A Dilemma.......hypothetically.......

[Okliehomo]

Here's the deal;

 

Who would you hire?

 

 

A well reviewed guy that was hard as Hell to contact in the first place and who now wants to book his own flight because he doesn't give out his real name and wants a 25% deposit upfront...all in the form of a money order, apparently made out to no one, because I am not trustworthy enough to know his name....mailed to him? I have done this before. I let Jason Branch and Cole Davis do the same deposit thing and it all worked out. But it still feels a little insulting. I know that they don't know me, but Hell, do a little research. It's Oklahoma for God's sake and I have given him references...

 

Or;

 

This new guy that only has one review but looks fucking amazing, jaw droppingly sexy and model gorgeous and the pics may or may not be him since he doesn't answer questions about where does he advertise? And can I see other pics??? Yet he answers emails really quickly and says "Hell, yes, let's do it...I would love to..." and then has no qualms about sending his real name so that I can buy the ticket.

 

After all this time, it is still sometimes a guessing game. Alencar was that easy, the first time, so was Carreras. And they were both amazing....And others....like pulling teeth.

 

Fuck it. Knowing me, I will end up doing both....just to see what the right decision would have been.

 

Okie

[+ purplekow]

I would Hire Alencar again. Go with a sure thing.

[Guest ncm2169]

I'd "stroke" number 2 for more info, all the while making my plans with him.

 

I sure as hell wouldn't schedule one until after the first was over. }(

[lookin4hotties]

If they want you to prepay, do NOT hire.

 

If clients can take a stand, this will stop.

I don't prepay my check at a restaurant and

I will not do it for an escort except for

airfare.

 

As far as pics that are probably not real,

same deal, do not hire. No one has just

a professional modeling pic or two

and no other pics. If they have

no reviews or only have one, I don't care.

I have hired great escorts with no reviews.

 

If it were me, I would call the 2nd one

and talk a bit. Hell no to the other one.

Not trying to be insulting, but I am not

sure why you would ask where they

advertise. If you can't find his

profile that's different, just

tell him.

 

Lookin4hotties

[ariadne1880]

Publish details, profiles, and links for both ... and then maybe we'll have enough information to help you make a decision. Just a suggestion.

 

Mark

[KMEM]

Based upon the information that you have provided, I wouldn't hire either one; but then, some of us LIKE to take chances in the hope of new discoveries, don't we?

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[OneFinger]

I typically will NOT hire anyone that requires money upfront. I don't care how well-reviewed they are - I'd pass on them. However, if I've hired them before, had a good time, and consider them reliable then I might provide a pre-payment so they can book airfare.

 

But, on a first-time meeting I wouldn't pay anything upfront.

 

The second guy (with only one review) sounds interesting. But, based on your airfare comment, I'm assuming that this will be a longer appointment. I'm usually hesitant to fly someone in that I haven't seen before. Are you sure you really want to take that kind of chance?

 

I've had very successful sessions with new or lesser-reviewed escorts that wouldn't commit to particulars. Usually this is because they don't want a paper trail or they're afraid you might be recording the conversation. I often make sure they know my expectations and am usually not disappointed.

 

Now, on the subject of well-reviewed escorts, I'm becoming very leery of guys with lots of first-time reviews by unknown (new) reviewers. The last few months I've hired several guys with 30+ reviews. Unfortunately, many of them were not as stellar as their reviews. In fact, one was so disappointing that I was the one watching the clock and counting the minutes until he left. (The pictures on his site were very old. His hair was so greasy he needed an oil change along with a haircut. Finally, he was so noisy and loud I was expecting hotel security to knock on the door to make sure someone wasn't being killed.) I should have just ended the session early and paid him his full fee.

 

Good luck and let us know what you decide.

[Okliehomo]

Here is the rest of the story;

 

What the well reviewed guy wanted (prepaid airfare and a deposit) I had heard before. But what the first guy did.... was ask for a gift certificate and not a money order and then waived the deposit because he knew who I was from this site. Not a flake, I mean. Now, this last guy doesn't apparently follow this site, so I say "Oklahoma" and he says, "So fucking what???..." and I think he has been burned abit lately with flakey clients and more than a few no shows.....and he really, really doesn't want to give out his real name. And plus, his reviews on this site are great. GREAT. If he fucks me over, I will burn the house down with him in it. Kathy Ames style....

 

Anyway.....I sent him the money. So, we'll see....if it all goes to shit, you all will have warned me. But at this point, I am really not worried.

 

As for the second guy....Hell, I am doing that, too. And his twin brother....Lord.

 

Okie

[Bart]

Actually my comment is for Deej. Some people do not live in NY or LA I know it gets hard to believe that there is a population out there that does not have 150 escorts to choose from within a 5 mile radius. So sometimes the normal rules of engagement do not apply.

 

Last I look Oklahoma is not exactly on the escort map nor exactly a destination of choice. So hiring guys driving through is not an option. So you have no choice but to fly guys in you never met before.

 

I also live in a top 30 market that has exactly 0 reveiws on this site has 0 ads on rent boy and 8 ads on men4rent are from a neighboring large city that is 120 miles away.And none of 8 gives me anything beyond a sigh. So we have no option but to hire from a distance. I do not travel for my job and have a domestic concerns to prevent me from traveling on my own.

 

So we have to rely on the words of wisdom we receive here and the reviews written and occassionally go off the board and take a chance.

[+ deej]

>Actually my comment is for Deej.

 

Why? I have no oar in the water here.