Stick with your favorite escorts even when traveling... it's a sure bet!

[Guest webdaddy69]

I recently took my Indianapolis favorite escort Bryan Nash with me to San Diego. Gents when you have a good scort -maybe even a friend you want to treat them well and make them your traveling companion. We laughed, we had wonderful sex, saw stuff my wife would never want to see or do, had a 3 way etc etc.

 

Things can get boring when you are traveling by yourself, or when you are trying to find another escort.... I must tell you all that if you do have a favorite stick with them!

 

Life is good

 

Web Daddy

[Guest zipperzone]

I recently took my Indianapolis favorite escort Bryan Nash with me to San Diego. Gents when you have a good scort -maybe even a friend you want to treat them well and make them your traveling companion. We laughed, we had wonderful sex, saw stuff my wife would never want to see or do, had a 3 way etc etc.

 

Things can get boring when you are traveling by yourself, or when you are trying to find another escort.... I must tell you all that if you do have a favorite stick with them!

 

Life is good

 

Web Daddy

 

I don't want to come off as sounding moralistic - but probably can't avoid the tag - but I don't think it's all that good a policy to openly brag about having a good time with an escort doing things your wife would not enjoy.

 

So you're married - and you cheat - that's OK if you're cool with it. I just don't think it does your persona any good to talk about it. The point of your post could just as well been made without referring to you marital status.

[AdamSmith]

I don't want to come off as sounding moralistic - but probably can't avoid the tag

 

That is correct.

 

My feeling is that what does a persona the most good on these boards is to be forthcoming and honest.

 

Separately, I agree with webdaddy's point, having taken my favorite escort with me on four trips in as many months.

[Txpaytoplay]

I must concur....

[Guest zipperzone]

That is correct.

 

My feeling is that what does a persona the most good on these boards is to be forthcoming and honest.

 

Separately, I agree with webdaddy's point, having taken my favorite escort with me on four trips in as many months.

 

Nice to know you approve of cheating and bragging about it.

[Guy Fawkes]

Nice to know you approve of cheating and bragging about it.

 

Why are you assuming that he was cheating?

[JT Brooklyn]

'Saw and did stuff my WIFE would never do!" Says it all!

 

Living out ones "Fantasies" Sexually is not Cheating! As a matter of fact it may even be the reason many Relationships DO last many Years!

 

IMHO as usual of course!

[Epigonos]

The direct quote is: “We laughed, we had wonderful sex, saw stuff my wife would never want to see or do, had a 3 way etc etc.”

 

From that quote there is NO WAY one should assume the guy is cheating. NOBODY on this site, except the poster himself, has any knowledge of the type of arrangement he has with his wife. To assume he is cheating is presumptuous. It is also presumptuous to say that the guy is bragging he might, just as well, be making a simple statement of fact.

 

The vast majority of the American public would condemn many of us because we hire escorts. They would believe our behavior to be immoral. We find that attitude to be offensive and judgmental. Doesn’t condemning or criticizing a fellow poster for “cheating” in this instance amount to just about the same thing?

 

The whole point of the guys post was that, for the best results, we should stick with our regular escorts when we choose to travel with an escort. I AGREE. I’m leaving a week from Sunday for a week in Acapulco with Steven Kesslar, who I have been seeing for a number of years and with whom I KNOW I will have a great time. Now call that bragging if you wish – I call it a simply stating a fact.

 

Chill out guys and cut the poster some slack. This type of moralizing is a great way to discourage people from posting which is exactly what we should NOT be doing.

[Guest zipperzone]

The direct quote is: “We laughed, we had wonderful sex, saw stuff my wife would never want to see or do, had a 3 way etc etc.”

 

From that quote there is NO WAY one should assume the guy is cheating. NOBODY on this site, except the poster himself, has any knowledge of the type of arrangement he has with his wife. To assume he is cheating is presumptuous. It is also presumptuous to say that the guy is bragging he might, just as well, be making a simple statement of fact.

 

The vast majority of the American public would condemn many of us because we hire escorts. They would believe our behavior to be immoral. We find that attitude to be offensive and judgmental. Doesn’t condemning or criticizing a fellow poster for “cheating” in this instance amount to just about the same thing? QUOTE]

 

Those who have said that their is no proof of "cheating" are quite correct - there isn't. It's quite possible that his wife is aware of his extracurricular activities and is fine with it. Somehow I would tend not to place my betting money on that one. Perhaps she knows, is not fine with it but is helpless to do anything about it.

 

I guess the point I was trying to make is that I believe in fidelity. And if I decided to "step outside" of same, I'd keep my mouth shut.

[Guest DuchessIvanaKizznhugg]

Just sayin'....

 

To assume he is cheating is presumptuous. It is also presumptuous to say that the guy is bragging he might, just as well, be making a simple statement of fact.

I agree that you're making 2 very large assumptions, zipperzone.

I’m leaving a week from Sunday for a week in Acapulco with Steven Kesslar, who I have been seeing for a number of years and with whom I KNOW I will have a great time. Now call that bragging if you wish – I call it a simply stating a fact.

And we can hate YOU for it, either way!! lol (Have a wonderful time;))

 

All kidding aside, I think zipperzone your initial reaction to webdaddy69 seems a little over the top given you are normally more willing to extend the benefit of the doubt.

Maybe webdaddy69 will allow a "do-over"? :o

[Guest webdaddy69]

No worries

 

What I contribute should be all anyone worries about.

 

WD

[Zapped]

Back to the topic of marriages and sex with others, including escorts:

 

When I was married, my wife and I had an explicit understanding that I would have occasional sex with men. She knew I was bisexual before we got engaged. While I initially tried to be monogamous, it really didn't work. She actively encouraged me to find sexual outlets, including escorts. It did keep our marriage going for a while. Eventually she decided she wanted a monogamous relationship with a straight guy. We got divorced and are still great friends, and worked together easily and well coparenting our kids (now both in college).

 

My non-monogamy was open and had the spousal seal of approval. I was on the "bisexual married men of America" list serve for quite a while and electronically met any number of guys in similar situations.

 

I've also known guys who had a gay sex life that was kept secret from their spouses/girlfriends. That's something I could never pull off; I'd be way too uncomfortable and guilty.

 

And now I'm 51, single, attracted to guys in their 20s, and wish I could AFFORD to take an escort on a vacation with me. You guys who do must not be college professors! (That reminds me, I need to get a Powerball ticket tonight.)

 

Z

[Epigonos]

Zapped, I found your post both informative and interesting. Like you I was an educator though at the high school level. Now after thirty plus years of teaching I am retired. Probably the only reason that I am able to travel with an escort is that I never had the huge expense of putting two kids through college. Now days that is major bucks.

Good luck with your Powerball ticket.

[Guest adnyuki]

Zapped, I found your post both informative and interesting. Like you I was an educator though at the high school level. Now after thirty plus years of teaching I am retired. Probably the only reason that I am able to travel with an escort is that I never had the huge expense of putting two kids through college. Now days that is major bucks.

Good luck with your Powerball ticket.

 

Thanks to both Zapped and Epiganos for getting this back to a part of the discussion that interested me.

 

I am now middle aged (late middle aged I guess ), and have met quite a few working guys over the years. My "type" seems bend more towards Europeans since I have traveled extensively in my work, and prefer a guy who has been around to many places himself. I also find Central and Eastern European guys to be more open, urbane, handsome, less filled with themselves, and more natural in so many ways (plus terrific as escorts -- thought not meant to slam American guys, but different strokes...)

 

But with the current economy and the sinking value of the US dollar, it is not as easy as it was in the past to invite a guy for a cruise on the Mediterranean or Caribbean: the cost for the trip itself for two becomes a few thousand dollars: add to that meals, touring, excursions, shopping (as it is assumed the host pays for all these fees as part of the overall invitation), and then there is the fee for being together for a week or ten days, which minimally is also a few thousand dollars. So, one is looking at something between a bargain masement fee of $4,000 to about a more reasonable $10,000 for this pleasure.

 

I would prefer inviting someone I know, someone I feel comfortable around (especially when you consider you will be sleeping together for a week or so, and that definately does NOT mean having sex all night, but needing to really sleep )... it is expensive, damn expensive.

 

I have been searching this site in recent months for the right American based guy to invite for a winter vacation... those I have met are nice guys, but so far... not quite what I have in mind. One or two have been recommended, and their names are high on a list, but I need to first meet the guy for a few hours, then possibly an overnight or two, and then make a decision... so again, a few hundered (or a few thousand) dollars are needed to "try out" the guy.

 

So, the escort version of BYOB (Bring Your Own Boy??) can be a very expensive enterprise, but if you find the right guy, and somehow you can both work out the right price, oh is it worth all the effort (and funds)....

[Okliehomo]

Didn't read all this thread... sorry. But I thought that it started out talking about the allures of ONE guy... and I just don't buy that.. literally.

 

one Dominant, Aggressive, Very into It, Dude.... So Fucking hot??

 

Personally, I like a little variety.. you know... I'm not one to get stuck on ONE guy. That would be kind of obsessive, wouldn't it?? And that's not me. NO way.

 

As in, I Don't let Anyone eVer tell me what Is right for me. Doubt it.. not So Far..

 

And yeah, Pep Club, that spells it out ..... twice.

 

Rocco/Paris... Woweee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

oKie

[Guy Fawkes]

and if his WIFE knew and approved? I would occasionally tell my lover (Now Ex) to go to the baths and enjoy himself. He never would argue with me.

[+ honcho]

Things the wife might not enjoy ....

 

Why is everybody assuming that the activities are sexual?

 

She might not enjoy going to a live Baseball game, the model railroading exhibit at the county fair, a jazz concert, shopping in a sporting goods store ...

[Gar1eth]

Why is everybody assuming that the activities are sexual?

 

She might not enjoy going to a live Baseball game, the model railroading exhibit at the county fair, a jazz concert, shopping in a sporting goods store ...

 

Honcho--I think there is a very good likelihood that you are right. I mean if we omit the most obvious activity-- sex with an escort-- and who knows his wife might like that too --but if you make a reasonable assumption that the trip is about more than sex:cool:, then the OP could very well be indulging in touristy or sport type things that his wife may not be interested in.

 

Gman

 

PS I have passed my 1000th post and didn't even get a card

[Guest zipperzone]

Why is everybody assuming that the activities are sexual?

 

She might not enjoy going to a live Baseball game, the model railroading exhibit at the county fair, a jazz concert, shopping in a sporting goods store ...

 

I never doubted that the activities the wife would not enjoy were not sexual. I think you read into that something that was not there. Maybe I did too, but I stand by my previous comments.