Traveling solo for work....

[Guest RianB]

Well since I have this tour coming up end of month, I already know that its going to be a solo trip...as finding a friend to take time away from their job or save up money right when I want to go doesnt always come easy.

 

I have gone on most of tours alone, except when Im back home and I dont mind it really. The only thing is for you who have travel about alone...how do you get around to not feeling it? Usually I'll set up a date with someone outside of work when I have some downtime and that usually helps. But 99% of the time, knowing Im just visiting they will want to want to 'play' and hello, not really wanting to do that...

 

So whats there to do?

[seaboy4hire]

Get a hold of one of the working guys here. I've only met a few but those that I've met have always been up for breaking bread & talk shop. They know that being on the road can get lonely & are always happy to entertain.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[KMEM]

Almost every escort seems to want gym time so that might be your first inquiry. Secondly, everyone needs to improve their minds, so books would be next. My third choice is books again, this time just for entertainment.

 

I realize I am from an older generation and seemingly the current one needs to be entertained by someone or something. But, I have spent many, many years traveling and alone, and, somehow, I have survived. I would hate to give up my computer but TV wouldn't be too difficult.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[Guest RianB]

Almost every escort seems to want gym time so that might be your first inquiry. Secondly, everyone needs to improve their minds, so books would be next. My third choice is books again, this time just for entertainment.

 

 

Oh yeah...I've got that down packed. Going to gyms in different cities is always nice. New stuff!

 

Books are ok, but when Im in a new city I can barely have a seat when there's so much more to do, I can read a book on the plane LOL...and I like my computer but on my last tour I didnt even have time for that. Im just ready to go to the next place or see the next thing or do something other than be at the hotel unless I really have to.

 

There has been times where I'd be hanging out with friends and they are the type that can just go and have a spontaneous conversation with a random person and next thing you know we're chillin and having an after party or something. Whatever happens would definently end up happening.

 

But yeah Im open to hangout with other guys too...if you're in Boston let me know

[Kevin Slater]

Get a hold of one of the working guys here. I've only met a few but those that I've met have always been up for breaking bread & talk shop. They know that being on the road can get lonely & are always happy to entertain.

 

That's a great suggestion. It's always fun to meet other guys who do this, and everybody loves to talk shop.

 

Kevin Slater

[KMEM]

Oh yeah...I've got that down packed. Going to gyms in different cities is always nice. New stuff!

 

Books are ok, but when Im in a new city I can barely have a seat when there's so much more to do, I can read a book on the plane LOL...and I like my computer but on my last tour I didnt even have time for that. Im just ready to go to the next place or see the next thing or do something other than be at the hotel unless I really have to.

 

There has been times where I'd be hanging out with friends and they are the type that can just go and have a spontaneous conversation with a random person and next thing you know we're chillin and having an after party or something. Whatever happens would definently end up happening.

 

But yeah Im open to hangout with other guys too...if you're in Boston let me know

 

I understand that you have different interests than I do but I don't understand why you are asking for something to do and then stating that you are too busy to do much of any thing. Are you only asking for company that isn't looking for sex? It seems that way.

 

I have spent a tremendous amount of time on the airlines and so reading a book took the drudge of that away much of the time. When I arrived, I had business to attend to, much as as I think you do also; so that time was largely taken by "customers". Then, back on the airlines or into a hotel (alone) where I barely had time to have a drink, eat and go to bed to be prepared for the next day.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[Romann]

There is something to be said about traveling alone which is something that I have grown to love very much about this profession. I would also agree about books or even online books if you want to be techno savy and environmentally safe. The past year I have purchased online books and it has worked out pretty well though there was a bit of a transition.

 

But to give up the TV?... I'm not so sold on that idea. I would hate to NOT have my History Channel and CNN. I love my weatherman, Rob Marciano in the mornings during coffee time.

 

 

Almost every escort seems to want gym time so that might be your first inquiry. Secondly, everyone needs to improve their minds, so books would be next. My third choice is books again, this time just for entertainment.

 

I realize I am from an older generation and seemingly the current one needs to be entertained by someone or something. But, I have spent many, many years traveling and alone, and, somehow, I have survived. I would hate to give up my computer but TV wouldn't be too difficult.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[Romann]

Check with the hotel staff in your travel cities and I'm quite sure you'll be surprised with the information that they can give you about what's going on. I have had a number of great recommendations of things to do and places to see in various cities.

 

As an example, Dallas is a developing into a art center which has some great museums and the JFK exhibit. Head over to Cedar Springs and that will put you smack in the center of the gay bars/clubs/shops and restaurants. There is also Six Flags which is only a 30 minute drive.

 

I usually jog in the mornings which is when I do a lot of my looking around so that I can map out where I want to go when I schedule free time for myself. But mainly, check with the hotel staff and they will give you a lot of great suggestions and exact directions to the specific locations.

 

Just a couple ideas. Hope they help!

 

Well since I have this tour coming up end of month, I already know that its going to be a solo trip...as finding a friend to take time away from their job or save up money right when I want to go doesnt always come easy.

 

I have gone on most of tours alone, except when Im back home and I dont mind it really. The only thing is for you who have travel about alone...how do you get around to not feeling it? Usually I'll set up a date with someone outside of work when I have some downtime and that usually helps. But 99% of the time, knowing Im just visiting they will want to want to 'play' and hello, not really wanting to do that...

 

So whats there to do?

[Guest RianB]

Head over to Cedar Springs and that will put you smack in the center of the gay bars/clubs/shops and restaurants. There is also Six Flags which is only a 30 minute drive.

 

I've hit each one several times over. Im learning Dallas pretty well now.

 

but, since the summer....Seems like Dallas has changed alot, which is relieving. Everything is green again, the people seem less snobbish, but the heat....well thats a different story!

 

The area around turtle creek, reminds me of coral gables so much, thats becoming a nice weekend getway spot!

[Guest RianB]

Are you only asking for company that isn't looking for sex? It seems that way.

 

 

 

Ok I missed this one...Actually what I was saying is, I know there are things to keep me occupied around town, so Im not left without anything to do so. But when its like a week, and its in a place where you dont know anyone, well it tends to feel like "would be good to have a buddy or something to do this with" Cause you can do alot of things and see different places but its different from going with a friend or a group because you cant really relate that with them cause they arent right there.

 

I actually practiced that last weekend, went about the town here by myself without buddies just as if I would in a new city. It actually wasnt that bad. There wasnt a single place I'll go in to and not end up having a conversation with someone.

 

The last time I went out like that was when I first moved to south beach 3 years ago and didnt know a soul. It was actually quite normal for me to go out alone but then I kept doing it and ended up meeting people and after awhile I was always with a group. So really I'll have to get re-adjusted to it again and if anyone wants to join me is more than welcome

[KMEM]

To have a friend, you have to be one.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[Guest AndrewJames]

Anything is better than turning on the TV

 

I have found that there are guys in most cities that will respond well to a suggestion of meeting for coffee. A chance to talk shop and compare notes is a welcome thing. Going out in the evening to bars is trickier, since we seem to busy with clients more in the evening hours.

I have been very social with a few of the guys who have traveled to NYC, it is great to have a gym buddy for a week. Some guys, when traveling, look to other escorts for recreational sex as well. So, guys who are not available for that, may not respond to your initial suggestion of coffee.

Not every guy or every city, but it works out. I also have friends that I have met up with in different cities, I have even shared a hotel room with another working guy in San Francisco, (we would text each other about in calls) this built in social connection is great to keep things interesting and fun in a new city.

[Guest RianB]

So, guys who are not available for that, may not respond to your initial suggestion of coffee.

Not every guy or every city, but it works out.

 

Well that would be nice. I would like to but I wouldnt know where to for that unless you mean to randomly contact someone? It'd be nice to have another escort friend to hangout with but Im up to meet even those who arent. I dont have an issue with getting dressed and going out to a club and just chatting up with people. .

 

Although I know what its like, I have spent some time with wg's and working boys and my only pet peeve is when someone either cuts short a hangout to meet with a client or leave me waiting for longer than necessary. There was one time I came in from out of town and I fell asleep in my car because the person ended up letting the client spend the night while I had already arranged to stay.