Nude Massage is it Legal?

[michbluff2004]

Last week, I met a guy from CL doing massage in the nude...As first, I am hesitate to call this guy simply because a lot of people not just in CL are posting fake pictures...But I did call him and went to his place...Wow!!! he looked much better in person...As soon as I removed my clothes, he's already naked...Perfect body and nice hung cock...

 

He gave one excellent massage, however I did not touch him...I was afraid...maybe a setup or there was a hidden camera somewhere...lol...One more thing he does not post anywhere else except CL and it's once a month...

 

Am I stupid or not? What I'm going to do next time?

[+ Axiom2001]

No, hell, you are NOT stupid. I've been reluctant to touch, too, the gorgeous nude men with whom I've been, but I guess and know that I MUST muster up more courage to do so. I might have jacked them when they are doing me, but that has been the only touching.

 

There is one guy in San Francisco whom I'd love to devour all over, but the only part of his body that I have touched and felt is that lower, middle appenditure which is thick for a Thai guy.

 

Next time ask the guy his limits and go from there! :9

[Guest zipperzone]

Why not just touch where you want to and see what happens. If the guy is cool with it, you're time with him will be more enjoyable. If he's not he will probably just say that he doesn't get into that. I'm sure it won't be the first time he has encountered this kind of situation. Nothing ventured - nothing gained!

[Guest zipperzone]

>Why not just touch where you want to and see what happens. If

>the guy is cool with it, you're time with him will be more

>enjoyable. If he's not he will probably just say that he

>doesn't get into that. I'm sure it won't be the first time he

>has encountered this kind of situation. Nothing ventured -

>nothing gained!

 

I should have added - if he doesn't allow touching, why the hell would he be doing the massage in the nude? Usually the ones who want to keep it non-sexual, wear shorts and a tank top.

[+ glutes]

Nothing ventured -

>nothing gained!

 

You are right Zip, but be respectful!

[Guest msclonly]

Liberalism is a mental disorder!

 

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[bigguyinpasadena]

>Liberalism is a mental disorder!

>

>:+

I would like to thank those folks on this board that only post when sober/sane

Makes for a nice balance.

[Bilbo]

I certainly agree that it is always (or should always be) allowable to check on this sort of thing in this situation.

However, there are a number of nude masseurs whose attention is on you, and only you, not themselves. It may frustrate what they are trying to do for you if you insist on changing it to something else. They may respect and desire the pleasure, both bodily and spirit, they can bring you when both they and you are concentrating on it, and you are not feeding into your conditioned loop of "oh my God(dess) someone is giving me pleasure, I have to return it immediately or it will be immoral, won't it?" Drop that conditioning! It will help you find new heights you have not yet explored, that you cannot explore when your mind is split between two penises. This is not to say that they will not enjoy your ministrations should you ask if they are welcome. But be understanding of this if they are not.

There are also nude masseurs who for some reason do not want their client's attentions. It may be something closely aligned with that last paragraph, such as since they follow Tantra, they do not aim towards cumming very often. This is called "preservation of essence," and would be difficult to explain to you when you are on the table and aroused. Or it may be that this is a compromise with their lover, that they can administer to you this way as long as they themselves do not ejaculate.

There is also a natural feeling of "I didn't acquire all these extra skills so that I could become a less expensive version of what I was already." Admit it, now, most nude masseurs do charge less than most escorts. So, if you want to expand what is happening, be ready to offer more money for more services.

And, in answer to the first question, it is illegal in Texas for the masseur to be nude, period. It is illegal for the client's crotch to be uncovered (usually with a sheet or towel) during a massage. It is legally assumed that if either of these things, or both, are happening then there is prostitution going on. I imagine that there are similar laws in most states. However, to look at it from a positive point of view, if you are undraped and your masseur is nude, you are already just about as illegal as you would be if you were to expand the services, so what is the legal harm in asking?

[bigjake8]

Nothing fun is legal in this country anymore. Now stop asking stupid questions and have some goddamned fun! (and break the law whenever you can!)

[whipped guy]

Re: Nothing ventured - nothing gained!

>You are right Zip, but be respectful!

 

Interestingly I did a nude massage the other day. I approached it as a therapeutic session (as I do have a lower back problem) as opposed to a sexual encounter. In fact since I was face down for most of the session I could not even see and consequently be turned on by the God-like figure that was working over me. Additionally, he seemed genuinely concerned with any medically related issues that I had and how massage therapy combined with medical input would help solve them.

 

However, as the guy was freaking hot as hell, at one point I rubbed my hand against his leg. He immediately took my hand and placed it back on the table and by my side. I took this as my cue… though subsequently noticed an increase in "touching" on his part and did enjoy having his cock brush up against my body as he continued to work on me from various angles. At one point he placed his chest on my upper back and his cock rubbed the back of my butt as in a pseudo-simulated sex act, so I took it to mean that as long as he was in control, "touching" was in order...

 

At the conclusion of the session he did provide a “happy ending” and encouraged a certain amount of touching at that point. He subtly suggested that I would be able to work his cock as well, but I wasn’t so sure if that is what he would have wanted, so I gave it a pass. Just being able to fondle his rock hard butt was pleasurable enough at that point.

 

I have a repeat scheduled in a few days, I will read his body language, certainly be respectful and as see what transpires…

[+ deej]

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