In your opinion, What Makes A Good Escort?

[+ Charlie]

Welcome to the MB, Jason.

[Louis]

Well I guess things kind of got off side tracked from the origional post.

The post was valid IMHO, and I have no problems with questions being asked more than once, because I would think that this site gets new members daily, so there could be new people that have something to say or want to express themselves about certain topics and are reluctant to do so unless its brought up a second time. Reading through old postings is something that I don't do much of, and like to focus on what is currently being discussed.

Right now I have the impression that there is a person who is fairly new to escorting, that is trying his best to service his clients to the best of his ability, and he made a post so that he could get some feed back on what people expect when they hire an escort. Its a very legitimate question, that to me shows Jason's sincerity.

He has given readers two options. One to post answers here, and the other to email him directly. I think that is quite smart on his part, because there may be people who are hesitant to participate in discussions on this board.

[sfonewbie]

>Not to be overly judgemental and to answer in public, as it

>were, but I would prefer interacting with someone who properly

>used the sentence construction, "between you and me".

>

>Now, let's see who jumps, even lightly, on me.

 

What if I like having someone jump lightly on me

 

According to this article http://itre.cis.upenn.edu/~myl/languagelog/archives/002386.html

"between you and I" has been part of English for over 150 years and occurs in Shakespeare. I suppose if you have a fetish for ficticious grammar rules, only "between you and me" will do. And you are certainly entitled to your fetishes.

[raulgmanzo]

>According to this article

>http://itre.cis.upenn.edu/~myl/languagelog/archives/002386.html

>"between you and I" has been part of English for over 150

>years and occurs in Shakespeare. I suppose if you have a

>fetish for ficticious grammar rules, only "between you and me"

>will do. And you are certainly entitled to your fetishes.

 

Well that the error has been around for hundreds of years doesn't mean that "between you and I" is correct. That Shakespeare made such a mistake in the Merchant of Venice only indicates that Jason is in good company.

[+ bigjoey]

welcome to th board an sorry for the bitchfest.

 

all of these posts and not one answer to his original post. i have one thing that makes for a good escort/customer relationship: civility. it would be nice to have a little of that here.

 

if both parties to the transaction treat each other with decency and respect (AKA civility), then that goes a long way toward a good encounter. this treatment is good not only in escort relationships but in all relationships.

 

having treated my hires in the past with civility and have gotten treated the same way in return, i have maintained friendships with some great men after they have publicly retired. in some cases it is just a social friendship but in a few cases, i am the only escort client they have; yes, they enjoy the extra cash but they have kept me as a client because the civil treatment resulted in a good time for them as well. i hire for weekends (due to a lack of local talent in a midwest city) and one tells me our times together are like vacations for him away from the stress of his normal life. with all of these men, our times together are good for both of us. in business or in ones personal life, for a relationship to be successful, it needs to be good for both parties.

 

i would like to see the posters here treat each other with civility, kindness and respect.

[Guest TBinCHI]

Jason,

Wow, all of these responses and barely a wisp of an answer to your real question! How people get sidetracked...

 

Here's a quick answer. In the lead up to your meeting, be sure to ask specifically what the client would like you to do for him that will fulfill his desires and fantasies. I've been with a number of really great escorts, and the best experiences I've had started before the actual session with a discussion about what I wanted.

 

Just some quick advice for a newbie. Hope it helps.

[Jason Renyolds]

Being I love Shakespear, I am very pleased that you hve brought this up!!

[Jason Renyolds]

Bigjoey,

 

Yes I completely agree. I guess I was just overwhelmed by the accompaniment of such discouragement. I forgot why I was here.

 

 

I prefer to be hired for weekends or at least over night because I believe it allows you to build a different kind of relationship between client and escort/companion. I do not believe that it puts either/or on a higher level in the industry but I do believe it opens more doors then just hiring for an hour or even a couple hours.

 

The last weekend "TRIP" I went on was so much like a vacation for me. Something I actually needed due to what was presently taking place. My companion was overly comfortable with me as I was with him. It made for GREAT conversation and just an over all great time.

 

I really enjoy reading about some of your past experiences which many of you have sent along with your reply to my posting. It allows me to see other paths, doors and options to becoming a better escort.

 

I hope to hear from the so many others on the MB.

 

Happy Sunday Everyone

[Jason Renyolds]

Thanks so Much. I tend to do that for your sake and show you that I truely do care, but also to make sure you are not looking for something I cannot offer.

 

Too many times I have gotten some freaky lists of things expected by me. I guess that goes along with looking at us escorts like meat or actually looking at us as a person.

 

 

Thanks again.

[KMEM]

I agree completely with both your comments. Thanks.

 

Best regards,

 

KMEM

[Bilbo]

Congratulations

 

Congratulations on:

1. Weathering your first storm here. It may be hard to believe right now, but this will not be the worst one you make it through. Fight when it is worth it, joke or ignore when it's not.

2. That yummy picture you've posted.

3. Having a solid head on your shoulders.

[Bilbo]

Suggestions

 

1. Remember that a session is all about the client. Get your own needs met some other way. In a way that you probably don't understand yet, you are a healer and a teacher.

2. Decide what you are good at / willing to do and stick with it. But you are learning that already. Good. This will help choose your personna. Then, if you need to, you can see what people say about you as applying to your personna, not directly to you.

3. Take care of yourself. Gym, if that's part of your image. Take one day off every week. Do not be available twenty four hours on the days that you are available. Do something to keep developing your spiritual side. Don't take more than one client per day, or, if you do, don't let any client or board member know that you did. (Maybe less than one a day if you go with your intention to stick mainly with long sessions. Make sure you have some time away from the office!)

4. Learn. Sex is deceptively easy. There are all sorts of techniques that you don't know yet. Your clients will be some of your best teachers, but, hopefully, not your only ones.

5. If your city can handle it, charge at least $150. Some people here have said that they wonder what is wrong with anyone who doesn't.

6. Be willing to negotiate. But don't set up any long standing discounts. Or think twice before you do. A bargain is only a bargain for the one session it's made for, or someone will keep wanting more and more for the same price.

[Jason Renyolds]

RE: Suggestions

 

Thanks again bud.

 

This is a great way to start out my page if you do not mind.

 

As I mentioned to start out, I would like to set up a page on my website about what makes a good escort.

 

Some of these responses are B E Autiful for that very page.

 

Thanks again guys!!

[Gar1eth]

>Too many times I have gotten some freaky lists of things

>expected by me. I guess that goes along with looking at us

>escorts like meat or actually looking at us as a person.

>

>

 

 

Ahh but how often does an escort--I am not saying you--just throwing it out there--look at the client as a piece of meat--or if not that then an open wallet?

 

Gman

[Epigonos]

I would just like to say that during the last five years of hiring escorts I have been extremely fortunate to meet several guys who are not only outstanding escorts BUT are also outstanding individuals. I personally believe that to be an "outstanding" escort one must be a people person. By that I mean one must like and derive pleasure from people in all their various shapes, sizes, ethnicities, ages, etc, etc. Furthermore one most be fascinated by and revel in man-to-man sex. Certainly the money is important BUT if it is the single reason an individual escorts I sincerely believe that person will never be a great or even a good escort. In my life I have always made it a point to respect and treat respectfully anybody who is outstanding in whatever they choose to do. Thus I have always treated the escorts I have hired with respect and have been treated the same by them. Here I would love to name names here but I know that if I do I will surely leave out somebody so I will simply say that I honor and respect all the esocrts I have reviewed on this site as well as those I have reviewed on MaleEscortReview.

[Jason Renyolds]

Well Gman.

 

I understand what you are saying but again that would go along with the type of hire, and what is put into the hire.

 

If it is just an hourly hire then I don't feel e-ther party is looking at it as anything more than a quick fling.

 

Some yes may take place several times, and over an extensive period of time the escort and client can get to know each other but, on a business point of view. It is the "cheap", for lack of a better word, way of getting what you want. Both escort and client.

 

But like I said. IT IS ALL A MATTER OF WHAT YOU ARE WANTING/LOOKING FOR IN THE HIRE.

 

 

I prefer long term companions because of everything involved. The moey is a perk for me, not the sole reason, nor the main reason I am an escort.

[Jason Renyolds]

Yes, I believe that it is a KEY to be a good people person.

 

When I am hired, it takes me about an hour at most to have the client fairly figured out and have a pretty good idea how the night and/or weekend, or whatever the hire is, will go.

 

I am a good people person, my jobs in the food service and customer sevice fields have proven that time and time again. I think that is what makes me such a good friend as well.

 

We all want friends!!

[+ purplekow]

>Not to be overly judgemental and to answer in public, as it

>were, but I would prefer interacting with someone who properly

>used the sentence construction, "between you and me".

>

>Now, let's see who jumps, even lightly, on me.

>

>Best regards,

>KMEM

 

Judgmental. Let he who is without sin....

[Gar1eth]

>I prefer long term companions because of everything involved.

>The moey is a perk for me, not the sole reason, nor the main

>reason I am an escort.

 

 

Jason,

 

I just wanted to emphasize again that I was not referring to you when I spoke of looking at the client as an open wallet. I prefer long term hires myself--and while I have done the short 1 to 2 hour visit --I always hope that the chemistry is such that it will lead to successive visits in the future. Normally I wouldn't hire anyone that I didn't feel I could be friends with.

 

So I guess those are the answers for me--of what makes a good escort session. I may hire because I'm horny--but usually what I'm looking for is to make some type of connection. I want to make a friend--a little closer friend than in the usual course of events ----and I don't want to be made to feel that I am the equivalent of the corner ATM.

 

So that's me.

 

Gman

[Bilbo]

RE: Suggestions

 

If you use my material on your page, it would be nice to reference it to my page - http://www.DaddyBlade.com . Thanks.

[Jason Renyolds]

I totally agree, and I did not take it like you were saying I did that.

 

Just emphasizing to all our viewers, that I pride myself on the relationship I try to allow and build between me and a client.

[Jason Renyolds]

RE: Suggestions

 

You got it. I woud love to.

 

Thanks again.

[KMEM]

Hi, there Purple Kow.

 

My intent was to be Not overly judgemental. However, if everyone was entirely non-judgemental, a huge percentage of these postings would not exist, would you not agree?

 

I certainly am not without sin, nor, I assume, are you. Nonetheless your comment was judgemental. But, probably, lightly so.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[RockHard]

RE: Dildo for brains?

 

I have no problem being judgmental here. I think it's very fair to judge someone on public presentation and I could care less what others think, especially the OP. Sweet, new, and innocent? Spare me. This board shouldn't permit toddlers from joining.

 

A HUGE turn-off for me is the confirmation that an escort is a stereotype: a lazy, uneducated gay-dude who flunked English from the third grade on and can't make money any other way with any other talent. To avoid spoiling THE FANTASY, tis better to keep one's mouth shut unless you wish to turn-off many gay men who care about such things or you can compose a more coherent paragraph.

 

Now, granted, I don't provide any escort a grammar test before he shoves my cock down his throat. Grammar and sentence structure is not necessary to provide a good blowjob but if you speak honky, trailer-park jibberish in between slurpy, slobbering suck-sounds, you run the risk of deflating my hard-on and conjuring thoughts of regret.

 

Another turn-off: how about an escort who provides a url that doesn't work. This OP can't even spell his own name correctly.

 

Is it Jason Renyolds or jasonreny(on)olds(.com). Either way, what a waste of time.

 

PS Maybe not such a waste, after all. I clicked on the corrected url and managed to find my way to a few butt-hole photos. Hot and very sexy. Keep slurping, boy!

[KMEM]

RE: Dildo for brains?

 

Rock,

 

I think you do provide a grammar test and any other test you can think of or deem appropriate before you hire or do any thing else. That is part of being satisfied with the person that you are. I happen to agree or you happen to agree, whoever wishes to go first.

 

Thanks for seconding my post.

 

Best regards,

 

KMEM