A new guy in NYC

[operalover21]

I can't write a review since he asked me not to but I met a "new guy" in NYC recently who was just terrific. Found him on Craigslist although he's also on massage4m. com. Stunningly beautiful, around 5'11", 175 beautifully muscled lbs., with a a lovely face and a nice sculpted ass. Did everything I asked and then some. Was like being on a very sexy date. $360 for 3 hours. Sometimes there are great guys who don't charge $300 per hour.

[+ purplekow]

So is this man being kept a secret or will a discrete inquiery to you yield a name or number?

[jeepman]

Your a tease operalover.

[Guest DuchessIvanaKizznhugg]

????

 

Does that mean the 21 in operlover21 stands for "lucky"?

[GoodFella69]

Hey Operalover21,

Congrats on your good fortune! He sounds like a great discovery... Who among us doesn't appreciate a "sculpted muscle ass!"

 

I'm just curious why an escort would not want to be reviewed? There's probably an obvious answer (or two), I just haven't thought of it.

 

Thanks,

Goodfella69.

[operalover21]

Hey Operalover21,

Congrats on your good fortune! He sounds like a great discovery... Who among us doesn't appreciate a "sculpted muscle ass!"

 

I'm just curious why an escort would not want to be reviewed? There's probably an obvious answer (or two), I just haven't thought of it.

 

Thanks,

Goodfella69.

 

I didn't probe but I think he mostly does massage and wants to keep it that way and doesn't want to have pics/etc. out there. At least that's my guess.

 

I'd love to share his name and number .... in about 6 months ... when I'm done. Sorry, this one is too good to share right now. Yes, I know it's selfish but at least I realize that!

[Guest LeoWalker]

I'm just curious why an escort would not want to be reviewed?

 

In this case, it sounds like he wants discretion and it was something that the "escort" does not normally do.

 

However, in many escorts' cases, they don't desire to be objectified in the dime-novel/porn thrill language that most reviews tend to have. It's one thing to meet with a client, it's another to read yourself described in such ways.

[seeker630]

Very interesting observation!

 

In this case, it sounds like he wants discretion and it was something that the "escort" does not normally do.

 

However, in many escorts' cases, they don't desire to be objectified in the dime-novel/porn thrill language that most reviews tend to have. It's one thing to meet with a client, it's another to read yourself described in such ways.

 

Thanks for that comment, Leo. It's something I've wondered about, and a few times I've felt slightly uncomfortable being relatively graphic about what was, after all, a private and personal experience. And yet, I feel that a certain amount of detail is necessary if the readers (potential clients, one hopes) are to be able to make an informed decision about compatibilities and the likelihood that their own encounter would be worthwhile.

[GoodFella69]

In this case, it sounds like he wants discretion and it was something that the "escort" does not normally do.

 

However, in many escorts' cases, they don't desire to be objectified in the dime-novel/porn thrill language that most reviews tend to have. It's one thing to meet with a client, it's another to read yourself described in such ways.

 

Leo, you make a very good point. Thanks for sharing insight from the escort perspective. Your comment prompted me to wonder if some escorts may be willing to perform certain "acts" for some clients but not others depending on their comfort-level with each client. If so, then perhaps they would not want their willingness to perform said "acts" reported in a review which might lead future clients to expect the same "acts."

[+ Lucky]

Probing

 

I didn't probe but

 

 

You didn't? I would have.

[seeker630]

It happens...

 

Leo, you make a very good point. Thanks for sharing insight from the escort perspective. Your comment prompted me to wonder if some escorts may be willing to perform certain "acts" for some clients but not others depending on their comfort-level with each client. If so, then perhaps they would not want their willingness to perform said "acts" reported in a review which might lead future clients to expect the same "acts."

 

but I wouldn't presume to guess how often or who does it. But I had an escort who was 'top only' in his 'work' agree to bottom for me with the understanding that I wouldn't publicize it. I do know that he was versatile with his boyfriend.

[whipped guy]

...with the understanding that I wouldn't publicize it...

 

Ditto for some guys that can get into S&M but don't want to scare off their bread and butter vanilla clients or feel that they are not yet ready for prime time.

[Guest LeoWalker]

Speaking about acts being published...another thing they may not want published is the rate. I really doubt an escort wants the world to know that they gave one particular client a big discount.

 

Reviews have their place and serve a purpose...but don't put too much weight into the accounts they give. I know in some reviews it'll say, "he was hard as a rock", and then when speaking with the actual escort they'll say, "I didn't even get hard". Much of the experience is based on personality...and not explicit activities. It's nearly, if not completely, impossible to review that...as it is different for each person.

[operalover21]

Speaking about acts being published...another thing they may not want published is the rate. I really doubt an escort wants the world to know that they gave one particular client a big discount.

 

Reviews have their place and serve a purpose...but don't put too much weight into the accounts they give. I know in some reviews it'll say, "he was hard as a rock", and then when speaking with the actual escort they'll say, "I didn't even get hard". Much of the experience is based on personality...and not explicit activities. It's nearly, if not completely, impossible to review that...as it is different for each person.

 

I think you're right which is another reason I didn't do the review. I know what he advertises is a lot more. I'm seeing him again tonight .... on top of everything else -- no pun intended -- he isn't a clock watcher and often ends up spending the night.

 

Best money I've ever spent.

[GoodFella69]

You didn't? I would have.

 

Lol. That's funny, Lucky!

[+ glutes]

private stock

 

Operaluver, I don't think you are the only one that keeps 'private stock'...

[+ FreshFluff]

 

I'd love to share his name and number .... in about 6 months ... when I'm done. Sorry, this one is too good to share right now. Yes, I know it's selfish but at least I realize that!

 

You will be sharing him though--with other guys on CL. And if he's not getting enough business, he may up and move someplace else--well before six months.

[operalover21]

You will be sharing him though--with other guys on CL. And if he's not getting enough business, he may up and move someplace else--well before six months.

 

If he does, that's life. I've got at least 3 others on the "back-up" list!

[operalover21]

Operaluver, I don't think you are the only one that keeps 'private stock'...

 

I sort of feel guilty. Big emphasis on "sort of."