Another bad review , by someone who was never charged

[+ Chris]

I have a few questions that have plagued me for a long time and I am about to receive a negative review from a client that addresses these questions.

 

Is an escort allowed to end a session if there is no chemistry and no attraction ?

 

 

and Secondly, Is a review allowed to be posted if the escort tells the client that there will be no charge for the time spent together.and no money ever exchanges hands.

 

I look forward to hearing the answers to these questions,

[billhu]

Chris is Correct

 

Hey if the escort ends things honorably consider yourself lucky. There is no fun in a forced adventure. I think a positive review, if any, is in order. Not every escort would care enough about the client to just nicely walk away with no exchange. Think your great Chris for doing this. Bill

[Guest greatness]

well

 

If an escort is threatened or uncomfortable with the situation, I think he is entitled to terminate the appointment. Just communicate it to your client.

 

Well I think it's up to the person who handles reviews. Usually you can submit your arguments to a bad review so don't worry too much. One bad review is not going to hurt your business.

 

I have a few questions that have plagued me for a long time and I am about to receive a negative review from a client that addresses these questions.

 

Is an escort allowed to end a session if there is no chemistry and no attraction ?

 

 

and Secondly, Is a review allowed to be posted if the escort tells the client that there will be no charge for the time spent together.and no money ever exchanges hands.

 

I look forward to hearing the answers to these questions,

[NYTomcat]

Especially given the reasons. Make sure you express them in your comments and reply to the negative review. I wouldn't hold it against you, but as always be polite

[Bart]

Chris this is a very tough choice first if the experience is as you described I dont know why a client would issue a review. What is there to review. You did not charge client he has some beef but if you handle the response just as you have here with no spear tossing, no matter what the client said and did, you are a winner all around and very classy thing to do.

 

This is a very mature question you have asked. I am sure the client is feeling down, I know I would, the time lost setting it up and guilty that you walked away.

[Edward]

What was expected

 

Alot has not been said by the escort. My question was there communication before hand to services offered and the "qualities" of the client? Even though there was no money for services a client could also be out the expense of hotels and travel.

[jackcali]

I agree, Edward. I admire Chris's honesty in turning down a session where he didn't think he could provide a satisfactory level of service. On the other hand, do I as a client really want to take the chance of wasting my time by hiring someone who might decide that he and I don't have the right chemistry or that I'm not attractive enough for him? (Jeez, I could go to a bar if I wanted that.) I think it all turns on what Chris saw that made him decide to withdraw. If the client looked like the Elephant Man and had the personality of Dick Cheney, then Chris's actions are understandable. If the client was ten pounds overweight and balding but a decent guy, then I think he was unreasonable.

 

Chris, without giving client details that you should keep confidential, can you describe why you felt that the attraction and chemistry were lacking?

[Kevin Slater]

I think it all turns on what Chris saw that made him decide to withdraw. If the client looked like the Elephant Man and had the personality of Dick Cheney, then Chris's actions are understandable. If the client was ten pounds overweight and balding but a decent guy, then I think he was unreasonable.

 

Would you rather Chris go through with the booking when he had already decided he wasn't up to the task (for whatever reason)? Or what resolution other than a polite exit would you suggest?

 

I'd hate to be in the habit of second-guessing someone else's comfort level. That he wasn't feeling that he was going to be able to perform satisfactorily and ended it admirably works for me. Hopefully he excused himself in a way that could leave the client feeling good about himself. But I don't think Chris has to fear the negative review, so long as both it and the response are truthful.

 

Kevin Slater

[jackcali]

Kevin, Sorry if I wasn't clear that I think Chris did exactly the right thing under the circumstances -- he decided to walk away rather than to go through with a session where he thought he would not give satisfactory service. In my earlier email, I praised Chris's honesty for that decision, though perhaps it is his professionalism that I meant to praise.

 

My point was really about whether a review describing the interaction would be of value to a potential client. I think that a potential client would be interested in knowing the likelihood of an escort doing to him what Chris did to his client. At least I'd want to know that if I read a review giving only the brief facts in Chris's email. To understand better, I asked Chris if he could describe what motivated him to end the session. I certainly didn't second-guess his decision; I only asked for more information about it.

[MsGuy]

Generally a preemptive response to a possible bad review is a bad idea. Chris, let this thread die and deal with the review in as constructive and honest manner as possible if and when it's posted. No good (to you) will come from continuing this discussion now.

 

Friendly advice, take it for what it's worth.