Any masseur you will warn people not to try them?

[Guest GBoy]

I saw some of the ads from masseurfinder.com and massagem4m.com that I think either have fake pic or guys I tried that I will suggest you pass. I just want to share my experiences and hope this help you guys in NY making chooses and not waste your money.

 

http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/curlyeuropean.shtml

(this pix is a male model)

 

http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/tiger69.shtml

http://www.massagem4m.com/tiger69

(this guy I talk about before under the name sexy tiger, horrible massage and not his pix either, he actually hurt my back.)

 

http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/sunny.shtml

(I read that he is a good escort, but as a masseur, he is not that great, not for my standard anyway, and for 200 dollars, you really should just go for a escort session, I think his heart is in escorting anyway, cause he keep asking me if I want to upgrade during the massage.)

 

http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/mikestud.shtml

(fake pix obviously, this is a pix of a porn star)

 

http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/stud.shtml

(this guy's massage is fine, just a bit misleading, I won't consider what he did as an erotic massage, but if you are ok with a decent massage and with a release that's like clock work, and if you like a guy with a big one, then go for it)

 

http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/domtopmaster.shtml

(another fake pix, this is a porn star from the 90s)

 

http://www.massagem4m.com/Kevin

(someone asked about Kevin before, he is a nice guy, and the massage was fine, he does stretch really well, but he only massage me about 35 mins, and his pix is at least 10 years old)

 

http://www.massagem4m.com/pepe98128

(this guy is great looking, but he is just not trained as a masseur, if you like his look, maybe hire him as an escort instead)

 

http://www.massagem4m.com/bestgermanmassage

(good looking guy and friendly, the massage was fine, just has no sensual elements at all to it, so if you are ok with that, give him a try)

 

http://www.massagem4m.com/theperfectmix

(the most sensual erotic experiences I had with a masseur, almost full on sex, but he won't let me in the second time I book him cause I was 10 mins early, a bit of headcase)

 

http://www.massagem4m.com/lawrence

(he got so many good reviews before, so I decide to give him a try, it was very disappointing, he keep ask me if I want to upgrade my services, seems I said no, he just wasn't that into the whole massage)

 

If you guys have better experience with the above masseurs please share you thoughts and if you have other bad experiences you like to share, that would be great.

[josephga]

yeah this guy you posted http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/domtopmaster.shtml is using gay porn star matt bradshaw's pics

[guyfouryou]

GBoy, your list has a bunch of guys I've been seeing on the roster for years and nearly ALL of them I have declined to try because I got a "bad feeling." Thanks for confirming this! Not surprised about anything you said...

 

I have been to Kevin (Village) a few times. Yes, pics are definitely old which irks me. I found him to be a nice guy but always wanted to give me release while standing. He never short changed my session time, usually ran over just slightly. Also gave me some homeopathic tips. It was fine and he was nice but I stopped going.

 

These are the guys I would not recommend. Putting the list together I was worried that maybe I was a diva but there are many, many more on the list of guys that I have used and had a good experience with.

 

My List :

Renato / Enzo : Didn't look like pics, way too expensive for nothing sensual

 

Scott Coppola: From CL. Gave me release and went on drill the point that he doesn't usually do this. Seems very anal. Excellent massage but seems to demand that clients show him respect. On my second visit he calls me 5 mins before my appt and says he'll be 15 mins late. By 30 mins I had to leave for other obligations. I never got a follow-up/apology call from him. Seems he doesn't feel he needs to show respect in turn...

 

Roberto : I'm sure there are those that like him. He is very sexy and his massage is fine. I found him to be very self indulgent and more focused on his pleasure than mine.

 

Leon Queens : Not a good massage. Not a good experience.

 

Kevin (Midtown) : Lackluster. Not into it. Not sensual. I got the feeling he is straight.

 

Matthew NJ : Not that I wouldn't recommend his but his ad is a bit misleading. Sounds like there will be more than there is. There was no "minute of mutual touching" he remained completely clothed. His house was very cold. His massage, on the other hand, was very good and his body under those clothes seems god-like.

 

Douglas : My session felt rushed and performed in a very rote manner. Comes from the body electric school so incorporates breathing but I found it forced and him uninterested in my response.

 

Wilmer: Untrained and borderline painful.

 

Miles (Williamsburg): From CL. Horror show. Was calling me later trying to get me to come back. Worst experience in NY.

 

Michael Love : From CL. A bit cold in personality. May be straight. $100 a session to go way out in Queens for an OK massage and nothing more.

 

Miguel / Ronnie: Hired for duo massage (they also 'scort). Miguel sweet and thoughtful. Ronnie was hurrying to get it over with. Admitted they were tired and wanted to go to bed--it was 3 in the afternoon. Some extra play during session but oriented toward their pleasure not mine. Perhaps I caught them on an off day but I haven't been back.

 

Carl: Too detached. Better guys out there. Mediocre massage.

[Guest GBoy]

I also tried Roberto before, I will agree with you on your observation.

 

I almost gave Kevin a tried, thanks for the heads up.

 

I actually tried Douglas twice, onces a long time ago and once recently, I found that he is really just not that into the massage as he was when he first started, it felt rushed and mechanical.

 

I almost forgot Carl, I did try him once, it was really mediocre, that's why I wonder how his roommate Boreic is?

 

Thanks for sharing!! I wish more people will do this so we don't have to waste our money. Seems the massage site let masseur delete bad reviews, and they can just fake good reviews, we will never know exactly how good or bad they are unless someone here stand up and share!

[+ glutes]

Thanks for sharing!! I wish more people will do this so we don't have to waste our money. Seems the massage site let masseur delete bad reviews, and they can just fake good reviews, we will never know exactly how good or bad they are unless someone here stand up and share!

 

 

I posted sometime back that everyone gets a 'A' on massagem4m:

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/showthread.php?t=62169&highlight=massagem4m

[dcguy20]

Massage

 

Guys, thanks for taking the time to post multiple links and what you thought. Regarding Miguel/Ronnie, I had spoken to Miguel a couple of times and he kept trying to push the "4 handed" massage on me. I decided to forego and found someone else. He had a solo ad running at the time, not sure if he still does.

 

Let's not forget to add Lorenzo to the list:

 

http://www.massagem4m.com/ny/new-york-city/male-massage/12948/

 

I saw this guy in DC several years ago. What a joke. Had a nasty attitude. He would always call me whenever he was coming back into town. As if I would really see him again. I finally told him to stop calling me.

 

Then there's

 

http://www.massagem4m.com/ma/boston/male-massage/13602/

 

Nice guy, but he talked during the entire session about all the clients he had seen. Talk about not being discrete!! He seemed more concerned about me writing a review on his behalf (like he doesn't have enough as it is) than anything else.

[JoshAB]

Recommend!

 

Miguel / Ronnie: Hired for duo massage (they also 'scort). Miguel sweet and thoughtful. Ronnie was hurrying to get it over with. Admitted they were tired and wanted to go to bed--it was 3 in the afternoon. Some extra play during session but oriented toward their pleasure not mine. Perhaps I caught them on an off day but I haven't been back.

 

I had a great time with Miguel/Ronnie. But they were not hired for massage ;-) - Miguel is one hot latino. Hiring escorts for a massage wouldn't be my recommendation!

[josephga]

one thing I noticed in some responses about hurting after being worked on.

Going to an unprofessional masseur is extremely dangerous someone who doesn’t have certification,professional training & proper knowledge of the anatomy can hurt you. I would never buy a massage from someone that's not certified regardless of their looks or their rate

[Guest GBoy]

I totally agree with you on that, I learned my lesson from some horrible massage.

 

I got to add one more to the list, I totally forgot about this guy, one of my worst experiences ever.

 

http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/studlyranger.shtml

 

He talks the whole time about how good looking he is while he complain about doing this job he hates, and pick up the phone while he massages u, and telling u how he is doing u the favor while turn down another client who he saying would pay more cause that client is fat. The massage itself is so so, but the whole experiences is just so bad, I was too timid at the time to walk out seems that's second time I hired a masseur. Also he was making fun of my body also while he was massaging, he will point out places that he thinks is "gross". I still gets mad just thinking about it, I forgot to put him on the list probably because I block it out of my head. Sorry about the ranting.

[dcguy20]

Massage

 

GBoy, I'm sorry you didn't have a good experience with Abe. I've been to see him a number of times over the past year and he's always been very nice and respectful. The phone has never rung when I was there and he didn't talk all that much when he was working on me. He's actually one of my favorites in NYC.

[Guest GBoy]

I think it might had to do with the fact he was let go at the salon he was working that same day, so he was a bit emotional about his life at the time. Too bad it was me on the table that day, it might turn out differently if it was any other time. But I am still a bit surprise that he is one of your favorite, taken away all the talking, his massage wasn't really that great for me either. But maybe we like different pressures and style. Thanks for sharing DC.

[+ Italiano]

I totally agree with you on that, I learned my lesson from some horrible massage.

 

I got to add one more to the list, I totally forgot about this guy, one of my worst experiences ever.

 

http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/studlyranger.shtml

 

He talks the whole time about how good looking he is while he complain about doing this job he hates, and pick up the phone while he massages u, and telling u how he is doing u the favor while turn down another client who he saying would pay more cause that client is fat. The massage itself is so so, but the whole experiences is just so bad, I was too timid at the time to walk out seems that's second time I hired a masseur. Also he was making fun of my body also while he was massaging, he will point out places that he thinks is "gross". I still gets mad just thinking about it, I forgot to put him on the list probably because I block it out of my head. Sorry about the ranting.

 

Gboy, thank you for reminding me an unpleasant experience!

Me too somehow had forgotten about this guy.

 

Perhaps it wasn't as bad as in your case, but I do remember (one of my first massages too, few years ago) that he would talk and talk and talk about himself, answering phone calls and trying to end things as soon as possible. He had a smoking and sexy body and a big cock, yes, but definitely I NO REPEAT experience.

[Guest GBoy]

I will agree his body is smoking. But obviously I won't go back either.

[sizzlingrice]

I have tried Roberto and Douglas while on vacation in New York. I enjoyed both of their massages. Both were nice and receptive to my needs. I got more than what I had expected, specially with Roberto.

[Lewis H]

I have tried Roberto and Douglas while on vacation in New York. I enjoyed both of their massages. Both were nice and receptive to my needs. I got more than what I had expected, specially with Roberto.

 

I tried Roberto a couple of times and really liked the massage, but we didn't get sensual, and it was fine with me. His then-partner, Robert, was much better.

 

Douglas, I tried once. I stopped it halfway through because he was more into having sex than a massage, and I found his advances abhorrent.

[guyfouryou]

I totally agree with you on that, I learned my lesson from some horrible massage.

 

I got to add one more to the list, I totally forgot about this guy, one of my worst experiences ever.

 

http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/studlyranger.shtml

 

He talks the whole time about how good looking he is while he complain about doing this job he hates, and pick up the phone while he massages u, and telling u how he is doing u the favor while turn down another client who he saying would pay more cause that client is fat. The massage itself is so so, but the whole experiences is just so bad, I was too timid at the time to walk out seems that's second time I hired a masseur. Also he was making fun of my body also while he was massaging, he will point out places that he thinks is "gross". I still gets mad just thinking about it, I forgot to put him on the list probably because I block it out of my head. Sorry about the ranting.

Wow, I had forgotten about Abe too. I had a horrible experience with him. One of the most embarassing. It was summer and I went to Abe's place for massage. He was prissy and kept asking my about moles and birthmarks, etc. Anyway, he finally begins the massage and, unknown to me, my lower back was peeling a bit from vacation a few weeks earlier. Instead of saying, "hey dude your back is peeling wanna take a quick shower" he's freaking out and I'm horribly embarrassed. Typically I scrub my skin thoroughly before any massage but it's hard to reach the back and I didn't realize I was peeling. Geez, he threw a tantrum and it turned out to be one of the worst experiences. I am mortified just recounting this story so I would never go back in a million years. Nor would I ever, ever recommend him.

[Guest GBoy]

exactly what I experienced, he keep telling me how weird my moles looks and it's really gross to him and stuff.

[Guest Michaelnc]

This is a really interesting topic.

 

I had quite a good experience a couple of years ago with Leon in Queens - not the most expert masseur ever, but nice enough, and very well-endowed.

 

I have always wanted to try Kevin; I've found his pictures very sexy and offbeat, but I have of course noticed that he's been using the same ones for years. How does he look now?

[+ glutes]

SF masseur not to visit, Jeka

 

Although this thread is focused on NYC, I gleaned this from yahoo 'working boy' forum:

 

Jeka from Ukraine has been posting on Craigslist and Masseurfinder for

several months. He posts many, very attractive pics. He also posts

enough that you know they have to be him. He also stresses that he is

myassyage thyerapyist (he has a thick accent), nyet an yescyort. You

usually hope when someone drives that home so hard that it will at

least be a decent massage. It is not.

 

He is pretty, he does have a lovely smooth body (though actually

smaller and skinnier in person). He is not an yescyort, but he's also

not much of a massage therapist. He basically just doused me in

massage oil until I was ready for a mud wrestling bout and slopped his

hands up and down. I was afraid I would ruin my clothes when I left,

he used so much.

 

So, though cute, he was unresponsive, he was full of himself, he had a

chip on his shoulder, and he gave a lousy massage. I would only

recommend him if you really like pictures and are happy just looking

at him and touching him a bit. Don't go if you want a nice person, a

good massage, or a hot sensual experience.

 

http://www.masseurf inder.com/ members/nikaton. shtml

[Guest Spike]

Here's a description of a bad experience I had that I just posted in another thread:

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/showpost.php?p=603984&postcount=16

[Guest greatness]

There is a reason why

 

....we have massage schools. Therapists should be certified. You can injure yourself. I got a massage from a guy named Jason. I don't see him around so I guess he retired but it was a really horrible massage. There are a lot of good spas you can go to and get a stress relieving massage for a lesser price. I wouldn't hire escorts for massage because they are not certified. One time I taught the escort how to do it. Oh well..but if you just like someone hot guy touching you then ask them to give you a light massage.

[josephga]

I agree you shouldn't hire people that are not certified for massages. one problem some guys will lie about being certified. If in doubt ask to see proof.

[Guest GBoy]

wow, lucky me, I almost book a session with this guy Spike mentioned. Good thing I had to cancel due to schedule conflict.

[Guest Spike]

Maybe somebody else would have a completely different experience. Maybe I saw him on the worst of all possible off nights. Hate to think I am reducing his income, but I can't imagine it's anything more than a hobby.

[Guest OCBeachbody]

Well this is just me. Do not try those mall masseuse/masseurs. I had a long long day and decide to hang out at the block long long time ago, and they had one of those 10 minute massage in a chair deals there. It was stressful day and had a bad creek in the neck so I thought.... why not. Their popular.

 

Last time I followed the crowd blindly. It started off okay, where she gently started in slowly, but then she just went at it, It felt like she was trying to cram a 1hr session into 10 minutes! I ended up getting a headache from that.

 

Luckily I went to a Jamba Juice on the way home and that made me feel way better. So lesson learned..... no outdoor public massage for 10 dollar!