Escort Etiquette

[Guest Ca Robert]

I noticed in daddy's post regarding the term "hooker", I can now understand why escorts always liked me. I was never rude to them, nor degraded them, nor made them feel badly about life choices. Apparently it's fairly common for clients to wonder what drove an attractive young man into prostitution, or to ask porn stars if they were drug addicts. In my opinion, completely inappropriate questions. One is paying for a service, not doing a sociological study, and the escort is not an interview. One porn star escort admitted he really didn't like to talk about his video work, as he didn't enjoy it, and few actually did. Years ago, one escort told me how clients were often drunk, or drugged out, and therefore kind of "dangerous". When I used an escort service, which was later busted, I found out they treated the escorts pretty badly.

 

Likewise, I never had an escort really make rude or degrading remarks to me. I avoided escorts who wouldn't kiss unless "depending" on the mood or client. I have had experiences where my penis was too big for an escort, and we amicably negotiated the rest of the time.

 

99% of my experiences have been good, and I go into an escort relationship communicating what I what and expect. I also make sure to thank the escort.

 

The issue made me wonder how often clients demean escorts.

 

On a different note, thanks to those who offered support concerning my health issues with diabetes. Miracuously, everything is, once again under control!

[orbital sander]

Escorts, above all, are human just like you or I. Any person who is respectful, kind, and decent to me gets back exactly what they give. I have never had any complaints. I have heard about fellows being mistreated...some people just feel that others are there to serve them. I avoid these people like the plague in all areas of my life. Some of the escorts I have met have turned out to be very sweet people who have a unique view of life. I have a special respect for them, especially considering some of the damaged people that they have to occasionally put up with

[lookin4hotties]

I have found most escorts that I've met, particularly the

travelling escorts I've hired to be some of the nicest and

most unpretentious and easy to please people I have ever

known in my life. They are people I have enjoyed meeting

and getting to know better and deserve to be treated well

at all times. You're so right, they didn't show up to be

interviewed and be put on the spot. A little respect for

privacy goes a long way. So does direct communication

when it comes to conveying what you want to do.

 

Most of the escorts I've hired have only been highly

professional and great to be around. To me, an escort

deserves my respect because he's already earned it -

by showing up looking great and willing to have a good

time despite my no longer being 21 with a 28-inch waist.

 

Anyone who demeans or mistreats an escort is a moron.

They deserve the best for what they do. There are a

few bad apples out there, but those have been a rare

exception. Most for me have been amazing, beautiful

and very cool. They have been there to share some

special occasions and have given me some fun and

memorable times. They deserve my best.

 

Lookin4hotties

[JT Brooklyn]

Personally the Term "Escort" never made that much sense to me. As ya all know I use the Term "Working Guy". Which by Definition means "A Guy who is Working" As I have previously written on the subject..The "Majority of Appointments" are on a 1 to 1 Basis in Private. Why one needs to be Escorted around their "Apt or Hotel Room" has always puzzled me! LOL

 

The Women in the Biz prefer "Working Girl" simply because it doesn't have the other "Names" and references attached to it that the INFAMOUS Escort "Moniker" does have. "Escort" means one thing and there's No Dancing around it! Although in the minds of some, of a "certain age".. it justifys and SOMEWHAT seems to clean the ACT up! ;-)

[whipped guy]

"I also make sure to thank the escort."

 

Definitely! I don't care what type of service is provided. It always makes one feel good to be thanked... as it makes one aware that they are not only appreciated and valued, but ultimately respected as well.

[Guest Ca Robert]

I can remember in the early 90s using local (San Francisco) escort services before I really got into "internet shopping". The regulars I hired again and again often trashed the agency. Apparently their "take" was anywhere from 1/3 to 1/2. They also "forced" them to meet with clients they didn't like, and tops became bottoms for the right fee. I'm glad those days are over, and they have a greater option to be "free agents". One escort told me he wanted to leave a coke addicts apartment, and the agency severed him from their list as a result.

 

Also, the agencies would often lie to clients and try to fill a request with inappropriate choices. It all backfired with a series of arrests, and the owner went to prison.

 

The jerks have been few, and I think it's because I start off with a positive, respectful attitude.

 

It's interesting that many were students, struggling actors, guys trying to start their own (legitimate) business, etc. I never really met an escort who relied solely on clients for support.

[Epigonos]

I must admit that I really don’t completely understand the point of this thread. It would seem to me that like most things in this life GOOD MANNERS is the issue here. In our dealings with ALL people, escorts included, we invariably receive a far better response if we approach the person politely. Isn’t this just common sense?

 

Now as to the use of the term escort. As far as I’m concerned it is predicate nominative which quickly and easily describes the occupation of someone. I see no difference in it than in terms like doctor, lawyer, or teacher. I certainly can’t imagine using the term directly with an escort himself. Just exactly how would it be used? Do some clients actually address an escort as, for example, escort Bill? I can’t imagine anyone doing so. As to asking and escort how he got into the business I also find it hard to believe that a client would ask such a question without knowing the escort very well.

 

What am I missing here guys?

[jeepman]

I approach engaging the services of an escort as I approach other aspects of my life, that is, I treat others as I wish for them to treat me. It's common sense and common courtesy regardless of who you are interacting with. Can this be the reason why the vast majority of my hiring experiences have been positive? And a sincere "thank you" does go a long way.

[NoahDriver]

I think that treating people with honesty and kindness (along with a stiff tool) is always the way to go. Sure, there's the possibility of two guys not getting along, but it's rare for me that there's not something I can connect with.

 

It's what makes escorting exciting for me: New people, different opinions and completely naked experiences.

 

 

 

Noah