In your opinion, What Makes A Good Escort?

[Jason Renyolds]

Only ask because I have yet to see any escort post a question like this to get the full understanding from you the companion.

 

Please send responses directly to me through my e-mail.

 

This could be some good material to form a page about on my website so, I hope all of you respond and let me know according to you and what you are looking for.

 

Now I am not looking for general comments, ya know, the common sense standards that anyone with half a brain and a lick of respect would know. I want details from YOU. What are YOU looking for.

 

I promise no names will be announced, it is strictly between you and I.

 

 

Hope to hear from you soon.

 

Jason Renyolds

http://www.jasonrenyonlds.com

bakerboi85@yahoo.com

[KMEM]

Not to be overly judgemental and to answer in public, as it were, but I would prefer interacting with someone who properly used the sentence construction, "between you and me".

 

Now, let's see who jumps, even lightly, on me.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[MichiganMan]

A good escort....one that ACTUALLY answers his emails....and actually shows up on time!!!! I've hired about 40 or so over the last 7 years....I may have had three show up on time....one was actually 4 hours late!!

[latopdad]

Well first of all, it would help to have a link in your signature that works!

[+ deej]

::chuckle::

 

You expect them to be pretty, willing, horny, AND to have good typing skills?

 

Hint: take a look at how he spells his name. (I had to look twice!) Now take out the one extra letter in his link that doesn't fit the spelling of his name. The site will work just fine.

 

(And, hopefully, he'll fix his sig.)

[Guest zipperzone]

>::chuckle::

>

>You expect them to be pretty, willing, horny, AND to have good

>typing skills?

>

>Hint: take a look at how he spells his name. (I had to look

>twice!) Now take out the one extra letter in his link that

>doesn't fit the spelling of his name. The site will work just

>fine.

>

>(And, hopefully, he'll fix his sig.)

 

The age old struggle between brains & brawn

[Jason Renyolds]

Wow, people on here really know how to be heartless don't they.

 

From a simple question that could have resulted in good conversation, turns into some badgering and inconsiderate mouthing towards an innocent, new comer.

 

Sure as hell makes me want to continue to interact with this side of the world.

 

May I ask why it is y'all feel the need to be so rude? Would a simple comment letting me know my website was misspelled been too nice? Oh, wait. I assume you have never misspelled anything in your typing history huh?

 

Well, thanks for checking out my post anyway, but, what is it my mom use to say? "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all."

I think that is a good saying here.

 

Have a great day boys!

 

 

Jason Renyolds

http://www.jasonrenyolds.com

bakerboi85@yahoo.com

[Jason Renyolds]

Thank you MichiganMan. I am sorry you had to experience that.

 

Punctuality is something I pride myself on.

 

 

Jason Renyolds

http://www.jasonrenyolds.com

bakerboi85@yahoo.com

[+ Charlie]

There have been several threads on this topic over the years(including one I started last month in the Lounge, which got 26 responses, including a reprimand from Scott Adler for bringing up the subject again). I'm wondering why you don't just look through the archives if you are only interested in the answers. Why do you need the readers to email you privately?

[Jason Renyolds]

I only gave that as an option.

 

Why does it matter? I asked a simple question and if you don't want to answer why waste your time sending a response like that?

 

As I mentioned in my main post, I am a new comer. Reading the previous posts from months ago would take a little longer then I would want to spend reading through what most people have to say on such a WIDE variety of topics.

 

Besides, for any other new comers, it may be the first time they have seen the question and may want to answer it.

 

Thanks for the time.

 

Jason Renyolds

http://www.jasonrenyolds.com

bakerboi85@yahoo.com

[SAdler]

Sorry that you received this kind of "welcome." Over the years some of us have come to expect and accept the asshole'ish tendencies of many on the boards, including those on their soap box that claim to be there to facilitate and help the newbies.

 

Don't let them get you down and prveent you from posting here in the future. It's a very useful board when used correctly and the adaption to avoidance of the dark side takes effect.

 

I also didn't appreciate being invoked to slam him in an earlier post. Did it occur to some users that he may be so new as to not even KNOW about the search function or even what keywords to search for?

 

Instead of being bitchy about it maybe people could try being helpful and make specific keyword references to what to search for. As to what makes a good escort, I'm not even sure what keywords he should use. Are we talking about the expectations thread and it's many incarnations?

[Jason Renyolds]

Scott, Scott, Scott.

 

Thanks bud. Good to see that even the escort side of things have manners and RESPECT.

 

Hope all is well with you and hope to hear from you soon.

 

Jason Renyolds

http://www.jasonrenyolds.com

bakerboi85@yahoo.com

 

PS.

 

As far as letting anyone get me down and change my mind about posting here, they are going to have to try a little harder than this 5th grader bullshit!

 

 

Miss Ya

[+ Charlie]

You seem pretty thin-skinned about the responses here. All I asked was why you didn't utilize the many answers to this question that have already been given, including some fairly recent threads (from which you can see that I've always been willing to answer this question in detail). And you specifically asked that answers be emailed directly to you--you didn't suggest that simply as an option.

[Jason Renyolds]

I asked for replies to be sent to my direct e-mail because I check that a lot more then I do this message board.

 

I may not always be in a place to check this message board where as I can check my e-mail.

 

If that makes sense.

 

Good Ole' Parents!!

[Gar1eth]

Give the guy-Jason- a break. He's obviously a newbie.

 

Gman

[Jason Renyolds]

hehe,

 

Not sure if that should be considered a good thing or not.

 

I do not understand what the problem with me asking this question is.

 

So what if it was brought up before. Never hurts to rethink my question.

 

I stated in my my first post why I was asking it, so what the hell is wrong with it!!

[Guest O solo mio]

>As I mentioned in my main post, I am a new comer.

 

No, you didn't mention that in your main post. What you did mention in that first post was that you "have yet to see any escort post a question like this", which implies that you are familiar with this message board and questions that have previously been asked.

[Bilbo]

OK, newbie, here are some of the reasons why what you said stepped on toes around here hard enough that people yelled ouch in your ear.

 

1. You did, point blank, ask people to reply to you through email. - This is an open discussion. You came into a room full of people happily, in most cases, talking with each other and started trying to pull people out the door to talk only with you. That'll get you invited to a lot of cocktail parties, eh? - This made it look like what you were really after was trying to get people to hire you. Not to talk with you. There is a long history here that you can be flirty in any of the departments, but you can only be obviously selling in the Travelling Escorts department. That is a fight that has gone on several times to clean it up and not one that anyone wants to get into again. - This apparrent, not perhaps actual commercialism, made it appear that perhaps you do not cherish the reasons why many of us are here and what makes us unique. The conversation. The learning about and from each other.

2. You said that you had never seen any other escort asking this question. - Of course you hadn't, you just got here. We've been going on for years before you got here, and this makes it feel like those years might not count with you. When they have, in fact, made it much more acceptible for you to have this career. - This could be perceived as a back handed compliment to the other escorts on the board, sort of like saying that only you have the professionalism to ask this question. This is another of the fights which happens here occaisionally. The Romancers vs. The Slam-Bangers. Which refers to clients and how they perceive and treat their escorts. And is another of the periodical arguments a lot of people would like to get past in order for this community to get onto other subjects rather than rehashing all of the time. One of the things I hope you see and appreciate when you stick around is how quickly a client who insults the level of honesty and professionalism of the escort community as a whole gets either slashed or ignored by the clients here. It's really "a very good thing, Martha."

Please don't read into the length of these explanations any disapproval of you. I am a long winded person. Ask many of the people here. Or just watch for a while. Get to know us and then join in the discussion. Which is something I always itch to tell any newbie. Just chill and lurk for at least a week before you say anything, so that you'll know who you're talking to. But, then, that's the way I approach a cocktail party, myself. And I don't really expect everyone to be just like me. }(

[Guest O solo mio]

>I asked for replies to be sent to my direct e-mail because I

>check that a lot more then I do this message board.

 

Yet you've been posting to and checking this thread throughout the day today!

[Guest O solo mio]

>You seem pretty thin-skinned about the responses here.

 

That's the typical reaction of those of his generation (Sadler, Benjamin, etc) who have been coddled and never criticized their whole lives. Parents today praise their kids and intimidate teachers from being too critical or giving bad grades. Then the kids grow up thin-skinned and unable to accept anything that isn't gushing praise, be it in the workplace or on a message board!

[SAdler]

>>You seem pretty thin-skinned about the responses here.

>

>That's the typical reaction of those of his generation

>(Sadler...

 

I think I of all people have demonstrated that I really don't give a fuck what my detractors say about me to my face or behind my back so that was a grossly misfactual statement.

 

I think I liked you better when you were in hiding or posting on a more used handle }( .

[buckguy]

You seem to have gotten the bitterest of the "bitter queen"-type responses. Yes, this has been asked before, although the topic is one that probably would bring up all kinds of threads on search; it also gets mentioned a lot in seemingly unrelated places. the request for private emails probably seemed a little too much in the foreground and we certain like to have catfights be public here. There are some standard perspectives--dream date vs. athletic fucking. There also are people who would appreciate basics like returning emails. Still, it's useful to get a recitation of experiences, so that you know where people are coming from.

 

Don't let this deter you from the board. Just look at it as a petty version of "tough love".

[+ Charlie]

Well, Scott, you did publicly rebuke me for raising this subject in the earlier thread, so I'm not sure why you are upset that I should mention that fact when the subject is raised again by someone else. My first post was hardly a "slam", although the poster and you took it that way (therefore, my comment about thin-skinned responses). As has already been noted by others, the poster did not identify himself as a newbie, and he did ask for private email responses rather than a discussion, which smelled like phish to me. If this is simply a case of inexperience (or possible laziness) on his part, then I hope he will suck it up--so to speak--and continue to post here. Time will tell. And for the record, I don't endorse o solo mio's generalization about your generation.

[SAdler]

>Well, Scott, you did publicly rebuke me for raising this

>subject in the earlier thread, so I'm not sure why you are

>upset that I should mention that fact when the subject is

>raised again by someone else.

 

I'd hardly call my addressing the issue itself (not you) a rebuke in the strictest sense but everyone reads things differently. Your comment to him here just seemed a little crass considering the circumstances.

 

 

>the poster did not identify

>himself as a newbie, and he did ask for private email

>responses rather than a discussion, which smelled like phish

>to me.

 

That alone and his posting number should have been enough. 1995 posts, 12. Hmmm.

 

I know you meant no harm but the road to hell is paved with good intentions. I've just started getting sick of the general feel on this board where everyone has to attack the carcass instead of just being polite and helpful. SO many other ways you could have responded to Jason but instead you opted (in my interpretation) to attack.

[Jason Renyolds]

Just for the sake of ending all confusion about me and my posting.

 

I do apologize for the misunderstanding and misrepresentation brought on by my post. I did not by ANY means want to step on any toes, make it look like I was trying to be a needy escort saying "COME HIRE ME". I was merely trying to better myself in this industry.

 

I realize now how my words could have, and were, misconstrued, in turn appearing to be what it was not.

 

I am constantly trying to better my life, the life of those around me, and my job. In this case, because I love what I do, I would like feed back from you directly, vers seeing what you had replied to previous posts about the same topic. Perhaps you hired someone since you posted last and you have developed or found something new that makes the perfect date for you with an escort, and I was trying to give you the opportunity as well as give myself the opportunity to share it and learn from it.

 

Hearing what you have to say about what makes a good escort, helps me learn and better the way I do my business.

 

Again, I apologize for any misunderstanding and hope everyone who has posted here can see my mistakes as simple misunderstanding on my part, and we can all get along.

 

I will continue to post here because I like the way this is set up. I will just have to try not to step on your toes again.

 

 

Thanks