Overnights

[littlenut]

I was thinking of perhaps scheduling my first overnight, and would be interested in hearing opinions and feedback from others. What things do you especially enjoy, or not enjoy, about overnights? Besides the obvious (amount of time), what are the biggest differences you experience on an overnight, vs. an 1-2 hour session?

 

And how much sleep does one really get?

 

Thanks for your feedback!

[Sean Knight]

This thread has some discussion about overnights interspersed and should give you some insight.

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/showthread.php?t=69335&highlight=overnight

[jackcali]

More specifics

 

Sean, thanks for the link to the other thread, which had some good insights. But I (and maybe littlenut) would be interested in hearing some detail on the, um, nuts and bolts of an overnight. How long are they usually? How much time is spent messing around? How much time sleeping? Is time out of bed (at dinner, at the theater, etc.) expected by the escort? I know this is all a matter of discussion and negotiation between client and escort (and probably very dependent on individual tastes), but I'd be interested in hearing what clients and escorts think works well or doesn't work on overnights. Thanks.

[JT Brooklyn]

I was thinking of perhaps scheduling my first overnight, and would be interested in hearing opinions and feedback from others. What things do you especially enjoy, or not enjoy, about overnights? Besides the obvious (amount of time), what are the biggest differences you experience on an overnight, vs. an 1-2 hour session?

 

And how much sleep does one really get?

 

Thanks for your feedback!

 

Overniters Totally depend on WHO is involved! Any Answers to questions can only in all "Reality" be answered by the Specific "Working Guy" and Client involved between themselves.

 

"Opinions & Feedback" as Sean pointed out can be found in the "Archives", as MOST have in the past given their take on Overniter's.

[Sean Knight]

Sean, thanks for the link to the other thread, which had some good insights. But I (and maybe littlenut) would be interested in hearing some detail on the, um, nuts and bolts of an overnight. How long are they usually? How much time is spent messing around? How much time sleeping? Is time out of bed (at dinner, at the theater, etc.) expected by the escort? I know this is all a matter of discussion and negotiation between client and escort (and probably very dependent on individual tastes), but I'd be interested in hearing what clients and escorts think works well or doesn't work on overnights. Thanks.

 

I don't think overnights can be confined into one mold. Each client will have certain criteria for what would make an enjoyable overnight. It ultimately will depend on what your expectations are and finding the right escort to match. The steps you use to research a 1-2 hours session should be the same but with a few added questions.

 

Does either person snore? Like to cuddle or not? Are you an inferno or an ice chest? Sleep walk (yeah, I am serious:) ) or talk in your sleep?

If you want a quick romp in the morning you need to make that clear. Some are morning people and some are night owls.

 

 

These points may seem trivial but can be nuisances if either party is extremely particular and unyielding. However, this is YOUR time and the right escort will be adaptable. It's one thing to be considerate of the escort but ultimately this is YOUR experience. More research and probing should be done to ensure that the escort is on board with how YOU want the evening to go.

Bottom line, ask lots of questions as the dynamics for an overnight can be completely different.

 

 

I think the consensus from what I have read and from personal experience is that sessions last from 10-12 hours. There is usually time for a meal, possible entertainment, play time. Some clients enjoy play time in the morning and some are happy to send the escort on their way.

 

I think it's fair to expect enough sleep but not an overabundance. It should be mutually agreeable.

I don't feel that most clients want to pay just to have someone sleep.

 

I've had sessions where we met, had introductions, then went to dinner. We then retired back to the room for play time. When we were both ready, and not at a specified time, we went to bed. In the morning there is usually some more play time and that's it.

 

I've had sessions where the entire night was spent in the room.

 

It's both parties responsibility to ensure a great time so do your homework.

[Guest zipperzone]

I've had sessions where we met, had introductions, then went to dinner. We then retired back to the room for play time.

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The downside of going out to dinner beforehand, as I see it, is that over an enjoyable dinner too much alcohol can get consumed by one or both parties. This can make "the dessert" somewhat problematical.

[Sean Knight]

The downside of going out to dinner beforehand, as I see it, is that over an enjoyable dinner too much alcohol can get consumed by one or both parties. This can make "the dessert" somewhat problematical.

 

The same could be said of staying in and having too much to drink. There is one possible solution to that problem, don't drink.

[+ ArVaGuy]

Here’s my take. Overnights are an expensive proposition so my practice is to hire a guy a few times before I consider him for an extended evening or travel situation. Compatibility is very important in a situation like this. Its one thing if you don’t hit it off with a guy for a one or two hour session, he’s going to leave soon enough However, if you don’t hit it off with a guy for an overnight session, and its your first meeting, then there’s bound to be issues that come up the rest of the evening.

 

Realistically you are looking at an 8 to 12 hour period of time depending on what you and the escort prefer. Some escorts are very specific about how long such a session will be and when time’s up, they leave. Others can be a bit more fluid on just when that next morning is going to end. I’ve had situations where the escort stayed well past 12 hours since we were both having so much fun.

 

Another thing to consider includes just what type of evening you are intending for you and the escort. Do you want a dinner/theater companion and then some “dessert” after the show? Or are you looking to go clubbing and have a wild bacchanal back at the hotel? In addition, you could just have a quiet evening of stimulating conversation over wine/beer followed by playtime. It’s very important to share your thoughts about the evening with the escort so he’s prepared to provide you with his best performance.

 

Do you snore, hog the covers, have warm/cold feet or any other peccadilloes related to sleep habits? What about the escort? These things can turn into a big deal for some people. It’s not likely that you’ll be having sex from sun down to sun rise. Both of you will need your rest I’m sure before you rise and shine the next morning.

 

Just relax, determine what you are looking for, decide on a couple of escort options and give those guys a test drive. Then when you feel like you’ve found the right guy you’d like to spend more time with, let him know and start planning nice fun evening. Good luck..

Edit: Sean just noted that I pretty much reiterated your comments here.

[Rod Hagen]

When I used to overnight:

Get together anytime b/w 5 ish and 11p.

 

Fuck in all rooms but the bedroom.

 

Shower. Fuck in shower.

 

Dinner.

 

Revisit favorite rooms for fucking especially kitchen.

 

Fuck in front of fireplace. Fuck in bathtub. Night's-end orgsasm in bed. Cuddle until he falls asleep.

 

Round 3am finger him and kiss his face lightly until he's awake enough for fucking.

 

Fuck.

 

Resume sleep and cuddle.

 

Wake him up just before he indicated he needed to be up with a blowjob under the sheets.

 

Fuck.

 

Shower, breakfast, blow jobs through bathrobes for all participants.

 

Plans for next time. French goodbyes.

[+ purplekow]

Rod I need a vacation just reading about your usual overnight.

[Guest zipperzone]

The same could be said of staying in and having too much to drink. There is one possible solution to that problem, don't drink.

 

Staying in can cause acute hunger pangs. And dinner out without a cocktail before and a fine bottle of wine, almost doesn't qualify as dinner - might just as well go to the Golden Arches. And your companion might get the idea that you're cheap.

[Guest RianB]

I usually get enough sleep with overnights, as we're both passed out after all the fun. Its good to be charged up for the morning. Normally Im not a morning person, but thats just when Im by myself. My X just loved it when he'd wake up out of his sleep and I'd be....Its just Something about mornings next to someone just makes me aroused.

[Guest greatness]

wow

 

Ditto. I need to be hospitalized. Is that true or did I take it in a wrong way?

 

 

Rod I need a vacation just reading about your usual overnight.

[Scorpio]

When I used to overnight:

Get together anytime b/w 5 ish and 11p.

 

Fuck in all rooms but the bedroom.

 

Shower. Fuck in shower.

 

Dinner.

 

Revisit favorite rooms for fucking especially kitchen.

 

Fuck in front of fireplace. Fuck in bathtub. Night's-end orgsasm in bed. Cuddle until he falls asleep.

 

Round 3am finger him and kiss his face lightly until he's awake enough for fucking.

 

Fuck.

 

Resume sleep and cuddle.

 

Wake him up just before he indicated he needed to be up with a blowjob under the sheets.

 

Fuck.

 

Shower, breakfast, blow jobs through bathrobes for all participants.

 

Plans for next time. French goodbyes.

 

Pssst.....Rod....will you come out of "overnight" retirement just once for me....I promise I won't tell anyone.

[JT Brooklyn]

Memories

 

When I used to overnight:

Get together anytime b/w 5 ish and 11p.

 

Fuck in all rooms but the bedroom.

 

Shower. Fuck in shower.

 

Dinner.

 

Revisit favorite rooms for fucking especially kitchen.

 

Fuck in front of fireplace. Fuck in bathtub. Night's-end orgsasm in bed. Cuddle until he falls asleep.

 

Round 3am finger him and kiss his face lightly until he's awake enough for fucking.

 

Fuck.

 

Resume sleep and cuddle.

 

Wake him up just before he indicated he needed to be up with a blowjob under the sheets.

 

Fuck.

 

Shower, breakfast, blow jobs through bathrobes for all participants.

 

Plans for next time. French goodbyes.

 

I do recall a Scenario along that line! But ya left out the part about the Video!

[Sean Knight]

Staying in can cause acute hunger pangs. And dinner out without a cocktail before and a fine bottle of wine, almost doesn't qualify as dinner - might just as well go to the Golden Arches. And your companion might get the idea that you're cheap.

 

Room service is often ordered on overnights when my clients wanted to stay in. I personally rarely drink but if I had a cocktail I would limit my consumption as I know my limits. Hopefully, the client would know theirs as well.

What constitutes an enjoyable evening in or out should be dictated by the client or whatever is mutually agreeable. Many variables to consider but good judgment should be used so that "dessert" can be had by all!

[Guest countryboywny]

Rod,

 

I think you should publish your overnight "schedule" to save time. Instead of going through all the expectations with a potential escort, the client can say "I'd like a Rod Hagen overnight" LOL

[Guest zipperzone]

Room service is often ordered on overnights when my clients wanted to stay in. I personally rarely drink but if I had a cocktail I would limit my consumption as I know my limits.

 

You come off sounding like a saint. Are you?

[Sean Knight]

You come off sounding like a saint. Are you?

 

Saint, no. Thoughtful and considerate, yes. I don't allow my session's

to feel like it's "The Sean Show."

Unless that's the scene a client enjoys!

[+ ArVaGuy]

Room service is often ordered on overnights when my clients wanted to stay in. I personally rarely drink but if I had a cocktail I would limit my consumption as I know my limits. Hopefully, the client would know theirs as well.

What constitutes an enjoyable evening in or out should be dictated by the client or whatever is mutually agreeable. Many variables to consider but good judgment should be used so that "dessert" can be had by all!

 

I usually have a bottle of wine and a fruit plate from hotel room service available. Plus at least two bottles of water on hand. Often times its after the "dessert" that the fruit plate comes in handy to restore energy levels.

[JT Brooklyn]

Staying in can cause acute hunger pangs. And dinner out without a cocktail before and a fine bottle of wine, almost doesn't qualify as dinner - might just as well go to the Golden Arches. And your companion might get the idea that you're cheap.

 

Anyone LAYING OUT $1200 and more in Extra's could never be called Cheap.

 

Personally I think they are more of a Working Guy "God Send" in this Economy!

[littlenut]

Hey guys -

Thanks so much for all the responses. I appreciate your insights and experiences!!