tips to select an escort?

[urban_toxic33]

Hello, all.

I'm glad to find this site, there is so many useful information here.

 

Since I'm new to this... I'm wondering if anyone has any good tips for newbie like me to pick a escort.

 

What thing do you need to look out?

Only trusted one would be ones who have review in this website?

what about one don't have any review..?

what's that mean when it says rates vary..?

 

Any tips will be greatly appreciated...

 

Anyone has tried "LatinPlatinumtx" in dallas?

 

Sorry if I asked too many questions in one post...

[Lankypeters]

Book guys who have several positive reviews on this site. Check writing style in the reviews as a somewhat accurate key to their authenticity. Gabriel Sinclair, who has some negative reviews on this site, has several other positive reviews that sound as if they were written by the same English-challenged reviewer. (Sincair speaks somewhat halting American English.)

 

Do a search on this site for escorts you consider hiring. Note names of posters and see if their preferences here allow you to send them e-mails. If so, ask them for pertinent details. This kind of correspondence, conducted in private, has helped me find guys who were good.

 

I don't know what, if any, agencies operate where you live. Here in Gotham, Matt and Stephen at Maximum are conscientious about matching you with someone you'll like. With just a few exceptions, I've been pleased in every way by their guys.

 

Happy hunting!

 

Lankypeters

[JT Brooklyn]

Urban..Welcome!

The main motto is to Think with your Big Head and NOT the Little one around here! ;-)

 

Try and do as much Research as possible "Reviews" are nice, but they are One guys Opinion of another! Ask as many questions as you want and hopefully you will get Upfront answers.

 

Bottom Line.."The Wonderful World of The Working Guy" can be a Crap Shoot. Any guy who says..CALL ME and says YES to everything in a 5 minute Cell conversation..My Advice is to Move On! Best of luck! ;-)

[Guest DickHo]

For me, one big red flag is the pics in the ad:

(1) if all the pics are of body parts, meaning there's a dick pic, a chest pic, an ass pic but not a pic connecting them, most likely these are not his pics.

(2) if the pics are all of different quality and size, the pics probably span many years...and the guy is not really serious about escorting. remember, the pics he chooses are the ones in which he thinks he looks best.

(3) i prefer to see a face but i know that is not always possible. but even if you get a face pic, it should be connected to other body parts, not just a driver's license type of pic.

 

other red flags:

he doesn't answer emails. in today's world, that's just stupid and it gives me a sense that they are slippery and prefer only booty call type meetings: you call me, i come over. i need to plan the sessions and i hate just dialing to see who's around.

 

for the "i have to have you now" calls, since i only do outcalls (they come to me), in NYC, it's important to find out where they are coming from. many guys advertise "midtown" when they actually live in NJ (and i don't think there is anything wrong with NJ) and "i'll be there in an hour" usually turns into a waiting game.

 

make sure the parameters of the meeting are discussed...i know the escorts get a lot of calls where people just want to talk dirty and are not serious about meeting, BUT if they are not willing to discuss the basics (who is going to do what to whom and with what), another red flag...

 

one last one, i always have them call me when they are headed my direction...if i don't get that call or text message, i assume they are not coming

 

BUT we all know that there are those times when all the thinking is done with the dick and you don't follow your own advice. if he turns out not to be all that you wanted, you'll hear yourself say "that's why i never..."

 

AND HAVE FUN because when they are good, they can be very good for you!

[+ Oliver]

I have found that "research" is key. Use as many sources as you can find to compare information.

 

In reading reviews, I find the most valuable portion is the information the reviewer gives about himself. I look for those who are as similar to me as possible (although admittedly that's becoming more difficult - nobody is that old :+ ). If the escort pleased that reviewer, he will more than likely please me - and vice versa.

[+ Charlie]

Unlike DickHo, I usually only do first-time appointments where I go to the escort's place, unless it is a very well known escort (someone who posts here or who has been reviewed by other regular posters here), because I have had a couple of bad experiences with unknown escorts coming to me; if you do have a new escort come to your home or hotel room, follow Dick's advice.

 

If he wants payment before you start, it's often a bad sign, unless he is a very well reviewed escort. If he appears to be stoned or nervous when you meet, it's a bad sign. If he doesn't look like his pictures or his description, it's a bad sign. Don't be afraid to tell him you don't want to go through with it; if he's a lot bigger than you are and appears hostile, offer to pay him part of the fee, but do not allow yourself to be seduced into starting any activity if you are uncomfortable with him or with the situation. If something like this happens with someone you hire through an agency, complain strongly to the agency. And pass that information along here and in a review. Don't let this series of warnings scare you off from hiring--a certain percentage of guys you hire will turn out to be disappointing (just like free sex), but not many are actually problems.

 

"Rates vary" may mean that he has a scale of rates depending on what you want to do when and where, or that he is trying to figure out where he fits in the market. Some escorts have rigid fees, but others are flexible. Whenever possible, try to hire escorts who have a flat rate for a session rather than a rate for each hour. If he quotes a rate that seems too high or too low, check out his competition on websites like Rentboy, to see what other escorts of his type and location are asking. Don't assume that what a reviewer says he paid is what the escort will charge you. Tipping extra is entirely at your discretion and is never expected.

 

And welcome to the board!

[+ newatthis]

Lots of good advice here already.

 

My first escort experience was pretty lousy, and I could have avoided it if I had trusted my intuition after speaking to him a couple of times. After the fact, looking for consolation, I emailed someone from this MC, and learned that he had passed on a meeting with the same escort because of vibes similar to mine. I should add that the escort in question had multiple laudatory reviews -- after the fact, I also learned that a number of people who had bad experiences with him had not written reviews.

 

Of course, if you're new to hiring, you'll find it hard, as I did, to distinguish your own nervousness from "authentically" bad intuitions. I'd say that if an escort isn't able to alleviate at least some of your nervousness when you talk with him, he's probably not right for you.

[Guest DickHo]

I forgot: Google the escort's phone number. You'd be surprised what you find out!

[urban_toxic33]

Thank you everybody for the all the advises!!

 

It is kind of nervous to hire one, since I did read some of the bad thing....

 

I gathered all you guys' advises that the safest way is go for one with more positive reviews..

 

I also do understand to study a bit of the reviews if they are trusted, as well.

 

I had eye on one, however, he don't have any review on here, nor on the men4rent neither... and rate is also "vary"...

I guess redflags all over...??

 

After read all of you guys kind advise, I will sure follow you guys' advice and select one for me...

 

Again, thank you!!

[urban_toxic33]

that's brilliant idea!!!

[Juan Vancouver]

Hey man!

 

Not having reviews in this site is not necessarily a bad sign. He could be starting his career and has not been reviewed. If you were hiring escorts regularly I would assume that taking some risks getting to know the new talent is always a great thing to to, however, you are wanting to hire your first escort -ever- and I would suggest to try to get the best experience possible.

 

The only thing that I think people have not expressed clearly is that when you speak with your escort or contact him by mail be prepared to discuss the specific details of what you are wanting to experience with him. So often when I ask what is it that my prospective client is looking for, I get a hushed response like: "You know... just want a nice time... you know... nothing out of the ordinary... You are the professional, YOU KNOW!"

 

Truth is that even the very well reviewed escorts are not necessarily good at reading minds. Even amongst the best escorts there are certain activities that some do and some don't and it is important that you choose one that will fulfill your needs. If you give a concise response such as: "I have never hired a guy before and would like to have a relaxed experience, taking my time to get comfortable. I am looking for mutual oral without a condom (or with one) and would like to try to have anal sex as the receptive partner." your escort of choice would have to tell you very directly whether he thinks you two are a good match or not.

 

The last thing I would like to say is pay attention. If when you are on the phone with him you feel at ease, if you laugh, or feel turned on, or feel that he is being direct but allowing you to ask as many questions as you need then you know you will feel like that while being with him. If the conversation is curt, if you feel odd and you are not enjoying the exchange, odds are that you won't enjoy being with him. There are very few great escorts that are amazing in the flesh but not very good on the phone. (there are a few but that is not the rule.)

 

Take your time, do your homework, make sure you know what is it that you want to receive during the session and be direct and follow your intuition, NOT your eyes. I am sure you are going to have a great time and going to meet many amazing men in this profession.

 

I sincerely hope you will have an amazingly good first experience!}(

[Epigonos]

When you read reviews you might also want to take note of the age of the reviewers. I'm 68 and may NOT elicit the same reaction from an escort as a 30 year old. Thus I make an effort to hire escorts who have positive reviews from reviewers in my age group. Now in all honesty I don't insist on the above but when an escorts doesn't have any reviews from guys in my age group I make certain to tell him or email him my age and inquire if that age will be a problem for him. I don't like unpleasant suprises and I have found that the more information I provide the escort I intend to hire the better the get together.

We have all been where you are right now and I for one am extremely happy that I took the plunge and hired my first escort. Go for it! Believe me you will have a great time!!!