Suspension of disbelief?

[Guest ncm2169]

< Have No Delusions! NO MONEY..NO HONEY! LOL

 

That bit of garbage just proves how much of a nimrod you are, JT. Just because you can't get it for free, don't assume no one else can.

 

Btw, do you have a day job, or do you just sit on here looking for excuses to shoot off your big Brooklyn mouth? x(

[Guest zipperzone]

>P.S. FWIW, we handle things like any other roomies - split

>expenses - share household tasks, etc. I am not a sugar daddy

>in this deal. Just one very lucky guy! :P

 

VERY LUCKY GUY - I'd say.

[Guest ncm2169]

Thanks, Zip. :*

 

And the best parts really are that (a) he made it clear from the beginning that there is absolutely no age issue for him (I'm ... ahem ... more than a few years older), and (b) he keeps me young. That's a good thang! }( Throw in the fact that he's the most amazing intelligent talented person/survivor I've ever met, and it makes magic. Oh, yeah, and then there's the part about him just reeking sexuality. If there's a downside, it's that I am literally intoxicated with his sex vibes to the point of distraction. Yeah, yeah, I know - POOR ME - LOL. But the fact that it's a distraction is undeniable.

[Guest Wetnwildbear]

Lets setup the camera in NCMs house to evaluate the situation

[Guest ncm2169]

ROFLMFAO!!! :+ :+ :+

 

Shit, if I thought we could create our own private pay-to-view sex show live on cam, dontcha think I would have done it by now? :9 But, ... ahem ... no one's likely to pay to view me (not even me). x(

 

But I seriously want to clarify something about this deal we have, for anyone who cares to understand. As I said, he and I started messing around casually long before I introduced him to escorting and the fact that he is now an escort is an asterisk in terms of our "relationship." The story is far more than a happenstance escort situation, and in reality it's what I call my "improbable odyssey" with someone who I met at a time when we each were able to satisfy the other's needs and bring to the table something we each wanted. When those collisions occur, it's a special, magical, almost mystical time in your life (at least mine) and I feel like I've been given a new lease on life. I truly wish any of you could be so lucky. I've been truly blessed by his becoming an integral part of my life. :7

[Guest zipperzone]

>If there's a downside, it's that I am literally intoxicated

>with his sex vibes to the point of distraction. Yeah, yeah, I

>know - POOR ME - LOL. But the fact that it's a

>distraction is undeniable.

 

Honey - let's call a spade a spade - You're in love. And I hope it is not unrequited.......

[SteveStacks]

That is a beautiful thing....

That's what life is supposed to be like...

Congrats to both of you guys for being able and willing to make that kind of space in each others lives! Cheers!

[Guest ncm2169]

Thanks, Steve. The nice part for me is that he keeps me young. I hate being around people my age. Death and dying isn't my style. }(

[Guest Callipygean]

Very well put, Epigonos, couldn't have summed it up better. Fortunate are those of us lucky enough to find and spend time with such escorts. For me, at least, the pleasure derived far exceeds the dollars expended. I don't regret a penny of it

[mansniffing]

RE: Suspension of disbelief?—Buying and Selling

 

Well, it works both ways. There are those that seriously get turned on when being paid for their services . . . and then again there are those that get turned on paying for it. To each his own.

[Epigonos]

RE: Suspension of disbelief?—Buying and Selling

 

Please don’t misconstrue what I’m about to say. I hire escorts on a fairly regular basis. The fact that I pay them is NOT the big “turn on” for me it just happens to be, in my mind, a necessity. I am 66 soon to be 67 and I am not so foolish as to believe that I can walk into a gay bar and successfully hit on some twenty, thirty, or forty year old drop dead handsome, incredibly well built stud. Now if I were looking for some sixty or seventy year old “stud” that would be a different matter BUT I’m NOT. Furthermore, and probably most important of all, I DO NOT believe that I as the one doing the hiring am in any way superior to the guy being hired. As far as I concerned we are complete equals. I expect to be treated, by the escorts I hire, with respect and I treat them with the same respect. Mutual respect is a key element in client escorts relations just as it is in all other relationships

[Rod Hagen]

RE: Suspension of disbelief?—Buying and Selling

 

> Mutual respect is a key

>element in client escorts relations just as it is in all other

>relationships

 

Mutual respect and dark hair and versatility :-)

 

 

http://www.RodHagen.com

[Guest zipperzone]

RE: Suspension of disbelief?—Buying and Selling

 

>Furthermore, and probably

>most important of all, I DO NOT believe that I as the one

>doing the hiring am in any way superior to the guy being

>hired. As far as I concerned we are complete equals.

 

Wouldn't it be great if the escorts saw it that way too.

 

I know a bunch of escorts will jump in claiming "Oh but it IS true", and for some, it may be. But by and large, most escorts don't think of you as their equal.

[+ purplekow]

RE: Suspension of disbelief?—Buying and Selling

 

>Wouldn't it be great if the escorts saw it that way too.

>

>I know a bunch of escorts will jump in claiming "Oh but it IS

>true", and for some, it may be. But by and large, most escorts

>don't think of you as their equal.

 

Physically few clients have a body on par with that of an escort.

However there is more to a fantastic sexual experience than a fantastic body. In fact, a man with a fantastic body may believe that all he needs to bring to the encounter is the body. The best escorts know better.

Whatever the escort thinks when first encountering this far from firm fifty year old, in the end, there is little doubt about my holding up my end of the session.

[Guest zipperzone]

RE: Suspension of disbelief?—Buying and Selling

 

>Whatever the escort thinks when first encountering this far

>from firm fifty year old, in the end, there is little doubt

>about my holding up my end of the session.

 

My comments were not directed at you personally. If what you say is the case - and I have no reason to doubt you - then good for you.

 

But I still think MOST escorts do not feel the ATM is their equal.

[SteveStacks]

RE: Suspension of disbelief?—Buying and Selling

 

*sigh*

that's a bummer to hear....

i can't speak for all other escorts obviously, and i've already said what i have to about it i guess....

 

i just hope that that's not true ...if it is true, then that says a lot about those escorts...people who dehumanize other people in any way are missing out on some of the best things in life....

 

i'm with purplekow on this one....

[Rod Hagen]

RE: Suspension of disbelief?—Buying and Selling

 

>Mutual respect and dark hair and versatility :-)

 

 

Or maybe that's (not) just me.

 

http://www.RodHagen.com

[Guest ncm2169]

< to make that kind of space in each others lives

 

Yes, well, umm ... then there are his exhibitionist moments when his endless pursuit of pussy lands a chick in the next room and he deliberately leaves the door open}.}( I'm tellin' ya, watching him in absolute total man lust is an aphrodisiac which nearly overpowers me every time I watch it. :9 :9 :9

 

We're seriously considering a series of videos featuring aspects of his utterly complex sexuality. Anyone interested? And, umm ... no ... I would NOT be featured. x(

[MiamiLooker]

>I responded in part because I happen to live with an escort.

>:9

>

>I introduced him to "The Biz" and a bond subsequently

>developed (NOT b/f's, just good buddies) and we decided to

>live together. Except for the "he's an escort" and "I'm a

>client" parts, those decisions get made every day.

>

>BTW, shameless plug here:

>

>http://www.men4rentnow.com/ds/search.asp?cmd=view&id=128513&Login=DJmpls

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>}(

 

Is he the one that required the recent organ transplant?

[Guest ncm2169]

No.

[+ Tygerscent]

RE: Belief of expansion...

 

I'll have to say that given Escorting is how I earn a living... I strive to develope a deeper connection with my Clients. Prior to Escorting I was in long term monogamous relationships. My Family is scattered globally and we don't see much of each other. When we do it's a rare treat. After my last relationship, I started Escorting but still had the desire for Intimacy beyond sexual and enjoyed the prospects of having a partner. I'll be honest, the idea of not having people who are important to me in my life would leave me lonesome. I like sharing my life with other people.

I regard my Clients as Companions, part of the important history of my life. Our relationship is three dimensional and not just sexual. Each relationship is unique and meaningful to me in it's individual way. I derive my fix for Intimacy from our relationships and meetings. My Clients ARE my Family in a strong sense. Some are like Brothers, some like Fathers, some more like Sons. Each is a Partner in Life and to some extent Love. We look after each other not just sexually and monitarily but in other ways that extend beyond the business proposition.

A blantant sexual encounter is not as fulfilling to me as a connection that I can have with a Client, (Human being in general), who I see and we grow together in various ways over time. I strive for that.

I hope that in my encounters with a Client, they get that three dimensional experience back in return from me... not just the sexual connection but also the emotional, psychological and sometimes Spiritual connection as well.

I would hope that when the eventual time comes when I retire from Escorting that I will continue to have relationships of some sort with the Clients whom I have developed a deeper sensibility with.

An Escort can count his dollars and a Client can count his orgasms but the rest of Life is more complex and there those times when those things are less of a priority and you want the rest of who you are appreciated/cared for by a Friend/confidant/companion/objective partner who understands you in your most Intimate form on all levels besides sex or cash.

Understand, I Love HOT SEXXX but I embrace and endear the relationships in my life that are more then that. And I know there are boundries and limits to the Client/Escort relationship but that does not mean it can not be more then just a simple business deal.

Escorting and hiring can be just the business of sex but not necessarily for everyone.

It's a given that sexual Monogamy is not a condition in this relationship but I have found some strong emotional, psychological and Spiritual Monogamy thru it. That's important to me... the icing on the cake is that Hot Sex is involved! The money and the sex are superficial exchanges in my mind... what concerns me more and what I like to culture is how much deeper we can go then that.

That's not for everybody,(partly or all of the time or in some cases not part of the equation at all)... Okay... I get that. I know lots of guys out there would say this is the "Sex" business. I agree to some extentthat it can be but add that it is also the "people" business and as people we are more then just sex. You can take an expensive piece of meat and heat it up in a pan in your kitchen with someone you don't give a damn about or you can invite a close companion who does more then help you get the meat hot... He helps you marinate it, sautes some porcini mushrooms, has a bowl of lobster biscque soup with you, a segundo of scallop with a garlic/seseme/pear aioli, a nice wine to accompany it with and an expresso with cheese plate desert or summer pudding to finish off with, you've got an amazing fucking meal! A complete dining experience! Your whole being is full of grand memories and sensations.

So... if the meat is hot sex... well, hot sex is Great! ... but hot sex with extras is more then just a mouthful of expensive meat. It nurishes the soul not just the body.

The rest of our lives can seem mundane or less wonderful outside of those mealtimes. Some guys just want lots of cash or great sex... other guys want more. Everybody has a personal overall, (variable/fluxuating), preference. So, I guess in reality, it can be both a business relationship as well as a personal one shared with another person and possibly there is that large middle ground where it is a combo of both.

 

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