Can someone help me?

[GaryMW]

Hey Guys,

 

I am hoping that someone can give me some direction, because I am not finding any success myself.

 

I am a rather big guy (280 lbs). I live in the Dallas area. I have been unsuccessful in finding any decent escorts here that are willing to see big guys as clients.

 

I am always upfront with the escort about my size. Is that not the right thing to do?

 

I am now considering traveling to another city if I can find a suitable escort.

 

Any suggestions? Anyone know of any escorts (anywhere) that take on big guys as clients?

 

Thanks!

[Epigonos]

Gary from my point of view you are doing exactly the right thing. Though not big I am old (65) and I'm always upfront about my age when setting up an appointment with an escort. I always prefer to make my initial contact by my email. After the escorts first reply and in my second email I describe myself in detail and tell him to let me know if after reading the information he would still be interested in getting together.

As you haven't indicated what type of escsort you are looking for it is very hard to offer suggestions. If I were you I would probably start looking in major cities near home and go from there.

Good luck and I sincerely hope you find the right escort.

[alanalt]

I'm quite surprised at your situation. I've carried quite a bit of weight myself at one point and still have another 30-40 pounds to lose, but even at my heaviest (275) it never seemed to be much of an issue with the escorts I saw. Like you, I was always upfront about my situation, but it never seemed to matter...

 

As for recommendations, I've seen Jake Walker and Steve Stacks, both in San Francisco. They're both very, very good and made no issue of my weight. I've seen Jay of Vancouver and Justin Wakefield of Toronto more recently (I'm working on reviews for them) and can recommend them as well as Kyle of Toronto, who I saw a few years ago, but I think he's still active. And while I’ve only exchanged e-mails with him, word-of-mouth has Juan of Vancouver being very, very good and tolerant. All of them have many good reviews on the site and I hope that helps.

 

But I'm curious (and I hope you don't find this offensive) but at what point do the escorts who you've contacted decline to proceed? Do you send them your stats? a pic? Is it when they meet you in person? I mean I can understand them not performing in certain positions with an overweight client, but outright refusals are disturbing.

 

You might also want to post your situation in the 'ask the escort' forum and see what some of the participating escorts say...

 

Good luck!

 

Alan

[RockHard]

May I ask how tall are you? Cause I'm 6'4" and I could easily weigh 280 lbs.; that is, if I ate ice cream everyday. I'm only 50 lbs. lighter than you but I have broad shoulders and a football player's ass. My weight is evenly distributed. Most people guess me at 200. But even at 280, I can't imagine being turned down for my size unless I was trying to score with a twinky lover. (I don't bother contacting escorts shorter than 5'9".)

 

Now if you're shorter, like 5'7", and most insensitive people (excluding many doctors) might call you morbidly obese, than I guess it would be tougher to find an escort who gets turned on by "chubbies," which is really what you need. They do exist, especially here in NYC. So keep trying, and don't ever NOT tell an escort about your size. Rejection is much easier to take via email.

 

Good luck! :-)

[uptownmike]

Gary, the two most professional escorts who come to Dallas are RICKY STARR and TRENT FOSTERS.. Your weight would be no issue with either.

Both have excellent personalities and literally hundreds of positive reviews.

If you like muscular, strikingly handsome men, they are for you.

Go over to muscleservice.com and look on the logbook forum. Both have threads there with many posts and pictures.

RICKY will be in Dallas in August when he goes on tour after competing in the USA Bodybuilding Championships in late July in Vegas and TRENT is in Dallas almost monthly.

[excelntsvc]

Check out Tony Butkus, based in Ohio, but a US traveller. I'm a big ole teddy bear myself, and I can assure you that Tony had no trouble performing on any of the occasions we've been together. Send him an email and he'll let you know when he's going to be in your region. You'll be damned glad you did!