Should You Cum?

[rocky]

Ok, I spend alot of money on escorts, not proud of it

but do. I see some regulars and my question is, should

I expect the escort to cum everytime? Part of my

excitement is watching someone cum not just me,

but I've been "washed up" after a session and almost

seen time to go.

 

Another question, do you take phone calls from

other clients while with someone? I see an escort

that I like but often while we're eating his cell

will ring and he takes the call? Is that good?

Thanks, Rocky

[mmk]

actually Rocky, when I hire an escort, I do expect him to cum. For me, that is part of the excitement and expectation. I hire an escort as fantasy fulfillment and to see him cum is part of fulfilling the fantasy. I know some escorts will not cum or charge extra for it. That is their perogative but it should be stated upfront, not when the session has already began.

 

as to whether you should answer the phone when you are with a client, to me the only time that is acceptable would be if thesession is over and you are sitting around talking. other than that, both cell phones (the escorts and the clients) should be turned off and all calls should go to an aswering machine or service.

[rocky]

I appreciate your comments. I never know if someone will

take my issues seriously or not..best, Rocky

[seeker630]

Seeing the escort cum is a big part of the pleasure, for me, and I make sure the escort knows that. Experience tells me you shouldn't assume they *will, and if it's important to you, you should make sure they're aware of that before you meet and ask if it's a problem.

[stephen_maximum]

Rocky,

 

It's probably a good idea to let the escort know you want that ahead of time and make sure he knows it's expected of him. It is possible that an escort expects to work again that day, or hold off just to stay horny in general, so good communication about that is key to your satisfaction. While my agency doesn't usually send guys out multiple times in one day, it's possible that he might have cum earlier that day, or may have some type of personal plans, so we always like to let them know ahead of time if we can.

 

As for the cell phone issue - this is behavior that I feel is becoming way too permissible in today's world. It is just simply bad behavior for someone to take random calls at the dinner table, let alone when it is with a client and you are paying for that person's time. When he is "on the clock" with you that cell should be OFF the whole time period. You deserve the undivided attention you are paying for.

 

Stephen

 

Hey...don't I...know you...mister...?

 

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[+ deej]

The bottom line is communication. If you haven't discussed it and agreed to it in advance, you have no reason to expect it. And that goes for just about anything about a date.

 

If he doesn't know you're expecting something, how is he supposed to know to provide it? Nobody is a mind-reader.

[TJM]

I agree deej...I learned a long time ago that the only thing to expect is the amount of time you've paid for with the escort. Other expectations need to be worked out ahead of time. I like to email with my expectations first. If the escort agrees to everything, then we talk further on the phone. I also like the escort to cum and they know that from my email and phone conversations. So in my last phone call, which is usually a confirmation call about an hour before the planned meeting, I always include something to the effect of "Can't wait for that load you've been saving for me!" Just a reminder of what we talked about and what's expected. In fact, one time the guy just couldn't cum and was honest telling me he had two appointments earlier. He said he felt like he didn't live up to what was promised so he gave me the choice of no payment or he would come back before I left town for no charge...I thought that was pretty classy of the guy and I opted for him to come back because even though he didn't cum, the sex was otherwise terrific and he's a great guy to spend time with. Had we not set expectations, that probably wouldn't have even been an issue for him.

[curious2000]

I definitely think the escort should cum. When two people are having sex, whether it's an escort or not, they should both cum. If not, then it feels like something didn't go right. A client is paying for a fantasy to have sex with a hot,sexual,handsome man, so cumming should not have to be something to request! it should be part of the package. I only have had one time when the escort did not cum and I felt cheated. I did remember in the email that I wanted him to cum, but he didn't. He was extremely hot and wonderful in every other way, but that was a deal breaker for me to ever hire him again, and it's a shame as he is so hot and beautiful. I had another escort who did cum but added that I was lucky because I was his last appointment of the day and therefor got his cumload. It made me feel bad for all the previous clients that he did not cum for. And also hate it when they take calls and think that's really rude and should let the voice mail record a messege and focus their hour on the clients time not answering their cell phone.

[whipped guy]

The cum factor is a biological issue that is sometimes beyond our control. However, this phone business is pure common sense. Still, there seems not to be much of that these days…

 

It is ironic that escorts who charge rates higher than most other professionals often have absolutely no business sense. If you are having surgery I don’t think you would want the physician to excuse himself in order to set up his next gig…