almost forced him to continuously play around with women. When we lived together, he retired from stripping at 'Show Palace' but would continuously bring various chicks home and f**k them. I tried to convince myself that I shouldn't be so narrow-minded, but I felt a real sense of jealousy and of betrayal. This went on for more than a year. I asked him several times to leave, but of course he wouldn't. In the end, though, he ended up leaving me for a woman. His departure probably was the best thing that ever happened to me - my life with him was hell.

 

Somebody had a funny post on here a while ago explaining why you should never date a stripper. That post was right-on. Let me add: never date a bi stripper. Have fun with them if you must, but dating is a big no-no.

[+ Axiom2001]

Thanks, guys, for responding. If others desire to cite their take on the matter, I'd be interested in reading.

 

I have to confess! I've seen Charles on numerable occasions during the past six years. He even has sent me (unwanted) emails apparently expressing a desire of my company. I have liked the guy in many respects, and he has definitely satisfied my sexual libido, for I've even written glorious and explicit reviews here and at http://www.men4rentnow.com and at http://www.maleescortsreviews.com, but during our last session which occurred before the end of the year, Charles lay in bed with men and shared the experience which appeared in Friday's review. I was quite uninterested in this but was too kind in not expressing it.

 

Charles has been upfront with me regarding all queries that I have asked of him in the past, and he and I have had some stellar times during the past, but during this time I had not been comfortable in expressing my distaste in hearing how he ate pussy and fired up their nips of these women. (I can attest for Charles's expertise in the latter department. One is sore and tender for days after having Charles attack his nips!)

 

But, at any rate, after reading his last review-- I became more disappointed and desired the opinions of others. Charles has sent me two emails this month, but I have yet to respond. Eventually we might see each other again, for there is no animosity that exists between us, but right now I highly desire to meet other men during 2010. -

[BaronArtz]

"but during this time I had not been comfortable in expressing my distaste in hearing how he ate pussy and fired up their nips of these women."

 

Maybe that's the problem. How is he supposed to know you find this distasteful? Maybe he thinks you find it exciting ... It is was me, I'd rather not know where his mouth has been.

[dcguy20]

We're also buying into a fantasy when we hire these guys. As wonderful as his reviews are, this most recent review would probably lead me to hire someone else.

[Bart]

Some of the comments here are where I thought they would go. That said I do regret posing a question here inside Axiom's thread and I should have posted a fresh thead. Although no one has been harsh I did not intend this to be a referendum on Charles. My experiences mirror Axiom's almost to a tee. have had a couple of excellent outings, mine being each for a weekend. I have nothing but the highest regard for Charles sexual prowness. The man can have sex 24 hours a day and is open to virtually anything safe. I would almost say its overwhelming.

 

I certainly know Charles is not the first guy to go both ways escorting. I think if you dont want to hear about the times with the other gender, I think you just have to say so.

 

Anyway just wanted you to know my opinion of him has not changed, just the thought of a sharing an experience of times with the opposite sex as being not the best sort of advertising around here.

[Guest flamengo]

How can anyone who enjoys the male companions in Brazil and/or Argentina be too upset when Charles talks about eating pussy, etc?? Those of us who enjoy a huge BRA and/or AR cock cannot be too disturbed by Charles' actions. At least, I imagine Charles is selective regarding the women he satisfies. Probably 85 - 90% of the boys who are escorts/sauna boys in BRA/AR are str8. Knowing this and their sex drive, I doubt that they are concerned about the cleanliness of their female partners and will eat pussy as long as the stench is not too bad! But yet, we (or at least some of us) don't hesitate taking a big banana in any orifice! We suffer from "head-in-sand-syndrome" and don't want to face reality!

[+ Lucky]

flamengo, that's an excellent question. One of the best guys I have ever encountered was in Rio. We met in the sauna and later in my hotel room. After showing me the best sex ever, we went to the lobby where his girlfriend had been waiting for him. He introduced us, kissed me good bye, and went to spend my money on her. I was thrilled! So, I take back what I said above. This guy was willing to do so much more than most gay guys do.

If a straight guy can give gay sex such glory, then carry on with those girls!

Just don't tell me about it.

[pierrot]

doubts

 

I'm not really bothered by the review of Charles by a woman -- I've never had the privilege of hiring Charles, though I'd like to. However there's something odd about that review. When I read it, I sort of suspected it was an invention. I can't really say why, but it's just odd. Why would a woman post here? It's really written more like a gay man would write. I still think it might be some gay guy's fantasy. Just a guess though.

[SFViking]

I'm not really bothered by the review of Charles by a woman -- I've never had the privilege of hiring Charles, though I'd like to. However there's something odd about that review. When I read it, I sort of suspected it was an invention. I can't really say why, but it's just odd. Why would a woman post here? It's really written more like a gay man would write. I still think it might be some gay guy's fantasy. Just a guess though.

 

I've long thought than many of Charles' reviews sound very similar in tone; as if he had written them himself.

 

SFV

[+ Axiom2001]

I've long thought than many of Charles' reviews sound very similar in tone; as if he had written them himself.

 

SFV

 

Charles told me during some of our conversations that he rarely comes to this site at all. I believed and still believe that he does not; thus from my viewpoint. his clients (I included) have been taken aback by this guy's personality, stamina, sexual prowess, looks (esp. that huge dick that swings on his thin bod), his luscious curly hair esp. when he lets it grow long, etc. are all of those facets which have encouraged us to write about C H A R L E S!

 

I again thank all of you who responded.

 

I like Charles (in spite of his having shared that experience (in part) with me), and perhaps I should have been candid with him at that time and relayed to him that I care not to hear about that particular sexual escapade!

 

 

And fellows, I do hope that my generated thread will NOT impede others from seeing Charles; I plan to see him again but when I want to, not when he sends me those emails asking about my availability! -

 

BTW, Charles has a day job that apparently pays well from what I've gleaned; he has two degrees from Stanford University in Palo Alto, CA, as well! Our many conversations have been stellar as well as Charles's giving me what I desire!

[Gar1eth]

It seems that the last guy reviewed by a woman on here is no longer escorting, it would be interesting to know if the review had anything to do with that.

 

Do you remember who it was?

 

Gman

[Guest Wetnwildbear]

Don't Ask - Don't Smell

 

I have dated some really hot bisexual guys including an M4M escort. I found I didn't mind them checking-out women as long as they remembered they were with me. However, whenever they launched into graphic descriptions of what they got up to with women, I found it very off-putting. I think it would be quite challenging for a gay man to actually form an enduring relationship with a bisexual man. I would always feel that I couldn't fully satisfy him.

 

I have a very hot Bisexual Fck-Buddy. The rules from the outset are:

 

We Don't discuss his exploits with Females, ever.

 

He is never to show up for our time smelling of perfume or pussy.

 

 

I agree with Mark that it would be nearly impossible for me to have an enduring

 

emotional/romantic relationship with a Bi Guy. Physical - Yes.

 

I just keep his mouth full of cock, ass or tounge and we're great!

[seeker630]

I find it interesting...

 

I have dated some really hot bisexual guys including an M4M escort. I found I didn't mind them checking-out women as long as they remembered they were with me. However, whenever they launched into graphic descriptions of what they got up to with women, I found it very off-putting. I think it would be quite challenging for a gay man to actually form an enduring relationship with a bisexual man. I would always feel that I couldn't fully satisfy him.

that no one has mentioned the fact that a significant number of gay men are particularly interested in straight men.

[Gar1eth]

that no one has mentioned the fact that a significant number of gay men are particularly interested in straight men.

 

Is it really straight guys or the fantasy of someone you are attracted to who is straight and the fantasy that they might somewhere deep be gay--or that you could make them gay--even if only as regards their relationship with you? Although I am sure on the other hand there are guys attracted to 100 % straight with absolutely no questions of their "straightness"--could it be that they really like being rejected?

 

Gman