Michael #2: "No Black Guys"

[MiamiLooker]

That just doesn't make much sense.

[Guest Merlin]

Perhaps, in his experience, blacks tend to have cocks too large for him. I find muscular blacks attractive, but they tend to have too much, too coarse, body and facial hair. I realize it is more difficult for them to shave, but that does not change my preference.

[Jay Ganymede]

I cant argue with you. That's not to say there is no argument to be made against your opinion, there certainly is one. However an argument would only serve the purpose of putting you on defense. There would be little chance of actual growth with you on the defense. I can't really blame you either for your belief, you're a product of your environment and that's not entirely your fault.

 

By no means am I taking the higher road by not arguing or blaming you for your ill formed opinions nor does it imply that I am in any way a better person than you. You and I are equally located on the same level. I however have had more opportunities to form beliefs closer to reality that not only keep me happy but also benefits everyone around me near and far.

 

I hope one day that that you have the chance to experience such opportunities yourself.

 

I am however definitely surprised the members of this forum let this post fly without a response. It's actually very disappointing.

[Guest ript4hire]

I am with you Jay - I was hoping someone else would say something.

Considering how my first post was met, I didn't see any point in my

saying anything more. Really like what you had to say though - a much

classier response than I would have given.

 

Eric

[Lookin]

You’re right, Eric, on all counts. My initial reaction was that this is too hard to take on in a message center format. Some lessons take a long time to learn, and I couldn’t figure out how to offer anything useful in a short post.

 

Jay did figure out what to say. Exactly.

 

I’m sorry if you and he feel alone. That’s certainly not the case. My thanks to you both.

[MiamiLooker]

If you do a search you'll find that post is fairly typical.

[Louis]

I spent time with a Black escort from Cincinati. He went by Marcel, and was going to school in Toronto. Just a great all round guy.

He was handsome, well defined, versatile. Marcel was very smooth, average between the legs, tons of fun.

Impossible to say anything bad about him a definate A+. Marcel has moved on to a career now, outside of escorting.

Jay reminds me of Marcel quite a bit. Very similar bodies, and I would think attitudes are very simliar, but Jay is slightly more handsome.

So I am very open to Black escorts.

[+ Italiano]

RE: Michael #2: "No Black Guys"

 

>Michael#2 doesn't explain what the bad experiences were,

>which makes it hard to figure out whether he is just making

>hasty racial generalizations, or whether something happened

>that traumatized him emotionally. For instance, if he got

>stiffed for a fee, it's silly to blame that on the client's

>race. On the other hand, suppose he were assaulted by a

>client; it might make him so jittery that he couldn't perform

>satisfactorily the next time with a client who reminded him of

>his assailant. We know logically that all clients of X race

>are not going to behave the same, but our emotions aren't

>ruled by logic. I'm with deej on this one: I'd rather have an

>escort who is honest about where his head is at, regardless of

>whether we think his attitude is racist (or ageist, or

>whatever). And he would probably be happier not having a

>client who would condemn him with an automatic label.

 

Totally agree!

 

I think an escort has the right to decide whom he wants or feel comfortable to perform with, why not??

And if this level of "comfortable" goes with skin color, I don't think there is anything wrong.

[sfonewbie]

I agree that if an escort is going to react negatively to someone of a particular demographic, it is best to know it up front. However, there are nice and not-so-nice ways to get this across.

 

"no --epithet-- because they are --this and that--" would probably be the least right way

 

"i mean not disrespect.. but no black guys just from personal experience" (the original quote) or "I don't find black people attractive sexually." (one of the posters in this thread) is not nearly as bad, but not quiet sensitive either. A better way might be "I click best with whites, Asians, and Latinos." Don't try to explain. Yes, black guys can put two and two together and figure out they are not welcome, but at least it's not in their face.

 

It is better to say what you do want, as it makes your sound like a more positive person and more likely to be fun. Negative stuff makes you sound like you won't be fun, even if I meet your demographic interests.

 

"And if you look at HIV statistics, its it severely more prevalent amongst african gay men." (that same poster) If this is how you protect yourself against AIDS (as opposed to by having safe sex), you are probably going to find yourself with HIV in the not too distant future.

[Rick Munroe]

RE: Michael #2:

 

>The jews have been literally tortured, murdered, raped,

>fucking exterminated for centuries but yet you don't see them

>hardly complain.

 

You obviously haven't met my parents.

 

>They sit back, work harder and laugh in

>everyone else's faces while dominating in the background.

 

Hmmm...dominating in the background...is that the same thing as topping from below? Personally, I do all of my dominating in the foreground, unless I'm in the car with Derek, and then yes, I admit to being a backseat driver.

 

>Do I believe ALL blacks are bad etc? hell no. Do I believe the

>majority are? Yes.

 

Wow, the majority? I thought it was just Michael Jackson ("You know I'm bad, I'm bad, you know it, you know...and the whole world has to answer right now just to tell you once again who's bad!").

[MiamiLooker]

RE: Michael #2:

 

Careful....you don't want your account to mysteriously stop working, do you?