Brazil Escorts To Avoid

[Guest Mark]

We are all talking of sauna boys we love. How about those to avoid?

 

At Termas Lagoa, I hooked up with Matheus Marques (see his picture at marcostudio.com or Maite Schneider's web site). He is a classic. He says he will do it all. In the cabine, he is very reluctant for you to go down on him, then he tells me I have bad breath (so as not to kiss), then he says he can't get it up. Classic, classic ....

 

AVOID!

[IamI2002]

Good to know, Mark. I'll be in SP Saturday. Do you have a link to Maite Schneider's site?

 

Thanks

[Guest Tomcal_]

In the the past 9 months I have been in Rio 3 times and according to my good friend LAShowbiz(a big slut i might add) have been with at least 50 of the boys in the saunas, i can honestly say that i have never had a bad experience in the suanas! The boys have always been willing to kiss, a mutual oral, etc.

[trilingual]

Tomcal has been having a remarkable run of luck! :7 Inevitably you'll run into a dud who doesn't perform or overpromises or tries to ask for more money. Don't pay more than the standard fee, and if you get hassled, go complain to the owner/manager and if necessary tell them you're going to post something about their unwillingness to be helpful if they don't straighten things out. By now they all must know they're getting some respectable business from this site!

 

I can't remember the names of the duds I've run into (probably because I just blot them from memory). They tend not to last long, because when it becomes obvious what they're doing the local clients won't hire them. The sauna owners end up replacing them with someone who will give the customers what they're looking for and who'll attract repeat business, instead of giving the place a bad reputation. As a rule of thumb, I just avoid the guys who glom onto me the minute I walk into the place or who are way too aggressive in their approach later on. They've ended up being the least satisfactory, so now I know better.

[Guest Mark]

Dear IAMI2002,

 

The Maite Schneider website is in one of the threads. I tried it again but I keep getting "Access Forbidden" message. If you get through, tell me how.

 

TO ALL,

 

The reason why I started this Thread is to protect us, all of us. A psychologist friend said gay men are competitive when it comes to love. Instead of protecting each other, we compete for that elusive male love. Hence one reason for the catty talk we see in this web site. Gay men are also very sensitive when it comes to a rebuff by the man we pursue. Hence, we gay men are embarassed to admit failure in this area.

 

I would like to abandon these competition and illusion. Let us help each other and be realistic. Not all sauna boys have good intentions. When I was in Termas Fragata (Sao Paolo), I heard in the next cabine a near violent fight. The sauna boy was boxing the thin wall as a threat to his client. A sauna boy threatened me in Plataforma in Porto Alegre when I did not give him the full price since he failed to keep up to his promise. An English guy in Termas Fragata brought to his hotel room a sauna boy and the English guy was found dead a few days later. It is not 100% safe.

 

As a matter of principle, one should keep his word. We work hard to be able to pay for entertainment. No escort, especially in the US, should be allowed to rip us off and rationalize their unreasonable rules because they are humans not robots. So are we. If anything Brazilian escorts show N. American escorts, is that one can deliver if one wants to. Yet these Gaiety escorts expects you to pay hard-earned $250 just for body worship and no touch. Where in the world do you see a highly paid employee telling his employer what he wants to do or not?

 

Enough of this abuse! Let us protect and help each other!

[Brall]

I just returned from a wonderful visit to Sao Paulo and Rio. Many posts are very accurate in describing the fun one will have. However, there were a few unpleasant experiences. In Sao Paulo - Lagoa, the first guy I met said $R50 and asked for $R100 afterwards. He said I mis-understood him. I did learn from the experience. I wrote $R50 on a napkin and when asking the price, I showed the napkin to the guys. Worked great.

 

In Rio - 117, how well I remember Josh. He is a very handsome young man who wears braces. He cites the braces as an excuse for not kissing, and he was absolutely the WORSE sexual experience I had in Brazil. When I checked out of 117, someone had charged a chicken nugget meal and 4 Redibull drinks to my number; by the way, that is one of the more expensive drink. The management removed the charges from my bill and apologized sincerely. The clerk and I went to the bar and inquired about the charges. The bartender remembered Josh ordering the meal and a couple of the drinks. He, the bartender, thought it was o.k. for Josh to order the stuff because Josh and I were sitting together in the restaurant for quite awhile before we went upstairs. The management said they would talk with Josh about this, and again apologized for the incident. I was very impressed with the way management handled the situation. I did not see Josh at the sauna during the next two days that I visited the 117.

 

So guys, every now and then a rotten apple will appear in the barrel. Nevertheless, learn from the experience and keep on trucking. Again, thanks to all of you for posting valuable information on this site.

[trilingual]

I've never gone through a loud scene of the type Mark describes, but I suppose they happen from time to time. Again, DON'T overpay or allow yourself to be threatened. Complain immediately to the management. They should be sympathetic (unless you did something WAY out of line). The saunas don't want or need this kind of behavior; it scares away the clients. The same goes for being overcharged, or finding items you never ordered on your bar tab, like Brall experienced.

 

Now and again one hears stories about guys being murdered by someone they picked up. This happens everywhere, of course, not just in Brazil. But this should be a reminder not to let your guard down excessively, which is a danger in Brazil because it has a way of utterly disarming you. Unless you know a guy really well, or he's with an agency, or otherwise is a safe, known quantity, DON'T invite him to your hotel or apartment. If you can't take care of business at the saunas, use a "motel." Your companion or someone else at the sauna can recommend one to you.

 

None of these are everyday occurrences, of course. But you need to be aware that earthly paradises always have a few thorns and stings. Words to the wise from the voices of experience. ;-)

[Boston Guy]

Tri -

 

I accept your advice that a motel is a better choice than one's own hotel when dealing with an unknown quantity.

 

But, and pardon me if I've misunderstood, isn't that mainly in terms of the safety of one's belongings? Wouldn't the experience in a motel be just as liable to be dangerous to one's own person as it would be in a hotel?

 

Or are there some other differences that I'm missing?

 

BG

[trilingual]

In part, the "motels" are a better bet to ensure the safety of your belongings. However, they're also relatively smaller places than hotels (with the exception of some sprawling establishments on the outskirts of cities which you probably won't use). If there's a problem and you start yelling at the top of your lungs, you're likelier to get help faster than in a large, anonymous high-rise hotel or apartment building. In another thread, Ernani recounted a bad experience he had at a motel with someone he'd picked up. It might have been worse if he hadn't been in a small establishment where the commotion could be overheard and the management could come check it out.

 

Nothing is 100% safe, of course. Wherever you are, you need to exercise your best judgement and if in doubt, take someone new you've met to a sauna. It's probably the safest option of all.

[Boston Guy]

OK, thanks, I understand.

 

It's always interesting to learn how another culture operates. :-)

 

BG

[IamI2002]

Hear! Hear! And, while we are at it, limit Trisexual's posts to 15-25 words.

[CT Dick]

>Hear! Hear! And, while we are at it, limit Trisexual's posts

>to 15-25 words.

 

:-)