Role Playing Problem

[+ Shoreboy]

I travel for a living an am usually on the road 25 weeks out of the year. When I have saved my pennies to hire I always look for an escort that is into some very simple role playing. Trust me my scenario takes no academy award winning skills. It is a simple scenario where the escort comes in to give me a legitimate massage but get turned on and makes me do all sorts of (wonderful) things to him.

 

I only look for those escorts that advertise that they are into role playing.

 

In corresponding with the escort I always share the details of the experience and allow them to change it or alter it to make it hotter. I keep in email touch right up until the day of the encounter.

 

I like to start the play as soon as they enter my hotel door.

 

Sadly enough some come to my hotel totally forgetting the role playing, some play it out and then break the mood by saying "how am I doing" and others come and say that they only check all of the boxes on Rentmen to attract more customers.

 

I can count on one hand the number of escorts that have fulfilled my wishes and desires.

 

I respect an escort that emails me back and tells me he cannot do my scenario...better than getting him in my room and find him a dud.

 

What gives?

 

Any suggestions from escorts on how to separate the ones that can really do simple role playing from those that say they can but they can't?

[billhu]

Role Play

 

I agree totally with the above situation. It is oh so rare to realize a simple but well acted out role play. Even asking to be opicked up on the streert will see the escort approach and say: Hi, are you Bill?" I can get into other situations but if a role play is promised it needs fullfillment. Thanks.

[+ newatthis]

Have you thought of hiring a masseur who also escorts? There are plenty of them around, and your scenario might be a natural one for them.

[Guest TBinCHI]

Role playing experts that immediately come to mind: Rick & Derek from New York. There was one review of them being "home invaders" where the aim was to invade the homeowner! Very hot. And I can personally attest that they are very hot as well. Hmm, hiring them for a 4-handed massage.......could get very steamy.

[Muscle Lover 2]

Role play duds

 

I agree with the original post and had posted on the same subject a few months ago. I love role play and so few deliver. Erik Rhodes was not bad but, I have to agree, Rick and Derek were the best. Logan with Maximum was not bad at it.

[+ Charlie]

I'm sure that many escorts do list "role play" on the Rentboy and Rentmen ads just because it sounds easy to do. However, to do it well requires more acting skill than managing to look excited while having sex with someone while fantasizing about something else. I think you should look for the more mature and experienced professional escorts, particular those who have been reviewed in some detail (unless, unfortunately, your role play fantasy involves young surfers or the like). It is also a good idea to discuss exactly what you are hoping for in advance, and to warn the escort that you would like him to stay in character throughout the scene (if he's not doing it well, you will be the one to say "cut!"). I'm sure there is no mood-breaker like the hulking masseur tying you down on the table and threatening to rape you, but then asking you for permission to first take a bathroom break.

[Bart]

Been there

 

I dont do a lot of role play, but from my experiences I would state the following:

 

I am not sure how detailed your emails are but you may need to consider a step by step alternative. I have come the conclusion that I need to give detailed emails, those whom I have hired can probably attest to it but they tend to be kind by saying that they know where they stand.

 

I have come to a conclusion that many guys do not read the full email only parts like date time and length. I too hate it when gentlemen enter the room and ask "So what are we doing today?"

 

I would consider a short follow up phone call to confirm your exact wants.

 

To be honest if you are only hiring for an hour, I think role play is a bit harder.

 

I would use experienced and reviewed escorts and the comment made earlier about using a more mature escort, over 30, would probably work best.

 

By the way I have had the same fantasy but have never acted it out with a gentleman yet.

[whipped guy]

I have come to a conclusion that many guys do not read the full email only parts like date time and length. I too hate it when gentlemen enter the room and ask "So what are we doing today?"

Or even worse when they make you wait in the street because he had no clue until I rang the doorbell what type of session it was going to be... Then there was the time I specifically asked not to go a certain direction... and when I said I had been very specific with my request in writing he turned every color of the rainbow... He evidentially read it so fast that he remembered it as being exactly the opposite of what I had requested...

... I would consider a short follow up phone call to confirm your exact wants.

Not a bad idea if the guy can't read... or fails to read properly.

...over 30, would probably work best.

Definitely... but hopefully he has the smarts of someone over 40! Actually I have discovered that unfortunately most guys can't act... so this is a tough one... I have found that when things flow naturally it works out best... at least for me that is... So I have mostly given up with the role play and consigned myself to it simply being a couple of guys having some fun.

 

Finally... Yes most guys check all the boxes on their Rent-boy profile simply to attract more clients... ask any "specialist" client out there.

[Guest TBinCHI]

The best laid plans...

 

I had one experience with an escort that I had taken great pains to plan in advance. There were numerous emails back and forth not just talking about what I was looking for but also the psychology behind it. When the evening came and I walked in the door expecting what I had asked for, it all flew out the window as the chemistry between us changed everything. In the moment it was unbelievably hot. When I had the chance to reflect on it, I realized that I didn't get what I wanted, but I definitely got what I needed. I will definitely hire this person again, but will not bother to plan anything out. And, I'm sure that it will surpass the previous encounter.

[Rick Munroe]

Sadly enough some come to my hotel totally forgetting the role playing, some play it out and then break the mood by saying "how am I doing"

 

Derek and I have had the opposite situation (oh, and thanks for the testimonials, TBinCHI and Muscle Lover 2!). When presented with a role play scenario, we prepare thoroughly and make sure we have our characters and the situation clear in our heads. Then, once in a while, we'll enter the someone's hotel room or home (or vice versa) and they'll break the mood by starting to chat with us as if we're Rick and Derek and not the thugs or plumbers or whatever it is we were supposed to be. It doesn't happen often, but when it does, all you can do is laugh and go with it!

[rvwnsd]

I would add Raul G Manzo to the category of wonderful role-playing escorts. He's also more than willing to talk on the phone in advance of a playdate and review everything you want to do.

[Businessguy]

Role Play Experts

 

Yes-role plays can be tricky. I prefer just a general scenerio and then use everyones imaginations to let it flow and develop.

I can say that AndrewD and Todd Dillon are excellent at carrying out role play scenes. I didn't write a review about it because I've written reviews on these guys before. But I hired them for a 3-way recently where I set up a role play where I was their boss and the company was downsizing. I sat them down and told them I had only one position available and I wanted to know which of them wanted the job the most. I wanted to know what they were willing to do to keep their job. Wow! They took to it like dogs in heat. I set up a competiton to see who could go the farthest and who could be the nastiest. What ever one would do, the other had to do it better. I was in heaven. As the role play concluded, they both so impressed me that I couldn't fire either of them. Now I have two employees who know how to keep their boss very happy. I think next we'll set it up so that the two employees can extract a revenge on their boss.

Give them a try one-on-one or hire them for a 3-way. Their chemistry is over the top and they both really love doing role plays.

[Guest andrewd]

Thanks BJ, I mean, BG Is it too soon to ask for a bonus? We had a great time together and yes, Todd & I do enjoy role play. Another instance involved being with my 'secret lover' in a hotel having an afternoon tryst when Todd 'accidently' went to the wrong room to meet his tryst and walked in on us. xoxoxo

[Dave]

as an escort who is into this, i would say the thing that can actually screw up the role play for me is getting too many directions/instructions from the client, pre-appointment. i like to have leeway - not have it all scripted out in detail. for me, it's enough for a client to throw out the scene concept and then let me do it. i often improvise as we go along; i find it results in a hotter scene.

 

perhaps one way to screen an escort in terms of how good he'll be with role play would be to have a phone conversation with him about it. i think you have a better chance of being able to determine if someone gets what you're saying in a live conversation, than in an email.

[bcohen7719]

What about handling this by sending a carefully prepared written script or set of written instructions in advance via email for the escort to study a day or two in advance? In some ways this would be like an actor who needs time and details to prepare for a very specific role. It is sometimes easier for someone to absorb all of the details if they are written down. You could test this out, and if this helps, improve upon the written script. Does this sound sensible?

[SteveStacks]

Woohoo!

 

I agree that, as with most things, seeking out well reviewed guys is the best way to ensure you get what you want.

 

I love role play! (Or anything that allows two people to engage on other levels -mental-emotional-psychological, than just the physical.)

 

When I do role plays with guys, I try to enter into the role as quickly as possible.

That means after the initial email or phone call setting the date and time and other logistics, i will often send an email (or if the client has okayed it and discretion allows, even call) "in character" to try and begin to build a "history" between the two characters the client and I are playing.

 

I think doing an initial "scene setting" contact also gives the client some idea of how good the escort is actually going to be at role play as well.

[+ Shoreboy]

Just had to add another word to this thread even though it is getting a tad old.

 

Rarely does my work take me to the West Coast but a year or so ago it did and I had the pure joy of hiring Steve Sacks.

 

I gave him the role playing scenario I was looking for (disgruntled TV repairman whom I had failed to call and someone had previously fixed the TV and therefore, since he missed his date I became his replacement) and he was beyond being a pro in all he did, how he performed and is still the standard by which I judge others in their role playing skills.

 

Recently Steve was in NYC and I just couldn't arrange my schedule to be there while he was there. He did email me and I reminded him of his previous performance...and lo and behold he remembered it....another star for him.

 

With role playing it is really a hit or miss so when you find one who is exemplary...keep him.

 

Thanks Steve and I am so sorry I missed you in NYC.

[SteveStacks]

Just had to add another word to this thread even though it is getting a tad old.

 

Rarely does my work take me to the West Coast but a year or so ago it did and I had the pure joy of hiring Steve Sacks.

 

I gave him the role playing scenario I was looking for (disgruntled TV repairman whom I had failed to call and someone had previously fixed the TV and therefore, since he missed his date I became his replacement) and he was beyond being a pro in all he did, how he performed and is still the standard by which I judge others in their role playing skills.

 

Recently Steve was in NYC and I just couldn't arrange my schedule to be there while he was there. He did email me and I reminded him of his previous performance...and lo and behold he remembered it....another star for him.

 

With role playing it is really a hit or miss so when you find one who is exemplary...keep him.

 

Thanks Steve and I am so sorry I missed you in NYC.

 

Thanks Shoreboy! I was bummed to miss you too, but I look forward to the next time I get the chance to meet with you!

[Bart]

I dont find the thread old at all in fact great you came back several months later for an update because I have one as well.

 

I recently had two experiences vastly different. In both cases I asked for the same, a 2 hour meeting kissing, body contact and getting fucked. I added a few other likes if he was interested but did not have to go there. I left the creativity up to him. Very simple straight forward and included an appropriate description of myself and general expectations.

 

The first gentleman young but was in my town and believe me when something comes to my town I generally jump at the opportunity. He contacted me promptly, we were able to set a date and $, although the two hours was more of an open ended 1 hour+ his request not mine. I specifically asked if he was comfortable in performing all three key items and he said yes. Upon arrival and cloak and dagger routine that had me nearly passing it by, I should have, and very immature, arrived and jumped into action. Dropped his drawers put a condom on his dick and had me suck, no kissing no body contact. Wanted to put a condom on my dick and suck it and I said "I prefer to get jacked," which is true. Fuck was okay he watched gay black porn on this great huge TV in the hotel room, did not utter even a sound during the routine.

 

UGH! It was like he had never read one word of my request except that I was a bottom and interested. Thank God there was not a second hour.

 

The second involved two gentlemen older and mature, bigger than life and let me tell you the creativity which was I might add a massage that turned into ball draining sex that actually had me, me of all people coming up for air from kissing. Folks that dont happen with me. The guy literally sucked the life out of my mouth. I could go on but that is what a review is worth.

 

The point is that some guys take the time to create a scenario for you. I just dont know how to differentiate neither has reviews here. I know age and maturity have a lot to do with it, but sometimes that does not always happen. I actually have a third story that fell inbetween but I have gone on too long. Yes reviews help but I will say again just because a review showed a gentleman working for one guy does not mean it will work for the next.

 

So I just wonder why gentleman respond to requests when they have no intention of following through with most of it?

[+ Tygerscent]

Damn~! Where you located? I Love roleplaying~! I'd love to hear about your scenario(s)... maybe embellish together~! I've done team played and coach, Daddy/boi, plumber/construction repair guy, cable guy, pizza guy, mechanic, guy who has just broken up with his girlfriend, straight guy looking for some hot side fun, doctor, lawyer, all kinds of things. Drop an email if you like~!

 

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