Threeway

[TruthBTold]

Hi. I saw a thread about threeways and was wondering if there are different rules for this situation. I schedule an escort who I have met with several times. At the time I schedule, I tell him that I would like to invite a friend to join us. He says yes. Should I be prepared to pay for me and then again for my friend or will it be the normal fee? Or maybe the normal fee with a bigger tip than usual? Thanks.

[Scorpio]

Only the escort in question can answer regarding what he expects the compensation to be. Everything else is just speculative. Go to the source!

[+ purplekow]

While every escort may have a different answer, it seems if another person is being brought in and he is not an escort, then a higher fee would be expected. If the third is another escort, there is a better chance the fee will stay the same. In the first case, you are bringing in another person for the escort to satisfy in the second case you are bringing in someone else to satisfy you. Chances are, that an escort would be a bit hotter than a random third and so the escort could more likely have some additional fun with a third if the third is an escort.

[Epigonos]

Scorpio is absolutely correct about this. You need to work out the basic arrangements with your primary escort. I have done only four three-ways and they have all involved Steven Kesslar. I have always started with doing a twenty-four hour session with Steven and then paying the second escort his regular fee for the number of hours he is involved. As Steven has always been involved with the arrangements he knows exactly what is planned. I ALWAYS explain to the second escort that I am planning a three way and ask if he is interested and if so what his fee would be for a certain number of hours. I also tell him that Steven Kesslar will be the other escort and where he can obtain information about him. Thus far the four escorts involved simply charged their regular hourly rate. With a little advanced planning three-ways can be smoking hot. Mine thus far have been outstanding. Steven and I have had great fun playing with: 1.) Ricardo/San Francisco, 2.) Aaron Mark/Las Vegas, 3.) Todd Dillon/Los Angeles, and most recently Chris Leaper/San Francisco.

 

Good Luck and you will have, I am sure, lot's of fun WITH a little planning

[JT Brooklyn]

Hi. I saw a thread about threeways and was wondering if there are different rules for this situation. I schedule an escort who I have met with several times. At the time I schedule, I tell him that I would like to invite a friend to join us. He says yes. Should I be prepared to pay for me and then again for my friend or will it be the normal fee? Or maybe the normal fee with a bigger tip than usual? Thanks.

 

So what your Basically saying is..You Hire a Guy and your Friend gets Laid for Free? Then he Hires a Guy and You get Laid for Free? Anytime there's "More than One Dick to be Sucked" Expect to Pay!

[TruthBTold]

Me bad

 

Actually, it would be more like the escort and I would choose someone on-line who may want to spend some time with us. I guess I should not have used the word friend. Me bad.

[+ sf westcoaster]

Having just finished a very enjoyable three-way I can tell you that I paid each of the escorts their stated fee. It has been my experience that weather you arrange for both escorts or you ask one of the escorts to find a third that you are expected to pay a fee to each of them. I son't think you can expect two-for-the-price of one.

[Strafe13]

Along this line of discussion, regarding 3-ways, how would this situation be any different than when a couple hires an escort? Would the couple really be expected to pay the escort a different fee? I'm only playing devil's advocate here, but I usually see these disclaimers from escorts saying that their rates are only for their time and not for any particular activity. So, if that's the case, then shouldn't the fee be the same? This assumes of course that the escort is even comfortable doing a 3-way (I don't presume that all would be). Then of course, this scenario potentially could be abused with a client hiring for a regular rate but then having a room full of guys waiting for the poor escort. Just throwing commentary out there.

[Rod Hagen]

An escort deciding whether or not to charge extra for threesomes should reflect:

 

Are threesomes twice as much work, or twice as much fun?

[JT Brooklyn]

An escort deciding whether or not to charge extra for threesomes should reflect:

 

Are threesomes twice as much work, or twice as much fun?

 

Totally depends on WHO the "3 way" involves! Except of course for those whose Fantasy has always been a 3 way. Then alot "settle for less" in a crowd!

 

Except for OKIE who is the Master Choreographer! He puts "Jerome Robbins" to shame!

[Rod Hagen]

Totally depends on WHO the "3 way" involves! Except of course for those whose Fantasy has always been a 3 way. Then alot "settle for less" in a crowd! !

 

Nope, wrong answer. They're twice as much fun. Don't charge more. Ever.

 

But you're also right in that Okie's 3-somes sound XTREMELY fun.

[Epigonos]

As far as I'm concerned the following simple rules would hold true for three-way fees:

 

1. Two escorts/one client - each escort is paid his regular fee. They each really have only ONE client to please.

 

2. Two clients/one escort - the escort is paid more than his regular fee. He really has TWO clients to please. Now exactly what that fee should be would have to be negotiated

[AdamSmith]

As far as I'm concerned the following simple rules would hold true for three-way fees:

 

1. Two escorts/one client - each escort is paid his regular fee. They each really have only ONE client to please.

 

2. Two clients/one escort - the escort is paid more than his regular fee. He really has TWO clients to please. Now exactly what that fee should be would have to be negotiated

 

There is at least one more possibility: Client invites escort to find someone whom escort likes on manhunt or adam4adam. Escort talks/texts/otherwise determines he likes the guy, and gets him to come over. Good time is had by all, at no add-on fee.

 

Of course this is easiest to pull off during a long evening or an overnight, when client and escort have enough time to see if they both feel like it at some point during the appt, and when there is time to make it all happen on the fly, without little/no planning.

 

Can be a lot of fun. Spontaneity and uncertainty of pulling a 3rd who is a non-pro into the mix can liven things up! If you like uncertainty, that is.

[Epigonos]

AdamSmith

 

I found you post extremely interesting particularly in what it told me about myself. I am, only to, aware that the points of view we express here, on the various threads, REFLECT own personal pholosphies, standards, morals, handups, etc. The one thing that I and EVERYBODY who knows me, even slightly, knows is that I DON'T have a spontaneous bone in my body. I'm not even sure I am even capable of understanding the meaning of the word. Thus I would NEVER be capable of doing what you suggest therefore the thought NEVER entered my mind -- too bad for me.

[Rod Hagen]

I'm unable to get into this as deeply as I'd prefer, but in brief:

 

When I learn of an escort or agency charging more for a second client, but keeping standard rates if the third is a fellow escort (or a hottie off manhunt et al, as ASmith suggests), it offends my escort-ethics.

 

This practice implies that fucking escorts is pure pleasure, yet fucking clients is unpleasant. We use a euphemism: a second client is more "work". Fortunately, yes, fucking escorts, the good ones, is nearly pure pleasure.

 

But you must believe that those of us with more than a decade of glowing reviews, as well as those escorts in the business for a shorter time but with an observable, documented, contagious enthusiasm for whom and what they do, DO find our clients sexy. A pleasure. We simply have the rare privilege of getting paid to do what we enjoy doing.

 

It's not uncommon, and maybe I'm too defensive of "clientele", but charging more hourly because there's another client, but not if there's another escort, seems wrong. You work an hour, get paid for an hour.

[+ purplekow]

Rod that is very noble. but I believe that when there are two clients you are there insure that both clients have a good time. When there are two escorts, you both should have the goal of satisfying the client plus you now have another hot guy there, which seems like a bonus. If you have another client there, you are, if you are doing the great job you strive to and are reviewed as doing, now obligated to further sublimate your own satisfaction to that of the second client. While I can get testimonials from dozens of escorts saying how great sex with me is, LOL, nevertheless the fact that they enjoyed it was secondary to my enjoyment. So if you are working more to insure the pleasure of more than one the client, you ought to get paid for it. This may be a first on this site, a client arguing with an escort that they should charge more. It is a crazy world.

[TruthBTold]

Everybody does their part

 

AdamS- When I first posted the thread, your scenario is what I was thinking of. However, it does not have to be spontaneous as others have despaired. The client schedules with the escort and at that time explains that he would like another person to take part. He tells the escort that he will post a profile for a threesome. When the responses come in, the client sends the pics and texts to the escort and the escorts pics the person who really turns him on. After the escort tells the client which one he wants to bed down, the client contacts that person. The three then meet and have a scorchingly good time. The escort works and the client works.

[+ Axiom2001]

Having just finished a very enjoyable three-way I can tell you that I paid each of the escorts their stated fee. It has been my experience that weather you arrange for both escorts or you ask one of the escorts to find a third that you are expected to pay a fee to each of them. I son't think you can expect two-for-the-price of one.

 

This has always been my understanding although I have NOT engaged the services of an escort overnight or from a distance. I have had the delight to see two hot local escorts in a torrid 3way in which all of us enjoyed ourselves immensely.

[dapurplebear]

just did a threesome and we were comfortable with the fee - but wanted to check and found several threads -- of course Rod gives a perfect answer (IMHO)... but i have come to expect nothing less -- when are you visiting nyc again??? :-)

[raulgmanzo]

In my opinion Rod is correct.

I never charged more than my regular fee whether it is a couple, two clients. And as far as I know most of the escorts I know or have worked with just charge their basic fee for 3ways.

 

The more the merrier, although I will say that sometimes couples are a bit more complicated because sometimes one is really into it and the other is just going along to please his partner.

 

And as far as getting two for the price of one by using something like Manhunt or A4A? Why not?

Have done just that thing with clients on several occasions. Sometimes the other parties know that I'm a hired gun and sometimes they don't. Actually a couple weekends ago I did a session with a client where we made a special profile just for that night and had a virtual revolving door of hookups from a4a, manhunt etc stopping by his place. Was very hot and everyone had fun.

 

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[+ Axiom2001]

Having just finished a very enjoyable three-way I can tell you that I paid each of the escorts their stated fee. It has been my experience that weather you arrange for both escorts or you ask one of the escorts to find a third that you are expected to pay a fee to each of them. I son't think you can expect two-for-the-price of one.

 

I agree precisely with sf westcoaster. I've discussed with a couple of escorts the possibility of having a torrid threeway-- expecting to pay each his requested fee after all of the enjoyment had concluded! -

[essjay]

As a client here is my read on this......

If I arrange for two different guys then I pay them both - and make sure they are aware of what they are signing up for before we get together!

 

If a friend and I hire we let the escort know the scene and ask him to quote a rate based on what we are looking for.

 

If the client and escort decide to pick up a third party it should be with the agreement of both parties (although in most cases it is the escort who is going to attract another hot guy for his client). I have had this happen once and a good time was had by all - the guy I hired did a great job of making sure that I was fully involved in the fun.

[gregkidman]

alternative to threesome

 

Just to offer an alternative, because I seem to be the only one who does this and tell about it in the forum:

 

I see one escort, then when that session is over, I see another escort right after that. This way, instead of spending $500 over one hour, I spend $500 over two hours where the escorts, one after the other, is focused wholly on me and my hole <grin>.

Don't get me wrong, I have had threesomes but it turns out that I am more of a one-man-at-a-time type of guy.

[doitb4ugo]

Just to offer an alternative, because I seem to be the only one who does this and tell about it in the forum:

 

I see one escort, then when that session is over, I see another escort right after that. This way, instead of spending $500 over one hour, I spend $500 over two hours where the escorts, one after the other, is focused wholly on me and my hole <grin>.

Don't get me wrong, I have had threesomes but it turns out that I am more of a one-man-at-a-time type of guy.

 

 

Thanks for your post, greg. It never occured to me to try this,,,sounds like a nice approach. I've never had a three way but do underatand the cost involved is high.