Escort's response to inquiry regarding booking a meeting.

[augustman]

Several weeks ago, an escort's ad in rentboy came up for discussion in the Deli. A poster wanted to know if anyone had an experience with him to share. There never was much of a response, but I looked the ad up out of curiosity. The guy was a hunk in the pictures and ad sounded interesting so I responded to him. I gave a brief explanation what I was looking for which of course included my being a bottom and fucking and kissing are key components. I recieved a rather inconclusive response, that he had not done anything anally and had not found who he was in the business yet. So for the heck of it I laid out a very specific encounter which would involve an overnight due to the fact he did not live in my area and that anal activity and kissing were key components otherwise I am not interested. Today, about ten days, later I receive the following response:

"i'm intrigued by your email it might be fun to try. i have not yet been tempted enough to be a top. Of course i would never be a bottom. But the interest around the clients that i have is growing to start the 'tempting' of who i would allow to be my first ever male. Do feel that you can compete for this, effort to become the devirginiser."

 

His original response did include a quote of $1,000 a night, not over the top. Punctuation aside, his response is suggestive that monetary incentives are needed. I did send a response that said if monetary incentives are key than I will be eliminated early on. I will give the guy a chance to respond before stating who he is but thought I would get a few responses from others on what they thought.

[jawjateck]

Unless he responds with a definite agreement to your terms, I would pass on him, no matter how tempting the pics or possibilities. Most of my hires are well-reviewed, but occasionally, I have sampled new guys to find a hidden stud. I have had very mixed results when trying a new, unreviewed escort or someone looking to expand their services. Of the 10-15 such hires, only two were outstanding, one was terrible, the rest were very average, mediocre, blah. Less than 20% success. Not good.

 

Auggie, it sounds like a roll of the dice, but if you are in a gambling mood, he could pay off. I don't think the odds are in your favor.

[+ ArVaGuy]

Sounds like an attempt to up sell you on his rate to me. First, I would have eliminated him from my consideration because it took him 10 days to respond to an initial inquiry message. It appears he's "straight" from what I glean from your post and is doing the gay for pay thing. Offering the chance to be his "first" comes off to me as a way to string someone along to get more $$$$.

 

If he's new to the business it could very well be true that he is still finding out what he's comfortable with related to the services he provides clients. That's a valid and true situation for any guy in the business. But this sounds like the guy is trying to create a bidding situation. Makes me wonder how many other guys have "won" the priviledge of being his "first" bottom and or top for that matter.

[JT Brooklyn]

I tend to agree with Arlington. But you also could just go with your 'Gut Feeling' on this.

 

BUT IF his photo's are that Good, The Little Head just may do the thinking of the Big Head! The Rate is about PAR for the course, right now. But again that is for well known or Reviewed Guys also.

 

Please let us know how this plays out for you. :P

[+ Charlie]

His response sets off all sorts of alarms and red lights to me. It's the sort of message that appears in the spam I receive constantly. In fact, it sounds like some kind of scam--if he next asks you to forward money to a Nigerian bank account, I would pass.

[Okliehomo]

Hmmm....So, you are supposed to pay more because he has allegedly never had anal sex before? I thought that one of the reasons we were paying these guys so handsomely was not only because they are so handsome, but for their experience and skill and technique?? I thought that they were worth more because of ALL the sex that they had had, not the lack of it?? Don't the reviews always mention how the guy had a big dick and "how he really knew how to use it"? I don't recall ever reading one where it was his first time and "I was just happy to help him learn his way around." But I have never understood the whole virgin mystique. It always just meant "I don't really know what I am doing and I am not that into it or I would have done it before" to me.

 

Of course, I will concede that some guys do get off on initiating a straight guy into the pleasues of a man's ass, but I am about as into gay for pay as I am into virgins. But I haven't bottomed in years and the guys who really did make it hot for me (Marco Rochelle/Marco Feretti/Bill/Portland) weren't exactly virgins...

 

So, I would pass, too, Auggie and concentrate on all the other big dicked boys (Victor!!! MuscleLatino!!!)that are available to you. Besides, I think if the guy really is a virgin, you might very well scare him to death with, shall we say, the depth of your experience...I know that I am in awe of it...

 

Okie

[Louis]

It just seems odd that some escort would say they are a virgin. If I was considering going into the escort business I would definately get some experience first, then advertise. Like it sounds as though you would be the teacher.... which to me means he should be paying you. Also would you have a mechanic work on your car if he tells you he never changed a rad hose before? Like there are just some things a person would not tell another person..... and I think a person who advertises as being an escort, should have some experience before going in, so to speak:-)

Louis

[JT Brooklyn]

Louis I do agree.

 

In a FEW cases, I have found that the Working Guys, seem to think they should be the one to "Receive" All the Attention. I haven't run across it alot, but every once in a while I have.

 

BUT If that happens, the guy never finds his way back to me Again. NO matter how Hunky he was Physically! LOL

When in fact he should be Reciprocating in ALL things, IF that was the Original Plan..

 

Especially now that the Average Rate, at least in NYC is $250..IMHO :P