Who Does What To Whom?

[MscleLovr]

I'm thinking about making a first trip to Latin America (Rio and Buenos Aires) and I have a question for all those experienced visitors.

 

I've read about M4Mers having a great time in the privacy of the cabine or the hotel-room. But my impression is that most times the sauna-guys have been active.

 

I'm an active guy, in good shape, who loves muscle-bottoms. I like guys to be passionate kissers, I like to give and receive oral, I like to be rimmed and I like to top guys. I'm wondering if I will meet guys who will satisfy my needs.

 

My question is this: are there cultural constraints in Brazil and Argentina that mean the guys are less likely to bottom and kiss (because it may be perceived as the feminine role), or are they usually prepared to do everything they agree to beforehand?

 

Thanks for your help! ML

[trilingual]

Not to worry. Based on reviews and discussions here you'll find what you're looking for. However, let's wait for more detailed comments by Tomcal (our "ativo" champion here who's topped just about everyone in Brazil!). Some of our other posters are gung-ho tops, also, and can describe their experiences. The one cultural hangup you're likely to run into is that some of the guys you go with will ask you not to talk about what you did to the other guys at the sauna, because they don't want to ruin their macho images!

 

We haven't had much discussion of rimming here, although I assume Brazilians must do it considering their obsession with "bundas" (asses). I'm pretty sure it's not a big issue in Argentina, where it's referred to as "beso negro," although I don't speak from personal experience. However, the Argentines are a randy bunch behind their buttoned-up exteriors and their sexual mores are a lot like those in Spain, where "beso negro" seems to be a national sport! (At least if the Spanish porn I've read is an accurate reflection of Spanish tastes, because "beso negro" certainly features prominently in most of those stories!)

[Guest Tomcal_]

I would say that if you ask the boys in the suanas are you a Top or bttm?, about 80%+ will say Activo!, but of that group about 80% will definitly bttm. when you get to the privacy of the room! I just had this conversation yesterday before I left. A guy who is a physician in L.A. and who I had met previously on my last trip, and who is also a Top only like me, said "what has been your experience?" I gave him the above % and he said "that's exactly what I have found!" He is also a Hung top, so maybe that plays in to it! lol We then talked about the Johnny Depp look alike and he said "he told me he is only activo, but he bttm'd for me!" I said, he did the same with me yesterday.

Just approach them quietly about it, and often at first they will say they don't bttm, and I always say, no problem, i don't have to fuck to have agood time, and then when you get into the room, they decide they will!

As far as rimming, The majority of the boys don't do it, but love having it done! I would say about 25% will rim(including a hot dancer at 117, whose name I am not ready to share yet! LOL)

[Driver]

My very first visit to Rio I went in the mood to bottom but most guys were too big for me. Anderson was so agressive as a top I couldn't face anything up the old chocolate whizzway for days afterwards. My next two visits I was a definate top at all times and only 1/3 of my choices would say they were top only. One rather annoyingly told me in the bar after the sex that he would consider being bottom - it was a ploy I suspect for some more money but was far too late!

 

Just about all the guys there are muscled or defined so provided colour is not an issue for you I suspect you will get some of what you want.