Masculine Traveling Escorts

[Guest danwallace]

KMEM:

 

It is now crystal clear that you are the one that contacted Benjamin and told him he was a subject of this post. It is also clear he is using you to do his dirty work. You only know what Benjamine told you, so please don't comment on thigs you don't have credible information on. If Benjamin has something to say about this, let him respond instead of him using you as his obedient puppet.

This whole post had nothing to do with BN. I relayed the information I had on him as truthfully as I knew how. This is the last I will post about your boy BN. If you don't have something constructive to say about my original post, please say nothing at all.

[Rick Munroe and Derek Ross]

>I happend to know there was a cyst in a very sensitive area,

>an area that I actually put my finger on

 

Too much information!

 

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[KMEM]

You are mistaken. I did not contact BN and I also know from a visit with him that he did have a medical issue. You are the one who started the conversation about what he did or what you thought he did to you, not me.

 

No one who posted in reponse on this thread seems to know what you want; I certainly don't but when you make accusations you are liable to be called on them.

 

Nonetheless,

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[Guest danwallace]

Yes Rick, way too much information considering the fact that I only said BN canceled on me in 2006. I never said the month or gave any indication of a timeline. Perhaps KMEN is his Doctor? Could be...

[Guest danwallace]

>>Try Tony Pitt out of Florida. There is a listing on MSS.

> I

>>think his email is miamimodel999@yahoo.com.

>

>While Tony is certainly masculine in the MMA fighter kind of

>way and he has a terrific physique, I do not believe that he

>does much else but muscle worship and strength. He does not

>kiss or give oral as far as I know though he does allow you to

>service him.

>I believe it to be3 that he does not do anal at all. Too bad

>cause he has a great ass.

>

>

>

May sound like a stupid question, but what does MMS and MMA stand for? Not sure what that is.

[Rick Munroe]

>May sound like a stupid question, but what does MMS and MMA

>stand for? Not sure what that is.

 

MSS is muscleservice.com. I didn't know what MMA was either, but a quick 5-second google told me it's "mixed martial arts," otherwise known as "ultimate fighting," which is really hot to watch (it reminds me of violent fucking). Remember, the google and the wikipedia are your friends.

 

http://www.kombatgroup.com/img-muay-thai/mma-submission-ultimate-fight.jpg http://www.bizofshowbiz.com/uploads/Ultimate%20fighting%20champisionship%20going%20mainstream.jpg

[+ purplekow]

Sorry did not get back to you but Rick is right again. MSS is Muscle Service though it may also be an abbreviation for Manuscripts. MMA is mixed martial arts which is quite the rage and Mr. Pitt has been doing this recently. MoMA of course is the Museum of Modern Art and my guess would be that Mr. Pitt has never been inside that building, so if that is masculine then strike another one for Tony.

[Txpaytoplay]

Wow....

All this just to have one's way with a "masculine" guy. I keep having visions of Nathan Lane trying to be "masculine" in the Bird Cage. LOL....that was funny as all get out.

 

By the way....I have never me either one, but somehow I picture Derek and Rick to be masculine.

[Okliehomo]

Hey Dan,

 

I totally get that that you are looking for a guy that doesn't talk like MIke Tyson ( but could be built like him in the 90's???0 and that doesn't swish around the room and doesn't make overt hand gestures. Me, neither. Who is? If I was, I could get that at home for free. In the mirror.

 

But besides wanting to take him out to the old ball game, what are you looking for?

 

Top? Versatile? Bottom? Any combination of the former?

 

I get your type. Tony Romo and Tom Brady. Sports, right? Shut up. I know. Big boys. And little Mario Lopez, too. Now, as to the overt hand gesture, Mario may have made one or two and a few high kicks as well. He is on Broadway, after all, dammit and Broadway doesn't go for "booze and dope".. (that was for Rick and Derek and Miss Hayword).. Anyway, sign me up for Mario, too, but please do not tell Smirnoff, too scary for me. Those dimples and that ass, those dimples in that ass... as evidenced by the shower scene on "Nip/Tuck"... so sweet. I digress here but don't you all think that Lopez would have made a terrific celllmate for Keller on "OZ'? Love me some Meloni. Talk about a perfect ass. Had an escort tell me that he went to college with him and that at a reunion, they got, shall we say, reacquainted, with Meloni in the bottom bunk, so to speak. Do you believe that? Not sure that I do. How people talk.

 

Back on point.

 

In my humble opinion, God divides. You can't get it all, sugar. My recent experience says it all.

 

If you are looking for muscle worship.... Or, just to get fucked, then maybe a straight guy works. If you want passion and interaction, probably not. Seriously. Only a man that has a true and deep desire for another man can really make it happen. No one can fake that. They either get it or they don't. I have been with both and nothing even remotely compares with being with a guy that at least seems like he wants you as much as you want him.

 

My mantra these days is "No straight men.. no straight men... no matter how good his reviews are or how hot his ass is...."

 

All together now, boys... sing out, Rose, sing out!!

 

After all of this advice and bullshit and show tunes, here is what you asked for...... recommendations....

 

Again. Not knowing which bunk you prefer.... or the size of your wallet.........

 

If it's bottom;

 

Arpad Miklos, Rafael Alencar ( versatile, too and a magnificent ass.. think Nadal's) , Ty/Portland, David/Sf, Gio/NYC ... and Elviz Buch..... Latin and hung and so pretty and butch as all get out. And also Parker Williams might fit your bill. He's very masculine, hairy and very handsome. Not much of a kisser, though, but, at least, he says so upfront.... and apparently, versatile as well, since he let Michael Lucas go "nuts deep" into his very hot ass

 

But since you are in Chicago...... my real advise is try Mark. He's tall, dark and handsome, with a ripped body and an ass that is spectacular. Killer smile and model looks. Total top and could very well like baseball.

 

Okie

.

[Bart]

Wow, guys take their bitch pills this weekend or what. When you read this entire thread in one sitting it is amazing the guy came back again. I can see where he may lack a some decorum in how he asked what he was looking for.

Rick just an FYI at 2/3's of the guys who peddle themselves use the term "straight acting" in their ads. Since when did you become diction queen, dancing queen Yes.

KNEM for God's sake, we all feel that way when an escort cancels on us, especially with in 4 hours of meeting. I have been with Ben and he is a gread guy, but dude cancel is a cancel, as clients we all take it personal, no easy way around it.

Now to the task at hand, the guy who is today's cover boy, he is a hot masculine top and great for a shorter meeting, had him for 3 hours, the off times interest wanes a bit, but sexually major dynamo.

I second Mark, he of body cut from Marble, rough and tumble in bed very introspective out of bed.

Tyger would be another incredible choice, just with him for a second time several weeks ago, phenominal man. Mark is smooth as silk and Tyger has hair.

Eris of NY would have been a great choice but too late. I love Fernando out of NY. Incredible body, that he is working on for competition and a sexual dynamo.

I'll meet David of SFO a month from today, but from our conversations the man is all man.

Kevin of Vancouver, would be another incredible choice.

In the Mario vain, Lorenzo of LA. Want two guys, go Alex and Rob from Orlando, Rob definitely the Mario type both have hot dancers bodies and asses, lick, lick!

[uwsman2]

I've got two words for you:

 

Steven Draker

[Luv2play]

if someone talks like Mike Tyson,

>I would not be attracted to him.

>

>Looking for a person who does not talk like Mike Tyson

 

Several years ago I emerged from a restaurant on Collins Ave in Sobe and confronted Mike Tyson who was talking on his cell-phone. He was accompanied by a body guard who also was on a cell-phone. I fell in beside the body-guard and walked alongside them for five blocks until they crossed the street and went into a video store.

 

During that time I eavesdropped on what the two were saying (they didn't seem to mind). I had only exchanged a few words with the body-guard, asking him if that was indeed Mike. He confirmed. Listening to Mike, I didn't detect any lisping or feminine sound to his voice. Of course he was talking softly so maybe I missed something. I've never heard him speak on television so maybe he comes across differently.

[JT Brooklyn]

Tony was always a "Major" Hunk No Doubt..BUT also very Gay for Pay, as alot of the Muscle Service Guys are. Unless his M/O has changed don't expect much interaction at all! He's strictly an "Exhibitionist".

 

Mark #3 Chicago is a Great Choice..But only IF your into the Older Hunks, who tend to run more on the Masculine side! IMHO of course!

 

BUT as you said LOCAL Guys (Chicago) are not what your looking for.

;-)

[KMEM]

>

>KNEM for God's sake, we all feel that way when an escort

>cancels on us, especially with in 4 hours of meeting. I have

>been with Ben and he is a gread guy, but dude cancel is a

>cancel, as clients we all take it personal, no easy way around

>it.

 

 

Bart,

 

I often wonder how any of the posters manage to communicate any thing but the most raw information or, and most likely, they only read what they want to and go from there. I think RM calls it skimming. I don't blame him for doing that. One poster writes something and the next or a subsequent writes the exact same thing or the exact same idea but never any mention of agreeing, just presenting the same idea as if not mentioned before. Amazing.

 

I think what I had written previously is that anyone would be disappointed to have an appointment cancelled. It has happened before and will happen again. I personally have cancelled meetings that I desperately wanted to happen but that is how life is. How one deals with it probably has a direct impact upon that person's blood pressure.

 

I certainly realize this thread has gone far afield from the initial question but the initiator led the way himself by his remarks or so is my opinion.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[Guest danwallace]

Thanks for all your help guys. Special thanks to OKIE and Bart for their insight and defense of what I was trying to accomplish here. Like I said, I am very new to all of this and need a little patience and understanding if I don't use the politically correct words.

[Guest ncm2169]

Check your email. :*

[Okliehomo]

Hey Dan,

 

No worries. We were all new at this once.... well, except maybe, JT.... Just kidding. Still not sure what you are looking for in the bedroom, but if my suggestion of Mark is of interest, be sure and check out his new pic on his reviews and read my review. I am OKGuy. See a theme there? I am getting ready to write another one for him because the man just gets better and better. The new pic is really sexy. Just a glimpse of the face, but wow, what a jawline and a little scruffy, too. So sexy. And the bod is made for sin. Really.

 

In the Latin vein... I am telling you that Elviz Buch (listed in Birmingham, AL on menr4rent) might very well be the most handsome Latin man that I have ever lured to Oklahoma. Except Feretti. But really, so handsome in the face. And a hairy, ripped body and a dick that even Alencar would envy. Very, very hot. And a very masculine gay man. I am guessing the only masculine gay man in Alabama. Just like I am the only masculine gay man in Oklahoma...

 

Shut up... ok. ok. There aren't any. But I am "straight acting"..... just wanted Rick to get that nails on the chalkboard feeling again. Sorry. Just playing.

 

And Dan, for the record, this ain't the PTA. It's all supposed to be about having a great time and getting what you want... finding the perfect guy and having it be better than you had hoped for... It's supposed to be about sharing experiences. Maybe we all can't name names (again, shut up) but we can all still learn from the experience. And respectfully, I don't worry too much about grammar or punctuation ( JT? YeT AgAiN.. and you all know that i love me some david ) or choosing exactly the right word or being politically correct. To me, this isn't about judging each other. For God's sake, that ship has sailed. We are on this site because we are all soliciting the services of ... prosti..... ummm......I mean... professionals.. and we might have given up the moral high road.... and good for us.

 

It's about supporting each other and saying what ever you need to say, and asking about what ever you need to ask about...

 

Wow. Not sure where all that came from. I'm Norma Rae. I'm Silkwood. I am more than a little lit....

 

And also, I just get a little tired of so many posts being about nit picky bullshit and not about the guys. As advertised, it's "The DELI" a place to discuss escorts. Not a place to have every word you say critiqued and thrown back at you.

 

So, Dan, welcome. Duck your head and come on in. Have a drink, you're going to need it. But usually, in the end (shut up), it's worth it.

 

Okie

[Rick Munroe]

>Rick just an FYI at 2/3's of the guys who peddle themselves

>use the term "straight acting" in their ads. Since

>when did you become diction queen

 

I don't peruse escort ads so I wasn't aware of that. If you'd like to send me their email addreses, I will gladly educate them. This message board is usually the vehicle I use to express myself, but if you prefer, I will email those 2/3 of all escorts and explain it to them.

 

As for "diction queen"...I'm not sure about that, because I don't usually correct people's grammar or word choice in general, but I am a gay man with a modicum of self-esteem who finds it offensive to be told that straight men are, by definition, masculine, and that gay men are all effeminate.

[Rick Munroe]

>And respectfully, I don't

>worry too much about grammar or punctuation ( JT? YeT AgAiN..

>and you all know that i love me some david ) or choosing

>exactly the right word or being politically correct.

 

>And also, I just get a little tired of so many posts being

>about nit picky bullshit and not about the guys. As

>advertised, it's "The DELI" a place to discuss

>escorts. Not a place to have every word you say critiqued and

>thrown back at you.

 

Okliehomo, you were one of the people who answered the "Who's in the closet?" thread; you wrote, "I am very much in the closet." I'd like to reprint what one of the other closeted posters (Samai139) said to me in that thread:

 

Rick--Thank you for the mature, gentlemanly reply---not a rarity on this forum, but always welcome.

Your "respect for others' stance" is what impressed me the most. From many "out" gay men, I don't feel that same respect for my decisions. Quite often the timbre of their replies is filled with contempt and condescension--hardly the way to encourage others to consider join their ranks.

 

I appreciated his comment, because I do respect the decisions of others to stay in the closet and pretend to be straight (either directly by being married, or indirectly through their silence). All I'm asking, when I correct people who use "straight-acting," is a little respect in return. Some of us who proudly live our lives out of a closet do not appreciate the tired old stereotypes of gay men being perpetuated, especially on a forum where we are supposed to be a community who respect each other. I do not mean to "attack" posters who use this term, and I never make it personal. My intention is to educate, just as some of you closeted guys have educated me about how it's not always so easy to come out. OK?

[Guest pj4florida]

>Not sure who Dave Barry is, all I can tell you is what

>happened. Benjamin called me 12 hour prior to our meeting and

>then he sent me an e-mail 4 hours before the 7pm scheduled

>meeting time. He said he had a medical condition that forced

>him to cancel. I questioned how 12 hours before no such

>condition existed. To cancel by an e-mail 4 hours before a

>scheduled meeting made me question the validity of his so

>called medical condition

 

 

I have know Benjamin a long time and am seeing him very soon and there is no way a more lucrative offer was anything that played in cancellation. Those of us that know and love Ben would unquestionably tell you if it was not a medical condition there is more to this storyy. BN is the definetion of class and is very professional in his dealings with clients and treats you with respect no matter what

 

I would stake my reputation there is either fact to it or more information unknown here

 

PJ

[Guest pj4florida]

>KMEM:

>

>It is now crystal clear that you are the one that contacted

>Benjamin and told him he was a subject of this post. It is

>also clear he is using you to do his dirty work. You only

>know what Benjamine told you, so please don't comment on thigs

>you don't have credible information on. If Benjamin has

>something to say about this, let him respond instead of him

>using you as his obedient puppet.

>This whole post had nothing to do with BN. I relayed the

>information I had on him as truthfully as I knew how. This is

>the last I will post about your boy BN. If you don't have

>something constructive to say about my original post, please

>say nothing at all.

 

 

Well I have not spoken to nor discussed this or any post with BN and while I am seeing him soon I would never ever post anything but fact but your mere attitude that Ben has to have someone else speak for him proves you have no idea who he is. We that know BN know better. Get a life maybe it just was a single bad experience and maybe he had PMS but whatever it was it is not typical of BN PERIOD.

 

PJ

[Guest pj4florida]

>Yes Rick, way too much information considering the fact that

>I only said BN canceled on me in 2006. I never said the month

>or gave any indication of a timeline. Perhaps KMEN is his

>Doctor? Could be...

We don't care what month or date Period again this thread is off subject we dont have to agree, but lets get back on topic of maculine Tops. I also know a very good one besides the awesome Ben and he is Vittorio in LA definately masculine and a great kisser and loves to travel

 

He is 110% Masculine Italian Looking and very Hot.

 

If you want a Hot Maculine Jock then JayBoi in LA is also very very hot.

 

PJ

[MiamiLooker]

>I have know Benjamin a long time and am seeing him very soon

>and there is no way a more lucrative offer was anything that

>played in cancellation. Those of us that know and love Ben

>would unquestionably tell you if it was not a medical

>condition there is more to this storyy. BN is the definetion

>of class and is very professional in his dealings with clients

>and treats you with respect no matter what

>

>I would stake my reputation there is either fact to it or more

>information unknown here

>

>PJ

 

 

Seeing as how you've known him so well for such a long time and he's such a class act, couldn't you have persuaded him to stop his lying and stealing sooner?

[Okliehomo]

I am not doubting your intentions, Rick and education is certainly a noble goal. No arguement from me. And you are right. My living a closeted life does probably make me less concerned and less sensitive to/with the bigger picture and issues of the gay community because there really isn't one where I live. This MC is that community for me, that and an occaisioanal out of town guest.

 

But my closet is a very, very spacious one, a walk in, if you will. And I am under no illusion that my life is a mystery out here;

 

An almost 50 year old man living alone with a tiny dog with the best yard in the neighborhood and movie star posters all over his walls and a collection of glass poodles..(now THAT I may live to regret posting..they were gifts!!!)... no pussy for miles... My boss actually said to me one time, "You know what you need to improve your mood?" Apparently, I was a little testy that day. I say, "No, tell me..?" and he says, "More pussy." Though the look on my face clearly said, "Many thanks, NO!!!" I think I said something, like, "Yeah, that would do it.." while trying not to throw up. And then skipped out of the office.

 

I digress. Alot. Sorry.

 

I guess, my point is that I live in a world where those kind of things are still said and so words like "straight acting" don't offend me and maybe DanWallace does, too. I do respect that you and Derek are out and proud, and believe me, if anything has helped me with my own homophobia and guilt it has been my association with escorts and this MC. I just believe that some of the "old and tired" stereotypes are still true (because I, kind of, am one) and if that's perpetuation, so be it.

 

My other point was that as evidnced by this very thread we spend an inordinate amount of time discussing things that the posters didn't even ask about. He asked about finding a "masculine guy that travels" and how many recommedations did he get? Out of 46 posts, maybe 10? (I didn't logged out and count so that's just a guess.) And most of those were from me and Bart... What he got was alot of discussion about word choice. Maybe you think that's helpful and educational, and I certainly respect your right to think so, I just don't think that was the help he was looking for.

 

No right or wrong here. We just live in two different worlds. A fact that you are, no doubt and perhaps rightfully so, eternally grateful for. I get that.

 

Okie

[Guest pj4florida]

>>I have know Benjamin a long time and am seeing him very

>soon

>>and there is no way a more lucrative offer was anything

>that

>>played in cancellation. Those of us that know and love

>Ben

>>would unquestionably tell you if it was not a medical

>>condition there is more to this storyy. BN is the

>definetion

>>of class and is very professional in his dealings with

>clients

>>and treats you with respect no matter what

>>

>>I would stake my reputation there is either fact to it or

>more

>>information unknown here

>>

>>PJ

>

>

>Seeing as how you've known him so well for such a long time

>and he's such a class act, couldn't you have persuaded him to

>stop his lying and stealing sooner?

 

 

I have no idea what you are talking about stealing?? I don't think BN steals from any of his clients and most if not all of his clients are very loyal maybe that for a reason.\\

 

PJ