Overnight?

[MscleLovr]

Gentlemen, I'd appreciate your thoughts.

 

I like to hire only guys with nice characters (OK, goodlooking young guys with hard muscled bodies AND nice characters) but increasingly I wonder whether I should hire them for a session rather than overnight.

 

I am polite but I do spell out beforehand what I expect to do and what I enjoy. When I have hired overnight, it seems pretty much that the escort has a routine - we play together on meeting, go out to dinner, play again when we get back, sleep then have a session on waking up. So I wonder why I'm paying large amounts of $ for a guy to sleep over, just so I can receive a blowjob in the morning

 

I am not criticising any particular guy here; I've had fun times with the guys I've hired overnight...but increasingly I wonder whether I could spend the same $ and have more energetic sessions if I stick to hiring by the hour

 

Please let me know your experiences and ideas

[Boston Guy]

>I am not criticising any particular guy here; I've had fun

>times with the guys I've hired overnight...but increasingly I

>wonder whether I could spend the same $ and have more

>energetic sessions if I stick to hiring by the hour

>

 

In a word, yes. :-)

 

I've hired guys for lots of different time periods but now find that an hour or two is what I like best. It's easy, fits in well with being in a hotel on business and lets me meet lots of guys -- often several in the course of one business trip.

 

I occasionally will still hire someone for a longer period (overnight or longer). But I increasingly find that I want to spend longer periods of time with friends or other people nearer my own age.

 

BG

[+ ArVaGuy]

Here's how I handle things. I will "audition" an escort with one or two shorter sessions before hiring him for an overnight. Compatibility is really important for an overnight -- that's a huge amount of time and money when you are looking at 10 or 12 hours. If we don't hit it off then that's a waste of a lot of money.

 

Besides great bodies and nice dicks, obviously, I like guys who are intelligent and have a sense of humor. He can be nice to look at but if they are as dumb as a post it’s a turn off for me. That must be why I am gravitating to the guys in the 29 to early thirties range now who can tend to be a bit more mature and experienced at times.

 

Usually don't tell them that I am considering an extended session until later. The first time is usually two hours, then three or four the next time. This allows us to actually get to know each other a bit so the overnight winds up being a hell of a lot more adventuresome. (For guys that are duos I will hire one then the other before hiring both for that overnight.)

 

Since my travel schedule will allow me to visit a particular city more than once if I wind up with a guy that just does not cut it then I have not lost a larger amount of investment. Next trip I can look in to casting someone else. The hunt can be half the fun.

 

Recent auditions have gone well and I have a few more on my casting sheet for 2006.

[+ deej]

I'm with the other guys. I rarely hire for longer than a couple hours unless it's someone I've been with before and gotten to know well enough to want to spend extended time with them.

 

I really don't like 1-hour sessions, though. It can feel rushed. Two hours seems about right. Unless I'm just looking for a quick piece of ass and found someone available on short notice. }(

[+ Lucky]

"But I increasingly find that I want to spend longer periods of time with friends or other people nearer my own age."

 

Now I find that to be an interesting comment. I do too, but what was so nice about my recent visit to Montreal with the Cooperstown group was that we had both...great company among guys we (I) liked who had joined up for the trip, and an endless supply of hot young men. Best of both worlds.

 

Otherwise, I find that the younger guys cannot sustain my interest, at least conversationally, for a very long session. (Juan Vancouver being one exception...) Most conversation only flourishes when we are talking about the younger guy's interests.

 

I would rather spend an hour in a straight-jacket with JesusNYC than a weekend with some of the younger, self-obsessed escorts.

[OneFinger]

I avoid hiring for only 1 hour and usually prefer 2-3 hour sessions. I have hired for overnight but it's only with escorts that I know well and have an established "relationship".

 

I find myself getting much more private with age. While I do enjoy a lot of bedroom activities, I also like to have some alone time.

 

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"We need to have more respect for each other. Things have just gone really crazy, out of control. ... We're on a very weird kind of cycle." Stevie Wonder

[KY_TOP]

My preference is to hire a guy for 2 hours. I have done several overnights but realized I was paying him to sleep. I don't begrudge him sleep, for I am going to sleep also. I realized that an overnight usually cost at least $1000, so I can hire 2 guys for 2 hours at $250 per hour for that price. The exception is an LA escort that gives you 24 hours for an overnight rate and also a few escorts that I enjoy their company enough as a companion to do the overnight with. I just had my longest escort hire for a trip during the holidays and that involved having a travel companion as much or more than it did a sexual encounter. But this escort was someone I had spent time with in the past and not a new face to me.

 

But it does come down to...do you want to pay someone to sleep?

[Boston Guy]

>

>I would rather spend an hour in a straight-jacket with

>JesusNYC than a weekend with some of the younger,

>self-obsessed escorts.

>

 

I'm not so sure about the hour with Jesus, but some of these younger guys do seem remarkably self-obsessed. I attribute it to the fawning of over-eager clients.

 

Homer said “In youth and beauty, wisdom is but rare!”

 

BG

[Boston Guy]

Not me. :-)

 

BG

[Epigonos]

I only hire a very select group of guys for overnights. Frankly I have lived alone and slept alone for the vast majority of my life and that is the way I like it. I usually hire a guy for dinner or lunch and two or three hours of play time. I have even been known to hire the same guy, for this type of arrangement, on back to back evenings which costs about the same amount as an overnight.

Now if I am traveling with an escort that is, of course, a different situation. We certainly sleep together and it usually amounts to playing around during the morning, again, sometimes, in the afternoon, and then again in the evening. At night we sleep and at 65 that is just the way I want things.

[+ deej]

>But it does come down to...do you want to pay someone to

>sleep?

 

Maybe. Another way to phrase that is do YOU want to sleep snuggled up to a warm, young, attractive guy? :9

 

A hot guy is a lot more fun to sleep/cuddle with than a teddy bear. }(

 

Well, sometimes. This is one of those "it depends" questions.

[+ ArVaGuy]

>>But it does come down to...do you want to pay someone to

>>sleep?

>

>Maybe. Another way to phrase that is do YOU want to sleep

>snuggled up to a warm, young, attractive guy? :9

>

>A hot guy is a lot more fun to sleep/cuddle with than a teddy

>bear. }(

>

>Well, sometimes. This is one of those "it depends" questions.

 

That's why I make sure the compatibility is there before I consider for an overnight session. Besides that I am a mild insomniac so these guys don't get to sleep all that much. }(

[KY_TOP]

>Not me. :-)

>

What? Begrudge them sleep? Yeah I know you can always sleep the next day.

[KY_TOP]

>A hot guy is a lot more fun to sleep/cuddle with than a teddy

>bear. }(

 

I've generally found that after the initial cuddle they want their side of the bed or to move to the position they are most confortable sleeping in. I usually wake early before them and they might have a foot or leg against mine, but at least the bed is usually warm.

[+ deej]

>I've generally found that after the initial cuddle they want

>their side of the bed or to move to the position they are most

>confortable sleeping in. I usually wake early before them and

>they might have a foot or leg against mine, but at least the

>bed is usually warm.

 

You're booking hotels with beds that are FAR too big! }(

 

Seriously, I hear you. And you're right. It all goes back to what I've said before that there needs to be an established comfort/intimacy level before an overnight makes sense.

 

On my last overnight I woke up to a beautiful face (with really bad and wonderfully cute bed hair) snoring quietly on my chest. I kinda like that. But it doesn't happen all the time.

[BostonChris]

Wow. What a string of comments.

I found a lot of this interesting and thought I would share my thoughts.

 

Overnight.

What does that mean?

Well, in my experience it varies. But for the most part,

it is an invitation to give more than simply physical companionship.

Some clients like the idea of having a nice dinner and conversation and then of course

the physical stuff. This takes time. And that's what you are paying for. When I think of

'escorting' I think of fulfilling someone's fantasy of being their date, their boyfriend, their

companion, their lover. When I am hired for an overnight all of this is considered. An

overnight removes any ideas of time constraints and the experience becomes more organic and natural. It's much more involved than the 1 hour session (not that there is anything wrong with that ;-)

I don't want to belabor the entire subject of cost and rates and the like, BUT I will say, I never get paid to sleep. I do sleep during an overnight, but c'mon now, I put far more than just four hours of quality time when hired. AND, I will also add.... you really can't put a price on sharing intimacy when it goes beyond the physical. I have fond memories of conversing with clients, waxing philosophically, laughing and joking for hours and hours... these of course are mixed with long sensual baths, massages and bear hugs, and passionate sexual energy... and yes, hot sex, sex, and more sex... for hours and hours ;-)

But, to each their own. It all depends on what you are looking for.

And, no two escorts are alike. So make sure you find what you are looking for.

My advice on overnights is to research.

Emails and phonecalls are an easy way to get the ball rolling. And I also like the idea of a

2 hour test run if you're nervous.

Best of luck.

 

Yours,

-Chris

http://www.chriscrawfordxxx.com

[Rick Munroe]

>I have fond memories of

>conversing with clients, waxing philosophically, laughing and

>joking for hours and hours...

 

Hey, aren't you Robin Quivers, Howard Stern's sidekick?

 

http://mysite.verizon.net/jwdima/Close%20Encounters/Close%20Encounters_files/howard%20and%20Robin.jpg

[tedbear]

I've found some escorts that I love sleeping with almost as much as I like having sex with them (although it always seems I most enjoy sleeping with guys who I have the best sex with <grin>).

 

The first time this happened, I remember waking up when he got up to go to the bathroom. When we woke, my head was on his wonderful shoulder and his arms were wrapped tightly around me. I was holding him, with one hand on his chest. We separated and after a few minutes, I rolled over, assuming that he would come back to bed and stay on his side. Wrong! I woke up again as he slid into bed, but woke wide awake when he reached over and pulled me back into the position we were in before we woke. In our sleepiness, we kissed and fondled for a minute before we fell back asleep. It is one of the most sensual moments I've ever had.

 

The sex sessions the next morning was incredibly hot also, of course! He missed breakfast with his family because we were having such a hot time!

 

I love overnights, but I never do them with strangers.

[adriano46]

Haven't commented here on any topic in over a year and was just browsing when I read this thread.

 

I used to prefer hiring for overnights because in general I was traveling and I appreciated the companion for dinner, going to a movie or the theatre and of course the companionship and sex later.

 

But I soon discovered that the number of escorts with whom I was comfortable spending the night with was quite narrow and in general they were all Europeans and no Americans seemed to fit the bill. The European escorts all seemed to have something extra - in terms of interest, less self-centeredness, a wider world view (and these were guys from UK, Greece, Russia, Netherlands, Italy and Spain).There were one or two exceptions in the US but they were the exception. In Europe almost all overnight hires were good experiences.

 

Now that I am even older than those wild days I find I like my space at night and in the morning and so am less inclined to hire for overnights, especially at today's rates. Of course, in some Eastern European countries you can still get an overnight rate for less than $200 --- }(

[JT Brooklyn]

IMHO..ALWAYS when doing an Overnite, ask the Question is the Guy a "Morning" Guy? Don't take it for granted! I didn't and it was the only Drawback to MY last Overnite! Which would have been just as well a 2-3 Hot Hr Session. Which judging by that guy's Reviews is what he is known for!

I guess there are those "who don't care" about Morning Playtime? BUT I ain't one of them! LOL :7

[+ Charlie]

I hire escorts for sex, not companionship (I hope escorts like BostonChris won't be offended, but it's the truth), and at my age I can't stay sexually excited for much longer than an hour without artificial stimulants. Sometimes I hire for two hours, if I'm feeling really horny and I think I'll want a short break and then start again. I have never enjoyed actually sleeping with anyone, so I certainly wouldn't pay to do it. And after a long career of being paid to converse with young men, I don't intend to spend my retirement income paying them to converse with me, no matter how good-looking or charming they may be.

[BostonChris]

No offense taken.

Like I said, to each their own.

And there ain't nothing wrong with just plain ol' hot steamy sex.

One of the hottest sessions I have ever had with a client was just that... from the opening of the door straight into 100% male passion. An hour later we parted ways, never speaking

a word (well, unless you count moans and groans and the occassional "FUCK! YEAH!")

Wow, what a rush. Damn. Just thinking about it gets me worked up. Damn ;-)

Yours,

-Chris

http://www.chriscrawfordxxx.com

[OceanTraveller]

I live in an area where there are no escorts . I have a business here and cannot travel a lot. When I travel I like to go on extended cruise voyages . I either have to do overnights or just not ever see anyone and it is a hit or miss sometimes . I do like the interaction with attractive and well versed men though . I like the wining and dining and conversation that follows in a weekend. I host them at my home and it is more intimate that way as we get to know something of each other. I like to talk but I also like to listen. The sexual heat usually builds up too because I never start out our time with sex . I had an escort one time just grab me and kissed me deeply and boy that was hot !!!:9 I've been skiing with an escort , took 2 to the Biltmore estate and met an escort in Palm Springs Ca. , and in NY City. My goal is to hire someone for a nice cruise and to have someone relax with me on the ocean !!!:-)

[augustman]

Like everything else to each his own, certainly applies here. First I also live in area that is escort deprived. In addition, regular guys who live in the area is rather light. I started hiring 2-1/2 years ago. I travel to Chicago to hire but 4 plus hours driving back and forth, only a few guys will travel up. I found with the travel I waste a good half-hour just relaxing from the drive.

 

Second, I look for more than just the pure sex. I like conversation and a bit of intimacy so the overnights work well for me. I usually hire for two nights to make the travel piece make sense. I give the escort his own space for the sleep portion. I get more attention from the escort during the balance of the time and sometimes a cut in rate knowing he has some time to himself.

[ncc1701d]

>IMHO..ALWAYS when doing an Overnite, ask the Question is the

>Guy a "Morning" Guy? Don't take it for granted!

 

While that's certainly true, and my favourite escort certainly needs his coffee in the morning. But hey, look on the bright side, it can be quite fun watching his beautiful naked body trot off to make coffee, then come back with some steaming hot coffee for the 2 of you, and having a great good morning pillow talk while sipping and waking up, then putting the mugs away while you start your morning REALLY right with other HOT items!!!

 

I also used the test run approach, going from a 2hr appointment to a weekend, then a long weekend, and now mulitple day or full week vacations together. But I've been lucky and hit the jackpot with the perfect guy so now he's the only one I see. And actually spooning each other off/on all night long while sleeping is VERY enjoyable;-)