Advice? Escort or Masseur?

[+ g56whiz]

Before giving up, you may want to check the thread on Jason, Tom and Nick

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/showthread.php?t=70873

 

three eastern european guy who claim to be legit masseurs and escorts. They'll be in New York for several months.

[+ newatthis]

Maybe the reason that I've resisted just going ahead and hiring an escort is that I'm a little nervous about leaping right into sex with someone I'm paying, and so was looking at the massage as a way to ease myself into it. As I mentioned, I'm not all that experienced with this, and am by no means an expert at, um, bottoming...so I was hoping that a massage would relex me enough to be able to do it. And that a masseur would be tempermentally more gentle than an escort...

 

I'd guess that with a well-recommended escort who's good with "non-expert" clients, you'd get just what you're looking for, including knowing how best to relax you. Try to go into things with the idea of enjoying the sex, whether or not it leads to a successsful bottoming experience -- in other words, don't make your pleasure depend on one particular act succeeding.

 

The odds of finding what you're looking for from a masseur seem much smaller to me than from an experienced escort.

 

I suspect that many here, like me, took more than one try to learn to enjoy bottoming. I certainly know escorts who were exclusive tops for a long time and gradually came to enjoy bottoming as well.

 

Good luck!

[best hotel]

.....i have enjoyed escort sessions with frank...he kisses...and he is good at it....swept me off my feet

[bobchitown]

.....i have enjoyed escort sessions with frank...he kisses...and he is good at it....swept me off my feet

 

Interesting. I also enjoyed my escort sessions with him very very much, but the one downside was that I was never able to get more than a close-mouthed peck. It is for this reason alone that I moved on as kissing is important to me, which I now know to make clear in the pre-session contacts.

 

In every other way Frank is a very hot guy in a beefy hairy way.

[BaronArtz]

Is Frank still 'in the business', though? His website 'www.frankinnyc.com' is down, and he hasn't responded to my email of a few days ago. His latest review was from 2006 ...

[bobchitown]

Is Frank still 'in the business', though? His website 'www.frankinnyc.com' is down, and he hasn't responded to my email of a few days ago. His latest review was from 2006 ...

 

He responded to my email about 2 months ago when I was coming to NYC. Our schedules didn't permit a meeting, but he was still willing to see me, it just didn't work out. Not sure what happened to his website - and he may indeed be completely gone now.