Returning to the biz

[JT Brooklyn]

Well yes granted, there are hundreds of xxx in NYC. But are there hundreds of guys named xxx who are retired escorts, who used the working name Carlos, who have recently begun emailing their old clients again, who are Black & Latino incredible 9"+ tops who could fuck for hours? When he told you his real name, do you think he intended that it could be passed on to all of the readers of this forum? Do you think that he intended that Strafe13, who has a crush on him, but has not yet met him, should be given this information? I have only given my real name out to a few trusted regulars & I would be aghast if I saw them posting it in public. Discretion works both ways in this business.

 

Unless it is his REAL "Last Name" I see no reason for any concern whatsoever.

 

Some "Working Guys" have been using their "Stage Name" so long they too think it is their real one!

[BaronArtz]

Besides, xxx is not a last name, it's a first name ...

 

OK, it's fine to discuss somebody's anatomy (with supporting pictures), the going-ons behind closed doors, whether or not an escort is a thief, etc. But you are getting all bent out of shape because a first name is mentioned? What makes you think that's a real first name anyway? I suggest you take it easy this morning ...

[Mark Gordon]

Escort's opinions?

 

So what do the other escorts think? If you had told a client your real first name, would you be happy for them to disclose it in conjunction with your working name & other personally identifying information about you for no apparent reason in this forum?

[JT Brooklyn]

I'm surprised most of the responses to this thread have been about Nick German and no one has mentioned one of the former stars of this list, Eric! Anyone hired him since the comeback?

 

Some of these guys put their AD UP from Time to Time for the Quick Cash.

 

Walking away from easy $$ ain't easy for most!

 

As far as a "Comeback" that means you are sticking around with ADS for more than a few weeks!

 

Which is not the case with the "Working Guys" who have Regs they have always seen, AFTER taking down their ADS!

[+ Cash4Trash]

I'm absolutely with Mark Gordon on this one. Mutual respect and proper boundaries are the

name of the game. If you'll disclose the first name what else will you expose? How is the

escort to trust you going forward? You've changed his relationship with you.

 

Another pet peeve of mine - if an escort does something with you that he does not advertise,

french kissing, oral, etc. it is not appropriate to mention it here or in a review. It places him

in an awkward situation with future clients. Just chalk it up you being especially fabulous.

 

But since reviews have become all about walking on the beach and reading poetry together

it probably doesn't much matter anymore.

[cmennow]

I'm absolutely with Mark Gordon on this one. Mutual respect and proper boundaries are the

name of the game. If you'll disclose the first name what else will you expose? How is the

escort to trust you going forward? You've changed his relationship with you.

 

Another pet peeve of mine - if an escort does something with you that he does not advertise,

french kissing, oral, etc. it is not appropriate to mention it here or in a review. It places him

in an awkward situation with future clients. Just chalk it up you being especially fabulous.

 

I agree with those comments. That brings up a interesting point for me. I have a regular escort that finally divulged his real name now that we do things together outside of a bedroom. I was so used to calling him by his "stage" name that it now seems awkward to use his real name. But because we occassionally see each other out at a club in different cities and he is private about escorting and not showing his face, he wants me to introduce him to my friends by his real name. It can be a little confusing but he trust me and I would never "out" him. Then there is another that doesn't advertise kissing but does it all the time with me. I would never disclose that on here or in a review because I know that he really doesn't like to kiss but does with me (maybe he likes to kiss me ).

My two cents for the day.......

[Mark Gordon]

Affirmative Moderation

 

So the moderators have chosen to replace Carlos' real name with xxx in all posts, which would seem to confirm my view that it is indiscrete & inappropriate for clients to identify escorts by their real 1st name in this forum, or indeed anywhere, without their explicit consent.

[Guy Fawkes]

Did you know?

 

Did you know that with three pieces of information, that a researcher has found that there is an 87% chance that you can be identified? arstechnica

• Zipcode
  
• Sex
  
• Birth Date
  

Do not second quess the rules. Dol not post private information on my message center!

[+ Axiom2001]

Unless it is his REAL "Last Name" I see no reason for any concern whatsoever.

 

Some "Working Guys" have been using their "Stage Name" so long they too think it is their real one!

 

Brooklyn Guy, I'm with you. How can using a guy's first name break his privacy and confidentiality?

 

On a few occasions, I have asked the escort if XXX was his real name. In most cases he'd divulged that it is not and have told me both his first and last names.

 

I have yet to give his real name to anyone because I have only remembered this briefly and highly respect his privacy!

[JT Brooklyn]

Names Joe Blow!

 

Brooklyn Guy, I'm with you. How can using a guy's first name break his privacy and confidentiality?

 

On a few occasions, I have asked the escort if XXX was his real name. In most cases he'd divulged that it is not and have told me both his first and last names.

 

I have yet to give his real name to anyone because I have only remembered this briefly and highly respect his privacy!

 

Exactly..Same here! "Much ado about nothing" Anyone I have hungout with has always just been called "HUNK" OR SWEET CHEEKS Anyway!

[pierrot]

Once again, a thread has been hijacked onto another subject. Someone please post another thread about this "first name" business. It has nothing to do with my original post.

[Kevin Slater]

Once again, a thread has been hijacked onto another subject. Someone please post another thread about this "first name" business. It has nothing to do with my original post.

 

I don't think that the conversation has moved on precludes anyone from replying to the original post. Presumably nobody has anything to ad on that subject. Would you be happier if the thread laid dormant? At least this way your original question is getting some visibility. (And as hijacks go, at least this one isn't the silly little quips and banter that so many on here are.)

 

Kevin Slater

[JT Brooklyn]

I don't think that the conversation has moved on precludes anyone from replying to the original post. Presumably nobody has anything to ad on that subject. Would you be happier if the thread laid dormant? At least this way your original question is getting some visibility. (And as hijacks go, at least this one isn't the silly little quips and banter that so many on here are.)

 

Kevin Slater

 

Gotta Agree! Some Threads DO move onto other Topics of Interest in a "Natural Flow". Better we on Daddys have this type of FLOW as opposed to some Hjacks which should be FLUSHED!

 

The alternative is Boredom and loss of Members which we have all Noticed in the last 6 months!

[Lookin]

And as hijacks go, at least this one isn't the silly little quips and banter that so many on here are.

 

 

http://www.ospreydesign.com/foreword/archives/kua03_17.jpg

 

So sorry!! I stand chastened and rebuked.

 

 

I notice there are a number of escorts advertising now who have been out of the biz or at least not advertising for a while. Maybe the poor economy is bringing back some of the guys from the past. Among the ones now on Rentboy:

Hairy Hung Larry

Nick German

Victor Rocha

Eric

 

I for one am glad to see these guys back, because they are all very hot and had good reviews some time back. I'm not sure if those are still available.

Has anyone hired any of these hunks since they've returned?

 

 

Sadly, no. Although I hope to rectify at least one such oversight at the earliest opportunity.

 

http://www.level7media.com/pvt/3.jpg

 

And may I draw the reader's attention to the fact that the above image does not violate the no-erection policy of the Message Center. Formidable!

[Okliehomo]

Eric....

 

Man, I love that pic... so sexy, just flopping against his thigh like that. I hired him because of that shot and I am a card carrying ass man...

 

He lived up to his rep, by by the way, once that thing got hard... I think that took about a second after he got a look at Mike/Nebraska's very, very pretty ass....

 

Hope to see him in action again one day.. both of them, really.

 

Okie

[Sean Knight]

Exactly..Same here! "Much ado about nothing" Anyone I have hungout with has always just been called "HUNK" OR SWEET CHEEKS Anyway!

Just when I thought I was special!

[JT Brooklyn]

Some "Names" are Memorable..STAGE or REAL!

 

Just when I thought I was special!

 

Oh You Are Big Guy! I've seen alot of "Undies" BUT...That NEW UNDIE SHOT on your site..puts you in a Class ALL by yourself!

 

Your NAME and Fine Body which you put alot of Hard Work into...JT ain't ever gonna forget!

[+ Lucky]

"I have learned alot..I use to be pro life..anti gay marriage..a Republican..the George Bush kind..well my eyes have been open..and what Ive learned from all of these encounters hat there is one thing in life that everyone wants..to feel appreciated, validated, cared for..to me that is a service I can happily provide..only getting better with time..thank you all for being patient with me on this site as I learn the ropes"

 

hottiewithabody just earned my respect. I like an escort who admits that he learns and can change his mind.

[Boston Guy]

I'm curious: which "Eric" is being referred to in this thread?

[+ purplekow]

I'm curious: which "Eric" is being referred to in this thread?

I believe it is Eric known as ript4hire

[Boston Guy]

I believe it is Eric known as ript4hire

 

Thanks. I do remember him.

 

BG

[JT Brooklyn]

I'm curious: which "Eric" is being referred to in this thread?

 

Sadly it wasn't ERIK with a "K" also known as "Farmboy" ERIK! Who Retired and Moved On quite awhile ago now.

 

He was my all time Favorite Blond/Blue Top.