What to do when an escort says yes but means no...

[Gar1eth]

Juan,

 

What you say makes sense--if that is the way it happened. But another interpretation of the events might be that the escort in question wasn't really versatile, not used to bottoming, and only said he was to obtain the fee.

 

On the other hand maybe he's new to the business, not that experienced, and possibly on seeing Bigfest-realized he had bitten off more than he could , well uhh, chew--figuratively speaking of course.

 

Since we weren't there--there is no way to know which, of the scenarios, are more likely. I know I have met with several guys over the last 4 to 5 years (that's how long I've been hiring) who have been unable to bottom after saying they would/could when plans were initially made--and I am definitley not that big. Of course to be fair there have also been other times where I couldn't completely rise to the occasion--sigh it's tough to be out of shape and middle aged (I must be middle-aged or more because i don't know that many 96 year olds).

 

Just another interpetation of facts for your viewing pleasure.

 

(Analytical to the end)

 

Gman :+ :+ :+

[+ purplekow]

Juan you magnificent beast,

 

Thanks for quoting my post, I always enjoy seeing that something I have written has hit home. I am less thrilled when it hits a negative spot but this is a site for give and take.

 

I must confess to missing the second post by the OP. In his original, the poster stated that the escort was informed three times of the bottoming issue and agreed. If he was an inexperienced bottom or if he has had trouble taking big dicks, he had the chance to step up at that time. Giving the escort the benefit of the doubt, in the OP the poster says that the escort was not enthusiastic and the at the end he was dissatisfied. At that point, he owes the full fee. This is equivalent to complaining the meal was bad after eating it all and then refusing to pay. I stated that once it became clear that the client was not going to be satisfied with the visit that he should stop, confront the escort, offer him a reasonable fee for the services offered to that point. The client has only himself to blame for feeling bad about not speaking up.

 

On the other hand, an unenthusiastic escort, who is robotic in his approach should be told as early as possible in the visit that his service thusfar is not up to par. That said, some would rather go a bit further to insure full payment rather than have to settle for less payment for a lesser job.

 

I hope this version is a bit less horrifying and I do hope to remain on the "To be severely reprimanded" List of Juan-derful you.

[Juan Vancouver]

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