Can't seem to find a VERBAL escort.

[Guest RandyRon]

A guy talking dirty to me while I'm sucking his cock or eating his ass is a major turn on for me. The problem is getting an escort that is good at this. I always tell the escort that I want him to be verbal but I haven't found one yet that really comes through for me. Either they start out with some dirty talk and then after a couple of minutes stop it or the talk is so mild that it doesn't work. If I have to tell the guy what to say, it ruins the effect. I get the feeling that some of the escorts are afraid they will insult me (good luck on that one as I have the hide of a rhino)or they are concentrating on the sex. Any one else with this turn on? How do you handle it?

 

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[whipped guy]

Some guys are just naturals at it... and that is your best bet.

 

I have found that if you ask a guy to be something other than what he is it will often throw him off his game... and that is not a good thing… or he is such a poor actor and things sounds so phony and non genuine that the desired effect is simply ruined... For example, being called a "bitch" while the guy is laughing to himself doesn't quite cut it.

 

Consequently, I have found that it is best to just go with the flow and make the best of the situation at hand.

 

Still, the ultimate turn on for me is knowing that an individual is a basically nice guy (and sane!), but can turn on an effective mean persona and make it sound convincing… it makes me relax and most definitely enhances my enjoyment of whatever activity in which we are engaged.

[JT Brooklyn]

Whip..Ya got that right! Especially the 'Working Guys" who write emails or Talk like College Profs, then turn around and try to "Dirty Talk" during Sex!

 

It just doesn't work for me at all, Unless you really Fantasize the Moment ALOT!

 

Although I am sure hearing "Big Words" is a Turn On for Some, when "their" Mouths are Full of something other than Words! LOL :P

[Guest DickHo]

I'm curious, are you German? The way you capitalize words seems Germanic to me. :-)

[Steven_Draker]

>I'm curious, are you German? The way you capitalize words

>seems Germanic to me. :-)

 

Achtung, baby ... :+

[AdamSmith]

>I'm curious, are you German? The way you capitalize words

>seems Germanic to me. :-)

 

But his verbs for the ends of his sentences he does not save.

[whipped guy]

Re: the ultimate turn on for me is knowing that an individual is a basically nice guy [/font color=blue]

 

As I noted in my above posting when a genuinely “nice guy” can act the “vicious persona” that is a special turn on… knowing that the person behind the “façade” is genuinely a decent and respectable individual is always a benefit and a distinct advantage.

 

Unfortunately I have come across others who are basically mean-spirited by nature who must “act” the “nice guy” role… and that is not only a shortcoming, but an unambiguous sign not to hire the guy in the first place!

[JT Brooklyn]

Dick.."You" guessed it!

 

I do come from more than just a "Speck on the Map of Europe", whose Greatest Contribution is "allegedly" its Chocolates.. among Other THINGS! LOL

 

"Lintz" are still the Best Baby LOL :9 :9 :9

[bluboy]

The BEST at this was a guy called Nicolas in San Fran who is a natural but not sure what happened to him as I never hear about him again but the reviews are still up. I have EXACTLY the same problem as the first poster and I feel like I am going around in circles begging for verbal abuse but no one does in the right way. Probably a weak second best was farmboy eric but he is retired. Ah well. Blu

[+ purplekow]

>The BEST at this was a guy called Nicolas in San Fran who is

>a natural but not sure what happened to him as I never hear

>about him again but the reviews are still up. I have EXACTLY

>the same problem as the first poster and I feel like I am

>going around in circles begging for verbal abuse but no one

>does in the right way. Probably a weak second best was farmboy

>eric but he is retired. Ah well. Blu

 

Stop your fucking whining and suck the god damned dick in front of you, you waste of space before I take my dick and stick it so deep in your ass that my cum will be squirting out you nose.

 

 

Something like that there?

 

 

I have never seen a purplekow;

I never hope to see one;

I can tell you anyhow;

I'd rather see than be one

 

Help there is a purplekow in my mirror

[Guest novabear22031]

>Stop your fucking whining and suck the god damned dick in

>front of you, you waste of space before I take my dick and

>stick it so deep in your ass that my cum will be squirting out

>you nose.

>

>

>Something like that there?

>

 

 

That works for me <grin>

[raulgmanzo]

--- About having an escort talk dirty RandyRon writes:

>If I have to tell the guy what to say, it ruins the effect.

 

You shouldn't have to tell him what to say. And even if you gave some examples the escort ought to be creative enough to come up with his own lines. But it does help to let the escort know your limits. Occasional positive feedback like even if it is: "Yeah talk dirty to me" doesn't hurt either.

 

Good raunchy dialogue can be great for a session. But I'll admit that I often censor myself for fear of sounding too coarse. Clients who enjoy it should ask for it. I think it can be a total turnon.

[Rick Munroe]

>Stop your fucking whining and suck the god damned dick in

>front of you, you waste of space before I take my dick and

>stick it so deep in your ass that my cum will be squirting out

>you nose.

 

That really takes me back to my teen years, because it's pretty much what Derek said to me on our first date (the sweet romantic fool).

[+ purplekow]

>>Stop your fucking whining and suck the god damned dick in

>>front of you, you waste of space before I take my dick and

>>stick it so deep in your ass that my cum will be squirting

>out

>>you nose.

>

>That really takes me back to my teen years, because it's

>pretty much what Derek said to me on our first date (the sweet

>romantic fool).

 

Yeah now I remember that story. You never forget your first time.

 

 

I have never seen a purplekow;

I never hope to see one;

I can tell you anyhow;

I'd rather see than be one

 

Help there is a purplekow in my mirror

[2hard2tame]

>A guy talking dirty to me while I'm sucking his cock or

>eating his ass is a major turn on for me. The problem is

>getting an escort that is good at this. I always tell the

>escort that I want him to be verbal but I haven't found one

>yet that really comes through for me. Either they start out

>with some dirty talk and then after a couple of minutes stop

>it or the talk is so mild that it doesn't work. If I have to

>tell the guy what to say, it ruins the effect. I get the

>feeling that some of the escorts are afraid they will insult

>me (good luck on that one as I have the hide of a rhino)or

>they are concentrating on the sex. Any one else with this

>turn on? How do you handle it?

>

>}( }(

 

 

LOL.

Oddly enough, I have had a interesting experience.

I had a guy tell me that he wanted crazy. I like to think that I am a nice easygoing guy, but I do have to tell you...I have a evil side.

Anyways, So after he assuring me that there is nothing too far ect..

 

We get into it. 10 minutes later I had him crying. I felt SO bad. I was like "man you told me to get dirty and mean..."

 

He finally calmed down and told me he had never been so scared in his life (that was his thing). I guess he got off on the thought that he might be hurt.

 

After that initial meeting, he stopped for a few weeks then called me again and wanted to not only see me again, he wanted to bump it up. He wanted me to punch the shit outta his gut and punch him around. Anything but the neck up was game. After asking him to sign a waver against physical harm, we went at it. I am 6'3 200 ish, so I am not a small kid. Include I spend 4 years in the Airborne Infantry, I can tell ya, Im not a weak guy

 

 

The point is, sometime's as escorts we hear what you are asking, but as in my case, once we get into it, people sometimes realize, well shit this isnt what I wanted. And we arent there to make people unhappy. So you have to expect SOME degree of holding back. I would say see the guy again, and if its not up to par, then move on. Unless there are other reasons why you didnt click.

[whipped guy]

Re: we arent there to make people unhappy. So you have to expect SOME degree of holding back. [/font color=blue]

 

It is always best to err on the side of caution weather it involves things verbal or physical... that is what I ask for... and always insist on a short conversation prior to getting down to business when meeting with a guy for the first time... That way no egos or bodies are bruised. One can always kick things up a notch...but it sometimes difficult to undo a brazen act. Plus by starting slowly the escort usually can find that perfect "zone" during the initial session... then one can hopefully build a relationship from there.

[+ Charlie]

What you think you want is not always what you really want, but you don't know that until you get what you thought you wanted and you don't want it. Or something like that.

[Guest novabear22031]

Lucky for you.

 

Love dirty talk, but so few can do it right.. But when you find the right one - it is priceless.....

[Guest novabear22031]

Thanks for the tip. But sometimes It might difficult for both parties to get in to it. My demeanor and "look" does not give the impression that I would like giving or taking dirty talk. Same way with some companions.

[Guest Wetnwildbear]

Well if you get to Philly I suggest that you try Buck from Premiere Escorts.

 

We had a very hot scene (See my review) which included an intense VERBAL component.

[whipped guy]

Re: Or something like that.[/font color=blue]

 

Charlie... So true!

[best hotel]

try master victor in nyc...or omar (if you like arrogance)

[+ Charlie]

Victor doesn't like to talk; in fact, I think I read an interview with him in a magazine, in which he said that guys who want a master who will talk dirty should try someone else.

[best hotel]

charlie...That is so strange, because he vas very verbal with me...

[+ Charlie]

You must have truly inspired him.