Why I hire David.... or.... Fool Me Once....

[Steven_Draker]

Thanks for the entertainment !

 

My bad, sorry guys. I always thought that late night drunk-posting (cfr. OP) is so entertaining and fun. No better way to make a fool out of yourself.

 

And to the ladies who got their panties in a twist: If you can't handle my postings just don't read them.

 

Have a great day !

[seeker630]

Although I don't post often, I've been following the forum for more than a few years.

 

I suspect most of us have a posting or 2 we regret - and for Steven, as his subsequent post says, I think this is one of them.

 

I'd rather not dredge up the past, so I hope this subthread ends here.

[JT Brooklyn]

Although I don't post often, I've been following the forum for more than a few years.

 

I suspect most of us have a posting or 2 we regret - and for Steven, as his subsequent post says, I think this is one of them.

 

I'd rather not dredge up the past, so I hope this subthread ends here.

 

Well then you know how he does from Time to Time alledgedly REGRET what he says..When he is called on it by both Working Guys and Clients alike!

 

Sometimes the Past is also someones Future!

[Steven_Draker]

panties in a twist

 

I suspect most of us have a posting or 2 we regret - and for Steven, as his subsequent post says, I think this is one of them.

 

Please do NOT put words in my mouth. I never said that I regret what I posted above and I stand by what I said, notwithstanding you like it or not.

 

Have a great day!

[+ Axiom2001]

Please do NOT put words in my mouth. I never said that I regret what I posted above and I stand by what I said, notwithstanding you like it or not.

 

Have a great day![/color]

 

 

Steven, I overlooked your first ambiguous post to Okie's thread, but I did question its validity.

 

Since you've gone beyond that first posting and have begun to upset some of the readers and the posters after being off this site and these boards for almost two months-- it would be wonderful if you would write positively for a change! Or is this your way of yearning for attention to self by writing negatively? Might I suggest that you attempt to end this year of 2009 on a brighter note instead of a gloomy, dark one?

[seeker630]

Apparently I misunderstood your post

 

Please do NOT put words in my mouth. I never said that I regret what I posted above and I stand by what I said, notwithstanding you like it or not.

 

Have a great day![/color]

 

If you wish to stand by your name-calling...I'm happy to let you!

[Steven_Draker]

If you wish to stand by your name-calling...

 

sicker630: Please pinpoint the post with the name-calling. You may have been confused.

Axiom: Sorry that you didn't get my humor. Some things are easily lost in translation.

 

I understand that this thread is heavily drama-loaded, so let me finish on a lighter and brighter note (as per your request) ...

 

 

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Drama in Oklahoma

"This is the end of the world": all credits go to Lucky

[JT Brooklyn]

Ah yes, JT. Memories of the "IceFireWizard" who wasn't so nice.

 

Apparently at this rate they are never going to be just Boring "Memories" either!

[seeker630]

'sicker630'?

 

I was referring to your post 'a cry baby'.

[Okliehomo]

No tears from this crybaby.

 

Never meant for this thread to be "dramatic". I wasn't crying or bitching or naming names. I was just sharing a particularly unique hiring experience, one that I had never encountered before... as in....

 

A very well reviewed guy agrees to pay a visit. We are VERY clear that filming is part of it. He has issues with it but assures me that he can do the job. Based on that, I rebook his ticket. A week before his visit, he emails me and cancels.... because he has now decided he can't do the filming. OK. Then this fall, because I already have the ticket, I ask him again and again, to my surprise, actually, he agrees again. So, I rebook the ticket and one week before his visit, he calls this time and cancels. AGAIN. Because he can't do the filming. OK. So, now I have not only bought the original ticket, but now, I have rebooked him twice and he has cancelled on me for something that he knew all about upfront, months ago and now, because I want it how I want it, I have to buy new tickets for two two guys to replace him. Seriously, how many of you out there would be all smiles about that??

 

BUT.... the real point of the thread was that despite my frustration and the fact that I really did everything right (except maybe taking him at his word?) and still got the wrong result.... was that in the end (literally), I got the exactly RIGHT result. Hence, the no crying, no bitching part....His bad business turned out good for me....... Kristian (so amazing and sweet... perfect every time..) the first time and this time, Stefano (gorgeous and such a pretty, pretty ass... can't fucking wait)... so, boys, no one's shedding a tear in Oklahoma. Except maybe those poor people that Lucky mentioned.... but believe me, for me... IT'S ALL GOOD.

 

I'm the happiest girl in the whole USA!!!

 

And about my alleged "addition to filming"... shut up. That's as much my right as anal and oral and kissing or fisting and water sports and scat..... this is business, boys... we all like what we like and we are paying for it.... we are not dating... and hoping and dreaming and wishing here... it's a business deal.... a transaction... I will give you this much if you do that..... Telling me to let that go just to "meet a guy," please. That's like telling Bart to give up bottoming or Whip to give up getting... you know.... Not going to happen, friends.... it's essential and if guys don't want to seal that deal, I respect that. I really do. Just make that business decision before you let me buy you a ticket, ok? Believe it or not, I get more yeses than noes... Happiest girl, remember???

 

Want to know what really caused the drama? I mentioned David in the title and that's all it took..... so predictable. I really don't think that he even read the thread. He just saw David and Okliehomo and off she went. Jealous, jealous, jealous. Pea green with envy, like Scarlett used to say. Aren't all elves green??? No, sorry, that's leprechauns. Same genre, though.

 

To be clear, I have met Steven Draker exactly twice... and I had a good time with him both times and for the record, I wasn't drunk either time. If he says, otherwise, he is lying. Keep in mind, this was before my cancer adventure... so, all that was on my mind was, how many times can I cum??? And I wasn't about letting even my on going affair with Bud Dry get in my way... and it didn't. So, no regrets about him as an escort.... then, anyway... now? Hmmmm.... I still think that he has a very hot ass... he is also the one that really got me to seek medical attention for my own ass issues... We were talking about how much it REALLY hurt for me to try and bottom and he said, "Dude, you need to see a physician about that." Not Ghandi, I realize, but still the push I needed to make me make an appt with my 12 year old doctor who stuck his finger up my butt and knew we had a real problem. Yep. Stage Three. Serious. Nick of time, no shit. All good today, though... I live to rim another day.

 

These days, I do try and ignore him. This site is important to me and I have made some very real friends from here. One of my best, actually. So, I am not going to let his snide asides ruin this. After all, I am kind of getting used to the dreaded ice chest and that stupid chart and at least, this time, I was spared his antiquated Belgian "chill pill".. Really? Is that clever anywhere? About as cool as having an autograph from Aiden Shaw. Vomit. Sincerely hope that is all he got from him. But that's a match made in Hell if there ever was one.

 

And the other reason is David. Nothing Draker ever says, no matter how sad, or petty or childish, can undermine what I feel for David. He came into my life at the very worst time. Worse than cancer, boys and he made a real difference. There is an elemental kindness to the man that got me through. Maybe I'm a drunk, maybe I'm a just a big ole sissy... or I don't know, as has been suggested, a cry baby??? but David knew what I needed and delivered big time. Beyond the sex, beneath all the oh so smooth charm and the lover boy talk... we connected and still do. In a real way. Or real enough. Not his boyfriend, not his stalker, not his mentor, not his protector.... business, boys, business ...but that boy gets me. And that matters.

 

So, I guess, in a very fucked up way, I owe them both. Draker for the push and David for all the good times now. How fucked up is that? One of destiny's merry pranks, for sure.

 

Slow curtain, the end.

 

Hope this doesn't relight the same old fuse. Time will, undoubtedly, tell.

 

Special thanks to Lucky for the re read and the private.... 4 degrees works for me. And to David and Romann for staying out of it. And to JT for being right all along and most especially to Bart for EVERYTHING.

 

Oh, sober as a judge. Hold the ice chest......

 

The Oklahoma Cry Baby.... ( I preferred the Mississippi Sissy.... but it was it was already taken.... shoot. )

[Luv2play]

Amen.

[JT Brooklyn]

AMEN Brother!

[GoodFella69]

Now boys, that's what I call "telling it like it is!"

Good for you, Okliehomo. Stay well.

 

Warm regards,

Goodfella69

[+ FreshFluff]

Okie asked why filming was any less of a valid preference than bottoming or fisting or whatever. It's not.

 

But, in that first post, he said that you picked up your preference for filming within the past year or so:

 

OK.... in the summer of 2008, I booked an appt for early Sept..... a 3 way....{SNIP}

 

Well, so, I still have those tickets... but after that, I develop this need to film it all...

 

So Okie's desire to hire the escort in question is older than the filming fetish. That doesn't make the desire to film less valid, but it did lead me to ask whether it might be worth giving up filming to be with the escort he wanted longer than he has wanted to film. Again, the answer depends on Okie himself.

 

It sounds like Okie had a good time without the escort, so all this is moot. But I though it might be worth asking anyway.

[+ Axiom2001]

Now boys, that's what I call "telling it like it is!"

Good for you, Okliehomo. Stay well.

 

Warm regards,

Goodfella69

 

 

I applaud Okie on this last post. There was no venom tossed at anyone in it-- just a very candid and sincere response!

 

Right now I am moved in regards from what you wrote from beginning to end, and I personally thank you for clarifying since your initial post received so many varied posts. -

[NYTomcat]

Keep on filming Okie. But Barts idea about Bette Davis eyes and mink coats has real merit. LOL you should cast accordingly.

[GoodFella69]

Just Curious...

 

If filming hot sex between gorgeous rentboys is what get's Okie's rocks off, and since he always finds top-quality guys who are happy & eager to oblige his desires, I say more power to Okie!

 

That said, I am curious:

 

Do rentboys ever require extra compensation for the videotaping privilege (beyond what their normal fee is for the amount of time retained)?

 

Is there a written assurance of some type that the escort sex tapes will never end up in hands other than Okie's? Do the participating escorts even care if the tapes were distributed beyond Okie's hands?

 

What happens to the escort sex tapes if (God forbid) something ever happened to Okie?

[+ newatthis]

...What happens to the escort sex tapes if (God forbid) something ever happened to Okie?

We can only hope that they are bequeathed to daddy as trustee for our community here.

[NYTomcat]

If filming hot sex between gorgeous rentboys is what get's Okie's rocks off, and since he always finds top-quality guys who are happy & eager to oblige his desires, I say more power to Okie!

 

That said, I am curious:

 

Do rentboys ever require extra compensation for the videotaping privilege (beyond what their normal fee is for the amount of time retained)?

 

Is there a written assurance of some type that the escort sex tapes will never end up in hands other than Okie's? Do the participating escorts even care if the tapes were distributed beyond Okie's hands?

 

What happens to the escort sex tapes if (God forbid) something ever happened to Okie?

 

I will personally vounteer for the position of trustee of the Okie library. Gratis:D. Where can I send my application?