First Overnighter

[starman05]

I'm having (or hope to be having) an overnighter (my first) with an escort.

 

I know I have to talk to him about what I'd like and what I can expect and ask him what he feels comfortable with, but generally, what can I expect?

 

I don't know him all that well. Is it best to go to a hotel?

 

He's versatile, but I really want him to top me.

 

Any advice?

 

TIA!:-)

[lookin4hotties]

I love overnighters! Standing there full of anticipation at

the airport terminal near security is always a bit like

Christmas! :O)

 

He will arrive and you'll show him to your car or a taxi.

That's where it all begins. You can start chatting and

get to know him. If he is flying back early, I would get

him right to your hotel, if it is now evening. If he has

arrived in the afternoon you have more time. Also, ask

him if he's eaten. If he arrives a bit before the dinner

hour, then I would plan on inviting him to go out for a

nice meal or possibly order in. Even though I've been

tempted to have escorts stay at my place, I really

think staying at a hotel is the best idea. I prefer

a hotel even for a short overnight that I think is

special and that the escort will also like.

 

To save time, I often check into the hotel in advance

to get things ready and stock the fridge. This is quite

optional, since most travelling escorts just seem to go

with the flow and will not arrive demanding anything.

From my experience, I would discuss what your plans

are with him if they DON'T involve going directly to

the hotel. If he hasn't had much sleep but you decide

to first take him on the town for hours and hours, you

might end up with a very tired escort later on, like at

that exact moment when you REALLY want him to be

wide awake!

 

I do usually take him directly to the hotel first, so

he can put his bag down, freshen up and relax for a

moment, no matter what my plans are. Also, I always

like to ask escorts in advance what they prefer to

drink and I have that on hand at the hotel very cold,

along with something for myself. No need to be very

lavish or elaborate with lots of different drinks on

hand, just some of what he likes and what you like,

in sealed cans/bottles for him.

 

Past that, everything else is up to you! This is

your dream date and he will be happy to be spending

time with you. Whether you would like to start off

talking a bit and getting to know him or just getting

right into having fun, he will be happy to oblige you.

If there are any special things you would enjoy doing

or perhaps even any fantasies you would like to him

to fulfill, let him know :O)

 

Picture in your mind a bit how you want the evening

to go. He will very likely feel totally fine about

whatever you are in the mood to do. That's a big

part of what will make things so much fun!

 

Let us know how things turn out.

 

Lookin4hotties

[lookin4hotties]

Also, on a shorter note, since you will be paying a lot

more than for an hour or two, make sure in advance he

will be into what you like to do. If you want him to

top you, tell him! I would also have a short phone

conversation before you make the final decision to

book his trip.

 

Again, best of luck. Hope you have a really

enjoyable time!

 

Lookin4hotties

[JT Brooklyn]

Starman...Hopefully the guy does have a few Reviews Up? IF not well that and NOT spending even a "Previous Hour" with him, as you know makes your Overnite Experience a little IFFY!

 

Pix's are nice to Fantasize Over, but they don't always "come to Life" the way you think they will! ;-)

 

I'm guessing you have SPOKEN to him? If ya have not his Voice alone may get on your Nerves in Time. What Exactly are HIS OVERNITE Hours? They can vary from Guy to Guy. Does he sleep well and or does he SNORE? Does he like A.M. Sex?

 

These Questions and few more I have Learned from Experience to Ask! And that was waay before OVERNITER'S became a Huge Exspense and also can be a "Flying Hassle" for Both You and the "Working Guys"! ;-)

[JT Brooklyn]

Starman...Hopefully the guy does have a few Reviews Up? IF not well that and NOT spending even a "Previous Hour" with him, as you know makes your Overnite Experience a little IFFY!

 

Pix's are nice to Fantasize Over, but they don't always "come to Life" the way you think they will! ;-)

 

I'm guessing you have SPOKEN to him? If ya have not his Voice alone may get on your Nerves in Time. What Exactly are HIS OVERNITE Hours? They can vary from Guy to Guy. Does he sleep well and or does he SNORE? Does he like A.M. Sex?

 

These Questions and few more I have Learned from Experience to Ask! And that was waay before OVERNITER'S became a Huge Exspense and also can be a "Flying Hassle" for Both You and the "Working Guys"! ;-)

[whipped guy]

I am not into overnighters… two hours or so satisfy me just fine. However, from what I have read of his postings in this forum and also based on reviews that he has submitted, JT is indeed an authority in that department. So please re-read carefully his sage advice… I for one can not tolerate any type of snoring, bad morning breath, not to mention the possibilities of eccentric behavior and other vagaries.

 

In addition, since going to a hotel was suggested I might add that there can be pluses and minuses going that route. You may feel more comfortable at home in familiar surroundings where you are assured a certain degree of privacy, but then again sometimes a little anonymity is good as well… or perhaps an unfamiliar surrounding can add a sense of excitement... hence going to a hotel.

 

Still, please make sure that you choose the correct hotel. One with thick walls! Recently I was at a large midtown Manhattan property that seemed to offer quite a bit of isolation… and I even was able to get a room that was the last one down the hallway that abutted the stairwell. Unfortunately, my lone “neighbor” began to bang on the walls halfway through our session and it was not even in the wee hours of the night. That put quite a damper on the proceedings… Of course we were getting a bit carried away with things… and I have since spoken to another escort regarding that particular property and he ran into a similar problem… so I simply mention it as one more aspect to consider.

 

At any rate... I wish you the best!

[whipped guy]

I am not into overnighters… two hours or so satisfy me just fine. However, from what I have read of his postings in this forum and also based on reviews that he has submitted, JT is indeed an authority in that department. So please re-read carefully his sage advice… I for one can not tolerate any type of snoring, bad morning breath, not to mention the possibilities of eccentric behavior and other vagaries.

 

In addition, since going to a hotel was suggested I might add that there can be pluses and minuses going that route. You may feel more comfortable at home in familiar surroundings where you are assured a certain degree of privacy, but then again sometimes a little anonymity is good as well… or perhaps an unfamiliar surrounding can add a sense of excitement... hence going to a hotel.

 

Still, please make sure that you choose the correct hotel. One with thick walls! Recently I was at a large midtown Manhattan property that seemed to offer quite a bit of isolation… and I even was able to get a room that was the last one down the hallway that abutted the stairwell. Unfortunately, my lone “neighbor” began to bang on the walls halfway through our session and it was not even in the wee hours of the night. That put quite a damper on the proceedings… Of course we were getting a bit carried away with things… and I have since spoken to another escort regarding that particular property and he ran into a similar problem… so I simply mention it as one more aspect to consider.

 

At any rate... I wish you the best!

[Epigonos]

I like whipped guy am not really into overnights. I prefer lunch or dinner and a couple of hours of play time. I have lived alone all of my life and don't find it thrilling simply to have someone SLEEPING next to me.

 

Now with that said there are definitely some escorts with whom I have experienced great overnights (Aaron Marks, Dane Scott, and Steven Kesslar). I have used hotels with both Aaron and Dane because we did not get together in my hometown. I have spent time with Steven Kesslar at my home and at hotels. I have NEVER done an overnight with I guy with whom I had not already spent an afternoon or evening. For me there a just too many variables when meeting a guy for the first time for an overnight. Many of those variable have been addressed by other posters on this thread and I would, if I were you, be careful to address them all. The point about making sure that the guy has a number of excellent reviews is outstanding. GOOD LUCK AND HAVE FUN!!!!!

[Philly Guy]

I want to wish you good luck in the endeavor!

 

I have said before that I prefer an overday as opposed to an over night. I feel in a full day appointment you are able to take advantage of the extra "awake" hours to become fully familiar with your companion.

 

The longer you spend with a new person that you encounter, you become aware that it is not only the physical attraction that makes for an enjoyable experience.

 

About a year or so ago I spent the entire weekend with Kevin from Montreal. We were fully compatible right from the start, we never ran out of things to talk about, had tons of sex, enjoyed plenty of grat meals and never even had time to hit a club.

 

This is rare, it took a few conversations and a lot of trepidation on my part before I committed to the $.

 

The only other people that I know to have similar reputations for long term visit success are: Jonathon Lowe, Brandon Steele, and Ryan -(escortboi) from Phoenix.

[JT Brooklyn]

Philly...Definitely Brandan Steele gets an A+ FROM ALL who spend any amount of time with the Guy!

 

He is definitely as Nice as he is a Hunk! The Pix's don't Lie! :9