Asking an Escort to Travel with you.

[Guest danwallace]

Thanks for the responses.

[EXPAT]

Sorry but I think you are dreaming. You might find someone but the good escorts that travel would expect a fee. They normally offer a reduced fee for the week versus just their daily rate times seven.

[Epigonos]

EXPAT is exactly correct on this. I would, however, expect an escort to offer a reduction of his daily rate. Frankly how much he reduces that rate would depend on how much he wants to visit the place you are offering to take him. I would certainly expect a better rate for a week in Paris than I would for a week in Detroit. This is one time when I am willing to do a little gentle bargaining. I usually start with a question like: What would your fee be for a week in Maui? If his answer is in the ballpark but slightly more than I want to pay I might make a polite counter offer. Most clients who make extended trips with escorts know the escort already and therefore are in a position to do a little pleasant bargaining. This whole area is very nebulous and success also depends on a multitude of factors besides destination such as: 1.) how well do you know the escort? 2.) do you share interests besides the obvious? 3.) what hotels and restaurants to you intend to patronize? 4.) what activities do you have planned? Etc., etc.

[Juan Vancouver]

Hey Dan,

 

First of all there is only one stupid question and that is the question that you don't ask. So I am glad that you asked. I guess that if this question comes again and again it is because we haven't as of yet talked about it in depth. As with all questions there are a number of valid responses, so I will stick to my own point of view.

 

Aproximately 90% of my income comes from accompanying people in their trips. I am an escort who specializes in traveling. I really enjoy it and I think I am well equiped to do so. (I can communicate in a few languages, {and can learn a new one relatively fast}, have traveled extensively and am easy to travel with. Have a wide range of interests and I am always up for almost anything new.) I have been fortunate enough to go with clients to the most exotic and luxurious destinations, places that I could have never visited on my own and eaten in the most exquisite and expensive eateries, non on which I could have afforded by myself. I have traveled with a single client for as long as 20 days in a row touching 4 continents and had a blast doing so.

 

This is my job. And I adore it.

 

Since it is my job I focus entirely while doing so. My attention and goal is to make sure that the trip is comfortable for you, that you find it fulfilling, exhillarating, interesting, safe and fun. I take two hours every day to go to the gym and be by myself, but beside that and my sleeping time my focus is entirely on my client. I am NOT on a holiday, I am in a job that I really enjoy.

 

If I go with someone for a week to Paris I won't be able to go with someone else during that same week to Nebraska. So my rates for traveling reflect the amount of time together, not the desirability of the destination. My duty (and talent) is to enjoy every single place exactly the same way. If you need companioship in a trip to Boise, Idaho, I will have exactly as good a time as if I went with you to Rio de Janeiro... because this is what I do. The whole point is that I want YOU to have a great time, if I want to have a holiday I will pay for it myself.

 

Imagine that you work in a job that you adore, with base in Pittsburg. You have worked there for thirty years and you really enjoy your job. Your boss calls you and tell you the good news: The company is opening a new office in Bora Bora, the most wonderful paradise in the Pacific, so you have been selected to spend six months setting up the bussines there. You are going to be provided accomodation, airfare and great food... you are going to be taken every single Sunday to the Club Med hotel to watch the Polynesian show. Of course, he ads, you are expected to relinquish your salary... I mean, this is Bora Bora!

 

In fact when people are taken away from their local for bussines normally they get an bonus on top of their salaries, the get expenses paid and they get treated really well to entice them to go. They still have to pay rent back home, normally they are going to have the same expenses. You LOVE your job, you are going to go nuts about Bora Bora... but this is still your job.

 

Some people choose to travel with young escorts who have never traveled and who would be thrilled to go to exotic destinations. I believe some escorts may reduce their rates, some may even almost entirely go for free, but the guys who travel constantly and are experienced at it may not.

 

I have a very few clients with whom I travel an average of two weeks per year, and we always have a great time. When dealing with them I always add a free day here and there and am extra flexible when booking, but if someone calls me right now and asks about a trip to a beautiful destination my rates are very clear and exactly the same.

 

It works well for me, it works well for my clients and it has offended terribly some people who have called hoping that I would go for free. As I have said many times before I think you have the duty to ask whatever you want. If it is out of your budget you really should ask if a different rate is acceptable for the escort, but just the same way don't take it personal if the escort cannot agree with what you propose.

 

I hope this has given a clear view of the way I do it. I hope other people will tell you about their experiences both hiring or being hired.

 

Whataver your choice ends up being I sincerely hope you get lucky with someone who will make it a great experience for you. (Remember that you can never do "too much" research.)

 

Have a great trip, and enjoy!!!

 

Always hard and warm,

 

Juan

[Juan Vancouver]

And yes, normally the weekly rate is much less than a daily rate times seven.

[Bart]

Vacation for you, work for the guy

 

Dan:

I hope this is only one of about 100 questions you plan on asking. This is exactly the spot to find out how you should approach this and you were right to post in the "Ask Escort" forum.

Juan just gave you one of the best explanations regarding the process I have ever heard regarding the subject matter. I would like to add just a few quick thoughts.

I am assuming you have been with the escort before and hopefully for an overnight. If not you might want to schedule an overnight before making final plans if possible. If not then hopefully it is a several times reviewed person. Juan is very right in that usually the best discount is reserved for returning clients. I would not risk a vacation with someone I had never met.

 

Second, maybe more important than the rate, what are your expectations for this week long adventure. The rate will most likely be determined in part based upon these thoughts. Also the escort can give his limitations. Like Juan mentioned he looks for a two hour break-gym, nap, whatever and he has sleep expectations.

 

Third, the one point I would slightly disagree with Juan only in a general sense, not in his case in particular, some escorts due have choice locations that they would be willing to take a lower rate BUT this is up to you to play the salesman, set things up right to incorporate their thoughts. I know several guys you offer Hawaii, especially Nov to Mar their rates become very flexible indeed, but they will want lots of beach time and definitely not free.

 

Finally is the escort a seasoned traveller as in Juan's case and you want to be with that type of guy, many benefits to that because he knows how to travel. Less experienced guys fun to see their true enjoyment of a new experience for them, but the risk that you will have to handle all the arrangments and review everything with the escort to make sure he is properly prepared. Lot less risk with the first, than the latter and probably pay accordingly.

[+ Tygerscent]

Unpaid vacation!

 

Well... think about your employer saying: "I'm gonna give you the next week or two off and pay all BUT ONLY for fun things but none of your bills. So, get that worked out before you leave~".

Not meaning to be crase here... realistic though... I've had some offers like this and considered them but then noticed the various necessities bills on my desk, (rent, car insurance, medical insurance, cell phone, website, advertizing sites, food, utilities, etc.) and thought... DAMN! I really can't afford an unpaid vacation~ I have these bills to pay~ I can;t really affor to take one quarter or one half of the month off right now.

I imagine the scenario is different for the various Escorts out there. Some have "regular" jobs that provide present day and future securities for retirement. I, on the otherhand, don't have that. So, while the offer would be considered generous in my mind, I would have to graciously decline out of nessecity in order to provied for me present ad future needs. Make sense?

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[Guest danwallace]

Thank you EVERYONE for the indepth and informational posts to my question. I will write more about it later today. Thanks again