ESCORTS AND GETTING THEM TO RESPOND

[Guest pj4florida]

Well maybe I am only one while I am not seeing anyone new right now I have over past tried to contact some of the most reviewed escorts that never respond or respond once then try to finalize and never get a followup or actually set up anything.

 

Some examples

 

MAXMAX - LA

Justin Baylor - LA

Orion Cross-LA

 

Many others but those are top on my list that I can get no response and would have hired anyone of them

 

PJ

[+ newatthis]

RE: ESCORTS AND GETTING THEM TO RESPOND: BOGAN

 

You can add Patrick Bogan to that list. One email contact. A phone call to arrange details: "I can't talk now; I'll call back." Then dead silence.

[JT Brooklyn]

RE: ESCORTS AND GETTING THEM TO RESPOND: BOGAN

 

Like everything else..Some Guys are Good Businessmen or in some cases "Business Boys" and some just aren't!

 

Some Working Guys who "Presently" have a "Guaranteed Amount" of Regs..seem to think their "Coffers" will always be full. BUT in TIME they learn that ain't always gonna be the case!

 

So as most of us do..Just Move On down the List! Nowadays in Major Markets "The List" is long! For those OUTSIDE of the Major Markets..Unfortunately...Good Luck! ;-)

[SteveStacks]

RE: ESCORTS AND GETTING THEM TO RESPOND: BOGAN

 

Hey guys!

 

My best advice....

Always track down and use DIRECT CONTACT INFO for an escort (don't use the links on third party contact sites)

 

Check your junk mail regularly after emailing an escort.

 

And if a guy has a good reputation, and he doesn't reply to you, try emailing from another ISP address (yahoo instead of aol or squirrel mail instead of comcast.)

 

Many guys may choose not to respond for a variety of reasons (either not being interested in a particular client for whatever reason, or being bad businessmen or flaky or whatever) but another factor to keep in mind is this....

 

If the escort has chosen not to continue advertising on a site (for whatever reason....either because they're not working still, or sometimes just because they've decided to advertise elsewhere) many sites (Men4RentNow for example) keep escorts ads up and even indicate to clients who send emails that their email has been sent successfully.

They then send an email to the escort saying "you have a response" but don't include the contact info so the escort has no way of responding (or even knowing how many of those "you have replies" messages are legit) Unless you send an email DIRECTLY to an escorts email address, you can't be sure that they ever got it....

 

Another factor as well is that MANY ISPs block escorts email addresses (several times when i have tried to reply to comcast customers for example i get a "blocked for spam" message) and others will just dump them into your junk mail folder.

 

All of this is not to excuse the working guys out there who are just flaky, but just to remind everyone that there are decent guys who are trying to be professional who are often circumvented by the technology and either prevailing puritanism (ie blocking escort emails as spam or sending them to junk folders) or extortive web site owners (ie claiming to clients that their emails were sent but in fact not passing them on)....

 

 

And if a guy flakes on you or doesn't reply and you KNOW your emails are getting through, fuck him (er...well, you know what i mean)...there are plenty of guys out there who will reply to emails and behave professionally.

Unless a client has been abusive in some way in the past (in which case ignoring them is the best policy IMHO)

every client deserves a response, even if it's just to say, "sorry that's not something I offer." and if a guy can't even have that much courtesy, he's not somebody you wanna see.

[dcguy20]

RE: ESCORTS AND GETTING THEM TO RESPOND: BOGAN

 

In the case of Patrick Bogan (and others who do this as well); if you can't talk, why pick up the phone in the first place!???}(

[KinkyNEguy]

I travel weekly, but not to the same place. When I don't get to set up something in advance or with a regular, I call the night before. It amazes me when i get a return call or two a week later trying to set something up. While it has worked out for cities I get back to regularly...how about mentioning "gee sorry I missed your call last week" not "What time do you want to get together?"

 

Is there a Rolling Eyes Smiley here?

[Guest PatrickBogan]

RE: ESCORTS AND GETTING THEM TO RESPOND: BOGAN

 

Hi this is Patrick Bogan. I rarely check this page but a friend of mine mentioned earlier today that I should add a post here.

 

In the case of the caller who I was unable to speak to: I do apologize for the confusion. I don’t recall the call but suspect that I was waiting for an important message and had to answer the call. Perhaps my mother called just at the moment that I answered the phone. There was probably something other than the fact that I just couldn’t talk for no reason as this is not my style of operating. One of my clients may have been walking up to me and of course immediately I must get off the phone. I have been very busy the last several weeks and again I don’t recall the scenario. Nevertheless I generally don’t answer calls when I can’t talk, so there was probably something unusual there on my side. Again I do apologize, and thank you for making me aware that this is an issue.

 

Now a little more about my personality. I have adult attention deficit disorder. Most people don’t realize it, they think I just have a quirky personality, which I do. Medication does help with this but it does change the personality and some of the side effects are unpleasant, so I stay at a low dose and some days I don't take any (if you know me very well, some days you can tell if I took my ADD medication or not).

 

I have ways of working around the issue, and when I’m with clients I don’t ever have an issue connecting with them. In fact when I’m with someone, they are the only other person in my world. The reason that’s relevant here is that I can only focus on what’s in front of me at that very moment. So if I talked to someone very briefly and said I’d call them back, then didn’t write that down as a note, I wouldn’t even remember talking to the person later. People who know me well know that's just a personality fault of mine, and would have just tried again later. Of course, someone that doesn't know me wouldn't be aware of that and probably would be offended. I’m sure that’s what happened in the case of the caller who posted earlier.

 

More in-general about answering phone calls. I don’t answer calls when on an appointment. I usually don’t put someone on hold to answer another call unless I’m waiting for a something critical, and even then I ask if it’s allright, explain the situation, and never place a caller to hold for more than thirty seconds. Sometimes my appointments go for a whole evening, a whole weekend, or a whole week. I don’t answer calls then. I don’t answer calls when I’m eating, at a loud place, or when I am around others. This translates to mean than I rarely am available to answer calls, but I do try to return all that messages I can. Sometimes this can take two or three hours to return all the voicemails everyday. Sometimes I get so many messages or it get so late in the day that I can't return them all (I'm sorry if that's ever happened to you).

 

I know several of my clients read this forum and I hope most will agree that I follow good phone etiquette, good etiquette in general actually.

 

One final note, I really enjoy connecting with my clients, many I have seen over several years and have developed an emotional, almost spiritual (in some cases) relationship with them. I do take care of my clients as best as I can.

 

As I mentioned earlier, I have been very busy the last several days and have had to suspend all my advertising in my current city just to get caught up. Currently I am several days behind on email and messages (thus suspending the ads). So if there’s someone else waiting for a call or email, hit me up again and please accept my apology for getting a little overwhelmed briefly. I will try to spend a little more time on returning calls and will try to stay even more organized.

 

Thank you for reading my reply.

 

Patrick

http://www.patrickbogan.com

[lookin4hotties]

RE: ESCORTS AND GETTING THEM TO RESPOND: BOGAN

 

It's true many escorts are not as good as they should

be at responding to email and some L.A. escorts

are the worst. Many of them act like you should be

grateful they even emailed you back. But there

are also some decent guys there too.

 

As far as Patrick Bogan goes, he is a truly amazing,

sensitive and wonderful person. I have not known

him to be flaky, but I can tell by his response you

caught him at a VERY busy time. If you do end up

booking him, you will find out why. He will make

you feel really special. That explains why he was

so swamped when you called him.

 

He is someone that would be perfect to take to

some tropical island for a week to relax with and

enjoy life. If you see him for even a short time

he will make a stressful day just completely melt

away into a REALLY special night.

He is the exact opposite of some WeHo hustler

that could care less about anyone else.

 

I would give him another chance.

 

Lookin4hotties

[Guest countryboywny]

RE: ESCORTS AND GETTING THEM TO RESPOND: BOGAN

 

Patrick,

I am diagnosed with adult ADD too, so I understand your plight. It must be nearly impossible to remember a thousand details during busy times. But, you must be doing something right, hang in there!

[Guest pj4florida]

The ones I hate the worst are the ones that send a response saying when can we get together and seem good then when you give them dates or try to finalize you never hear again from or when you do it is 3 weeks later

 

PJ